Well here's the thing...I'm a shy girl and he is a kinda preppy popular guy...i usually go for the punks but not this time. He isn't like other guys and i think that's why i like him so much. But we talk sometimes and he will come sit by me and he grabs my hand and we are holding hands and then we will flirt and stuff and he will touch my legs or my stomach or just be flirty but his friends hate me and think im crazy and psycho. But i asked him today if he still liked me and he said yes and then i told him that i liked him but then two hours later i was about to ask him out when he wouldn't talk to me... what the heck is going on here?
okay well do you guys think that i should approach him and if i do approach him what should i say. (i haven't asked him out yet) but I'm not sure how to act around him or what i should do... write him a note? talk to him? look at him? smile at him?? hmm im not sure. or should i ask him out? or what i need help badly....
thank you so muchMore advice please.... guys and girls?
talk to him deffinately. he is pretty gay to do that to you without a good reasonMore advice please.... guys and girls?
Is he shy? If so the might be it. One thing that easier said than done is to go up and ask him, are sit back and see what happens don't be to pushy and see how that does. It just dep. on the man. U can always ask him to the movies, and say just as friends to see how it goes.
i think he is using you but im not sure.
Talk to him ask him that if he likes you why don't you tell your friends to shutup and say I want to go out with you but you need to be yourself don't listen to your friends if there bringing you down but other then that I have never been in that situation good luck
Wow. Kind of like my story, but reversed roles. I play football and up until recently, I liked preppy girls, cheerleaders, as they were who I hung around with since 9th grade. Now, I'm bored of loud preppy girls and kind of like this one rebellious girl. She's wears minimal makeup, and she's still so pretty. She isn't like the ';Barbies'; I usually hang around with, and maybe that's why I like her. Problem is, as cocky as I am, this girl humbles me, and makes me feel insecure. She is into rocker type guys, and she has this rebellious attitude to go with it. And I'm afraid she isn't into athletes, that to her I'm some conceited jock who isn't worth her time. She is something totally new to me, out of my comfort zone, so I feel awkward around her. I feel stupid around her, and maybe the guy you like has the same problems that I'm having. You might be something new to him, and it might scare him like it does me. You should at least flirt with him alot more, to make him feel comfortable around you. Do not be shy around guys, because it only makes us feel awkward, because we feel like we're boring you or making you feel uncomfortable.
Tuesday, November 22, 2011
Any advice from guys/girls?
My boyfriend knows I want to wait with sex till Im married, but yesterday he told me his concerns! He said that ';what if it doesnt fit'; and what if i never want sex etc..... are these normal concerns for men? For me sex is very special and i want to share that with the man I marry, but he sees it otherwise...... any advice?? is it normal for a man to worry about if ';things will fit during sex'; ?? is that a reason to try it out before marriage? to me that doesnt sound like real love.. But then Im a woman and he is a guy, so I understand men maybe see that differently, if you guys loved a girl would you also worry about things like that? or is he not serious? Any honest advice from guys/girls would be great... thanks xAny advice from guys/girls?
I'm a girl and I would have the same concerns. If you are not sexually compatible with your husband, then your marriage is destined to go downhill or be miserable. Sex, without a doubt, plays a HUGE role in any relationship once it's present.Any advice from guys/girls?
Sounds likehe's trying to get his end away despite your wishes. Its unusual for couples to wait until after marriage now, the introduction of the pill in the early sixties saw to that. I think you'll find he either gets frustrated and wanders, or sticks with you. Either way, you'll find out his true feelings if you stick to your guns.
I've never heard a man worry about that to be honest, it sounds like he doesn't want to wait,
of course things will fit, it will hurt, but it'll be fine, and most men know that.
I'd talk to him about it, maybe he doesn't realise just how important this is to you ?
GW x x
He just wants sex from you. He's making it all up. we are all made to accomodate a man's penis. no matter how big or small. So dont fall for that. ask him if he's worried his penis is too small to satisfy you. Cause if not - then you are built like every other woman out there - and your body will be fine. (believe me, big is good, but but every man thinks he's big. and as i said - you're built to accomodate)
There is another question here - maybe you wont want to have sex all the time - thats a risk, but when you love someone, that shouldnt be what your relationship is focused on. so throw that concern out the window. We all have our own libidos.
If he doesnt back off, you're going to do something you regret - like have sex with him before marriage. So tell him once and for all - these are your standards. If he leaves, its for the best. Don't settle for sloppy seconds, go out there and get a first class man. xoxox.
Honestly speaking, Guys don't see things the same ways as gals. As for sex concern. Some guys feel insecure when they are rejected by their gal when it comes to sex. It does make them feel inferior. Guys want to make love to their love ones and not just have sex. If your guy starts not wanting to make love with you then that means he no longer has that kind of strong feel for you anymore. So you should be glad that he's worried about it. But the final decision lies with you as to have sex with him or not.
were born to fit, pherhaps because of the wait it's building a sense of susspenmse and opressureblue eyeshadow
I'm a girl and I would have the same concerns. If you are not sexually compatible with your husband, then your marriage is destined to go downhill or be miserable. Sex, without a doubt, plays a HUGE role in any relationship once it's present.Any advice from guys/girls?
Sounds likehe's trying to get his end away despite your wishes. Its unusual for couples to wait until after marriage now, the introduction of the pill in the early sixties saw to that. I think you'll find he either gets frustrated and wanders, or sticks with you. Either way, you'll find out his true feelings if you stick to your guns.
I've never heard a man worry about that to be honest, it sounds like he doesn't want to wait,
of course things will fit, it will hurt, but it'll be fine, and most men know that.
I'd talk to him about it, maybe he doesn't realise just how important this is to you ?
GW x x
He just wants sex from you. He's making it all up. we are all made to accomodate a man's penis. no matter how big or small. So dont fall for that. ask him if he's worried his penis is too small to satisfy you. Cause if not - then you are built like every other woman out there - and your body will be fine. (believe me, big is good, but but every man thinks he's big. and as i said - you're built to accomodate)
There is another question here - maybe you wont want to have sex all the time - thats a risk, but when you love someone, that shouldnt be what your relationship is focused on. so throw that concern out the window. We all have our own libidos.
If he doesnt back off, you're going to do something you regret - like have sex with him before marriage. So tell him once and for all - these are your standards. If he leaves, its for the best. Don't settle for sloppy seconds, go out there and get a first class man. xoxox.
Honestly speaking, Guys don't see things the same ways as gals. As for sex concern. Some guys feel insecure when they are rejected by their gal when it comes to sex. It does make them feel inferior. Guys want to make love to their love ones and not just have sex. If your guy starts not wanting to make love with you then that means he no longer has that kind of strong feel for you anymore. So you should be glad that he's worried about it. But the final decision lies with you as to have sex with him or not.
were born to fit, pherhaps because of the wait it's building a sense of susspenmse and opressure
Some advice about guys?
Ok, this guy that I don't know very well (just from my Bible study) has asked me out for this weekend. I said yes, as I figure it's an opportunity to get to know him, whatever. I don't really like him though.
There's this other kid I know who lives out of town who I've been talking with a bit, and I actually like him, and I think he likes me. Is it wrong of me to continue flirting with this guy if I have a date with a different guy this saturday? What if the guy I like asks me out?
I'm really new to this whole dating thing, in fact this weekend will be my first real date...so any input would be helpful. What is the guy expecting, you know?
Oh, and both of them are older than me (I'm 17). The guy I have a date with is 21, and the guy I like is 18. Both are in college. I thought my parents wouldn't want me to date someone four years older than me, but I guess they don't mind.Some advice about guys?
Hahaha if hes 21 and you are young and gaulable dont falll for the I love you trick or if you do at least wear protection and it is ok to flirt with another guy if you date just make sure the other guys knows there is another. But don't go on a date for whatever go on one because you want to. I am sure he will get over your rejection and go for a girl more his age.
There's this other kid I know who lives out of town who I've been talking with a bit, and I actually like him, and I think he likes me. Is it wrong of me to continue flirting with this guy if I have a date with a different guy this saturday? What if the guy I like asks me out?
I'm really new to this whole dating thing, in fact this weekend will be my first real date...so any input would be helpful. What is the guy expecting, you know?
Oh, and both of them are older than me (I'm 17). The guy I have a date with is 21, and the guy I like is 18. Both are in college. I thought my parents wouldn't want me to date someone four years older than me, but I guess they don't mind.Some advice about guys?
Hahaha if hes 21 and you are young and gaulable dont falll for the I love you trick or if you do at least wear protection and it is ok to flirt with another guy if you date just make sure the other guys knows there is another. But don't go on a date for whatever go on one because you want to. I am sure he will get over your rejection and go for a girl more his age.
Need advice please........... guys and girls..........?
So me and this guy were friends last yr then found out we liked each other and haven't talked alot since. He'll stare at me in the hallway and my best friend thought she would try to help the situation and talked to him. He said he didn't know what was wrong with him and left it at that. and I tried to talk to him as a friend and called him and he ignored my calls and later gave me a lame excuse. We haven't said much since. I am still trying to get over him. He has treated me badly by putting me through a whole lot of stress this whole year. Should I forget him or try and be friends again? Do you think he wants to be friends again? Sometimes he'll brush by my shoulder and is always looking at me when I'm not looking. he also talks really loud when i'm around.... opinions... pleaseNeed advice please........... guys and girls..........?
It's a little fishy that a guy would bolt after finding out that you both liked each other. I would think it would make you closer and not the other way around. If he's stressed you out and treated you badly, and has tossed aside your friendship, then what's the point in being friends? He sounds like he hasn't been a good friend thus far. Just go on with your life...whether he talks loudly when you're around or looks at you...he had his chance and pretty much blew it. You should find a guy who will stick around when he tells you that he likes you.Need advice please........... guys and girls..........?
Im somewhat in the the same situation. My opinion is that we are looking into things way to much. If he wants to be with you he will come to you. dont force it. I would try to get over it and if in that process he comes around and can show you some respect and tells you he wants to be with you then by all means go for it. but again until then i would try to get over him!!!
i need girl
It's a little fishy that a guy would bolt after finding out that you both liked each other. I would think it would make you closer and not the other way around. If he's stressed you out and treated you badly, and has tossed aside your friendship, then what's the point in being friends? He sounds like he hasn't been a good friend thus far. Just go on with your life...whether he talks loudly when you're around or looks at you...he had his chance and pretty much blew it. You should find a guy who will stick around when he tells you that he likes you.Need advice please........... guys and girls..........?
Im somewhat in the the same situation. My opinion is that we are looking into things way to much. If he wants to be with you he will come to you. dont force it. I would try to get over it and if in that process he comes around and can show you some respect and tells you he wants to be with you then by all means go for it. but again until then i would try to get over him!!!
i need girl
I need Advice on getting guys, im bi , by the way?
yeah i need help, because guys say i come alittle bit to strong on to them. so how can i come on to them but not strong. please helpI need Advice on getting guys, im bi , by the way?
well im bi too.....
ive had a few straight guys like me... its interesting. i find that having a girl with you helps them be more comfortable. I have a girl bf.... and usually ill tell them i think theyre hot and then never bring it up again and just be friends... maybe sometimes mention sexual things to tease them and then mix in drinks somewhere down the road and they will be all over you when no ones around. sadly, straight guys only wanna be with women....I need Advice on getting guys, im bi , by the way?
Define 'a little bit strong'.
In any case just flat out stating that you like guys and you have an interest in them is good enough. I don't see any reason why you should do any more and doing any less is just being coy.
Edit: Oh. I see. You're hitting on them. Some guys don't like that, even if they are gay or bi. Just like girls sometimes get offended when you're hitting on them. I think with guys, the straightforward approach is the best. Keep your compliments to yourself, because they probably are just making things awkward.
well im bi too.....
ive had a few straight guys like me... its interesting. i find that having a girl with you helps them be more comfortable. I have a girl bf.... and usually ill tell them i think theyre hot and then never bring it up again and just be friends... maybe sometimes mention sexual things to tease them and then mix in drinks somewhere down the road and they will be all over you when no ones around. sadly, straight guys only wanna be with women....I need Advice on getting guys, im bi , by the way?
Define 'a little bit strong'.
In any case just flat out stating that you like guys and you have an interest in them is good enough. I don't see any reason why you should do any more and doing any less is just being coy.
Edit: Oh. I see. You're hitting on them. Some guys don't like that, even if they are gay or bi. Just like girls sometimes get offended when you're hitting on them. I think with guys, the straightforward approach is the best. Keep your compliments to yourself, because they probably are just making things awkward.
Need advice on guys hair, PLEASE HELP?
I need help on how to get my haircut tomorrow. I really know nothing about styling and products so all help is appreciative. My hair is thinning alittle bit as well. I basically want something that will make me look more attractive.
this is my current hair for the past few years http://img509.imageshack.us/my.php?image=200708gettyvilla14ub9.jpg
Would a buzzcut be good? a female friend of mine is pushing for me to get one but I'm unsure. She thinks I would look real good if it was cut like it was a few summers ago (if not shorter in her opinion) http://img148.imageshack.us/my.php?image=200709labordayweekend64ps9.jpg
I'm quite sick/bored of how my hair looks. Any thoughts on what i should do? buzz, spikes, etc?
if you can, include pics or be specific. i want to have a good idea of what to tell the stylist. all adivce is greatly appreciatedNeed advice on guys hair, PLEASE HELP?
No offense...but you can see the receeding hair lines. I'd stick with your lady friend's advice and get a hair cut like the one in the second pic. Be sure not to cut off too much...it'll only make matters worse.
...If chosen to do so, take the second photograph with you to the stylist. This way they know exactly what you're meaning when you say how much to take off.Need advice on guys hair, PLEASE HELP?
Shave your head! Give the girl freind a........good time?
Hell it grows back so fast, you have nothing to lose.
this is my current hair for the past few years http://img509.imageshack.us/my.php?image=200708gettyvilla14ub9.jpg
Would a buzzcut be good? a female friend of mine is pushing for me to get one but I'm unsure. She thinks I would look real good if it was cut like it was a few summers ago (if not shorter in her opinion) http://img148.imageshack.us/my.php?image=200709labordayweekend64ps9.jpg
I'm quite sick/bored of how my hair looks. Any thoughts on what i should do? buzz, spikes, etc?
if you can, include pics or be specific. i want to have a good idea of what to tell the stylist. all adivce is greatly appreciatedNeed advice on guys hair, PLEASE HELP?
No offense...but you can see the receeding hair lines. I'd stick with your lady friend's advice and get a hair cut like the one in the second pic. Be sure not to cut off too much...it'll only make matters worse.
...If chosen to do so, take the second photograph with you to the stylist. This way they know exactly what you're meaning when you say how much to take off.Need advice on guys hair, PLEASE HELP?
Shave your head! Give the girl freind a........good time?
Hell it grows back so fast, you have nothing to lose.
FOR SINGLE GUYS (or guys with expert advice ;)?
Is it weird for a girl to ask out a guy? Is it less likely that you would stay in a relationship with a girl who asked YOU out?FOR SINGLE GUYS (or guys with expert advice ;)?
It makes no difference to the length of the relationship. Some guys would prefer the girl to ask him out, as they might be too shy to do it themselves. Why do all girls think the guys have to ask???FOR SINGLE GUYS (or guys with expert advice ;)?
It would be a welcome change of pace, takes the guess work out of it. I say sure why not?
i wish it happend more often DO IT
It makes no difference to the length of the relationship. Some guys would prefer the girl to ask him out, as they might be too shy to do it themselves. Why do all girls think the guys have to ask???FOR SINGLE GUYS (or guys with expert advice ;)?
It would be a welcome change of pace, takes the guess work out of it. I say sure why not?
i wish it happend more often DO IT
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