Thursday, August 19, 2010

Guys i need your advice!!! 2 guys & 1 me!?

Guys..Is he using me? help!?


i was dating Fred for 6 months and we broke up a month ago. A couple of weeks before breaking up with Fred, Tom took me out and kissed me. I've known Tom for 3 years and we've always been make out friends and it stopped once i was dating Fred. Recently Fred has called me and took me out last week, we had a great day and he asked to kiss me and i said no. He doesnt know that i kissed Tom while we were dating each other. The reason why i broke up with Fred was becuase he ignored me and practically forgot about me. Anyways i have been going out with Tom alot and he always picks me up and always pays for me i feel bad becuz we are not dating but i do pay for him as well. We are not of same religion and it can cause problems in the long run (his family is strict). Anyways last thursday with Tom, he began to ask me if i was going to get back together with Fred and i said no and explained why then he said ';well if you do i guess it was fun while it lasted';. Basically the fun was him and I going out for supper and making out for hours (no sex).


I was pretty insulted at that statement so i dont know if he used me or actually liked me?


I just feel that he used me and now that he thinks i want to go back with Fred hes ready to throw me out and find someone else. But then within those 6 months i was dating Fred he didnt have someone like me, he did make out but only with girls at clubs.





Guys what do you think? any advice?


im 19 hes 22


Fred is 20Guys i need your advice!!! 2 guys %26amp; 1 me!?
here is your answer and trust me when i say this: go out with a guy who you can lock eyes on and it is like WOW. Where have you been all my life. And you just melt instantly. If you can't have that type of connection with Fred or Tom then dump them and keep searching because these ';real men'; are out there ;)
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    okayy so i like this guy and he KNOWS that i like him... but all his answers to goin out wit me hav been ';I DNT KNO'; hahah kinda weird but yea.. most recently he has said plain out and simple ';NO'; :P so obviously he dsnt wanna go out wit me so waht should i do?? i still like him aLOT and cant stop NOT likeing him. actually its dying down a little but yea.. how cna i get him out of my head or jus somehow get him to say yess??? please give me soe good help :))GuY HelP please!!! need advice from guys %26amp;%26amp; girls?
    Sorry no is no. Time will stop the infatuation. Don't make a fool of yourself by keeping after him. Someone new will come along. GuY HelP please!!! need advice from guys %26amp;%26amp; girls?
    You can't make him go out with you, so make it a bit of a challenge for him, stop asking him out and start ignoring him that usually works
    MAYBE CHANGE YOUR LOOK WETHER ITS INSIDE OR OUTSIDE OR BOTH. BUT BE MORE COFIDENT.


    YOU'LL EITHER GET HIS ATTENTION OR REALIZE HES NOT WORTH YOUR TIME.
    Next!
    look for someone else to like!!! best way to get someone out of your head!

    Girls and Guys: I need you ';advice';?

    I am 18 now and I have never gone out with a girl before, I have had lot's of sex, even a couple of threesomes, but I have never been in a relationship, Please tell me what's wrong with me.Girls and Guys: I need you ';advice';?
    You're not looking for a commitment, and you're probably giving off all the signals of a single guy that's looking to have fun. Nothing is wrong with you in my mind.Girls and Guys: I need you ';advice';?
    Wow, how did you manage to have lots of sex and threesomes but no date, no relationship? I'm sure every guys out there wants to know the answer to that one. LOL. In all honesty, at most you might have a fear of relationship and on a bigger picture committment issues. It's easier, apparently for you, to be able to just meet people and go straight to bed without bogging yourself down with any of the emotional baggage that may come along in relationships. If you happy and satisfied with you current lifestyle and routine and everyone involved in these sexual encounters is satisfied with just having sex. Then just leave it how it is and remember your only 18. There is plenty of time for relationships. No big deal! Don't stress it.
    You are definitely a liar. Unless you are hiring hookers.





    But if you are telling the truth. You just need a little counseling buddy. If you are saying what's wrong with me than you are after intamacy but if you aren't getting it that's no good. A good therapist will help figure you out in no time.





    You can spend the rest of your life having sex with people you love.
    Nothings wrong .


    Maybe your just not a relationship type of guy .


    If you wanna be in a relationship im sure you could jus start off by getting a girlfriend .


    If you have sex with lots of girls then im sure it wouldnt be hard ta get a girlfriend .


    Then jus work on it from there .Dnt expect the first relationship ta be tha best one either .


    You jus gotta basically start out how everyone starts out when they first start dating .Yur jus a lil late kinda .Not really tho .


    Jus be yourself and everything will be okay : )
    You a late bloomer,and what I mean by that is. You not going to want to fall in love or be in a relationship at that age you are now,Im 18 too,been with my boyfriend fo 2 years. You tend to want to be in a relationship at a older mature age. But if you feel the need to be in a relationship,try and see what it is like.
    your used to the hit it and quit it routine. since you did that you dont know what love is. dont worry about it, one day that special one will pop up one day. and theres a diffrent feeling!
    You focus on sex and not true love is your problem. Women are alot less sex obsessed than men are, and they're mostly looking for a man that loves them for who they are, not because they'll have sex with them.
    Relationships are easier than sex. Keep doing what you're doing and one will eventually follow-suit. Trust me on that.





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    WoW...ah get a girl that has also done it loooootttts of times as well and maybe build some character its wat girls look 4.good luck i guess...
    you're a h0rny teenager and you're not ready for a real relationship?
    18 is very young: that's totally normal!
    Seems like there's nothing wrong with you.
    What's wrong is that you are a man whore.
    Nothing. You just enjoy having fun.
    You're not ready to commit by the sounds of it
    maybe your scared of commitment
    carry on!!
    mayb comitment u just cnt do it

    Hey all guys please help!?Its important and I need you advice.?

    I really like this guy.But i don't think he likes me.I mean i would say not to be concited but im pretty and im sweet.its my bday party next week and hes coming and at the party how can i get him to fall for me?Any good tips guys?What kinda clothes look rly hot to guys and what about good party tips so the guy will like the party?And any tips on how to get this guy to like me?Hey all guys please help!?Its important and I need you advice.?
    i dont know your age but im assuming young.





    First dont be loud and annoying


    Talk to him, find out things he likes, offer to hang out


    Find out what colors he likes/is attracted towards. Believe me, some girls can wear one color and get nothing, wear another and get tons of guys. I think it tends to be the color blue....





    you have to look like a woman, you have to stand out more than the other fish in the pond, guys dont see 'inner beauty' right off the bat, they see body.





    be flirty and a lil mysterious, but dont be flirty around other guys when he is around, that is a no noHey all guys please help!?Its important and I need you advice.?
    The way you are describing is not the right way to get a guy to like you. First of all, do not wear clothes to impress him. This is not being yourself you should dress for yourself and not him, otherwise he can see that you are trying way too hard. Secondly, some guys can be shy, if he show any signs such as; he blushes, looks towards the ground, has a hard time making conversation, then he probably likes you, too. But, if he doesn't present any ';hints';, then the relationship was just not meant to be. I wish you look in your relationships and I hope this helped.
    Just be yourself. Be confident; look him in the eye when you talk and listen. Don't worry about what looks ';hot'; to guys. Sometimes what most girls say is ';cute'; to guys isn't cute, but looks slutty. Be modest but fashionable-- nothing too tight. Respect the fact that guys are turned on by what they see, which means you could attract the wrong attention if you aren't careful.





    Sometimes getting a guy to like you isn't about what you can do or not do, it's about chemistry. I had plenty of my guy friends liking me, but I never knew until much later because they were too shy. It's usually best to start out as friends, but every so often doing little things to show you care. Being genuine tends to be a lost cause because society pushes sex far too much. Many forget that it's the butterflies that feel better than what you ';do'; with someone physically.





    By the way, your sun signs have nothing to do with it. It's just a fun myth people think makes a difference. YOU create your own luck.
    You've got to show this person how awesome you are, but first you need to know how awesome you are. Build up your self confidence. this doesn't mean you have to be loud, boisterous, arrogant, chatty, or forward. It just means getting to a place where you're comfortable in your own skin.


    In order for him to notice you Introduce yourself somehow and make conversation. Take an interest in who he is what he likes, where he's coming from, where he wants to go and show him who you are.


    These things take time. You can't force someone to like you, and trying to hurry things up can ruin the courtship altogether. Give him some space and don't be obsessive.


    And don't worry about what you are wearing, wear normal cloths, make him like you for who you are, not what you look like. Good Luck!
    dont try to change anything about yourself to get this dude to like you. be yourself. you dont want him to like you for who you aren't anyway. also dont dress hot... thats gonna make him like you in the way wrong way. dress how you normally would. just pay attention to him alot. get into as many one on one conversations as you can. be physical, not sexually, but like a lot of hugs and grab his hand and stuff. see, this is how you would attract me. oh and at the end of the party, make sure your goodbye hug is long. haha. have fun
    Hey,


    There was an instance that this girl I work with had a thing for me.


    She wore a dress out in public with her friends (co-workers) and they met up with me at the bar we all said we were going to.





    I didn't think she got all dressy just for me. But apparently she did, and all that was going through my head was ... [what the hell?]. I glanced at her quite a few times but ended up leaving later because it ended up being her, me, and 5 other guys who I really didn't care for (sausage-fests suck).


    I do like her personality and she is a beauty, but I didn't want a relationship yet.





    So in all honesty, dressing up for a guy, in my view, doesn't really work. Your best bet is to just talk to him and flirt a bit. Be open. If he asks you out somewhere alone, then you're 'dating'. But if he doesn't show enough interest, then I'm sorry - he's not into you.





    At least you can hold a friendship for him as long as you keep your emotions in check as 'friends' and not potential lovers.
    You don't have to do anything to make him fall for you. It's a kind of ';not good'; for you because you are a girl. Boys are the one who make the first move, not the girls. So, just wait. If you are really pretty, there's a good chance that your crush will somewhat like you and ending courting you up.





    Happy Birthday in advance.
    if you just want to hit then just come onto him and its done, but if you like like him then yea come on to him so he knows u like him but not to hard, and clothes wise i like them skinny jeans with some high boots, and a (idk whats it called but its like a shirt with a dress? thingy goes about to the knees) dress shirt..y? but yea just talk to him, and hope it works gl
    Just be yourself,no gimmick, no artificial behavior. tricks do not work for winning somebody's heart. The love is natural and spontaneous stream. If he finds the same wave length he will approach you by himself, if it does not he may be just a friend like others. The feelings should be mutual and two-way not one sided or not by playing any trick.
    find out what he likes.his favourite color and all , then go for it.try to be extremely decent ,graceful and hot at the same time.its not necessary to wow each and every person present over there but its important to make him feel wow about you.
    It depends what kind of a guy he is.. I am a guy and i like when girls are honest just like all guys, so i think you should just tell him about what you fell like.. and then you could tell if he likes you or not...


    hope i helped you nd good luck
    Look, look first of all I am a guy and I know that we boys don't know if you like us or not. I mean what if he has a boyfriend or has Aids or something. You don't want to bumed out finding something that prevents you from liking him...
    you're a scorpio, you got this. trust me. give him the innocent look and the bedroom eyes, guys love it.
    Oh Lord....you can't make someone fall for you. Be yourself and he likes you or doesn't. Don't change yourself for anyone like that...it's a sign of weakness.
    If he likes you he will, tricking hm to like you by wearing something you normally wouldnt wear will never work.
    Go up and have a dance and touch him heaps and junk.


    People may say go and talk to him and junk, but touching him provocatively will be more effective.
    Tight clothes so he can see your figure.





    Smile at him a lot. That always works.
    Bacon soap. Men love that kinda effort!
    Just relax, and be yourself.
    like him back

    Guys i need your advice!!! 2 guys & 1 me!?

    Guys..Is he using me? help!?


    i was dating Fred for 6 months and we broke up a month ago. A couple of weeks before breaking up with Fred, Tom took me out and kissed me. I've known Tom for 3 years and we've always been make out friends and it stopped once i was dating Fred. Recently Fred has called me and took me out last week, we had a great day and he asked to kiss me and i said no. He doesnt know that i kissed Tom while we were dating each other. The reason why i broke up with Fred was becuase he ignored me and practically forgot about me. Anyways i have been going out with Tom alot and he always picks me up and always pays for me i feel bad becuz we are not dating but i do pay for him as well. We are not of same religion and it can cause problems in the long run (his family is strict). Anyways last thursday with Tom, he began to ask me if i was going to get back together with Fred and i said no and explained why then he said ';well if you do i guess it was fun while it lasted';. Basically the fun was him and I going out for supper and making out for hours (no sex).


    I was pretty insulted at that statement so i dont know if he used me or actually liked me?


    I just feel that he used me and now that he thinks i want to go back with Fred hes ready to throw me out and find someone else. But then within those 6 months i was dating Fred he didnt have someone like me, he did make out but only with girls at clubs.





    Guys what do you think? any advice?


    im 19 hes 22


    Fred is 20Guys i need your advice!!! 2 guys %26amp; 1 me!?
    here is your answer and trust me when i say this: go out with a guy who you can lock eyes on and it is like WOW. Where have you been all my life. And you just melt instantly. If you can't have that type of connection with Fred or Tom then dump them and keep searching because these ';real men'; are out there ;)

    GuY HelP please!!! need advice from guys && girls?

    okayy so i like this guy and he KNOWS that i like him... but all his answers to goin out wit me hav been ';I DNT KNO'; hahah kinda weird but yea.. most recently he has said plain out and simple ';NO'; :P so obviously he dsnt wanna go out wit me so waht should i do?? i still like him aLOT and cant stop NOT likeing him. actually its dying down a little but yea.. how cna i get him out of my head or jus somehow get him to say yess??? please give me soe good help :))GuY HelP please!!! need advice from guys %26amp;%26amp; girls?
    Sorry no is no. Time will stop the infatuation. Don't make a fool of yourself by keeping after him. Someone new will come along. GuY HelP please!!! need advice from guys %26amp;%26amp; girls?
    You can't make him go out with you, so make it a bit of a challenge for him, stop asking him out and start ignoring him that usually works
    MAYBE CHANGE YOUR LOOK WETHER ITS INSIDE OR OUTSIDE OR BOTH. BUT BE MORE COFIDENT.


    YOU'LL EITHER GET HIS ATTENTION OR REALIZE HES NOT WORTH YOUR TIME.
    Next!
    look for someone else to like!!! best way to get someone out of your head!

    Hey all guys please help!?Its important and I need you advice.?

    I really like this guy.But i don't think he likes me.I mean i would say not to be concited but im pretty and im sweet.its my bday party next week and hes coming and at the party how can i get him to fall for me?Any good tips guys?What kinda clothes look rly hot to guys and what about good party tips so the guy will like the party?And any tips on how to get this guy to like me?Hey all guys please help!?Its important and I need you advice.?
    i dont know your age but im assuming young.





    First dont be loud and annoying


    Talk to him, find out things he likes, offer to hang out


    Find out what colors he likes/is attracted towards. Believe me, some girls can wear one color and get nothing, wear another and get tons of guys. I think it tends to be the color blue....





    you have to look like a woman, you have to stand out more than the other fish in the pond, guys dont see 'inner beauty' right off the bat, they see body.





    be flirty and a lil mysterious, but dont be flirty around other guys when he is around, that is a no noHey all guys please help!?Its important and I need you advice.?
    The way you are describing is not the right way to get a guy to like you. First of all, do not wear clothes to impress him. This is not being yourself you should dress for yourself and not him, otherwise he can see that you are trying way too hard. Secondly, some guys can be shy, if he show any signs such as; he blushes, looks towards the ground, has a hard time making conversation, then he probably likes you, too. But, if he doesn't present any ';hints';, then the relationship was just not meant to be. I wish you look in your relationships and I hope this helped.
    Just be yourself. Be confident; look him in the eye when you talk and listen. Don't worry about what looks ';hot'; to guys. Sometimes what most girls say is ';cute'; to guys isn't cute, but looks slutty. Be modest but fashionable-- nothing too tight. Respect the fact that guys are turned on by what they see, which means you could attract the wrong attention if you aren't careful.





    Sometimes getting a guy to like you isn't about what you can do or not do, it's about chemistry. I had plenty of my guy friends liking me, but I never knew until much later because they were too shy. It's usually best to start out as friends, but every so often doing little things to show you care. Being genuine tends to be a lost cause because society pushes sex far too much. Many forget that it's the butterflies that feel better than what you ';do'; with someone physically.





    By the way, your sun signs have nothing to do with it. It's just a fun myth people think makes a difference. YOU create your own luck.
    You've got to show this person how awesome you are, but first you need to know how awesome you are. Build up your self confidence. this doesn't mean you have to be loud, boisterous, arrogant, chatty, or forward. It just means getting to a place where you're comfortable in your own skin.


    In order for him to notice you Introduce yourself somehow and make conversation. Take an interest in who he is what he likes, where he's coming from, where he wants to go and show him who you are.


    These things take time. You can't force someone to like you, and trying to hurry things up can ruin the courtship altogether. Give him some space and don't be obsessive.


    And don't worry about what you are wearing, wear normal cloths, make him like you for who you are, not what you look like. Good Luck!
    dont try to change anything about yourself to get this dude to like you. be yourself. you dont want him to like you for who you aren't anyway. also dont dress hot... thats gonna make him like you in the way wrong way. dress how you normally would. just pay attention to him alot. get into as many one on one conversations as you can. be physical, not sexually, but like a lot of hugs and grab his hand and stuff. see, this is how you would attract me. oh and at the end of the party, make sure your goodbye hug is long. haha. have fun
    Hey,


    There was an instance that this girl I work with had a thing for me.


    She wore a dress out in public with her friends (co-workers) and they met up with me at the bar we all said we were going to.





    I didn't think she got all dressy just for me. But apparently she did, and all that was going through my head was ... [what the hell?]. I glanced at her quite a few times but ended up leaving later because it ended up being her, me, and 5 other guys who I really didn't care for (sausage-fests suck).


    I do like her personality and she is a beauty, but I didn't want a relationship yet.





    So in all honesty, dressing up for a guy, in my view, doesn't really work. Your best bet is to just talk to him and flirt a bit. Be open. If he asks you out somewhere alone, then you're 'dating'. But if he doesn't show enough interest, then I'm sorry - he's not into you.





    At least you can hold a friendship for him as long as you keep your emotions in check as 'friends' and not potential lovers.
    You don't have to do anything to make him fall for you. It's a kind of ';not good'; for you because you are a girl. Boys are the one who make the first move, not the girls. So, just wait. If you are really pretty, there's a good chance that your crush will somewhat like you and ending courting you up.





    Happy Birthday in advance.
    if you just want to hit then just come onto him and its done, but if you like like him then yea come on to him so he knows u like him but not to hard, and clothes wise i like them skinny jeans with some high boots, and a (idk whats it called but its like a shirt with a dress? thingy goes about to the knees) dress shirt..y? but yea just talk to him, and hope it works gl
    Just be yourself,no gimmick, no artificial behavior. tricks do not work for winning somebody's heart. The love is natural and spontaneous stream. If he finds the same wave length he will approach you by himself, if it does not he may be just a friend like others. The feelings should be mutual and two-way not one sided or not by playing any trick.
    find out what he likes.his favourite color and all , then go for it.try to be extremely decent ,graceful and hot at the same time.its not necessary to wow each and every person present over there but its important to make him feel wow about you.
    It depends what kind of a guy he is.. I am a guy and i like when girls are honest just like all guys, so i think you should just tell him about what you fell like.. and then you could tell if he likes you or not...


    hope i helped you nd good luck
    Look, look first of all I am a guy and I know that we boys don't know if you like us or not. I mean what if he has a boyfriend or has Aids or something. You don't want to bumed out finding something that prevents you from liking him...
    you're a scorpio, you got this. trust me. give him the innocent look and the bedroom eyes, guys love it.
    Oh Lord....you can't make someone fall for you. Be yourself and he likes you or doesn't. Don't change yourself for anyone like that...it's a sign of weakness.
    If he likes you he will, tricking hm to like you by wearing something you normally wouldnt wear will never work.
    Go up and have a dance and touch him heaps and junk.


    People may say go and talk to him and junk, but touching him provocatively will be more effective.
    Tight clothes so he can see your figure.





    Smile at him a lot. That always works.
    Bacon soap. Men love that kinda effort!
    Just relax, and be yourself.
    like him back
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