I am a teenage girl, and I am either entering or caught in my awkward growth stage. I am 5'7 and have long legs and lanky arms. My legs don't allow me to wear trashy miniskirts or shorts so I stick to bermudas or jeans. Not a lot of options. My self image in my mind is very slender and almost classy but seeing that no guys are attracted to me, worries me. I will admit I am a little shy but I am slowly becoming more outgoing. I am in highschool and now that more guys are around I am not sure what to do..
GUYS: help me out here. what should i do?
LADIES: self confidence tips? fashion tips? plain flat-out HELP??Advice? Help? GUYS? Anyone???
Alot of shy girls give a vibe that they are super-serious and/or don't want to be talked to. Relax and smile.Advice? Help? GUYS? Anyone???
Yeah. It kinda sucks to be the shy girl. I was (and kinda still are) that girl. I could never bring up a conversation with anyone. But towards the middle of the year, i met some really nice people, who had tons of friends yet they were extremely shy. You dont need to be outgoing to make lots of friends. Just friendly, nice, and kind. Makeup, cleanliness, and good hair helps with guys. But as long as you have a good personality, than your all set.
Besides, guys are the ones that are supposed to approach girls. So if you can bring up a conversation
Example: 'i hate that teacher, she doesnt know how to talk' he'll easily know what to say to that, and now your all set. Let him do the work from here.
Peace 鈾?br>
Edit: Youre very pretty. Try light yellow or blue. It will compliment your skin tone :-)
I just have to tell you that the awkward growth stage really does go away!!
From the time I was 13 until I was about 18 I felt like I had the most awkward looking body/face, but now that I am 20 I feel like I have really grown into myself and it's only going to get better. I'm glad my teenage years weren't the best years of my life, because I know I have a lot to look forward to.
Its good you cant wear 'trashy' skirts or shorts...
If your attracting a decent guy i can guarentee your not goin to find that type wearing that kinda stuff.
Your height is fine so dont worry about that :)
Id never date a girl who wore skirts out and about or short-shorts etc.
Its just.. not the kinda girl id want to
i dont really know here
you sound pretty good, maby your just to sef concious!!
heres what i would do!
put your hair in a style no-ones ever seen on you before go gt some new clothes and have some fun, get your nails done or something!
then all you have to do is ';act'; confident, cause eventually the acutuall confidence wil kickin!!
You should just be yourself and let the guys come to you, but I can only say that because I don't know what you look like.
*shrug*
That's really not that important. Just be thankful that you have the kind of body that you have.
Just be yourself and it will happen. Don't try and be someone that you are not.
grow your eyebrows out a littie more and die them a littie darker
flash 2wice a day.
id say wear leggings have u tried that?
well, try to hang out with your friends, and be yourself. I know that's what everybody says, but its true. And it doesn't matter how big or small u r. everybody is their own perfect size. and who says you can't wear shorts or miniskirts. wear leggings. and, have u ever thought of becoming a model. Designers are always looking for girls like 4 who are really tall and skinny. well, if u need anything else, email me at cheergurl4life95@yahoo.com. okay?? hope that helps
Saturday, July 31, 2010
Advice Please! Guys and Girls?
My roommate is anti relationship. He just likes to have sex with no strings attached. A girl approached him and said ';All you need to know is I'm over 18.'; They exchanged numbers. He called her yesterday and left a voicemail and let her know he was available today in the am hours. He texted her today and asked ';are you in class?';
He wants to know what the best way to approach her to get her to get her to meet up without the impression that he is interested in her more than just a good lay, because she DID approach him and that's all he would want and he is sure she knows.
He just wants to know how you would seal the deal considering she hasn't responded and she is the one who initiated the entire thing.
Thank You---- ElleAdvice Please! Guys and Girls?
Is this a roommate on a college campus? Because this guy seems like he's anti-education as well. He might as well save his tuition for some porn or something after the women catch up with him and his pathetic games. It might be the only thing to pass away his time.
Find a new roommate please!Advice Please! Guys and Girls?
he has already down all he should. she approached him, she knows the deal, next move is up to her. all he has to do is sit back and wait. then enjoy.
shes playing hard to get or simply hasn't checked her phone.
Why are you asking for him?
He should be asking.
My advice is to
make love, not sex
Wait till he is in love.
tl;dr
I'm not sure I 100% understand what you are asking. But:
If I was the girl in the situation, I would PREFER he just say ';I just want to have fun and hook up, if you know what I mean. I don't want anymore than that.'; Because when I was in college I used to have fun hooking up with guys once in a while. But it used to really piss me off when they would try and come off all sweet and pretent they were into me. They thought that was what I wanted to hear. So rather than them just being honest, they would tell these ellaborate stories of how much they liked me, then would ignore me after we hooked up. It caused way more stress than necessary.
But yeah, the guy needs to be totally 100% honest straight off the bat. His chances of getting what he wants are higher, and he won't have to deal with unnecessary drama. Believe me, I know there are girls out there who would PREFER this. The stereotype that girls are not into that is stupid.
He wants to know what the best way to approach her to get her to get her to meet up without the impression that he is interested in her more than just a good lay, because she DID approach him and that's all he would want and he is sure she knows.
He just wants to know how you would seal the deal considering she hasn't responded and she is the one who initiated the entire thing.
Thank You---- ElleAdvice Please! Guys and Girls?
Is this a roommate on a college campus? Because this guy seems like he's anti-education as well. He might as well save his tuition for some porn or something after the women catch up with him and his pathetic games. It might be the only thing to pass away his time.
Find a new roommate please!Advice Please! Guys and Girls?
he has already down all he should. she approached him, she knows the deal, next move is up to her. all he has to do is sit back and wait. then enjoy.
shes playing hard to get or simply hasn't checked her phone.
Why are you asking for him?
He should be asking.
My advice is to
make love, not sex
Wait till he is in love.
tl;dr
I'm not sure I 100% understand what you are asking. But:
If I was the girl in the situation, I would PREFER he just say ';I just want to have fun and hook up, if you know what I mean. I don't want anymore than that.'; Because when I was in college I used to have fun hooking up with guys once in a while. But it used to really piss me off when they would try and come off all sweet and pretent they were into me. They thought that was what I wanted to hear. So rather than them just being honest, they would tell these ellaborate stories of how much they liked me, then would ignore me after we hooked up. It caused way more stress than necessary.
But yeah, the guy needs to be totally 100% honest straight off the bat. His chances of getting what he wants are higher, and he won't have to deal with unnecessary drama. Believe me, I know there are girls out there who would PREFER this. The stereotype that girls are not into that is stupid.
Advice on guys?
So I met this guy at the mall and we kind of talked and we hung out. The problem is I've never gone out with a guy before, ever, and while I'm sure he was being sweet and whatnot, it was kind of weird when he kissed me, a lot, (not in the lips; I would have smacked him). I let him know that I was uncomfortable with everything and he agreed to take it slow. He wanted to hang out on Saturday, supposedly. My friends say that I'm ';playing hard to get'; (I refuse to call him; if he wants to talk to me, he can call me, and they also say I'm kind of apathetic with him) and I wonder if it's because of this that he didn't call me back yesterday. I called him and we talked and then he said he had to do some chores and he didn't call me back. (continued)Advice on guys?
As a guy I can tell you that most of us are very ';spur of the moment'; creatures. Especially the younger ones. I'd tell you not to get too wrapped up in the situation. Just wait and see what the next few weeks bring. You don't have to dis him or anything, just give it time for him to show you what he's all about. If you're really worth it to him, he'll understand you wanting to take your time with this new relationship. Just make sure you explain that to him. Guys are also very dumb when it comes to girls and you explaining to him how the relationship should go if he wants to be with you is a big help to him... TRUST ME!!
Good Luck...Advice on guys?
yeah give this guy a chnace to see what he is about.but make sure he truley likes you for the person that you are (even with your faults,like being shy).and stop letting your friends judge you in what you are doing with your relationship.
and this is your first relationship so im pretty sure that you should feel uncomfterble with him.take it one day at a time and see how things turn out. =)
As a guy I can tell you that most of us are very ';spur of the moment'; creatures. Especially the younger ones. I'd tell you not to get too wrapped up in the situation. Just wait and see what the next few weeks bring. You don't have to dis him or anything, just give it time for him to show you what he's all about. If you're really worth it to him, he'll understand you wanting to take your time with this new relationship. Just make sure you explain that to him. Guys are also very dumb when it comes to girls and you explaining to him how the relationship should go if he wants to be with you is a big help to him... TRUST ME!!
Good Luck...Advice on guys?
yeah give this guy a chnace to see what he is about.but make sure he truley likes you for the person that you are (even with your faults,like being shy).and stop letting your friends judge you in what you are doing with your relationship.
and this is your first relationship so im pretty sure that you should feel uncomfterble with him.take it one day at a time and see how things turn out. =)
Advice PLEASE!! Guys please help. Does he like me ... was he trying to fill a void ... just wanna hook up*****
I met this guy i like a lot 6mnts ago thru a mutual friend. The 1st night we hung out we drank alot %26amp; hooked up - amazing chemistry %26amp; connection. 2nd time we hung out (3 wks later) he'd just got back in town after a business trip w/his ex-wife (worked together @ that time-complicated). It had obviously messed with his head %26amp; he was def. not over her (she dumped him - he still loved her). Anyways that night these girls kept aggressively hitting on him %26amp; my other friend %26amp; one followed him into the b/room %26amp; started kissing on him. I was pissed %26amp; left. I heard thru my friend he felt really bad %26amp; wanted to call me %26amp; my friend said only call if u want to pursue something/ready to date. so he didn't.
3rd time i seen him. 2 wks ltr he apologized %26amp; said he felt bad b/c he liked me. I didn't tell him how i felt about him.
Now I have run into him 2x lately. I could be imagining it but seems like we still have some chemistry. He hasn't suggested we hang tho. think he's started dating again ...Advice PLEASE!! Guys please help. Does he like me ... was he trying to fill a void ... just wanna hook up*****
Take him out for coffee and a good bagel, and just talk to him, no dating questions, just get to know him a little better, then see where it goes from there, you won't look like a psycho or anything just a down to earth easy girl to talk to, He knows that you are attracted to him, so you don't need to reiterate that part...just approach him non-aggressively, and don't forget YOU are the prize. Not the other way around. Good luck!
3rd time i seen him. 2 wks ltr he apologized %26amp; said he felt bad b/c he liked me. I didn't tell him how i felt about him.
Now I have run into him 2x lately. I could be imagining it but seems like we still have some chemistry. He hasn't suggested we hang tho. think he's started dating again ...Advice PLEASE!! Guys please help. Does he like me ... was he trying to fill a void ... just wanna hook up*****
Take him out for coffee and a good bagel, and just talk to him, no dating questions, just get to know him a little better, then see where it goes from there, you won't look like a psycho or anything just a down to earth easy girl to talk to, He knows that you are attracted to him, so you don't need to reiterate that part...just approach him non-aggressively, and don't forget YOU are the prize. Not the other way around. Good luck!
Advice from guys?
My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 and 1/2 years.Hes 22 and im 18.Right now though we live in different states.We chat online and talk on mic becuase its free.We like to maturbate together sometimes.But recently even though I was being extra carefull, I almost got caught by my mom(it was 2 am i didnt think she would be around).Anyway so i decided im not going to masturbate anymore.Thing is that he wants to.How can i tell him no effectively without hurting his feelings?I told him he could do it by himself but he doesnt want to do that.So how should i handle this?Thanks for the answers.Advice from guys?
2 1/2 yrs. He'll definitely understand if you tell him what happened. I think that the fact both of you are doing this together is sweet. :] You can even talk about alternative things to do to change it up a bit.Advice from guys?
If he is doing it with you before marriage how many other women is he doing it with as well. I'm sorry but this seems like something that is going to find you hitched up with men that will be unfaithful to you.
Respect yourself and your body and tell him this must stop. If he is still faithful to you, then you might have the beginnings of a real relationship worth building a family on - otherwise you have nothing with him. Masturbation is something seldom stopped by marriage but becomes an addiction to many people married or otherwise.
Did u tell him what almost happened that ur mom almost caught u? If not then tell him, tell him you would do it but are afraid of getting caught, TELL HIM U LOVE HIM AND HOPE HE RESPECTS U ENOUGH TO RESPECT UR WISHES THAT U DONT WANT TO, hope ive been of help and if u want or need anymore advice, then feel free to email me ,
Just be straight.
Tell him you were caught by your mom playing vagina banjo, you were terribly embarrassed and don't want to do it anymore.
He will get over it.
When you are together in person than you can be intimate
Honestly, he will not just get over it.
Nothing you can do long distance is going to be as good as what you're planning to no longer do.
Who cares, masturbating is normal, just do it anyways.
just do it any ways you should go see him and jus have sex and he wont want to do that any more
Why would you stop?Just lock the damn door.
Once should not change what you've been doing.
go on and tell him what happend to you. he'll understand !
2 1/2 yrs. He'll definitely understand if you tell him what happened. I think that the fact both of you are doing this together is sweet. :] You can even talk about alternative things to do to change it up a bit.Advice from guys?
If he is doing it with you before marriage how many other women is he doing it with as well. I'm sorry but this seems like something that is going to find you hitched up with men that will be unfaithful to you.
Respect yourself and your body and tell him this must stop. If he is still faithful to you, then you might have the beginnings of a real relationship worth building a family on - otherwise you have nothing with him. Masturbation is something seldom stopped by marriage but becomes an addiction to many people married or otherwise.
Did u tell him what almost happened that ur mom almost caught u? If not then tell him, tell him you would do it but are afraid of getting caught, TELL HIM U LOVE HIM AND HOPE HE RESPECTS U ENOUGH TO RESPECT UR WISHES THAT U DONT WANT TO, hope ive been of help and if u want or need anymore advice, then feel free to email me ,
Just be straight.
Tell him you were caught by your mom playing vagina banjo, you were terribly embarrassed and don't want to do it anymore.
He will get over it.
When you are together in person than you can be intimate
Honestly, he will not just get over it.
Nothing you can do long distance is going to be as good as what you're planning to no longer do.
Who cares, masturbating is normal, just do it anyways.
just do it any ways you should go see him and jus have sex and he wont want to do that any more
Why would you stop?Just lock the damn door.
Once should not change what you've been doing.
go on and tell him what happend to you. he'll understand !
Advice? a guys prospective would be good also?
i like a guy at collage and one of my 'friends' told him even though i asked her not too, anyways, and he hasn't made it obvious that he knows in fact he denys that he does (not to me i pretend not to know that my friend told him) and if i say i find some other guy attractive he will be like 'im better!' or 'but, ha-ha, you prefer me..' but he is started to act a little distant towards me.
any ideas?! im so totally confused!Advice? a guys prospective would be good also?
saying stuff about other guys is BAAAAAAAAAD it makes him think u dont like him, it wont make him jelous atleast not in a good way, he will probably think to back off because theres no chance... just go for it ;pAdvice? a guys prospective would be good also?
Just try to talk to him and see whats upp! =)
Make a move already!!!! What are you waiting on???
Just consider it a guy thing and don't worry about it. He likes you no matter what he says. If you like him then go after him because it doesn't sound like he's the go getter type.
Hope this helps, good luck.cartridge
any ideas?! im so totally confused!Advice? a guys prospective would be good also?
saying stuff about other guys is BAAAAAAAAAD it makes him think u dont like him, it wont make him jelous atleast not in a good way, he will probably think to back off because theres no chance... just go for it ;pAdvice? a guys prospective would be good also?
Just try to talk to him and see whats upp! =)
Make a move already!!!! What are you waiting on???
Just consider it a guy thing and don't worry about it. He likes you no matter what he says. If you like him then go after him because it doesn't sound like he's the go getter type.
Hope this helps, good luck.
Advice PLEASE!! Guys please help. Does he like me ... was he trying to fill a void ... just wanna hook up*****
I met this guy i like a lot 6mnts ago thru a mutual friend. The 1st night we hung out we drank alot %26amp; hooked up - amazing chemistry %26amp; connection. 2nd time we hung out (3 wks later) he'd just got back in town after a business trip w/his ex-wife (worked together @ that time-complicated). It had obviously messed with his head %26amp; he was def. not over her (she dumped him - he still loved her). Anyways that night these girls kept aggressively hitting on him %26amp; my other friend %26amp; one followed him into the b/room %26amp; started kissing on him. I was pissed %26amp; left. I heard thru my friend he felt really bad %26amp; wanted to call me %26amp; my friend said only call if u want to pursue something/ready to date. so he didn't.
3rd time i seen him. 2 wks ltr he apologized %26amp; said he felt bad b/c he liked me. I didn't tell him how i felt about him.
Now I have run into him 2x lately. I could be imagining it but seems like we still have some chemistry. He hasn't suggested we hang tho. think he's started dating again ...Advice PLEASE!! Guys please help. Does he like me ... was he trying to fill a void ... just wanna hook up*****
Take him out for coffee and a good bagel, and just talk to him, no dating questions, just get to know him a little better, then see where it goes from there, you won't look like a psycho or anything just a down to earth easy girl to talk to, He knows that you are attracted to him, so you don't need to reiterate that part...just approach him non-aggressively, and don't forget YOU are the prize. Not the other way around. Good luck!
3rd time i seen him. 2 wks ltr he apologized %26amp; said he felt bad b/c he liked me. I didn't tell him how i felt about him.
Now I have run into him 2x lately. I could be imagining it but seems like we still have some chemistry. He hasn't suggested we hang tho. think he's started dating again ...Advice PLEASE!! Guys please help. Does he like me ... was he trying to fill a void ... just wanna hook up*****
Take him out for coffee and a good bagel, and just talk to him, no dating questions, just get to know him a little better, then see where it goes from there, you won't look like a psycho or anything just a down to earth easy girl to talk to, He knows that you are attracted to him, so you don't need to reiterate that part...just approach him non-aggressively, and don't forget YOU are the prize. Not the other way around. Good luck!
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