Saturday, July 31, 2010

Boyfriend problem? Need advice from guys and girl?

My boyfriend and i have been together for 2 weeks and 4 days hah. i know that's not long, but we only talked in person twice. i really want us to talk more, cuz he's super nice and stuff, and he always says really nice stuff, but im not sure what to do. Is it bad that we dont talk? Like i said its only been about 2 or 3 weeks so it's not like its a really close relationship? He can be shy, and so can i. he talks to other girl more than me tho. is this bad? and how can i fix it i need ideas on what to say or do cuz im shy and we're supposed to hang out tomrrow but i have no idea what to say???Boyfriend problem? Need advice from guys and girl?
I think he feels shy around you too. You guys should definitely talk more or else this relationship wouldn't work, I am predicting both of you are still in high school. When you hang out tomorrow, just try to keep things cool and be yourself. You don't want someone to love you for who you aren't. Make him laugh and keep the conversation going, and ask about him and what he likes to do. In the end, just give him a peck on the cheek and wish him goodbye.Boyfriend problem? Need advice from guys and girl?
I don't know why this person is your boyfriend if you've only talked in person twice. Maybe you should just try dating for a while before moving into a commited relationship. The only think I can tell you is to be yourself, trust your instincts, and watch his actions because they will speak louder than his words. If a relationship doesn't work, then it just doesn't work and there will be others. Good luck!
Just let him hit it. That will break the ice dear.
yeahh u can hang out and u both dont be posseseive about each other.no its not bad that he talks with other girls and all.
umm, calling someone your boyfriend is just a title. talking to him face to face doesnt really make him your boyfriend
juss make out the whole time...
Uhm, why would you get together if you rarely talk. Couples who do that rarely stay together. Since he talks to more girls other than you, he might not be that faithful, since you have limited time together. Its kinda risky not to talk to him.


One thing i can suggest to you, coz i was in the same situation, is to say hi first. if he just smiles, make a joke or something.(like if he'll ever talk to you or do you have to keep blabbing) then once he starts to loosen up, engage in friendly conversations about each other's day and stuff. If you still can't talk. Something's wrong.
Dont worry just talk like you talk to any of your other friends.





';What did you do today?';





';What do you like about school?';





';Have you always lived in this area?';





';When you were little, what did you want to be when you grew up?';





';Who is your hero?';





';What's the best thing that happened to you today?';





';What kind of books do you like to read?';





';What are your favorite classes in school?';





';Tell me about your family.';





';Can you cook?';





';Do you like drama?';





';Have you ever done improvisational theater?';





If you could live anywhere in the world, where would you live?





If you could have any job in the world, what would you do?





Of what are you most proud in your life?





Do you play any musical instruments?





What do you hope to be doing 5 years from now?





If you could live your life over again, what would you do differently?





What do you do when you want to celebrate something?





Where's the most interesting place you've ever traveled?





Do you like risks, or do you avoid them?





What major risks have you taken in your life?





What are your weaknesses? How do you deal with them?





What are your favorite books, TV shows, movies and music?





What are the most important aspects of your life?





What's the most embarassing thing you've ever done?





i mean really you can talk about just anything!!!
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  • I need some advice from guys, who will understand what all this means?

    i like this guy who lives in my neighborhood. He's always sending me messages on myspace asking me to sneek over so we can do the dirty deed as he puts it.





    all his friends tell me we should go out, and now my friends are starting to say the same.





    i asked him if he likes me and he said ';yeah a little.'; but i dont know if he's saying just a little not to hurt my feelings [i dont think he knows i like him yet] or if he only does just like me a little, or if he lying about that and he really likes me alot.





    please help me!I need some advice from guys, who will understand what all this means?
    He said ';yeah, a little'; because he wants to know if you like him too. If you say no, then it won't make him feel like as much of a jackass. If his friends say that you should go out, that's a clear indication that he's already told his friends that he wants you. Just go for it.I need some advice from guys, who will understand what all this means?
    Depends on what you mean by ';go out';. If its just hanging out on fun dates, then fine. But you should seriously consider whether you really want to get all tangled up emotionally or physically with a guy who only likes you 'a little'. After he gets what he wants from you he will be gone like a fart in the wind.

    I need your advice on guys (:?

    This guy and I have been liking each other, on and off. Its really annoying, he always has mixed feelings about. and i say i dont like him. but to be honest, i have mixed feelings about him too, cuz i actually get jealous when other girls talk to him..


    We are really good friends actually.. we talk on the phone most nights.. he told me his dreams with me in it.. kind of awkward since there were like love-y dove-y things.. but yeah..





    and tips?


    ohhh and just to add:


    the dreams. after that he asked me if I believed that dreams woudl come true.. if we would actually kiss etc etc.. i was like.. ';uhh..umm'; and then he asked if I ever thought about kissing him LOL. WEIRD!!


    but i think he was in a good mood then..I need your advice on guys (:?
    K so its obvious this guy likes you. and you like him.





    in my experience i have been great friends with all the girls i have gone on to date. however ive come to learn nothing lasts - at all.





    the great friendships gone, spoiled by a relationship that went sour... and every time coming out of the relationship we try to stay best friends but it cant work... and so i wish i never went out with any of them and just stayed best friends, - it seems you get along well with this guy, and its always cool to have a best friend of the opposite sex.





    so to sum it up.


    you need to decide if you wanna be just friends or take it further, but by doing so potentially ruin the chance of having him in your life for ever - as a best friend...





    relationships at a young age are always a gamble, your goin to gain some really great things... but you going to potentially feel some very real pain, in the end its all experience and the more you have the better chance you will find your mr right.





    (maybe abit off subject) lol XDI need your advice on guys (:?
    The worst thing that you can do is show your jealousy to him. Guys have a way of using that to their advantage. Try to figure out how you really feel towards him,first, then talk with him to figure out if he wants to have a relationship with you or would just rather be friends for now. You need to remember that guys are going to have girls as friends at some point, if that issue bothers you then you need to work on that before you get into a relationship.
    from that stuff


    sounds like he likes you


    sounds like something i've experienced and the guy liked me


    usually if a guy's putting in the effort to talk to you on the phone all the time he likes you, and the dream thing might be his equivalent of a pick-up line of something!


    but you guys are friends so make sure your intentions are clear early on!
    Well im a guy ssooo ill give you wat i hav in mind..... this has happened to me before as well and one night i just asked her out and she said yes and we have been together ever since and you and him are best friends and if it stays that way if u ever ask him out he WILL say yes. so wait if u must but give it a shot and ask him out if I wer him I would say yes definately.
    Just go along with the ride, if he really likes then then he will ask you out there's nothing to worry about.


    Its cute how i guy plays these games, so just let it be
    i think he likes you and i think u guys are realy sweet! you shud probably consider getting together with him after tryin to go out together for lovey dovey stuff to see whether it feels weird? heh
    Dont think of anything that happened around u..Just do ur work with sienciraty


    u got it
    well to be honest w谋th you 谋t looks l谋ke hes waiting for you to make a move and ur wa谋t谋ng for h谋m


    so eaither u take the 1st move or u may not get verry far


    if u leave it he will prob end up w谋th a nother girl then u have to wa谋t for h谋m to be s谋ngle


    then ull end up w谋th a guy and he has to wa谋t 4 u to be s谋ngle





    just tell him how u feel 眉


    tex message or letter email or face to face ,


    u dont wanna be flurting for the next 3 to 5 years


    good luck

    ADVICE FROM GUYS AND GIRLS 10 POINTS FOR THE BEST ONE?

    am starting to like some guy that hangs around with me in school everyday during lunch. i just finished a relationship and i dont wanna start one yet so fast. i wanna start talking to him without him noticing... so i can get him to like me and then maybe i can go out with him.. lol am texting him right now. right now we are cool friends.. and we are just being stupid texting stupid things but i want him to like me lol tips please what do i do!! lolADVICE FROM GUYS AND GIRLS 10 POINTS FOR THE BEST ONE?
    id say ur doing everything right. just keep acting friendly with him, but make sure he doesn't get the idea that u just wanna be friends. u shud act a little flirty so he'll get an idea that hes into u. once u think ur ready just make the next move.

    Advice needed.. guys preferred but girls welcome to answer.Please Help!?

    Okay so lately I've started noticing on of my closest guy friends in a new way and I just don't know if should make a move or not. I mean sometimes he gives me signals that he likes and then I'll have friends tell me they think he likes me and I just don't know what to do cause I really would hate to loose his friendship because he's such a great guy.We hang out a lot just the two us and just today we went out to eat by ourselves and had a really great conversation and it seems like we click but I'm just scared to move cause it could end up with us not being friends anymore.. I have 2 questions.. okay so should I make a move and my 2nd question is just for guys.. if you had a friend who was girl how much time would be considered normal for them to want to hang out with you just by yourselves.


    Advice needed.. guys preferred but girls welcome to answer.Please Help!?
    Umm, I'm a guy myself and I really like it when I know a girl likes me. We guys usually prefer to let the girls execute the first move because we tend to lack confidence in ourselves. Hence, you should make a move and ask him out; nothing wrong with the ladies asking out men first for a change! Well, I'd consider a normal hang out time to be around an hour or two. Any longer and I'd assume you're in another distinct relationship. =P. You got him in your hands. Now all you have to do is execute your power. Best of luck!Advice needed.. guys preferred but girls welcome to answer.Please Help!?
    It is better if he makes the first move, meanwhile u can hang out with him maybe for an hour or so, too much could be too bad, there is no more magic left, he sees u just as a dumb and ordinary girl, not the princess of his dreams.
    Yes! He likes you! Now help him and give him some balls by making a move. Hehe.
    Wizard: We don't live in the stone age anymore





    Well it sounds to me like he does like you. make a move. you dont have to wait for him to do it. chances are he is a little afraid to make the first move in fear of rejection

    Advice On Guys & Relationship Tips Needed ASAP!!?

    This guy and I started to like eachother towards the middle of the school year of 07-08...but at the same time I knew he liked this sophomore (oh and he was a senior and I was a junior) but 2 my understanding he never talked 2 her, but I noticed that even though he liked me I had 2 be the one to start everything from the conversations 2 going %26amp; seeing a movie (but we usually saw movies with a group of friends) but he would tell my friends that he just liked me as a friend but observing him when we were with a group of ppl he would always come up 2 me %26amp; he would give me %26amp; only me a hug, my friends took him aside a told him to stop leading me on but he said he was just being friendly...now he is away 4 a few months training 4 the army and will be back in October %26amp; no matter how hard I try I can't get over him %26amp; he says he's going to ask that one girl out, but ppl who know her told me she would turn him down...Now I'm not even sure if he still has feelings for me...so now what do I do?!Advice On Guys %26amp; Relationship Tips Needed ASAP!!?
    you will find a guy out there that loves you. It takes two to make a relationship work. If he doesn't see you that way...that's his loss, don't worry about it. There are plenty of guys out there ( TRUST ME)....you will find a guy that you really like and he will like you back even more. %26lt;-- take my word for it. If not, email me in 5 years and i'll meet up with you and you can kick my *** :)Advice On Guys %26amp; Relationship Tips Needed ASAP!!?
    ask him out. he will forget about the other girl.

    Advice!!! Help? Guys please! How to make a good impression on him?

    Okay. So I met this guy. He's a cop and he patrols around my area of work. He's come in to talk to me and he always is waving to me when we see each other. I really want to get to know him. I don't know his name and I'm pretty sure he doesn't know mine. But most of the stuff we talk about is work. How do I let him know I'm interested in him without embarrassing myself (I'm very good at doing that)? How do I know if he's interested in me or if he's just being nice? How do I get to know him better? How do I make an impression on him? And last, How do I ask him his name and tell him mine without making things awkward?Advice!!! Help? Guys please! How to make a good impression on him?
    If the topic is always work then change the topic to something else. If he keeps conversing with you then you know he may be interested. Ask him out for a cup or coffee sometime.





    Cops usually aren't overly friendly people so more than likely he's interested in you.Advice!!! Help? Guys please! How to make a good impression on him?
    Well, he is probably wearing a name badge if he is on patrol, unless he is wearing the new T-shirts with POLICE across the back. Just be friendly. You can toss a well placed flirt to see if he is open to going out, but we warned, police officers are notorious players.
    If you are interested in dating him then an introduction would be in order, its up to you not to make it awkward, unless he introduces himself to you. This will also allow you to eliminate all your other problems, so basically, JUST INTRODUCE YOURSELF TO HIM!
    ask him him out for a cup of coffe or something of the sort there will always be a million reasons not to do something.
    mid sentence just say


    '; ok fine ill go on a date with you';
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