Im a very impatient girl, if im texting a guy, or anyone for that matter, and we are having a good convo then they suddenly stop talking, it irritates me, and i text thema couple more times before giving up. i also tend to tell a guy when i like him, i hate mind games. but lately i ahve been finding im just scaring guys away, im not weird about it or anything, i guess im just too straight forward? are there any guys that dont mind girls like me? guys that ARENT the same, cuz i cant stand guys like that.I need advice from guys..?
maybe something happened and they needed to stop doing what they were doing... :DI need advice from guys..?
maybe he's over the txt msg limit!
I don't mind girls like that, but cut the guys a break for the texting thing, the reason they do it is because if you say bye, tehn the other person says bye back, and usually that stops the texting until one of you starts it back. If you leave a message and wait for him to answer, then you can just start where you left off.
About the text thing sometimes i don't feel my fone vibrate so i don't answer a text for a long time or i am busy an can't text. thell answer eventually. It makes guys feel nice even if they don't show it if they no a girl likes them.
Tuesday, November 22, 2011
I need advice from guys.?
I am dating a guy for almost 2 years. We had sex several times.But he said in one of our conversations on the phone that he just love me as a friend and nothing more than that. Got hurt coz I love him so much and he knew about how I feel. What shoul I do?help. thanks..I need advice from guys.?
Get out from him right now. Don't ever ever talk to him, Period!!!No more second thought please.Without your knowing he uses you as a sex toy. 2 years...2 years...imagine that you've been fooled. Knowing your deeply inlove to him he took advantage of your weakness. ah! can't blame you my dear.Love is blind. This time open your eyes. Console your self and don't think you were a loser. Walk high head. Be optimistic.
Perhaps you're thinking that it is easy to give advice than do. well...you got to get up. This kind of guy is easy to forget. There are still men not looking for virginity wise but they are after sencerity, honesty and true love.I need advice from guys.?
Mighta not really meant it and felt as it woulda questioned his manliness cuz he might be scared youd like him less if he dont seem tough enough for you. [only if he real immature]. or yea just dump him cuz he usin you
The good news is, he was honest with you. The bad news is, he waited two years--two years!?!--to be honest with you.
I know you love him so much, but it's time to love yourself. If this isn't the kind of relationship you want, then move on. It'll be painful, yes, but it won't be as long-lasting as the pain of living in a relationship that doesn't satisfy your emotional needs.
He does not love you. And he is using you for sex.
If you don't want to just be a buddy to him, then drop him and move on.
leave him don't give him the time of day :( sorry but he is using you.
You have been politely dumped. He obviously doesn't think you two are dating any more. Have you ever heard the phrase ';making love but there's no love';?
You need to move on and start looking again. It sounds like he has done just that.
Sit down and talk with him.
It's perfectly able that he only saw you as what they call it... 'friends with benefits' whereas you wanted much more. It's not his fault, and not yours as well, just a case of misunderstanding.
You probably shouldn't have had sex with him in the first place, because what he's doing right now is avoiding commitment and responsibility. His thoughts were probably along the lines of why buy the cow when I can get the milk for free? Well, now he doesn't want anymore ';milk'; and he's trying to jilt you. That's wrong. You can't just sleep with someone, date for two years, and say I just want to be friends. That's wrong. You deserve better. Get over this loser. I've have friends do this kind of thing to girls and the girls get all torn up inside, but the guy doesn't care. He got what he wanted and now he just gives her the boot. It's mean and unfair. Find a man who is more interested in what's in your mind and in your heart than what's in your pants. It may sound a little cheesy, but it's true.
Get out from him right now. Don't ever ever talk to him, Period!!!No more second thought please.Without your knowing he uses you as a sex toy. 2 years...2 years...imagine that you've been fooled. Knowing your deeply inlove to him he took advantage of your weakness. ah! can't blame you my dear.Love is blind. This time open your eyes. Console your self and don't think you were a loser. Walk high head. Be optimistic.
Perhaps you're thinking that it is easy to give advice than do. well...you got to get up. This kind of guy is easy to forget. There are still men not looking for virginity wise but they are after sencerity, honesty and true love.I need advice from guys.?
Mighta not really meant it and felt as it woulda questioned his manliness cuz he might be scared youd like him less if he dont seem tough enough for you. [only if he real immature]. or yea just dump him cuz he usin you
The good news is, he was honest with you. The bad news is, he waited two years--two years!?!--to be honest with you.
I know you love him so much, but it's time to love yourself. If this isn't the kind of relationship you want, then move on. It'll be painful, yes, but it won't be as long-lasting as the pain of living in a relationship that doesn't satisfy your emotional needs.
He does not love you. And he is using you for sex.
If you don't want to just be a buddy to him, then drop him and move on.
leave him don't give him the time of day :( sorry but he is using you.
You have been politely dumped. He obviously doesn't think you two are dating any more. Have you ever heard the phrase ';making love but there's no love';?
You need to move on and start looking again. It sounds like he has done just that.
Sit down and talk with him.
It's perfectly able that he only saw you as what they call it... 'friends with benefits' whereas you wanted much more. It's not his fault, and not yours as well, just a case of misunderstanding.
You probably shouldn't have had sex with him in the first place, because what he's doing right now is avoiding commitment and responsibility. His thoughts were probably along the lines of why buy the cow when I can get the milk for free? Well, now he doesn't want anymore ';milk'; and he's trying to jilt you. That's wrong. You can't just sleep with someone, date for two years, and say I just want to be friends. That's wrong. You deserve better. Get over this loser. I've have friends do this kind of thing to girls and the girls get all torn up inside, but the guy doesn't care. He got what he wanted and now he just gives her the boot. It's mean and unfair. Find a man who is more interested in what's in your mind and in your heart than what's in your pants. It may sound a little cheesy, but it's true.
I need advice on guys!? Help!?
okay so theres this guy, i like him alot like ALOT so much i am totally inlove with him. Like words cant ever describe how much i love him. So like i met him when i was in 6th grade and he was in 7th. then i went to 7th and he went to 8th obviously and we were very good friends. but in the summer going to 7th grade he asked me out and i said yes. but i didnt like him at all i just went out with him for fun. and like on the same day he asked me out, he broke up with me later that day after we hung out. and i didnt care at all. but like 1 week later i started getting kinda sad and i started liking him alot.. i started on like august 16, 2008 and it is now june 6, 2009 and im still totally in love with him. BUT, hes like a player? like i dont know. sometimes he is, sometimes he isnt. hes SO conufusing. when it was during the schoolyear he thought he was soooo cool and he was like to cool to talk to me but he still did sometimes though. and like he always asks me for naked pictures and stuff but me and him were friends with benefits for a while he like played him and i was too blind to see. we didnt do anything like sooo bad like small things like makeout you know? then one day like 2 weeks ago i realized he was using me and i typed him a 10 page message thing about how i really feel about him because he didnt even know how much i loved him. and he wrote me a like 3 page message thing on how he did use me and that hes like so sorry and he was begging but not alot. and i forgave him. and now were friends..but like hes being weird like i dont know? he wont text me back. and like if he does he doesnt talk much i dont know why like did he get all weirded out? but he wasnt at first?? im confused. and like EVERYBODY all my friends say that they THINK he likes me because hes always looking at me, and people say that he talks to me in a different way and they think hes secretly in love with me because usually when they're mad at him he doesnt care but with me he does he begs for my forgiveness but then..like right after he gets into the conversation of friends with benefits?? so i dont get it. does he like me? they think its because the way he looks at me. and i dont know they confuse me and he confuses me even more. i asked him if he does and he said ';to be honest i dont like you but i love you as a friend'; and like..i dont know. im confused? he doesnt play me anymore. like at first when i told him to stop playing me and stuff he was like okay about it and we had stuff to talk about but now like..he wont text me back? and im kind of sad. and im not completley in love anymore a little bit less.. but i dont know. i need help! any advice?I need advice on guys!? Help!?
just b natural..if u like him say him..and ask him what does he thinks of u..dont worry..if he really likes u then he will say it to u..and if he doesnt like u..then dont b sad or depressed..life goes on..b happy...life is so precious life is beautiful..u r very beautiful..it is the matter of ur thoughts i dont know how ur thoughts r..if u r beautiful from within..i m sure u will get a good person...good luck..blue eyeshadow
just b natural..if u like him say him..and ask him what does he thinks of u..dont worry..if he really likes u then he will say it to u..and if he doesnt like u..then dont b sad or depressed..life goes on..b happy...life is so precious life is beautiful..u r very beautiful..it is the matter of ur thoughts i dont know how ur thoughts r..if u r beautiful from within..i m sure u will get a good person...good luck..
Need Some Advice From Guys.(About my Bf)?
i got asked out.by this guy ive known for at least 2 months.he adores the heck outta me.i was sitting next to him last nite,and all he kept doing was starying at me locking eyes.i have never seen a guy stare so much.it was a good feeling.me and him get along very very well.never disagree on anything of any sort.
i wanna be with this guy for a long time.how can i make things exciting...keep him on his toes and wondering all the time.besides sex and all.what are some ways to flatter him or have him blushing.
let me know any advice would be great.
iam 19 and hes 22.Need Some Advice From Guys.(About my Bf)?
.Be advised,the longer you keep this a non sexual relationship.The longer the romance,respect and ardor last
i wanna be with this guy for a long time.how can i make things exciting...keep him on his toes and wondering all the time.besides sex and all.what are some ways to flatter him or have him blushing.
let me know any advice would be great.
iam 19 and hes 22.Need Some Advice From Guys.(About my Bf)?
.Be advised,the longer you keep this a non sexual relationship.The longer the romance,respect and ardor last
I need advice from guys.?
my name's lauren. Im really oppinionated. If something bugs me, its pretty rare that i dont speak my mind to it's full content. I have something to say about everything and i talk alot...i dont think im very pretty, i have rather low self esteem, and i tend to point out ever beautiful girl i see... even though im straight. I dress like a girly girl... i rarely wear jeans... im usually in skirts and heels... but i can talk sports like a guy could, and i bet i can throw a football better than you. i snowboard, motorcycle, hike, camp, and cant keep my nails nice to save my life. i like to shop, as long as it doesnt take more than 2 hours. I have been on a football team, did karate for 3 years, and wrestled also..... most people say im funny and fun to be around, but sometimes i complain alot. Im usually happy but when im sad i hit a extreem low...would i be a turn off to you or a turn on/ would you date me??
this pic is me.... thanks for listening.
http://i32.tinypic.com/2jb16yp.jI need advice from guys.?
ur really pretty but try and not squint ur eyes, ur beautiful
please answer my question
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>I need advice from guys.?
I would love to meet you. The low self-esteem is a opportunity to discover your self worth. I may be able to assist.
give thanks.
Yip I would
yes i would..if was about 20-25 years younger
I wouldn't date you, but that doesn't mean all guys won't. I'm pretty sure you'll get responses from guys who would.
But, you gotta stand tall. Just by this observing this post, I believe you're having ';low-self esteem'; because you're thinking about what you don't have, ';i tend to point out ever beautiful girl i see'; is what you said. Be thankful for what you do have, that breeds confidence and attractiveness.
By the way, if you don't think you're pretty then why should anyone else believe you?
...something to think about.
id bang u anyday
How old are you? Are you not having luck with guys?
Assuming you aren't like a 45 year old dude in real life and that picture is real, I see kno reason why you shouldn't have guys all over you.
well im a girl but you are really pretty and you sound like a very interesting person
I love all that and im sure some guys do to but I think that we should meet and get to know each other contact me at DillonJ_37809@yahoo.com
if you leave all your activities and retrieve your femininity i will
To me there's almost no bigger turn-off than a girl who fakes an interest in sports and being ';one of the guys'; just to be accepted and liked.
You can't throw a football better than I can...and saying that you think you can isn't going to make me like you better.
I want to date a girl...not a guy.
We all get down on ourselves from time to time, its normal. You are a strikingly beautiful young girl. Until you see yourself that way not many others will. Do not worry about the other girls you see as beautiful. There is nothing you can do about others only you and how you see yourself. You sound like you have great confidence in yourself but see others as better. You probably will never be considered the most beautiful women in the world but then how many can say that. Still you are extremely attractive. If that's not good enough then perhaps you need to grow internally, your mind. You will be able to see much clearer when you accomplish that.
Try smiling as if you're about to laugh, either way you're beautiful!
idk
why do you think putting your pic on here relates to your question? you look drunk and slightly retarded sorry
this pic is me.... thanks for listening.
http://i32.tinypic.com/2jb16yp.jI need advice from guys.?
ur really pretty but try and not squint ur eyes, ur beautiful
please answer my question
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>I need advice from guys.?
I would love to meet you. The low self-esteem is a opportunity to discover your self worth. I may be able to assist.
give thanks.
Yip I would
yes i would..if was about 20-25 years younger
I wouldn't date you, but that doesn't mean all guys won't. I'm pretty sure you'll get responses from guys who would.
But, you gotta stand tall. Just by this observing this post, I believe you're having ';low-self esteem'; because you're thinking about what you don't have, ';i tend to point out ever beautiful girl i see'; is what you said. Be thankful for what you do have, that breeds confidence and attractiveness.
By the way, if you don't think you're pretty then why should anyone else believe you?
...something to think about.
id bang u anyday
How old are you? Are you not having luck with guys?
Assuming you aren't like a 45 year old dude in real life and that picture is real, I see kno reason why you shouldn't have guys all over you.
well im a girl but you are really pretty and you sound like a very interesting person
I love all that and im sure some guys do to but I think that we should meet and get to know each other contact me at DillonJ_37809@yahoo.com
if you leave all your activities and retrieve your femininity i will
To me there's almost no bigger turn-off than a girl who fakes an interest in sports and being ';one of the guys'; just to be accepted and liked.
You can't throw a football better than I can...and saying that you think you can isn't going to make me like you better.
I want to date a girl...not a guy.
We all get down on ourselves from time to time, its normal. You are a strikingly beautiful young girl. Until you see yourself that way not many others will. Do not worry about the other girls you see as beautiful. There is nothing you can do about others only you and how you see yourself. You sound like you have great confidence in yourself but see others as better. You probably will never be considered the most beautiful women in the world but then how many can say that. Still you are extremely attractive. If that's not good enough then perhaps you need to grow internally, your mind. You will be able to see much clearer when you accomplish that.
Try smiling as if you're about to laugh, either way you're beautiful!
idk
why do you think putting your pic on here relates to your question? you look drunk and slightly retarded sorry
I need advice bad guys?
ok here is the story. i was dating a girl for 2 yrs the past 6 months it was more like an on an off relationship till i stopped it because she kept changing moods and decisions she decided she wanted to go through a differetn life style, she literaly slept with alot of people guys and girls she was telling me she is tempted to sleep with anyone preety much. as u realize we cut communication completely a month later she gives me a call and tells me that she is pregnant and that the baby is mine what should i do i mean i am so confused.i mean it is true it could be mine but i dont want the baby.i want her to have an abortion this baby is not seed of love anymore she has done way too much to me in the past 6 months i am not sure i f i can marry her and raie this children the way it deserves it. we are both young and not ready for this.but she wants to keep it she says she says she is done with drugs and partying and sleeping arround but she has said that to me in the past. as wellI need advice bad guys?
trollI need advice bad guys?
Ok... breathe. First, support her the best you can and demand a paternity test when the child is born. Any judge will tell you the same because you say that she slept around. This baby could be yours... but it may not. Also, if she treated you this poorly, you do not need to be with her. You need to be civil with her and build a friendship for the benifit of the child. This does not mean that you need to stay with this girl and be unhappy the rest of your life. Now, here is the part you don't want to hear. If you are too young to have children... then you are too young to have sex. Seeing as how you felt you were old enough and strong enough to have sex, this child may be your burden to bare and you must do so if it is yours. Do not let her use pregnancy as a way to trap you into a relationship... but if this child is yours... then give that child all of your love... their blood is your blood.
trollI need advice bad guys?
Ok... breathe. First, support her the best you can and demand a paternity test when the child is born. Any judge will tell you the same because you say that she slept around. This baby could be yours... but it may not. Also, if she treated you this poorly, you do not need to be with her. You need to be civil with her and build a friendship for the benifit of the child. This does not mean that you need to stay with this girl and be unhappy the rest of your life. Now, here is the part you don't want to hear. If you are too young to have children... then you are too young to have sex. Seeing as how you felt you were old enough and strong enough to have sex, this child may be your burden to bare and you must do so if it is yours. Do not let her use pregnancy as a way to trap you into a relationship... but if this child is yours... then give that child all of your love... their blood is your blood.
I need advice on guys..?
When I was younger, a couple guys hurt me who were older than me..but for some reason I think that guys who are in their twenties and even thirties although I would never date a guy in their thirties, I find them to be quite attractive. I feel like most guys my age are immature and I just don't find them to be appealing to me in that way really. So the problem I'm having is, I have a fear of being alone with a guy in a room. I get nervous, then shaky and I know that it will take trust to feel comfortable because I have only ever felt comfortable with five guys at the most in my life time. But when guys want to hang out with me or meet up with me, I get this feeling of dread throughout my body and I feel kind of sick and almost like I'm depressed instantly..then I make up excuses to not see them. Even kissing! But I hate it so much because I want to hang out with guys but this constant fear I'm living in is tearing my social life apart..I HATE IT please help me %26lt;:*[ boys and girls!I need advice on guys..?
Whatever happened in your past is unfortunately there to stay. You may not be able to deal with the issues from your past, which is why it keeps you from enjoying the present. The pressure you feel may be the pressure to perform and put on a mask in front of others. If this is the case, you're not alone. Trust must be earned and tested...sometimes it's a long process. If you have someone close to you who you trust, I'd talk to them to let off some steam. If you don't have anyone you trust, write your feelings and fears down in a journal and put it in a special place that only you will know about. It's very normal to feel shy and awkward around the opposite sex, but to fear interaction with them may point to something deeper below the surface of your feelings. Good luck to you.
Whatever happened in your past is unfortunately there to stay. You may not be able to deal with the issues from your past, which is why it keeps you from enjoying the present. The pressure you feel may be the pressure to perform and put on a mask in front of others. If this is the case, you're not alone. Trust must be earned and tested...sometimes it's a long process. If you have someone close to you who you trust, I'd talk to them to let off some steam. If you don't have anyone you trust, write your feelings and fears down in a journal and put it in a special place that only you will know about. It's very normal to feel shy and awkward around the opposite sex, but to fear interaction with them may point to something deeper below the surface of your feelings. Good luck to you.
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