Well here's the thing...I'm a shy girl and he is a kinda preppy popular guy...i usually go for the punks but not this time. He isn't like other guys and i think that's why i like him so much. But we talk sometimes and he will come sit by me and he grabs my hand and we are holding hands and then we will flirt and stuff and he will touch my legs or my stomach or just be flirty but his friends hate me and think im crazy and psycho. But i asked him today if he still liked me and he said yes and then i told him that i liked him but then two hours later i was about to ask him out when he wouldn't talk to me... what the heck is going on here?
okay well do you guys think that i should approach him and if i do approach him what should i say. (i haven't asked him out yet) but I'm not sure how to act around him or what i should do... write him a note? talk to him? look at him? smile at him?? hmm im not sure. or should i ask him out? or what i need help badly....
thank you so muchMore advice please.... guys and girls?
talk to him deffinately. he is pretty gay to do that to you without a good reasonMore advice please.... guys and girls?
Is he shy? If so the might be it. One thing that easier said than done is to go up and ask him, are sit back and see what happens don't be to pushy and see how that does. It just dep. on the man. U can always ask him to the movies, and say just as friends to see how it goes.
i think he is using you but im not sure.
Talk to him ask him that if he likes you why don't you tell your friends to shutup and say I want to go out with you but you need to be yourself don't listen to your friends if there bringing you down but other then that I have never been in that situation good luck
Wow. Kind of like my story, but reversed roles. I play football and up until recently, I liked preppy girls, cheerleaders, as they were who I hung around with since 9th grade. Now, I'm bored of loud preppy girls and kind of like this one rebellious girl. She's wears minimal makeup, and she's still so pretty. She isn't like the ';Barbies'; I usually hang around with, and maybe that's why I like her. Problem is, as cocky as I am, this girl humbles me, and makes me feel insecure. She is into rocker type guys, and she has this rebellious attitude to go with it. And I'm afraid she isn't into athletes, that to her I'm some conceited jock who isn't worth her time. She is something totally new to me, out of my comfort zone, so I feel awkward around her. I feel stupid around her, and maybe the guy you like has the same problems that I'm having. You might be something new to him, and it might scare him like it does me. You should at least flirt with him alot more, to make him feel comfortable around you. Do not be shy around guys, because it only makes us feel awkward, because we feel like we're boring you or making you feel uncomfortable.
Tuesday, November 22, 2011
Any advice from guys/girls?
My boyfriend knows I want to wait with sex till Im married, but yesterday he told me his concerns! He said that ';what if it doesnt fit'; and what if i never want sex etc..... are these normal concerns for men? For me sex is very special and i want to share that with the man I marry, but he sees it otherwise...... any advice?? is it normal for a man to worry about if ';things will fit during sex'; ?? is that a reason to try it out before marriage? to me that doesnt sound like real love.. But then Im a woman and he is a guy, so I understand men maybe see that differently, if you guys loved a girl would you also worry about things like that? or is he not serious? Any honest advice from guys/girls would be great... thanks xAny advice from guys/girls?
I'm a girl and I would have the same concerns. If you are not sexually compatible with your husband, then your marriage is destined to go downhill or be miserable. Sex, without a doubt, plays a HUGE role in any relationship once it's present.Any advice from guys/girls?
Sounds likehe's trying to get his end away despite your wishes. Its unusual for couples to wait until after marriage now, the introduction of the pill in the early sixties saw to that. I think you'll find he either gets frustrated and wanders, or sticks with you. Either way, you'll find out his true feelings if you stick to your guns.
I've never heard a man worry about that to be honest, it sounds like he doesn't want to wait,
of course things will fit, it will hurt, but it'll be fine, and most men know that.
I'd talk to him about it, maybe he doesn't realise just how important this is to you ?
GW x x
He just wants sex from you. He's making it all up. we are all made to accomodate a man's penis. no matter how big or small. So dont fall for that. ask him if he's worried his penis is too small to satisfy you. Cause if not - then you are built like every other woman out there - and your body will be fine. (believe me, big is good, but but every man thinks he's big. and as i said - you're built to accomodate)
There is another question here - maybe you wont want to have sex all the time - thats a risk, but when you love someone, that shouldnt be what your relationship is focused on. so throw that concern out the window. We all have our own libidos.
If he doesnt back off, you're going to do something you regret - like have sex with him before marriage. So tell him once and for all - these are your standards. If he leaves, its for the best. Don't settle for sloppy seconds, go out there and get a first class man. xoxox.
Honestly speaking, Guys don't see things the same ways as gals. As for sex concern. Some guys feel insecure when they are rejected by their gal when it comes to sex. It does make them feel inferior. Guys want to make love to their love ones and not just have sex. If your guy starts not wanting to make love with you then that means he no longer has that kind of strong feel for you anymore. So you should be glad that he's worried about it. But the final decision lies with you as to have sex with him or not.
were born to fit, pherhaps because of the wait it's building a sense of susspenmse and opressureblue eyeshadow
I'm a girl and I would have the same concerns. If you are not sexually compatible with your husband, then your marriage is destined to go downhill or be miserable. Sex, without a doubt, plays a HUGE role in any relationship once it's present.Any advice from guys/girls?
Sounds likehe's trying to get his end away despite your wishes. Its unusual for couples to wait until after marriage now, the introduction of the pill in the early sixties saw to that. I think you'll find he either gets frustrated and wanders, or sticks with you. Either way, you'll find out his true feelings if you stick to your guns.
I've never heard a man worry about that to be honest, it sounds like he doesn't want to wait,
of course things will fit, it will hurt, but it'll be fine, and most men know that.
I'd talk to him about it, maybe he doesn't realise just how important this is to you ?
GW x x
He just wants sex from you. He's making it all up. we are all made to accomodate a man's penis. no matter how big or small. So dont fall for that. ask him if he's worried his penis is too small to satisfy you. Cause if not - then you are built like every other woman out there - and your body will be fine. (believe me, big is good, but but every man thinks he's big. and as i said - you're built to accomodate)
There is another question here - maybe you wont want to have sex all the time - thats a risk, but when you love someone, that shouldnt be what your relationship is focused on. so throw that concern out the window. We all have our own libidos.
If he doesnt back off, you're going to do something you regret - like have sex with him before marriage. So tell him once and for all - these are your standards. If he leaves, its for the best. Don't settle for sloppy seconds, go out there and get a first class man. xoxox.
Honestly speaking, Guys don't see things the same ways as gals. As for sex concern. Some guys feel insecure when they are rejected by their gal when it comes to sex. It does make them feel inferior. Guys want to make love to their love ones and not just have sex. If your guy starts not wanting to make love with you then that means he no longer has that kind of strong feel for you anymore. So you should be glad that he's worried about it. But the final decision lies with you as to have sex with him or not.
were born to fit, pherhaps because of the wait it's building a sense of susspenmse and opressure
Some advice about guys?
Ok, this guy that I don't know very well (just from my Bible study) has asked me out for this weekend. I said yes, as I figure it's an opportunity to get to know him, whatever. I don't really like him though.
There's this other kid I know who lives out of town who I've been talking with a bit, and I actually like him, and I think he likes me. Is it wrong of me to continue flirting with this guy if I have a date with a different guy this saturday? What if the guy I like asks me out?
I'm really new to this whole dating thing, in fact this weekend will be my first real date...so any input would be helpful. What is the guy expecting, you know?
Oh, and both of them are older than me (I'm 17). The guy I have a date with is 21, and the guy I like is 18. Both are in college. I thought my parents wouldn't want me to date someone four years older than me, but I guess they don't mind.Some advice about guys?
Hahaha if hes 21 and you are young and gaulable dont falll for the I love you trick or if you do at least wear protection and it is ok to flirt with another guy if you date just make sure the other guys knows there is another. But don't go on a date for whatever go on one because you want to. I am sure he will get over your rejection and go for a girl more his age.
There's this other kid I know who lives out of town who I've been talking with a bit, and I actually like him, and I think he likes me. Is it wrong of me to continue flirting with this guy if I have a date with a different guy this saturday? What if the guy I like asks me out?
I'm really new to this whole dating thing, in fact this weekend will be my first real date...so any input would be helpful. What is the guy expecting, you know?
Oh, and both of them are older than me (I'm 17). The guy I have a date with is 21, and the guy I like is 18. Both are in college. I thought my parents wouldn't want me to date someone four years older than me, but I guess they don't mind.Some advice about guys?
Hahaha if hes 21 and you are young and gaulable dont falll for the I love you trick or if you do at least wear protection and it is ok to flirt with another guy if you date just make sure the other guys knows there is another. But don't go on a date for whatever go on one because you want to. I am sure he will get over your rejection and go for a girl more his age.
Need advice please........... guys and girls..........?
So me and this guy were friends last yr then found out we liked each other and haven't talked alot since. He'll stare at me in the hallway and my best friend thought she would try to help the situation and talked to him. He said he didn't know what was wrong with him and left it at that. and I tried to talk to him as a friend and called him and he ignored my calls and later gave me a lame excuse. We haven't said much since. I am still trying to get over him. He has treated me badly by putting me through a whole lot of stress this whole year. Should I forget him or try and be friends again? Do you think he wants to be friends again? Sometimes he'll brush by my shoulder and is always looking at me when I'm not looking. he also talks really loud when i'm around.... opinions... pleaseNeed advice please........... guys and girls..........?
It's a little fishy that a guy would bolt after finding out that you both liked each other. I would think it would make you closer and not the other way around. If he's stressed you out and treated you badly, and has tossed aside your friendship, then what's the point in being friends? He sounds like he hasn't been a good friend thus far. Just go on with your life...whether he talks loudly when you're around or looks at you...he had his chance and pretty much blew it. You should find a guy who will stick around when he tells you that he likes you.Need advice please........... guys and girls..........?
Im somewhat in the the same situation. My opinion is that we are looking into things way to much. If he wants to be with you he will come to you. dont force it. I would try to get over it and if in that process he comes around and can show you some respect and tells you he wants to be with you then by all means go for it. but again until then i would try to get over him!!!
i need girl
It's a little fishy that a guy would bolt after finding out that you both liked each other. I would think it would make you closer and not the other way around. If he's stressed you out and treated you badly, and has tossed aside your friendship, then what's the point in being friends? He sounds like he hasn't been a good friend thus far. Just go on with your life...whether he talks loudly when you're around or looks at you...he had his chance and pretty much blew it. You should find a guy who will stick around when he tells you that he likes you.Need advice please........... guys and girls..........?
Im somewhat in the the same situation. My opinion is that we are looking into things way to much. If he wants to be with you he will come to you. dont force it. I would try to get over it and if in that process he comes around and can show you some respect and tells you he wants to be with you then by all means go for it. but again until then i would try to get over him!!!
i need girl
I need Advice on getting guys, im bi , by the way?
yeah i need help, because guys say i come alittle bit to strong on to them. so how can i come on to them but not strong. please helpI need Advice on getting guys, im bi , by the way?
well im bi too.....
ive had a few straight guys like me... its interesting. i find that having a girl with you helps them be more comfortable. I have a girl bf.... and usually ill tell them i think theyre hot and then never bring it up again and just be friends... maybe sometimes mention sexual things to tease them and then mix in drinks somewhere down the road and they will be all over you when no ones around. sadly, straight guys only wanna be with women....I need Advice on getting guys, im bi , by the way?
Define 'a little bit strong'.
In any case just flat out stating that you like guys and you have an interest in them is good enough. I don't see any reason why you should do any more and doing any less is just being coy.
Edit: Oh. I see. You're hitting on them. Some guys don't like that, even if they are gay or bi. Just like girls sometimes get offended when you're hitting on them. I think with guys, the straightforward approach is the best. Keep your compliments to yourself, because they probably are just making things awkward.
well im bi too.....
ive had a few straight guys like me... its interesting. i find that having a girl with you helps them be more comfortable. I have a girl bf.... and usually ill tell them i think theyre hot and then never bring it up again and just be friends... maybe sometimes mention sexual things to tease them and then mix in drinks somewhere down the road and they will be all over you when no ones around. sadly, straight guys only wanna be with women....I need Advice on getting guys, im bi , by the way?
Define 'a little bit strong'.
In any case just flat out stating that you like guys and you have an interest in them is good enough. I don't see any reason why you should do any more and doing any less is just being coy.
Edit: Oh. I see. You're hitting on them. Some guys don't like that, even if they are gay or bi. Just like girls sometimes get offended when you're hitting on them. I think with guys, the straightforward approach is the best. Keep your compliments to yourself, because they probably are just making things awkward.
Need advice on guys hair, PLEASE HELP?
I need help on how to get my haircut tomorrow. I really know nothing about styling and products so all help is appreciative. My hair is thinning alittle bit as well. I basically want something that will make me look more attractive.
this is my current hair for the past few years http://img509.imageshack.us/my.php?image=200708gettyvilla14ub9.jpg
Would a buzzcut be good? a female friend of mine is pushing for me to get one but I'm unsure. She thinks I would look real good if it was cut like it was a few summers ago (if not shorter in her opinion) http://img148.imageshack.us/my.php?image=200709labordayweekend64ps9.jpg
I'm quite sick/bored of how my hair looks. Any thoughts on what i should do? buzz, spikes, etc?
if you can, include pics or be specific. i want to have a good idea of what to tell the stylist. all adivce is greatly appreciatedNeed advice on guys hair, PLEASE HELP?
No offense...but you can see the receeding hair lines. I'd stick with your lady friend's advice and get a hair cut like the one in the second pic. Be sure not to cut off too much...it'll only make matters worse.
...If chosen to do so, take the second photograph with you to the stylist. This way they know exactly what you're meaning when you say how much to take off.Need advice on guys hair, PLEASE HELP?
Shave your head! Give the girl freind a........good time?
Hell it grows back so fast, you have nothing to lose.
this is my current hair for the past few years http://img509.imageshack.us/my.php?image=200708gettyvilla14ub9.jpg
Would a buzzcut be good? a female friend of mine is pushing for me to get one but I'm unsure. She thinks I would look real good if it was cut like it was a few summers ago (if not shorter in her opinion) http://img148.imageshack.us/my.php?image=200709labordayweekend64ps9.jpg
I'm quite sick/bored of how my hair looks. Any thoughts on what i should do? buzz, spikes, etc?
if you can, include pics or be specific. i want to have a good idea of what to tell the stylist. all adivce is greatly appreciatedNeed advice on guys hair, PLEASE HELP?
No offense...but you can see the receeding hair lines. I'd stick with your lady friend's advice and get a hair cut like the one in the second pic. Be sure not to cut off too much...it'll only make matters worse.
...If chosen to do so, take the second photograph with you to the stylist. This way they know exactly what you're meaning when you say how much to take off.Need advice on guys hair, PLEASE HELP?
Shave your head! Give the girl freind a........good time?
Hell it grows back so fast, you have nothing to lose.
FOR SINGLE GUYS (or guys with expert advice ;)?
Is it weird for a girl to ask out a guy? Is it less likely that you would stay in a relationship with a girl who asked YOU out?FOR SINGLE GUYS (or guys with expert advice ;)?
It makes no difference to the length of the relationship. Some guys would prefer the girl to ask him out, as they might be too shy to do it themselves. Why do all girls think the guys have to ask???FOR SINGLE GUYS (or guys with expert advice ;)?
It would be a welcome change of pace, takes the guess work out of it. I say sure why not?
i wish it happend more often DO IT
It makes no difference to the length of the relationship. Some guys would prefer the girl to ask him out, as they might be too shy to do it themselves. Why do all girls think the guys have to ask???FOR SINGLE GUYS (or guys with expert advice ;)?
It would be a welcome change of pace, takes the guess work out of it. I say sure why not?
i wish it happend more often DO IT
Bestfriend or more than that? need advice from guys and girlsss.?
i have liked my neighbor for a while, but the only thing is that we've been best friends since we were 4, and now were 15. even though were really good freinds we still flirt a lot, and everyone says we would make a really good couple, he has been the shoulder for me to cry on throughout my whole life. a few days ago, after school we were outside laying on his hammock together, and it was only about 45 out and we both were complaining that it was cold, and even though he was complaining about being cold, he gave me his sweatshirt to wear, we were just talking, like about whats gonna happen when we go to college and things like that, when he randomly said that he was tired of being single, and that he wanted to go out with someone, then he started naming people who he knew liked him, then asked me who i thought of the people, i just went along, but wth? im almost positive he knew i liked him, so y would he ask me about that? im soo confused, help me understand?Bestfriend or more than that? need advice from guys and girlsss.?
Wow... well sometimes guys do that just to get a reaction from you. They like to name other girls and stuff just to see what you will say or do because they themselves are wondering if you like them or not.
I think you should maybe drop him some more obvious clues because boys can be kinda slow sometimes LOL
hope it works out for you! :)Bestfriend or more than that? need advice from guys and girlsss.?
more than friends
if your feelings are more than friendship just tell him. get it over and done with now you do not need the heartache later.
Maybe he doesn't realize that you like him. Maybe he thinks its just a friendship. Boys can be blind to these things a lot, (trust me, I know). Tell him how you feel! Especially if he's single, you might be the perfect one to him. He already knows that he likes you, so there isnt that awkward first dates with nothing to talk about. just try it, and see what happens.
Honestly, I try to talk about people that are interested in me mainly to make myself more appealing.
I would say that maybe he is trying to make himself more appealing in order to impress you. If I am dating someone and someone else likes me, I am flattered, because I want my girlfriend to feel special for dating me.blue eyeshadow
Wow... well sometimes guys do that just to get a reaction from you. They like to name other girls and stuff just to see what you will say or do because they themselves are wondering if you like them or not.
I think you should maybe drop him some more obvious clues because boys can be kinda slow sometimes LOL
hope it works out for you! :)Bestfriend or more than that? need advice from guys and girlsss.?
more than friends
if your feelings are more than friendship just tell him. get it over and done with now you do not need the heartache later.
Maybe he doesn't realize that you like him. Maybe he thinks its just a friendship. Boys can be blind to these things a lot, (trust me, I know). Tell him how you feel! Especially if he's single, you might be the perfect one to him. He already knows that he likes you, so there isnt that awkward first dates with nothing to talk about. just try it, and see what happens.
Honestly, I try to talk about people that are interested in me mainly to make myself more appealing.
I would say that maybe he is trying to make himself more appealing in order to impress you. If I am dating someone and someone else likes me, I am flattered, because I want my girlfriend to feel special for dating me.
I need some help girls advice may be good but guys if you want you can to?
Okay so like i just got a girlfriend and i want help on how to be the best boyfriend ever: should i wear cologne what kind? etc...I need some help girls advice may be good but guys if you want you can to?
just smell good, you dont have to wear cologne. shower everyday. whear clean cloths.complement her every day. ok this is what my boyfriend does,..... he cals me beautiful everyday. when i ask him if i look pretty or nice he says no u look beautiful, he carries everything for me so i dont have to(not my purse, thats in my hands only, i dont want him to look foolish), but when were shopping, or going to the park he caries the food, he opens doors for me the car door, doors to the store, even to goinside our home. just simple, careing things... dont act jelouse, i hate when my bf does that. but dont act like u dont care, when another guy is checking out ur grl, dont figh just glare be like u better move ur eyes away or something. and dont have wandering eyes urself eather. and if she happens to have a wandering eye when someone cute comes by dont hasl her. just ignore it because shes with YOU, not him. okshe should think the same way too if u have a wandering eye.I need some help girls advice may be good but guys if you want you can to?
you don't really need to pick out new one to impress her. she became your gf before you were wearing cologne. however, as time goes on she may pick something out that she thinks will smell good on you. let her pick it! we know what we like!
Well then be yourself, if she doesn't like you for who you are then she's not for you. Wearing cologne doesn't help with being a bestboyfriend. Take her out, get her stuff, make her feel special.
be yourself! i used to like this guy the he started hanging out w/ my guy friends and he ignores me...little changes can cause big effects! write her little notes in class
just smell good, you dont have to wear cologne. shower everyday. whear clean cloths.complement her every day. ok this is what my boyfriend does,..... he cals me beautiful everyday. when i ask him if i look pretty or nice he says no u look beautiful, he carries everything for me so i dont have to(not my purse, thats in my hands only, i dont want him to look foolish), but when were shopping, or going to the park he caries the food, he opens doors for me the car door, doors to the store, even to goinside our home. just simple, careing things... dont act jelouse, i hate when my bf does that. but dont act like u dont care, when another guy is checking out ur grl, dont figh just glare be like u better move ur eyes away or something. and dont have wandering eyes urself eather. and if she happens to have a wandering eye when someone cute comes by dont hasl her. just ignore it because shes with YOU, not him. okshe should think the same way too if u have a wandering eye.I need some help girls advice may be good but guys if you want you can to?
you don't really need to pick out new one to impress her. she became your gf before you were wearing cologne. however, as time goes on she may pick something out that she thinks will smell good on you. let her pick it! we know what we like!
Well then be yourself, if she doesn't like you for who you are then she's not for you. Wearing cologne doesn't help with being a bestboyfriend. Take her out, get her stuff, make her feel special.
be yourself! i used to like this guy the he started hanging out w/ my guy friends and he ignores me...little changes can cause big effects! write her little notes in class
What should i do?? i need advice about guys?
Ok so i need help with guy stuff...i have 2 guys that like me..and i only like 1 of them so we both like each other SOOOOO MUCH like seriously we make each other incredibly happy. He's sweet smart cute amazing ya haha anyway he wants to go out with me and i wanna go out with him. I want to be with him:) but idk what to do bc the other guy who is a realllly good friend of mine i dont wanna lose his frienship but at the same time i wanna be with the other guy but i know if i were together my friend who's like in love with me will be reeaallly upset and may never talk to me again. What should i do?What should i do?? i need advice about guys?
if u really LOVE this guy go out with him if he makes u happy the other guy has to understand that u really likethe other and just want to be friends with him....try to talk to him and work things out:)
hoped i helped GOOD LUCK!!!!:P
if u really LOVE this guy go out with him if he makes u happy the other guy has to understand that u really likethe other and just want to be friends with him....try to talk to him and work things out:)
hoped i helped GOOD LUCK!!!!:P
Hey guys need some advice.?
I have been diagnosed with depression and i am taking meds. Why is it though that one minute i feel perfectly fine and the next i just feel really down, does anyone know?Hey guys need some advice.?
If you have been recently diagnosed and commenced on treatment this may be a significant factor. Anti-depressant therapy can take up to two to three weeks before an individual feels any benefit and it may just be a question of being patient. Response varies between individuals
Some symptoms may be residual, even with treatment so your medical practitioner could help by reviewing your treatment, possibly increasing the dose or even trying a different anti-depressant if felt appropriate. Depending on the cause (that is if there is an identifiable one) s/he may also explore with you the possibilities of psychological or behavioural therapies as an adjunct.
Another factor may be other stresses you may be experiencing in life, as often people do. These may significantly affect your mood, especially if you are feeling quite fragile. You may benefit from supportive independent counselling, perhaps you could explore this avenue yourself
Hope this helpsHey guys need some advice.?
Your not on your own. I have this problem all the time. Its a constant battle to stay positive. I'm sorry i don't have the answer. But you got to try and appreciate all the wonderfull things in your life and next time you feel down, just thing 'oh well, in a short time i'll feel fine again' and just fight through it without resorting to drugs or a cheeseburger.
You dont mention how long you've been on your medication? If you have only recently started taking them then they may not be working to their full potential yet. Some types of anti-depressants can take up to 8 weeks to work properly. If you've been on your medication for a long time you may need to go back to your doctor and ask for an increase in dose, or to try another anti-depressant. Some people have to try a few before finding one thats suited to them. Now Im on the right combination of medication, my mood is SO much more balanced and doesnt dip for no reason as much as it used to.
I think keeping yourself busy when you feel yourself getting low is important. I find going for a walk helps lift my mood, or I read or answer other people's questions on here.
i havent been diagnosed with depression by a doctor.
but people tell me i have it.
+ its really strange because right now
im happy.
but the slightest thing will get me in a mood.
then thats it im unhappy for a few days.
its just what happens
dont worry.
your not alone.
xxx
Could be that you need a mood stabiliser like Lithium which is geared more towards the bipolar side of depression and cuts out any mood swings.
No, not really just a typical symptom of depression i suppose - i feel the same sometimes. I sympathize with you ;( :)
Depression is hard to deal with. Your medicine should be helping tho, so I would contact your doctor and let him know what's up. He may need to adjust your dose or switch your medicine.
I guess it must be 'clinical' depression which is hard to cure but you WILL get better just try to stay calm. I hope you get better soon. Namaste
Be pro
yes - you are sad by some reason';
what happened?
go on a holiday or move to a different part of the county or world
It's to do with chemicals in your brain. Thats all I know. X
yes that would be normal paranoia, we all have that!
If you have been recently diagnosed and commenced on treatment this may be a significant factor. Anti-depressant therapy can take up to two to three weeks before an individual feels any benefit and it may just be a question of being patient. Response varies between individuals
Some symptoms may be residual, even with treatment so your medical practitioner could help by reviewing your treatment, possibly increasing the dose or even trying a different anti-depressant if felt appropriate. Depending on the cause (that is if there is an identifiable one) s/he may also explore with you the possibilities of psychological or behavioural therapies as an adjunct.
Another factor may be other stresses you may be experiencing in life, as often people do. These may significantly affect your mood, especially if you are feeling quite fragile. You may benefit from supportive independent counselling, perhaps you could explore this avenue yourself
Hope this helpsHey guys need some advice.?
Your not on your own. I have this problem all the time. Its a constant battle to stay positive. I'm sorry i don't have the answer. But you got to try and appreciate all the wonderfull things in your life and next time you feel down, just thing 'oh well, in a short time i'll feel fine again' and just fight through it without resorting to drugs or a cheeseburger.
You dont mention how long you've been on your medication? If you have only recently started taking them then they may not be working to their full potential yet. Some types of anti-depressants can take up to 8 weeks to work properly. If you've been on your medication for a long time you may need to go back to your doctor and ask for an increase in dose, or to try another anti-depressant. Some people have to try a few before finding one thats suited to them. Now Im on the right combination of medication, my mood is SO much more balanced and doesnt dip for no reason as much as it used to.
I think keeping yourself busy when you feel yourself getting low is important. I find going for a walk helps lift my mood, or I read or answer other people's questions on here.
i havent been diagnosed with depression by a doctor.
but people tell me i have it.
+ its really strange because right now
im happy.
but the slightest thing will get me in a mood.
then thats it im unhappy for a few days.
its just what happens
dont worry.
your not alone.
xxx
Could be that you need a mood stabiliser like Lithium which is geared more towards the bipolar side of depression and cuts out any mood swings.
No, not really just a typical symptom of depression i suppose - i feel the same sometimes. I sympathize with you ;( :)
Depression is hard to deal with. Your medicine should be helping tho, so I would contact your doctor and let him know what's up. He may need to adjust your dose or switch your medicine.
I guess it must be 'clinical' depression which is hard to cure but you WILL get better just try to stay calm. I hope you get better soon. Namaste
Be pro
yes - you are sad by some reason';
what happened?
go on a holiday or move to a different part of the county or world
It's to do with chemicals in your brain. Thats all I know. X
yes that would be normal paranoia, we all have that!
Im too insecure and i need advice from guys or girls?
im so insecure about my weight i feel so unattractive and i know its normal for guys to glance off at other girls but i freak out and want to cry when this happens i feel so stupid cuz i know my bf loves me and all but i feel like he deserves a skinny pretty chick not me...i let my weight get me down in our relationship and also if i think he is looking at other girls i make a big deal about it how can i fix thisIm too insecure and i need advice from guys or girls?
First of all, how old are you?
Most guys, of any age, tend to look at other girls unless you are in a serious relationship or he knows that his girlfriend is not okay with that. Let him know that he is important in your life, and he will tell you that you are important in his.
Don't feel unattractive! Just believe you are beautiful.
To make yourself feel better about your appearance, next time you go on a date with him:
1. Do up your hair
2. Wear some makeup
3. Put on something that you think makes yourself look great!
4. Feel beautiful and be confident!Im too insecure and i need advice from guys or girls?
I used to be JUST like this.
I'd be sad and felt like I didn't deserve him.
Girls are always looking at him and I felt like he deserved someone skinnier.
But I learned that if I felt so insecure, I had to do something about it instead of sitting there and crying.
I signed up for the gym and I feel so much better now.
I feel like i'm actually doing something to change it instead of moping.
People can talk about accepting your body how it is as much as they want, but if you're not happy do something about it.
If there's something you can do about it, why not?
Trust me, give it a try.
I feel so much better about myself now, I see past that because I know i'm working to get the body I want.
Try dressing up, go shopping, throw on some heels, put some make up on.
You'll see how beautiful you look and it'll encourage you to look even better.
I hope I helped sweetie, I know it's so frustrating to deal with that but it's time to take matters into your own hands and help yourself feel better.
I admit I glance off at other women too. My wife has made peace with that. To be fair, she has kind of a roving eye when it comes to geeky guys in their mid 20's I actaully think its kind of cute of her. But that's aside the point. If you feel that isecure, then I agree with the others. Hit the gym. You'll feel better because you're at least doing something about it. If you can afford it, why not try a makeover? I seldom come across a woman that doesn't feel better about herself after one of those. And above all, if he hasn't left, he thinks you're sexy. Carry that foremost in your mind.
always remember that you are beautiful, no matter how you feel. your boyfriend not only sees your outer beauty, but what is more important, your inner beauty. if you feel so insecure about your weight, start working out. go for a walk, do some sit ups, and other simple workouts. talk to a beautician about make up that will do the best for your face.
above all remember, your boyfriend and friends see beyond these insecurities and love yourself. nobody is perfect, but you must see beyond any imperfections you have, because you are a great person
You have got to learn to love yourself thats what its all about. Every man on earth weather single has a partner or married looks at other women its a man thing! Try some motivating things like gym or arobics classes or even pole dancing so you feel sexy again if you are feeling low about your weight. Your bf doesnt want anyone else he is with you loves you and comes home to you. as long as he is faithful dont worry about him looking at other women at least he is not touching a!
Amber, you need to learn to love who you are first of all.Me personally, I don't care for a toothpick in a woman. And we all deserve happiness and I'm sure you have a lot of that to offer. Insecuruty is hard to overcome, but I will tell you now you were made in Gods image and that makes you beautiful . If he is looking at other girls I would question why this is
First of all, he wouldn't date you if he didn't think you were good looking. As a guy, let me assure you, we're not that nice. He wants your body.
Second, stop comparing yourself to 'skinny chicks'.
Want to lose weight? Go lose 2 lbs. Repeat.
You've got your whole life ahead of you, you don't need to be skinny next week. Eat clean, exercise, it will take care of itself.
you know wat just get over the way dat u think.. i mean if ur a lil over weight it shouldnt matter if hes with you its for a reason it means he truly loves you... and if he wanted a skinny girl he wouldved been gone by now so relax if he looks at other girls its ok as long as hes not flirting or touchin itz all good
Instead of looking in the mirror saying the negative things about yourself, point out good things. Like, ';I really like my haircut,'; or ';I have such a cute nose.';
Paint your nails, cut your hair, and pick out a new outfit to make yourself feel cute and a little more attractive.
If you feel overweight, try walking once a day and maybe a few situps.
Hope I helped. :) Laura
the only easy answer is to lose weight.. I've been heavy all my life, and it doesn't get any easier... Start limiting the amount of junk food you consume . And it wouln't matter how thin you are, it is only human nature for a guy to look at other women.. I think if your weight bothered him he wouldn't be with you...
First: it's not a matter of weight
NEVER ever take into consideration what others think if u like what u r.
ur bf seems to like u but it's u who dont hav confidence . every body is pretty n i m sure u r . n i think that u hav much to offer throug ur personnality and ur just hidding that . but otherwise if U ( n only U) dont feel confortable with ur size u can always hav a diet.................gd luck :)
Start exercising if your that bothered about it. Nothing major, just short brisk walks, you'll loose weight, and you'll feel really better about yourself afterwards.
you'll get over it eventually. because you'll realize that it doesn't matter because your boyfriend (most probably) loves you.
well it depends on how much you weight and if it is above 150 and you are below 16 then it might be a problem. my friend just told me that
formulate a exercise routine for yourself. that will boost your confidence and give yourself a better appearance.
All I can tell you is what you said you know....it's okay. A good personality is far superior to good looks, contrary to public opinion...
im sure that your not that big because you have a boyfriend
and if you really feel that way why dont you try joining a gym?
Start working out and eating healthy. Never know how much better you will feel after working out!
How about start a running program?
your question is easy to answer... lose some friggan weight or stop complaining about it
if you dont like the way you look then change it. its all up to you
First of all, how old are you?
Most guys, of any age, tend to look at other girls unless you are in a serious relationship or he knows that his girlfriend is not okay with that. Let him know that he is important in your life, and he will tell you that you are important in his.
Don't feel unattractive! Just believe you are beautiful.
To make yourself feel better about your appearance, next time you go on a date with him:
1. Do up your hair
2. Wear some makeup
3. Put on something that you think makes yourself look great!
4. Feel beautiful and be confident!Im too insecure and i need advice from guys or girls?
I used to be JUST like this.
I'd be sad and felt like I didn't deserve him.
Girls are always looking at him and I felt like he deserved someone skinnier.
But I learned that if I felt so insecure, I had to do something about it instead of sitting there and crying.
I signed up for the gym and I feel so much better now.
I feel like i'm actually doing something to change it instead of moping.
People can talk about accepting your body how it is as much as they want, but if you're not happy do something about it.
If there's something you can do about it, why not?
Trust me, give it a try.
I feel so much better about myself now, I see past that because I know i'm working to get the body I want.
Try dressing up, go shopping, throw on some heels, put some make up on.
You'll see how beautiful you look and it'll encourage you to look even better.
I hope I helped sweetie, I know it's so frustrating to deal with that but it's time to take matters into your own hands and help yourself feel better.
I admit I glance off at other women too. My wife has made peace with that. To be fair, she has kind of a roving eye when it comes to geeky guys in their mid 20's I actaully think its kind of cute of her. But that's aside the point. If you feel that isecure, then I agree with the others. Hit the gym. You'll feel better because you're at least doing something about it. If you can afford it, why not try a makeover? I seldom come across a woman that doesn't feel better about herself after one of those. And above all, if he hasn't left, he thinks you're sexy. Carry that foremost in your mind.
always remember that you are beautiful, no matter how you feel. your boyfriend not only sees your outer beauty, but what is more important, your inner beauty. if you feel so insecure about your weight, start working out. go for a walk, do some sit ups, and other simple workouts. talk to a beautician about make up that will do the best for your face.
above all remember, your boyfriend and friends see beyond these insecurities and love yourself. nobody is perfect, but you must see beyond any imperfections you have, because you are a great person
You have got to learn to love yourself thats what its all about. Every man on earth weather single has a partner or married looks at other women its a man thing! Try some motivating things like gym or arobics classes or even pole dancing so you feel sexy again if you are feeling low about your weight. Your bf doesnt want anyone else he is with you loves you and comes home to you. as long as he is faithful dont worry about him looking at other women at least he is not touching a!
Amber, you need to learn to love who you are first of all.Me personally, I don't care for a toothpick in a woman. And we all deserve happiness and I'm sure you have a lot of that to offer. Insecuruty is hard to overcome, but I will tell you now you were made in Gods image and that makes you beautiful . If he is looking at other girls I would question why this is
First of all, he wouldn't date you if he didn't think you were good looking. As a guy, let me assure you, we're not that nice. He wants your body.
Second, stop comparing yourself to 'skinny chicks'.
Want to lose weight? Go lose 2 lbs. Repeat.
You've got your whole life ahead of you, you don't need to be skinny next week. Eat clean, exercise, it will take care of itself.
you know wat just get over the way dat u think.. i mean if ur a lil over weight it shouldnt matter if hes with you its for a reason it means he truly loves you... and if he wanted a skinny girl he wouldved been gone by now so relax if he looks at other girls its ok as long as hes not flirting or touchin itz all good
Instead of looking in the mirror saying the negative things about yourself, point out good things. Like, ';I really like my haircut,'; or ';I have such a cute nose.';
Paint your nails, cut your hair, and pick out a new outfit to make yourself feel cute and a little more attractive.
If you feel overweight, try walking once a day and maybe a few situps.
Hope I helped. :) Laura
the only easy answer is to lose weight.. I've been heavy all my life, and it doesn't get any easier... Start limiting the amount of junk food you consume . And it wouln't matter how thin you are, it is only human nature for a guy to look at other women.. I think if your weight bothered him he wouldn't be with you...
First: it's not a matter of weight
NEVER ever take into consideration what others think if u like what u r.
ur bf seems to like u but it's u who dont hav confidence . every body is pretty n i m sure u r . n i think that u hav much to offer throug ur personnality and ur just hidding that . but otherwise if U ( n only U) dont feel confortable with ur size u can always hav a diet.................gd luck :)
Start exercising if your that bothered about it. Nothing major, just short brisk walks, you'll loose weight, and you'll feel really better about yourself afterwards.
you'll get over it eventually. because you'll realize that it doesn't matter because your boyfriend (most probably) loves you.
well it depends on how much you weight and if it is above 150 and you are below 16 then it might be a problem. my friend just told me that
formulate a exercise routine for yourself. that will boost your confidence and give yourself a better appearance.
All I can tell you is what you said you know....it's okay. A good personality is far superior to good looks, contrary to public opinion...
im sure that your not that big because you have a boyfriend
and if you really feel that way why dont you try joining a gym?
Start working out and eating healthy. Never know how much better you will feel after working out!
How about start a running program?
your question is easy to answer... lose some friggan weight or stop complaining about it
if you dont like the way you look then change it. its all up to you
For guys...? i need advice?
theres a dance coming up and this guy i like is going to be there. how do guys prefer being asked to dance? like, do i ask him to go with me a couple days before, or do i wait and ask him at the dance? any extra help would be greatly appreciatedFor guys...? i need advice?
Start a CASUAL conversation, a couple days to a week before. Tell him you're considering going, STOP, WAIT FOR HIM TO SPEAK!..........
If he's considering, maybe the two of you should consider going together.
If he's not, suggest he may want to consider, because you'd definitely go with him
Schmooze.........that whole female thing
LuckFor guys...? i need advice?
balance your time.. wait a little bit for him to ask you to be his partner.. but, if you feel that your losing your time, %26amp; he still he didn't approached you, it's your time to do the job! :) good luck. :)
When i went to my second Senior prom in 88, I was asked then by my date. I was coming home from Bootcamp and she was a friend of the family. It was a little weird but we had a great time and to this day we are still good friends. Just last week i was having dinner with a friend when a waitress at the resturaunt asked me out. She was nervous and i was flattered we went to a movie and then to Karoke. Its 2007....womens liberation is totally IN.... GO FOR IT! ASAP
I think you should ask him to dance w/ u at the dance... Because, what if he have other girls in mind? So, just wait and see at the dance and if he's alone go talk to him... things might sparkle that nite, if not.. move on..
go up to him and tell him that you and him got the next song... seriously confidence is such a turn on for us guys...
if you just want to dance with the guy, wait to the dance. you might make his day. but if he is with someone he asked to the dance he might have to turn you down, so as not to offend his date. but if you want to be with the guy. ask him before hand. but be careful. his head might swell up on you, and you don,t want that. you just has well through ya self across the bed and say come on. just let him know in little ways that you want him to take you to the dance if he don,t pike up on it. start checking out his best Friend. HAY! he might be a better catch anyway.
Start a CASUAL conversation, a couple days to a week before. Tell him you're considering going, STOP, WAIT FOR HIM TO SPEAK!..........
If he's considering, maybe the two of you should consider going together.
If he's not, suggest he may want to consider, because you'd definitely go with him
Schmooze.........that whole female thing
LuckFor guys...? i need advice?
balance your time.. wait a little bit for him to ask you to be his partner.. but, if you feel that your losing your time, %26amp; he still he didn't approached you, it's your time to do the job! :) good luck. :)
When i went to my second Senior prom in 88, I was asked then by my date. I was coming home from Bootcamp and she was a friend of the family. It was a little weird but we had a great time and to this day we are still good friends. Just last week i was having dinner with a friend when a waitress at the resturaunt asked me out. She was nervous and i was flattered we went to a movie and then to Karoke. Its 2007....womens liberation is totally IN.... GO FOR IT! ASAP
I think you should ask him to dance w/ u at the dance... Because, what if he have other girls in mind? So, just wait and see at the dance and if he's alone go talk to him... things might sparkle that nite, if not.. move on..
go up to him and tell him that you and him got the next song... seriously confidence is such a turn on for us guys...
if you just want to dance with the guy, wait to the dance. you might make his day. but if he is with someone he asked to the dance he might have to turn you down, so as not to offend his date. but if you want to be with the guy. ask him before hand. but be careful. his head might swell up on you, and you don,t want that. you just has well through ya self across the bed and say come on. just let him know in little ways that you want him to take you to the dance if he don,t pike up on it. start checking out his best Friend. HAY! he might be a better catch anyway.
I like this guy but i have never had a boyfriend help me (i really need advice from guys)!!!!?
i am a tomboy and well i like this guy and i kinda think he likes me wich is weird because he is poular and has all sorts of barbie doll girls around him all day and well i am not a barbie doll girl at all. do guys like tomboys who ain't afraid to run around bare foot play tackle foot ball in the mud mud bog and stuff like that like would they date one or just cansider me one of the dudes ???? should i become more girly no matter how much it hurts ??????I like this guy but i have never had a boyfriend help me (i really need advice from guys)!!!!?
I'm not a guy but can give you even better advice than one of them will. They'll just tell you what you want to hear. He just wants the points, hun.
Don't know how old you are, but yes, you are gonna have to eventually give up your tomboy ways if you want to be taken seriously by boys. (Of course, the ones you don't really care to date may still come after you, regardless). But most guys will consider you just one of the boys and take a buddy-buddy approach with you. You really need to understand.... you're not a boy; you're a GIRL. Act like one, hon. Btw, when a girl stops being a tomboy and enjoys being a girl.... she becomes very popular (IF she can get beyond being pals with a guy). However, the boys you used to pal around with, will continue to see you as a tomboy. Sorry.
I used to be a tomboy.I like this guy but i have never had a boyfriend help me (i really need advice from guys)!!!!?
maybe he does like u, just coz hes surrounded by barbie doll gals doesnt mean he likes their personalities. give it a shot! what have u got to loose? good luck
no!! dont change for some random guy! even if you have the biggest crush on him...probably he is really shallow anyways if he hangs out with those barbie girls. allways be yourself there are probably tons of guys that would like you
he is probably sick of the stupid barbie doll girls that run around him all the time. which is why he is attracted to you- someone who can hang with the guys and not just put on makeup and look pretty. whatever you choose to do, dont change the way you are- theres a reason he was attracted to you in the first place
:)
As long as you dont dress like a boy, unless your playing a sport then idk wat u weir
I have two words for you..................spell check
You sound like a honey to me girl.
guys dont mind tomboys, i say stay yourself and see how it goes if you thinks your one of the dudes then sorry, but if he likes you too, then i think you should try it out, if he says no then thats it no more harm, dont be worried :)
if he is a good kid he should either say ';yes'; or ';no'; stupid kids go ';ewww get away'; and stuff, but im sure he wont, if he liked you too.
i hope it goes well, good luck :)
ppkoo7- 2 words.. no need!blue eyeshadow
I'm not a guy but can give you even better advice than one of them will. They'll just tell you what you want to hear. He just wants the points, hun.
Don't know how old you are, but yes, you are gonna have to eventually give up your tomboy ways if you want to be taken seriously by boys. (Of course, the ones you don't really care to date may still come after you, regardless). But most guys will consider you just one of the boys and take a buddy-buddy approach with you. You really need to understand.... you're not a boy; you're a GIRL. Act like one, hon. Btw, when a girl stops being a tomboy and enjoys being a girl.... she becomes very popular (IF she can get beyond being pals with a guy). However, the boys you used to pal around with, will continue to see you as a tomboy. Sorry.
I used to be a tomboy.I like this guy but i have never had a boyfriend help me (i really need advice from guys)!!!!?
maybe he does like u, just coz hes surrounded by barbie doll gals doesnt mean he likes their personalities. give it a shot! what have u got to loose? good luck
no!! dont change for some random guy! even if you have the biggest crush on him...probably he is really shallow anyways if he hangs out with those barbie girls. allways be yourself there are probably tons of guys that would like you
he is probably sick of the stupid barbie doll girls that run around him all the time. which is why he is attracted to you- someone who can hang with the guys and not just put on makeup and look pretty. whatever you choose to do, dont change the way you are- theres a reason he was attracted to you in the first place
:)
As long as you dont dress like a boy, unless your playing a sport then idk wat u weir
I have two words for you..................spell check
You sound like a honey to me girl.
guys dont mind tomboys, i say stay yourself and see how it goes if you thinks your one of the dudes then sorry, but if he likes you too, then i think you should try it out, if he says no then thats it no more harm, dont be worried :)
if he is a good kid he should either say ';yes'; or ';no'; stupid kids go ';ewww get away'; and stuff, but im sure he wont, if he liked you too.
i hope it goes well, good luck :)
ppkoo7- 2 words.. no need!
Should i ruin her reputation? plz advice from guys and girls PLZ!!?
ok, last year i was involved in an affair with a married woman (i know it was wrong, she did instergate everything).. and i stupidly fell for her (she is the only child from a rich italian family, was married to a rich doctor, %26amp; is 30 - i'm 24), we remained best friends (so i thought) after it happened, until she got a new job at an upper class clothing store %26amp; started to distance herself from me, like changing her fone number %26amp; saying she didnt want me to have her new number (but still insiting we were ';friends';) i felt very hurt %26amp; went overseas for a month to get over it..the day before i was supposed to come back, she emailed me saying she was getting a divorce.. when i came back i asked her if she was seeing anyone (yep, i was still in love with her) and she said ';no, but i don't want you'; again i was heartbroken, %26amp; i emailed her saying i felt used and she was self-centered, she replied with very vicious emails calling me a no hope freak who she never gave a **** aboutShould i ruin her reputation? plz advice from guys and girls PLZ!!?
Ah, my good man. Look at the other side. She's divorced, had two men, THIRTY YEARS OLD (I don't care if she has the package - she's thirty!), and you're single and still young!
Just walk on by. Forget her. She's one of those type of person who is not very environmental friendly - she uses and she throws away. In her mind, I bet you she must have been thought you nothing more than a scratching post. And now that she is divorced, that means she can leave and set her goals higher.
Heck, she even said you are a no-hope freak. I guessed she was not thinking of that when you were very, very, 'cozy' with each other. But remember one thing. Words can only hurt so much. You do what every other survivor has done: live through this. Stop all communications. If you have some mementos from your time together, sell it off or just give them away. Get a good job. Educate yourself, if your current education level is unsatisfactory. Wash her off yourself.
I'm not saying she will run back to you someday, but for the time being, it's time for you to become the main character in you own movie.
Edit:
By the way, you have to do nothing to ruin her reputation. She will become her own ruin.Should i ruin her reputation? plz advice from guys and girls PLZ!!?
It sounds to me like she has a lot of soul searching to do. She's the type of woman that has always had everything in life she ever wanted (men, money, clothes, cars). So it's easy for her to become unattached to anyone because she's never really felt like she was ever really loved by anyone, much less herself.
If I where you, I would let her go. Close that chapter in your book of life, learn from the lessons you've receive when dealing with her and keep moving. Trust me, what goes around comes around and she'll get hers soon or later.
People like her wonder aimlessly through life hoping to find what it is in that special someone they're looking for, only to realize that they had it right in front of them all along. She probably didn't even want to get married to her husband, but she only did it because he was successful.
You're young, and I'm sure handsome, you have your whole life ahead of you to meet plenty of other young, single, and attractive women. And it's not always about the looks, it's more about the character of the woman you chose to spend your time with.
And next time, don't hook up with someone who already has some one. Because in the end, you are left holding the short end of the stick. She didn't love her husband enough to stay faithful, so she sure as hell wasn't going to love you. She probably doesn't love her self either.
Like I've told many other people here, let go, and let god.
What goes around comes around and karma is a mother@$%^%26amp;*.
Why would you do that? Worry about your own life, don't be evil... you will be judged later.
Just move on, stop dwelling on the past....It has been a while, and I think that you should just let it go!
um, you are both guilty of adultery, so why is it that her reputation is the only one that could be tarnished?
learn your lesson about getting involved with married people, forget about her, and move on. don't bother trying to stay friends. she's probably avoiding you because she feels guilty about cheating on her husband, and doesn't want any reminders.
Why waste your time. You're in love with a fake brat. And she's obviously unloyal if she had an affair with YOU. Who's to say she wouldn't do it again.
ruin her reputation? why bother? a snake like her doesn't deserve any more attantion, get someone who will love you. keep in mind you intruded a marriage and now are paying for it. don't do it next time. she wasn't faitful to her husband she will never be faitful to anyone
Ah, my good man. Look at the other side. She's divorced, had two men, THIRTY YEARS OLD (I don't care if she has the package - she's thirty!), and you're single and still young!
Just walk on by. Forget her. She's one of those type of person who is not very environmental friendly - she uses and she throws away. In her mind, I bet you she must have been thought you nothing more than a scratching post. And now that she is divorced, that means she can leave and set her goals higher.
Heck, she even said you are a no-hope freak. I guessed she was not thinking of that when you were very, very, 'cozy' with each other. But remember one thing. Words can only hurt so much. You do what every other survivor has done: live through this. Stop all communications. If you have some mementos from your time together, sell it off or just give them away. Get a good job. Educate yourself, if your current education level is unsatisfactory. Wash her off yourself.
I'm not saying she will run back to you someday, but for the time being, it's time for you to become the main character in you own movie.
Edit:
By the way, you have to do nothing to ruin her reputation. She will become her own ruin.Should i ruin her reputation? plz advice from guys and girls PLZ!!?
It sounds to me like she has a lot of soul searching to do. She's the type of woman that has always had everything in life she ever wanted (men, money, clothes, cars). So it's easy for her to become unattached to anyone because she's never really felt like she was ever really loved by anyone, much less herself.
If I where you, I would let her go. Close that chapter in your book of life, learn from the lessons you've receive when dealing with her and keep moving. Trust me, what goes around comes around and she'll get hers soon or later.
People like her wonder aimlessly through life hoping to find what it is in that special someone they're looking for, only to realize that they had it right in front of them all along. She probably didn't even want to get married to her husband, but she only did it because he was successful.
You're young, and I'm sure handsome, you have your whole life ahead of you to meet plenty of other young, single, and attractive women. And it's not always about the looks, it's more about the character of the woman you chose to spend your time with.
And next time, don't hook up with someone who already has some one. Because in the end, you are left holding the short end of the stick. She didn't love her husband enough to stay faithful, so she sure as hell wasn't going to love you. She probably doesn't love her self either.
Like I've told many other people here, let go, and let god.
What goes around comes around and karma is a mother@$%^%26amp;*.
Why would you do that? Worry about your own life, don't be evil... you will be judged later.
Just move on, stop dwelling on the past....It has been a while, and I think that you should just let it go!
um, you are both guilty of adultery, so why is it that her reputation is the only one that could be tarnished?
learn your lesson about getting involved with married people, forget about her, and move on. don't bother trying to stay friends. she's probably avoiding you because she feels guilty about cheating on her husband, and doesn't want any reminders.
Why waste your time. You're in love with a fake brat. And she's obviously unloyal if she had an affair with YOU. Who's to say she wouldn't do it again.
ruin her reputation? why bother? a snake like her doesn't deserve any more attantion, get someone who will love you. keep in mind you intruded a marriage and now are paying for it. don't do it next time. she wasn't faitful to her husband she will never be faitful to anyone
Plz help me ex boyfriend problems like alwayz please helppppp me i need good advice from guys and gurls?
me and him was going out for almost 2 years we be split for 7 - 8 months now . we both still talk to each other everyday as friendz we both still love each other but he tells me he ain't gonna neva love me the way he did b4 . he don't have a gurl and i don't have a man but he thinkz it i love him and i want to wrokf thingz out but he don't want to . well today he got upset for no reason and started sayin that he is tired of me and that he don't want to talk to me but me im use to it because that how we alwayz was. me i be acted like if i don't want him but i do lol . its like we faded away and we was so close well i told him that we need to end this face to face because we broke up ova the phone . i seend him 2 weeks ago in my cuzin baby shower we talk as friendz and thatz it but i want to go to his crib and end everything rite there but he don't want me to go to his house for sh!t he sayz he don't wan to see me. last week he had told me it was because he might get attached to me againPlz help me ex boyfriend problems like alwayz please helppppp me i need good advice from guys and gurls?
The very best I can give you is let go, move on and stay away. There is nothing left in this history for you. I know its hard but you wont ever find the right person hanging onto a dream.Plz help me ex boyfriend problems like alwayz please helppppp me i need good advice from guys and gurls?
get rid of him if he's talking to u like that. theres obviously a reason to why he's acting like that. either you did something wrong n ur not adding it in ur question to make him seem like the bad guy, or he did something wrong n he's taking it all out on u. there's plenty of better men. don't waste your time on a punk like that. look out for yourself
i speak from experance i just split from my girl and she wants me back every body i go out with says that because theyfeel like they cant get any body out ther and they are scarde just open your eyes girl and just look at the big world that is spinnig in front of us yes it hurts because u think about that person every day like i do but i know im agood person and i cant love until i love my self lol c
It is abundantly clear by his words and actions that you really don't need him. I don't know why you even had to ask. This guy is nothing but bad news, and I quote you, ';well today he got upset for no reason and started sayin that he is tired of me and that he don't want to talk to me but me im use to it because that how we alwayz was.'; ??????? What? Did I hear you correctly!? He's Always like that?... Uhaha, do I really need to say anymore?
Don't waist your time ... move on and just let him wonder ';What If'; ... you move on and be happy ... let him have the regrets over missing the oportunity to repair the relationship. Be true to your self .... don't chase a broken one ... Buy New !!
let him go. sounds like you can do alot better!
Get a life and move on girl. No ones with that sorta trouble.
walk away.it will hurt,but in the long run..5 years from now you wont even renember it
sounds like the sex is good,but there's no attachment,girl you need to find you a prince ,like you deserve
What?
couldnt really tell you, i am having men trouble too
Translation:
I am so messed up that I forgot how to speak or write in English. I have also completely forsaken any attempt at spelling. Does this mean that I want my ex boyfriend back. He thinks I'm perfect and I know that he really wants be back, but I am going to string him along until I learn how to speak correctly or hell freezes over. I'm not sure which.
Answer:
Stop using each other as an excuse not to move on with your life and move on with your life.
LEAVEN HIM FIND SOMEONE ELSE
You don't deserve to be on his pendelum. Jump off and find another!!
The very best I can give you is let go, move on and stay away. There is nothing left in this history for you. I know its hard but you wont ever find the right person hanging onto a dream.Plz help me ex boyfriend problems like alwayz please helppppp me i need good advice from guys and gurls?
get rid of him if he's talking to u like that. theres obviously a reason to why he's acting like that. either you did something wrong n ur not adding it in ur question to make him seem like the bad guy, or he did something wrong n he's taking it all out on u. there's plenty of better men. don't waste your time on a punk like that. look out for yourself
i speak from experance i just split from my girl and she wants me back every body i go out with says that because theyfeel like they cant get any body out ther and they are scarde just open your eyes girl and just look at the big world that is spinnig in front of us yes it hurts because u think about that person every day like i do but i know im agood person and i cant love until i love my self lol c
It is abundantly clear by his words and actions that you really don't need him. I don't know why you even had to ask. This guy is nothing but bad news, and I quote you, ';well today he got upset for no reason and started sayin that he is tired of me and that he don't want to talk to me but me im use to it because that how we alwayz was.'; ??????? What? Did I hear you correctly!? He's Always like that?... Uhaha, do I really need to say anymore?
Don't waist your time ... move on and just let him wonder ';What If'; ... you move on and be happy ... let him have the regrets over missing the oportunity to repair the relationship. Be true to your self .... don't chase a broken one ... Buy New !!
let him go. sounds like you can do alot better!
Get a life and move on girl. No ones with that sorta trouble.
walk away.it will hurt,but in the long run..5 years from now you wont even renember it
sounds like the sex is good,but there's no attachment,girl you need to find you a prince ,like you deserve
What?
couldnt really tell you, i am having men trouble too
Translation:
I am so messed up that I forgot how to speak or write in English. I have also completely forsaken any attempt at spelling. Does this mean that I want my ex boyfriend back. He thinks I'm perfect and I know that he really wants be back, but I am going to string him along until I learn how to speak correctly or hell freezes over. I'm not sure which.
Answer:
Stop using each other as an excuse not to move on with your life and move on with your life.
LEAVEN HIM FIND SOMEONE ELSE
You don't deserve to be on his pendelum. Jump off and find another!!
How should I act towards him? Advice.. especially guys'.. is appreciated! :) ?
Hello everyone! I'm a senior in high school, and I've gotten to be really good friends with this guy. We live about an hour away from each other and go to different schools, but we hang out when we can and talk a lot. A couple months ago, he told some mutual friends that he does like me. He used to text me constantly. One week he was really busy and kind of stopped texting me as much, so I started texting him. Now I think we're kind of in this nasty cycle where he just kinda waits for me to text him. He's incredibly involved with his soccer team, and they're about to go to the state championship game. I know good and well his mind i 100% consumed with this at the moment, and that's understandable. The other day I got super mad at him for no good reason, and I apologized soon after because I felt so bad. Now I just feel dumb. He said it was fine, and he is always so nice to me about things. But now I just feel dumb. I don't like text him first (but when I do, he talks just like we always do, so it's not like I'm bugging him). I want to have a good balance of not being too available and looking clingy, but still acting like a good friend (cause technically, that's all we are.) So what should I do? Completely quit talking to him until he talks to me first? Talk to him some, but cool it down a bit? Could you give me some advice on how I should be acting? Thanks :) How should I act towards him? Advice.. especially guys'.. is appreciated! :) ?
stop texting for about a week, and then if he still doesn't talk to you, text him.
and i think you and some friends should go to his games and cheer him on. that would be way sweet to do!How should I act towards him? Advice.. especially guys'.. is appreciated! :) ?
Hmmmm i see what u mean if i were you i would ask him out.
Whenever two people are attracted to each other, there's always the inner thoughts of being too available or appearing clingy. I think this guy should really make a move or something. Maybe he's feeling the same way and is waiting on you.
Either way, you can't be too available, but I don't think there's anything wrong in calling a guy first. Someone has to make the first move here. Maybe invite him to watch a movie at your house and go from there.
i stopped reading after sentence 4 =_=
omg lol this sounds exactly like my problem. except im dating him now but hes super involved in his soccer team and hardly texts. i also live about an hour and a half away from him and only see him on weekends [i live in fort wayne, he lives in indianapolis, indiana.]
the way i deal with it is by being understanding.
okay yeah, soccer is super time consuming and tireing.
just know that hell text you when he can.
if thats not the case, call him and actually talk.
tell him how you feel,
if you want a realtionship, tell him that..
see what he says.
if he just wants you as a fling, and youre okay with that, then alright. but if youre not, kick him to the curb.
hes not worth it.
i know that may be hard to do, i truly do, but distance yourself and it will be easier.
stop texting for about a week, and then if he still doesn't talk to you, text him.
and i think you and some friends should go to his games and cheer him on. that would be way sweet to do!How should I act towards him? Advice.. especially guys'.. is appreciated! :) ?
Hmmmm i see what u mean if i were you i would ask him out.
Whenever two people are attracted to each other, there's always the inner thoughts of being too available or appearing clingy. I think this guy should really make a move or something. Maybe he's feeling the same way and is waiting on you.
Either way, you can't be too available, but I don't think there's anything wrong in calling a guy first. Someone has to make the first move here. Maybe invite him to watch a movie at your house and go from there.
i stopped reading after sentence 4 =_=
omg lol this sounds exactly like my problem. except im dating him now but hes super involved in his soccer team and hardly texts. i also live about an hour and a half away from him and only see him on weekends [i live in fort wayne, he lives in indianapolis, indiana.]
the way i deal with it is by being understanding.
okay yeah, soccer is super time consuming and tireing.
just know that hell text you when he can.
if thats not the case, call him and actually talk.
tell him how you feel,
if you want a realtionship, tell him that..
see what he says.
if he just wants you as a fling, and youre okay with that, then alright. but if youre not, kick him to the curb.
hes not worth it.
i know that may be hard to do, i truly do, but distance yourself and it will be easier.
I need advice from guys..?
Im a very impatient girl, if im texting a guy, or anyone for that matter, and we are having a good convo then they suddenly stop talking, it irritates me, and i text thema couple more times before giving up. i also tend to tell a guy when i like him, i hate mind games. but lately i ahve been finding im just scaring guys away, im not weird about it or anything, i guess im just too straight forward? are there any guys that dont mind girls like me? guys that ARENT the same, cuz i cant stand guys like that.I need advice from guys..?
maybe something happened and they needed to stop doing what they were doing... :DI need advice from guys..?
maybe he's over the txt msg limit!
I don't mind girls like that, but cut the guys a break for the texting thing, the reason they do it is because if you say bye, tehn the other person says bye back, and usually that stops the texting until one of you starts it back. If you leave a message and wait for him to answer, then you can just start where you left off.
About the text thing sometimes i don't feel my fone vibrate so i don't answer a text for a long time or i am busy an can't text. thell answer eventually. It makes guys feel nice even if they don't show it if they no a girl likes them.
maybe something happened and they needed to stop doing what they were doing... :DI need advice from guys..?
maybe he's over the txt msg limit!
I don't mind girls like that, but cut the guys a break for the texting thing, the reason they do it is because if you say bye, tehn the other person says bye back, and usually that stops the texting until one of you starts it back. If you leave a message and wait for him to answer, then you can just start where you left off.
About the text thing sometimes i don't feel my fone vibrate so i don't answer a text for a long time or i am busy an can't text. thell answer eventually. It makes guys feel nice even if they don't show it if they no a girl likes them.
I need advice from guys.?
I am dating a guy for almost 2 years. We had sex several times.But he said in one of our conversations on the phone that he just love me as a friend and nothing more than that. Got hurt coz I love him so much and he knew about how I feel. What shoul I do?help. thanks..I need advice from guys.?
Get out from him right now. Don't ever ever talk to him, Period!!!No more second thought please.Without your knowing he uses you as a sex toy. 2 years...2 years...imagine that you've been fooled. Knowing your deeply inlove to him he took advantage of your weakness. ah! can't blame you my dear.Love is blind. This time open your eyes. Console your self and don't think you were a loser. Walk high head. Be optimistic.
Perhaps you're thinking that it is easy to give advice than do. well...you got to get up. This kind of guy is easy to forget. There are still men not looking for virginity wise but they are after sencerity, honesty and true love.I need advice from guys.?
Mighta not really meant it and felt as it woulda questioned his manliness cuz he might be scared youd like him less if he dont seem tough enough for you. [only if he real immature]. or yea just dump him cuz he usin you
The good news is, he was honest with you. The bad news is, he waited two years--two years!?!--to be honest with you.
I know you love him so much, but it's time to love yourself. If this isn't the kind of relationship you want, then move on. It'll be painful, yes, but it won't be as long-lasting as the pain of living in a relationship that doesn't satisfy your emotional needs.
He does not love you. And he is using you for sex.
If you don't want to just be a buddy to him, then drop him and move on.
leave him don't give him the time of day :( sorry but he is using you.
You have been politely dumped. He obviously doesn't think you two are dating any more. Have you ever heard the phrase ';making love but there's no love';?
You need to move on and start looking again. It sounds like he has done just that.
Sit down and talk with him.
It's perfectly able that he only saw you as what they call it... 'friends with benefits' whereas you wanted much more. It's not his fault, and not yours as well, just a case of misunderstanding.
You probably shouldn't have had sex with him in the first place, because what he's doing right now is avoiding commitment and responsibility. His thoughts were probably along the lines of why buy the cow when I can get the milk for free? Well, now he doesn't want anymore ';milk'; and he's trying to jilt you. That's wrong. You can't just sleep with someone, date for two years, and say I just want to be friends. That's wrong. You deserve better. Get over this loser. I've have friends do this kind of thing to girls and the girls get all torn up inside, but the guy doesn't care. He got what he wanted and now he just gives her the boot. It's mean and unfair. Find a man who is more interested in what's in your mind and in your heart than what's in your pants. It may sound a little cheesy, but it's true.
Get out from him right now. Don't ever ever talk to him, Period!!!No more second thought please.Without your knowing he uses you as a sex toy. 2 years...2 years...imagine that you've been fooled. Knowing your deeply inlove to him he took advantage of your weakness. ah! can't blame you my dear.Love is blind. This time open your eyes. Console your self and don't think you were a loser. Walk high head. Be optimistic.
Perhaps you're thinking that it is easy to give advice than do. well...you got to get up. This kind of guy is easy to forget. There are still men not looking for virginity wise but they are after sencerity, honesty and true love.I need advice from guys.?
Mighta not really meant it and felt as it woulda questioned his manliness cuz he might be scared youd like him less if he dont seem tough enough for you. [only if he real immature]. or yea just dump him cuz he usin you
The good news is, he was honest with you. The bad news is, he waited two years--two years!?!--to be honest with you.
I know you love him so much, but it's time to love yourself. If this isn't the kind of relationship you want, then move on. It'll be painful, yes, but it won't be as long-lasting as the pain of living in a relationship that doesn't satisfy your emotional needs.
He does not love you. And he is using you for sex.
If you don't want to just be a buddy to him, then drop him and move on.
leave him don't give him the time of day :( sorry but he is using you.
You have been politely dumped. He obviously doesn't think you two are dating any more. Have you ever heard the phrase ';making love but there's no love';?
You need to move on and start looking again. It sounds like he has done just that.
Sit down and talk with him.
It's perfectly able that he only saw you as what they call it... 'friends with benefits' whereas you wanted much more. It's not his fault, and not yours as well, just a case of misunderstanding.
You probably shouldn't have had sex with him in the first place, because what he's doing right now is avoiding commitment and responsibility. His thoughts were probably along the lines of why buy the cow when I can get the milk for free? Well, now he doesn't want anymore ';milk'; and he's trying to jilt you. That's wrong. You can't just sleep with someone, date for two years, and say I just want to be friends. That's wrong. You deserve better. Get over this loser. I've have friends do this kind of thing to girls and the girls get all torn up inside, but the guy doesn't care. He got what he wanted and now he just gives her the boot. It's mean and unfair. Find a man who is more interested in what's in your mind and in your heart than what's in your pants. It may sound a little cheesy, but it's true.
I need advice on guys!? Help!?
okay so theres this guy, i like him alot like ALOT so much i am totally inlove with him. Like words cant ever describe how much i love him. So like i met him when i was in 6th grade and he was in 7th. then i went to 7th and he went to 8th obviously and we were very good friends. but in the summer going to 7th grade he asked me out and i said yes. but i didnt like him at all i just went out with him for fun. and like on the same day he asked me out, he broke up with me later that day after we hung out. and i didnt care at all. but like 1 week later i started getting kinda sad and i started liking him alot.. i started on like august 16, 2008 and it is now june 6, 2009 and im still totally in love with him. BUT, hes like a player? like i dont know. sometimes he is, sometimes he isnt. hes SO conufusing. when it was during the schoolyear he thought he was soooo cool and he was like to cool to talk to me but he still did sometimes though. and like he always asks me for naked pictures and stuff but me and him were friends with benefits for a while he like played him and i was too blind to see. we didnt do anything like sooo bad like small things like makeout you know? then one day like 2 weeks ago i realized he was using me and i typed him a 10 page message thing about how i really feel about him because he didnt even know how much i loved him. and he wrote me a like 3 page message thing on how he did use me and that hes like so sorry and he was begging but not alot. and i forgave him. and now were friends..but like hes being weird like i dont know? he wont text me back. and like if he does he doesnt talk much i dont know why like did he get all weirded out? but he wasnt at first?? im confused. and like EVERYBODY all my friends say that they THINK he likes me because hes always looking at me, and people say that he talks to me in a different way and they think hes secretly in love with me because usually when they're mad at him he doesnt care but with me he does he begs for my forgiveness but then..like right after he gets into the conversation of friends with benefits?? so i dont get it. does he like me? they think its because the way he looks at me. and i dont know they confuse me and he confuses me even more. i asked him if he does and he said ';to be honest i dont like you but i love you as a friend'; and like..i dont know. im confused? he doesnt play me anymore. like at first when i told him to stop playing me and stuff he was like okay about it and we had stuff to talk about but now like..he wont text me back? and im kind of sad. and im not completley in love anymore a little bit less.. but i dont know. i need help! any advice?I need advice on guys!? Help!?
just b natural..if u like him say him..and ask him what does he thinks of u..dont worry..if he really likes u then he will say it to u..and if he doesnt like u..then dont b sad or depressed..life goes on..b happy...life is so precious life is beautiful..u r very beautiful..it is the matter of ur thoughts i dont know how ur thoughts r..if u r beautiful from within..i m sure u will get a good person...good luck..blue eyeshadow
just b natural..if u like him say him..and ask him what does he thinks of u..dont worry..if he really likes u then he will say it to u..and if he doesnt like u..then dont b sad or depressed..life goes on..b happy...life is so precious life is beautiful..u r very beautiful..it is the matter of ur thoughts i dont know how ur thoughts r..if u r beautiful from within..i m sure u will get a good person...good luck..
Need Some Advice From Guys.(About my Bf)?
i got asked out.by this guy ive known for at least 2 months.he adores the heck outta me.i was sitting next to him last nite,and all he kept doing was starying at me locking eyes.i have never seen a guy stare so much.it was a good feeling.me and him get along very very well.never disagree on anything of any sort.
i wanna be with this guy for a long time.how can i make things exciting...keep him on his toes and wondering all the time.besides sex and all.what are some ways to flatter him or have him blushing.
let me know any advice would be great.
iam 19 and hes 22.Need Some Advice From Guys.(About my Bf)?
.Be advised,the longer you keep this a non sexual relationship.The longer the romance,respect and ardor last
i wanna be with this guy for a long time.how can i make things exciting...keep him on his toes and wondering all the time.besides sex and all.what are some ways to flatter him or have him blushing.
let me know any advice would be great.
iam 19 and hes 22.Need Some Advice From Guys.(About my Bf)?
.Be advised,the longer you keep this a non sexual relationship.The longer the romance,respect and ardor last
I need advice from guys.?
my name's lauren. Im really oppinionated. If something bugs me, its pretty rare that i dont speak my mind to it's full content. I have something to say about everything and i talk alot...i dont think im very pretty, i have rather low self esteem, and i tend to point out ever beautiful girl i see... even though im straight. I dress like a girly girl... i rarely wear jeans... im usually in skirts and heels... but i can talk sports like a guy could, and i bet i can throw a football better than you. i snowboard, motorcycle, hike, camp, and cant keep my nails nice to save my life. i like to shop, as long as it doesnt take more than 2 hours. I have been on a football team, did karate for 3 years, and wrestled also..... most people say im funny and fun to be around, but sometimes i complain alot. Im usually happy but when im sad i hit a extreem low...would i be a turn off to you or a turn on/ would you date me??
this pic is me.... thanks for listening.
http://i32.tinypic.com/2jb16yp.jI need advice from guys.?
ur really pretty but try and not squint ur eyes, ur beautiful
please answer my question
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>I need advice from guys.?
I would love to meet you. The low self-esteem is a opportunity to discover your self worth. I may be able to assist.
give thanks.
Yip I would
yes i would..if was about 20-25 years younger
I wouldn't date you, but that doesn't mean all guys won't. I'm pretty sure you'll get responses from guys who would.
But, you gotta stand tall. Just by this observing this post, I believe you're having ';low-self esteem'; because you're thinking about what you don't have, ';i tend to point out ever beautiful girl i see'; is what you said. Be thankful for what you do have, that breeds confidence and attractiveness.
By the way, if you don't think you're pretty then why should anyone else believe you?
...something to think about.
id bang u anyday
How old are you? Are you not having luck with guys?
Assuming you aren't like a 45 year old dude in real life and that picture is real, I see kno reason why you shouldn't have guys all over you.
well im a girl but you are really pretty and you sound like a very interesting person
I love all that and im sure some guys do to but I think that we should meet and get to know each other contact me at DillonJ_37809@yahoo.com
if you leave all your activities and retrieve your femininity i will
To me there's almost no bigger turn-off than a girl who fakes an interest in sports and being ';one of the guys'; just to be accepted and liked.
You can't throw a football better than I can...and saying that you think you can isn't going to make me like you better.
I want to date a girl...not a guy.
We all get down on ourselves from time to time, its normal. You are a strikingly beautiful young girl. Until you see yourself that way not many others will. Do not worry about the other girls you see as beautiful. There is nothing you can do about others only you and how you see yourself. You sound like you have great confidence in yourself but see others as better. You probably will never be considered the most beautiful women in the world but then how many can say that. Still you are extremely attractive. If that's not good enough then perhaps you need to grow internally, your mind. You will be able to see much clearer when you accomplish that.
Try smiling as if you're about to laugh, either way you're beautiful!
idk
why do you think putting your pic on here relates to your question? you look drunk and slightly retarded sorry
this pic is me.... thanks for listening.
http://i32.tinypic.com/2jb16yp.jI need advice from guys.?
ur really pretty but try and not squint ur eyes, ur beautiful
please answer my question
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>I need advice from guys.?
I would love to meet you. The low self-esteem is a opportunity to discover your self worth. I may be able to assist.
give thanks.
Yip I would
yes i would..if was about 20-25 years younger
I wouldn't date you, but that doesn't mean all guys won't. I'm pretty sure you'll get responses from guys who would.
But, you gotta stand tall. Just by this observing this post, I believe you're having ';low-self esteem'; because you're thinking about what you don't have, ';i tend to point out ever beautiful girl i see'; is what you said. Be thankful for what you do have, that breeds confidence and attractiveness.
By the way, if you don't think you're pretty then why should anyone else believe you?
...something to think about.
id bang u anyday
How old are you? Are you not having luck with guys?
Assuming you aren't like a 45 year old dude in real life and that picture is real, I see kno reason why you shouldn't have guys all over you.
well im a girl but you are really pretty and you sound like a very interesting person
I love all that and im sure some guys do to but I think that we should meet and get to know each other contact me at DillonJ_37809@yahoo.com
if you leave all your activities and retrieve your femininity i will
To me there's almost no bigger turn-off than a girl who fakes an interest in sports and being ';one of the guys'; just to be accepted and liked.
You can't throw a football better than I can...and saying that you think you can isn't going to make me like you better.
I want to date a girl...not a guy.
We all get down on ourselves from time to time, its normal. You are a strikingly beautiful young girl. Until you see yourself that way not many others will. Do not worry about the other girls you see as beautiful. There is nothing you can do about others only you and how you see yourself. You sound like you have great confidence in yourself but see others as better. You probably will never be considered the most beautiful women in the world but then how many can say that. Still you are extremely attractive. If that's not good enough then perhaps you need to grow internally, your mind. You will be able to see much clearer when you accomplish that.
Try smiling as if you're about to laugh, either way you're beautiful!
idk
why do you think putting your pic on here relates to your question? you look drunk and slightly retarded sorry
I need advice bad guys?
ok here is the story. i was dating a girl for 2 yrs the past 6 months it was more like an on an off relationship till i stopped it because she kept changing moods and decisions she decided she wanted to go through a differetn life style, she literaly slept with alot of people guys and girls she was telling me she is tempted to sleep with anyone preety much. as u realize we cut communication completely a month later she gives me a call and tells me that she is pregnant and that the baby is mine what should i do i mean i am so confused.i mean it is true it could be mine but i dont want the baby.i want her to have an abortion this baby is not seed of love anymore she has done way too much to me in the past 6 months i am not sure i f i can marry her and raie this children the way it deserves it. we are both young and not ready for this.but she wants to keep it she says she says she is done with drugs and partying and sleeping arround but she has said that to me in the past. as wellI need advice bad guys?
trollI need advice bad guys?
Ok... breathe. First, support her the best you can and demand a paternity test when the child is born. Any judge will tell you the same because you say that she slept around. This baby could be yours... but it may not. Also, if she treated you this poorly, you do not need to be with her. You need to be civil with her and build a friendship for the benifit of the child. This does not mean that you need to stay with this girl and be unhappy the rest of your life. Now, here is the part you don't want to hear. If you are too young to have children... then you are too young to have sex. Seeing as how you felt you were old enough and strong enough to have sex, this child may be your burden to bare and you must do so if it is yours. Do not let her use pregnancy as a way to trap you into a relationship... but if this child is yours... then give that child all of your love... their blood is your blood.
trollI need advice bad guys?
Ok... breathe. First, support her the best you can and demand a paternity test when the child is born. Any judge will tell you the same because you say that she slept around. This baby could be yours... but it may not. Also, if she treated you this poorly, you do not need to be with her. You need to be civil with her and build a friendship for the benifit of the child. This does not mean that you need to stay with this girl and be unhappy the rest of your life. Now, here is the part you don't want to hear. If you are too young to have children... then you are too young to have sex. Seeing as how you felt you were old enough and strong enough to have sex, this child may be your burden to bare and you must do so if it is yours. Do not let her use pregnancy as a way to trap you into a relationship... but if this child is yours... then give that child all of your love... their blood is your blood.
I need advice on guys..?
When I was younger, a couple guys hurt me who were older than me..but for some reason I think that guys who are in their twenties and even thirties although I would never date a guy in their thirties, I find them to be quite attractive. I feel like most guys my age are immature and I just don't find them to be appealing to me in that way really. So the problem I'm having is, I have a fear of being alone with a guy in a room. I get nervous, then shaky and I know that it will take trust to feel comfortable because I have only ever felt comfortable with five guys at the most in my life time. But when guys want to hang out with me or meet up with me, I get this feeling of dread throughout my body and I feel kind of sick and almost like I'm depressed instantly..then I make up excuses to not see them. Even kissing! But I hate it so much because I want to hang out with guys but this constant fear I'm living in is tearing my social life apart..I HATE IT please help me %26lt;:*[ boys and girls!I need advice on guys..?
Whatever happened in your past is unfortunately there to stay. You may not be able to deal with the issues from your past, which is why it keeps you from enjoying the present. The pressure you feel may be the pressure to perform and put on a mask in front of others. If this is the case, you're not alone. Trust must be earned and tested...sometimes it's a long process. If you have someone close to you who you trust, I'd talk to them to let off some steam. If you don't have anyone you trust, write your feelings and fears down in a journal and put it in a special place that only you will know about. It's very normal to feel shy and awkward around the opposite sex, but to fear interaction with them may point to something deeper below the surface of your feelings. Good luck to you.
Whatever happened in your past is unfortunately there to stay. You may not be able to deal with the issues from your past, which is why it keeps you from enjoying the present. The pressure you feel may be the pressure to perform and put on a mask in front of others. If this is the case, you're not alone. Trust must be earned and tested...sometimes it's a long process. If you have someone close to you who you trust, I'd talk to them to let off some steam. If you don't have anyone you trust, write your feelings and fears down in a journal and put it in a special place that only you will know about. It's very normal to feel shy and awkward around the opposite sex, but to fear interaction with them may point to something deeper below the surface of your feelings. Good luck to you.
I need advice on guys plz?
haha well this is kinda weird but okay so I like this guy hes like my best guy friend and hes had a BILLION girlfriends b4 and now Ive recently heard that he likes me back and I know I should feel happy but I just feel nervous because hes like REALLY experienced if u kno what I mean and I have only had one boyfriend b4 (Im 14 btw) so i dont know what to do because if he asks me out i dont know what ill say..what should I do? oh and no rude comments plz :) thxI need advice on guys plz?
because he your best friend you should speak to him reasure him that you are best friends and talk about if you think that it is a good idea and if it will effect your friendship and you will need to make it clear about the exprience thing and that you dont want any messing about if yous decide to make it something and that you dont want hurt in the long run its a difficult situation but the best thing to do it talk. the worst thing to come out of it is awkwardness and him sayin know and that can be delt with .. there is no harm in tryingI need advice on guys plz?
I notice that you didn't provide an important factoid - this ';guy's'; age.
In any case, stop thinking about this ';guy'; and find someone among your age group. If you are already thinking about ';you know';, than you're already lost...
.bh.
well if he really likes you he would respect you whether ur experienced or not.
but it also depends on if you ready for what he's ready for.
but i would say if you both like each other, give it a shot.
Good luck! (:
You should say yes sweetie, it's fine that he's experienced, but if he likes you then he wouldn't pressurize you into anything you don't want to do. Okay?
Listen to your virtues. Don't comprimise yourself at 14! If you can keep him as a friend, you won't fail in your morality. Your high standards will keep you safe.
this guy sounds like a complete player. why bother honestly. he'll just try to get what he wants and he if he doesnt get it he's gonna leave you anyway, if i was you, stay as far away as possible.
well honestly, if hes 14 or 15 or around your age too, he's only looking for one thing and if your not comfortable with that type of stuff and you say yes when he asks you out there goes your friendship
just go out with him see how it is annd tell him that you like him he will probably opeen up even more
screw him he will go out with u then dump u in a week thatz how guyz with a billion gf's are
if ur 14 and gonna hav sex ur retarded!
because he your best friend you should speak to him reasure him that you are best friends and talk about if you think that it is a good idea and if it will effect your friendship and you will need to make it clear about the exprience thing and that you dont want any messing about if yous decide to make it something and that you dont want hurt in the long run its a difficult situation but the best thing to do it talk. the worst thing to come out of it is awkwardness and him sayin know and that can be delt with .. there is no harm in tryingI need advice on guys plz?
I notice that you didn't provide an important factoid - this ';guy's'; age.
In any case, stop thinking about this ';guy'; and find someone among your age group. If you are already thinking about ';you know';, than you're already lost...
.bh.
well if he really likes you he would respect you whether ur experienced or not.
but it also depends on if you ready for what he's ready for.
but i would say if you both like each other, give it a shot.
Good luck! (:
You should say yes sweetie, it's fine that he's experienced, but if he likes you then he wouldn't pressurize you into anything you don't want to do. Okay?
Listen to your virtues. Don't comprimise yourself at 14! If you can keep him as a friend, you won't fail in your morality. Your high standards will keep you safe.
this guy sounds like a complete player. why bother honestly. he'll just try to get what he wants and he if he doesnt get it he's gonna leave you anyway, if i was you, stay as far away as possible.
well honestly, if hes 14 or 15 or around your age too, he's only looking for one thing and if your not comfortable with that type of stuff and you say yes when he asks you out there goes your friendship
just go out with him see how it is annd tell him that you like him he will probably opeen up even more
screw him he will go out with u then dump u in a week thatz how guyz with a billion gf's are
if ur 14 and gonna hav sex ur retarded!
Crush HELP/advice? ? please. guys/girls opinions?
theres this guy who ive known for just over a year now whos also a year older then me. when we first met he had a gf and we talked all the time %26amp; i wouldnt let myself fall for him while he had a gf. once they broke up though i couldnt help myself we nearly got together last summer but timing wasnt right and i think he though i didnt want to. he got mad and told me i was to young for him anyways we stopped talking for a while(pathetic i know) once we started talking again we became closer then ever best friends and still are i really like him but he has another gf now after telling me he liked me i didnt tell him how i felt back only because i didnt want to deal with the rejection again and wanted to see if he was being genuine. i like him so much and am not sure what to do? i want to get over him because i mean he has a gf and its just sad that im hanging on. i tried to tell myself we arent going to happen. how do i CONVINCE myself of that? i dont want to want it..and songs/advice.HELPCrush HELP/advice? ? please. guys/girls opinions?
tell him how you feel just be like i like you but if you dont like me thats ok cuz id rather be part of ur life as a freind than not be part of it at allCrush HELP/advice? ? please. guys/girls opinions?
YOU CAN'T CONTROL LOVE!! That's one. Second, u can't do anything, it'll just go by itself someday. If he really aske u out seriously, i guess u'll have to accept it coz u like him to rite. Who knows, he mite realize it and CRAZY about u. x) just wait. x)
You just have to get over it. It's painful, but it won't ever happen. Then think that even if you did get together, of all of the things that could go horribly wrong.
what you could do is just stop talking to him. i know its ahrd, but just try it. try to get more guy friends. in my opinion you should just tell him how you feel because both of you are obviously into each other.
tell him u like him
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You can't just get over him that quick. It's going to take time and you probaly shouldnt see him for awhile
talk to him and make him fall for you more make him hang out with u more dan his gf and when he tells u he lkes u tell him u like him to.
tell him how you feel...everyword you said here =]
lamb of godscars
tell him how you feel just be like i like you but if you dont like me thats ok cuz id rather be part of ur life as a freind than not be part of it at allCrush HELP/advice? ? please. guys/girls opinions?
YOU CAN'T CONTROL LOVE!! That's one. Second, u can't do anything, it'll just go by itself someday. If he really aske u out seriously, i guess u'll have to accept it coz u like him to rite. Who knows, he mite realize it and CRAZY about u. x) just wait. x)
You just have to get over it. It's painful, but it won't ever happen. Then think that even if you did get together, of all of the things that could go horribly wrong.
what you could do is just stop talking to him. i know its ahrd, but just try it. try to get more guy friends. in my opinion you should just tell him how you feel because both of you are obviously into each other.
tell him u like him
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You can't just get over him that quick. It's going to take time and you probaly shouldnt see him for awhile
talk to him and make him fall for you more make him hang out with u more dan his gf and when he tells u he lkes u tell him u like him to.
tell him how you feel...everyword you said here =]
lamb of god
Should i just leave it alone??? i need your advice you guys!!!?
ok i am stressing out over this situation and its so irritating. i am starting to fall hard for my married doctor, i think he knew what he was doing when he started flirting since day one. i was not attracted to him in any way.. he is a lot older than i am. he knew exactly what to say and when to say it and how often to say it(which is basically every time i see him) his smooth comments about my looks and his compliments made me start noticing him more. his gray hair didn't seem as gray, he all of a sudden wasn't the ''old'' dr, but the older distinguished sexy guy...lol he always makes it an effort to say just the right thing to me and it gets more and more personal as time goes by. he takes me in his personal ofc and shows me pictures of his kids, but never mentions his wife..EVER. the only way i know he is married is because i see the ring. it seems as if he is waiting for me to show him a little bit of interest. i think he has a clue that i kinda dig him, but im not to sure.Should i just leave it alone??? i need your advice you guys!!!?
He is a professional and shouldn't be flirting with patients, especially when he's married. Where's his morals and trust with being a doctor?
He is using his position for his own personal gain, abusing the system so to speak. He sounds like bad news news to me.
I would see another doctor if I were you.Should i just leave it alone??? i need your advice you guys!!!?
it's just a crush...let the doctor do his job. He cares about your health and all, but he loves another woman...Once you find someone else, this will go away....
If this guy is serious about you, you should ask him straight up if he is married. Then if he says yes, just let it die right there. If he says no and explains the ring, then you should ask him if he flirts with his other patients. He may just want a piece of ***. If all of that checks out then I don't see why you couldn't go out on a lil get together...as long as you MAKE SURE there is no WIFE!
i'm sorry to say but he probably does that to most of his sexy female patients...just a thought you don't want to get mixed up in an affair it can be quite messy....i know my brother went through all that already...poor guy just think you could ruin his wifes life.....and yours.just a thought
HUH!!!!!!!!!You have fallen for your family doctor!Okay all this happens at this age but your case is just a little too much.He is just showing his concern towards youbut he does not love you or anything.Leave it alone before you become OBSESSED to him.Just talk to him as you always do and search for a smart guy your age.
ask him about his wife. if he is still married then change doctors.
hes playing with your head stop it before you wreck a home don't get involved with this man think about his wife and kids do you want to be responsible for wrecking the kids life as well as the wife are you that shallow stop it now before someone gets hurt
let it go.
You asked this question already. Evidently you didn't like the answers you got. NO, stop flirting with him, stop seeing him, it will go nowhere and only destroy you. Are you that desperate for a man to lower yourself to that. Where is the respect for yourself.
DON't fall for him. He's obvisouly trying to get some from a much younger and beatiful looking girl then his older not so good looking wife. JUst stick to guys your own age.
The advice I will give to you is that you should just leave it alone because if he is married and have kids then that is a problem. If ya'll two got hooked up then some day his wife will find out that he is cheating on her with you and that will just break her heart and the kids heart's. But maybe someday he might get a divorce then he is all yours. Plus you might want to give in on hint's that you like him so he will know.
He is a professional and shouldn't be flirting with patients, especially when he's married. Where's his morals and trust with being a doctor?
He is using his position for his own personal gain, abusing the system so to speak. He sounds like bad news news to me.
I would see another doctor if I were you.Should i just leave it alone??? i need your advice you guys!!!?
it's just a crush...let the doctor do his job. He cares about your health and all, but he loves another woman...Once you find someone else, this will go away....
If this guy is serious about you, you should ask him straight up if he is married. Then if he says yes, just let it die right there. If he says no and explains the ring, then you should ask him if he flirts with his other patients. He may just want a piece of ***. If all of that checks out then I don't see why you couldn't go out on a lil get together...as long as you MAKE SURE there is no WIFE!
i'm sorry to say but he probably does that to most of his sexy female patients...just a thought you don't want to get mixed up in an affair it can be quite messy....i know my brother went through all that already...poor guy just think you could ruin his wifes life.....and yours.just a thought
HUH!!!!!!!!!You have fallen for your family doctor!Okay all this happens at this age but your case is just a little too much.He is just showing his concern towards youbut he does not love you or anything.Leave it alone before you become OBSESSED to him.Just talk to him as you always do and search for a smart guy your age.
ask him about his wife. if he is still married then change doctors.
hes playing with your head stop it before you wreck a home don't get involved with this man think about his wife and kids do you want to be responsible for wrecking the kids life as well as the wife are you that shallow stop it now before someone gets hurt
let it go.
You asked this question already. Evidently you didn't like the answers you got. NO, stop flirting with him, stop seeing him, it will go nowhere and only destroy you. Are you that desperate for a man to lower yourself to that. Where is the respect for yourself.
DON't fall for him. He's obvisouly trying to get some from a much younger and beatiful looking girl then his older not so good looking wife. JUst stick to guys your own age.
The advice I will give to you is that you should just leave it alone because if he is married and have kids then that is a problem. If ya'll two got hooked up then some day his wife will find out that he is cheating on her with you and that will just break her heart and the kids heart's. But maybe someday he might get a divorce then he is all yours. Plus you might want to give in on hint's that you like him so he will know.
First tatoo advice please guys?
Hey,
im planning on getting my first tattoo in a week,
it will be on my right wrist with a small heart under some words
i currently was thinking a line from 1 of jacks mannequins songs,
as i love them!
i was thinking either ';bruised'; or ';without you i dont have a place thats safe from all the monsters that hide in my head %26amp; sing me to sleep'; or ';she wasted the best years of her life'; although the second is a little long, so if someone could shortern it for me id be so greatful.
what is your favourite jacks mannequin lyric %26amp; do you have any suggestions?
thanks .xFirst tatoo advice please guys?
Don't get a tattoo.
No point.First tatoo advice please guys?
Go to www.inkmyskull.com and ask her to design something unique and original for you. She'll do it cheap and she's the best.
F think it would be really cool to get ';Sing me to sleep'; in a really cool font
im planning on getting my first tattoo in a week,
it will be on my right wrist with a small heart under some words
i currently was thinking a line from 1 of jacks mannequins songs,
as i love them!
i was thinking either ';bruised'; or ';without you i dont have a place thats safe from all the monsters that hide in my head %26amp; sing me to sleep'; or ';she wasted the best years of her life'; although the second is a little long, so if someone could shortern it for me id be so greatful.
what is your favourite jacks mannequin lyric %26amp; do you have any suggestions?
thanks .xFirst tatoo advice please guys?
Don't get a tattoo.
No point.First tatoo advice please guys?
Go to www.inkmyskull.com and ask her to design something unique and original for you. She'll do it cheap and she's the best.
F think it would be really cool to get ';Sing me to sleep'; in a really cool font
Should i just leave it alone??? i need your advice you guys!!!?
ok i am stressing out over this situation and its so irritating. i am starting to fall hard for my married doctor, i think he knew what he was doing when he started flirting since day one. i was not attracted to him in any way.. he is a lot older than i am. he knew exactly what to say and when to say it and how often to say it(which is basically every time i see him) his smooth comments about my looks and his compliments made me start noticing him more. his gray hair didn't seem as gray, he all of a sudden wasn't the ''old'' dr, but the older distinguished sexy guy...lol he always makes it an effort to say just the right thing to me and it gets more and more personal as time goes by. he takes me in his personal ofc and shows me pictures of his kids, but never mentions his wife..EVER. the only way i know he is married is because i see the ring. it seems as if he is waiting for me to show him a little bit of interest. i think he has a clue that i kinda dig him, but im not to sure.Should i just leave it alone??? i need your advice you guys!!!?
He is a professional and shouldn't be flirting with patients, especially when he's married. Where's his morals and trust with being a doctor?
He is using his position for his own personal gain, abusing the system so to speak. He sounds like bad news news to me.
I would see another doctor if I were you.Should i just leave it alone??? i need your advice you guys!!!?
it's just a crush...let the doctor do his job. He cares about your health and all, but he loves another woman...Once you find someone else, this will go away....
If this guy is serious about you, you should ask him straight up if he is married. Then if he says yes, just let it die right there. If he says no and explains the ring, then you should ask him if he flirts with his other patients. He may just want a piece of ***. If all of that checks out then I don't see why you couldn't go out on a lil get together...as long as you MAKE SURE there is no WIFE!
i'm sorry to say but he probably does that to most of his sexy female patients...just a thought you don't want to get mixed up in an affair it can be quite messy....i know my brother went through all that already...poor guy just think you could ruin his wifes life.....and yours.just a thought
HUH!!!!!!!!!You have fallen for your family doctor!Okay all this happens at this age but your case is just a little too much.He is just showing his concern towards youbut he does not love you or anything.Leave it alone before you become OBSESSED to him.Just talk to him as you always do and search for a smart guy your age.
ask him about his wife. if he is still married then change doctors.
hes playing with your head stop it before you wreck a home don't get involved with this man think about his wife and kids do you want to be responsible for wrecking the kids life as well as the wife are you that shallow stop it now before someone gets hurt
let it go.
You asked this question already. Evidently you didn't like the answers you got. NO, stop flirting with him, stop seeing him, it will go nowhere and only destroy you. Are you that desperate for a man to lower yourself to that. Where is the respect for yourself.
DON't fall for him. He's obvisouly trying to get some from a much younger and beatiful looking girl then his older not so good looking wife. JUst stick to guys your own age.
The advice I will give to you is that you should just leave it alone because if he is married and have kids then that is a problem. If ya'll two got hooked up then some day his wife will find out that he is cheating on her with you and that will just break her heart and the kids heart's. But maybe someday he might get a divorce then he is all yours. Plus you might want to give in on hint's that you like him so he will know.
He is a professional and shouldn't be flirting with patients, especially when he's married. Where's his morals and trust with being a doctor?
He is using his position for his own personal gain, abusing the system so to speak. He sounds like bad news news to me.
I would see another doctor if I were you.Should i just leave it alone??? i need your advice you guys!!!?
it's just a crush...let the doctor do his job. He cares about your health and all, but he loves another woman...Once you find someone else, this will go away....
If this guy is serious about you, you should ask him straight up if he is married. Then if he says yes, just let it die right there. If he says no and explains the ring, then you should ask him if he flirts with his other patients. He may just want a piece of ***. If all of that checks out then I don't see why you couldn't go out on a lil get together...as long as you MAKE SURE there is no WIFE!
i'm sorry to say but he probably does that to most of his sexy female patients...just a thought you don't want to get mixed up in an affair it can be quite messy....i know my brother went through all that already...poor guy just think you could ruin his wifes life.....and yours.just a thought
HUH!!!!!!!!!You have fallen for your family doctor!Okay all this happens at this age but your case is just a little too much.He is just showing his concern towards youbut he does not love you or anything.Leave it alone before you become OBSESSED to him.Just talk to him as you always do and search for a smart guy your age.
ask him about his wife. if he is still married then change doctors.
hes playing with your head stop it before you wreck a home don't get involved with this man think about his wife and kids do you want to be responsible for wrecking the kids life as well as the wife are you that shallow stop it now before someone gets hurt
let it go.
You asked this question already. Evidently you didn't like the answers you got. NO, stop flirting with him, stop seeing him, it will go nowhere and only destroy you. Are you that desperate for a man to lower yourself to that. Where is the respect for yourself.
DON't fall for him. He's obvisouly trying to get some from a much younger and beatiful looking girl then his older not so good looking wife. JUst stick to guys your own age.
The advice I will give to you is that you should just leave it alone because if he is married and have kids then that is a problem. If ya'll two got hooked up then some day his wife will find out that he is cheating on her with you and that will just break her heart and the kids heart's. But maybe someday he might get a divorce then he is all yours. Plus you might want to give in on hint's that you like him so he will know.
I need advice from guys! and I guess girls too. ?
Ok, I know this is so lame and sad.. but here it goes..
I am a sophomore in college and I have never had a boyfriend.
I know that I am not ugly, but I wouldn't say I was gorgeous either. I am not fat. I am actually a lot like a guy in some aspects.. in that I am not emotional, I don't get worked up about little things, and I am really easy going.. without actually being ';easy';. I know that I am funny (I was actually voted class clown in high school..not that that really means that much) The only thing I can think of is that I am not an open person, at all. I have been getting better at just saying how I feel but I still don't/can't a lot of the time. Is it really that I have never straight out told a guy that I like him?
I don't understand why I have always been alone. I thought that guys were supposed to make the first move. Why have I never been attracted to the guys that try to get my attention? I'm not stuck up. I don't have high standards by any means..haha. I'm so scared I'm going to be like 25 and still be a virgin who has never had a boyfriend..honestly it makes me want to cry thinking about it. I need help fast. What should i do?I need advice from guys! and I guess girls too. ?
Email me a picture of yourself. and stop worrying I will be your online BF.I need advice from guys! and I guess girls too. ?
Wait until you feel sexual desire or love and go for it. Don't force anything. You probably just haven't had the feeling yet, but it will come along. Doesn't matter if you are a 25 year old virgin. Concentrate on your career or something...
dont sweat it, you will find someone. just talk to guys more often, and go up to them more. make yourself known....but also be yourself.
really, it will happen when its meant to. :)
Sometimes the woman makes the first move. Many relationships start with alcohol.
well it could be that you are intimidating to guys. Maybe you're just not approachable. Try to open up to people a little more
What celestin said. Just go out with friends and get introduced to others through other friends. Dont trip.
well first don't resort to be a slut, and the guyz that u r ment for sound like the sporty guyz or the average blokes
i know how you feel i got that same problem i hope you find some one soon
you'll find him, just wait and see (:
Some guys don't like women who seem to be in control of themselves. It makes them feel less smarter sometimes. The other thing is that there is got to be chemistry. A woman that is smart, has her feelings in check and has a sense of humor is kind of intimidating for some men (boys in this case). Don't worry about it at all girl, the right guy will come a long and will admire you for that. I happen to think it is a turn on. I love women that can control themselves and show maturity and have a sense of humor. Just be yourself and focus on your education (you don't need a boyfriend right now anyway). Don't look for love, it will find you. In the mean time have a great life
Relax.
I always had a hard time meeting people as I'm really shy. In our society men are still (as evidenced by your comment) expected to be the initiators. This is unfortunate as a lot of good men just don't have it in them to be so forward with women and so let opportunities pass.
It has ALWAYS happened that as soon as I gave up really trying to find someone I just met someone right away...maybe it's a case of desperation being easily read by others that scared women away. I've found that it's easiest to find compatible people in a group of like-minded people, such as those sharing a hobby. It's a lot easier to get to know someone intimately with common ground to fill in the inital small talk.
In any case you won't find someone unless you open up and just 'put yourself out there' so to speak emotionally. You can't gain without risk, and the worst thing that'll probably happen is a broken heart.
Look No Further And Do Yourself A Favor...Take A Little Vaca Alone Or Some Single Friends To Vegas, Phx, Miami, Hawaii, Jamaica, Or Even Denver Colorado And Try To Meet Some Nice Strangers.
From Where You're From And At Now Sounds Alittle Lame Place To Be Looking Some Love. And Sounds Like The Place There Are Very Shallow, You Need To Be In Much Places Where Its Banging With Different People And Culture!
Trust Me All You Need Is To Get Out And Have Fun On You Little Vaca, You'll Meet Someone!
Or Better Yet Meet Some Guys On Myspace, Most Of The Guys There Are Cool, Just Gotta Look And Communicate!
I am a sophomore in college and I have never had a boyfriend.
I know that I am not ugly, but I wouldn't say I was gorgeous either. I am not fat. I am actually a lot like a guy in some aspects.. in that I am not emotional, I don't get worked up about little things, and I am really easy going.. without actually being ';easy';. I know that I am funny (I was actually voted class clown in high school..not that that really means that much) The only thing I can think of is that I am not an open person, at all. I have been getting better at just saying how I feel but I still don't/can't a lot of the time. Is it really that I have never straight out told a guy that I like him?
I don't understand why I have always been alone. I thought that guys were supposed to make the first move. Why have I never been attracted to the guys that try to get my attention? I'm not stuck up. I don't have high standards by any means..haha. I'm so scared I'm going to be like 25 and still be a virgin who has never had a boyfriend..honestly it makes me want to cry thinking about it. I need help fast. What should i do?I need advice from guys! and I guess girls too. ?
Email me a picture of yourself. and stop worrying I will be your online BF.I need advice from guys! and I guess girls too. ?
Wait until you feel sexual desire or love and go for it. Don't force anything. You probably just haven't had the feeling yet, but it will come along. Doesn't matter if you are a 25 year old virgin. Concentrate on your career or something...
dont sweat it, you will find someone. just talk to guys more often, and go up to them more. make yourself known....but also be yourself.
really, it will happen when its meant to. :)
Sometimes the woman makes the first move. Many relationships start with alcohol.
well it could be that you are intimidating to guys. Maybe you're just not approachable. Try to open up to people a little more
What celestin said. Just go out with friends and get introduced to others through other friends. Dont trip.
well first don't resort to be a slut, and the guyz that u r ment for sound like the sporty guyz or the average blokes
i know how you feel i got that same problem i hope you find some one soon
you'll find him, just wait and see (:
Some guys don't like women who seem to be in control of themselves. It makes them feel less smarter sometimes. The other thing is that there is got to be chemistry. A woman that is smart, has her feelings in check and has a sense of humor is kind of intimidating for some men (boys in this case). Don't worry about it at all girl, the right guy will come a long and will admire you for that. I happen to think it is a turn on. I love women that can control themselves and show maturity and have a sense of humor. Just be yourself and focus on your education (you don't need a boyfriend right now anyway). Don't look for love, it will find you. In the mean time have a great life
Relax.
I always had a hard time meeting people as I'm really shy. In our society men are still (as evidenced by your comment) expected to be the initiators. This is unfortunate as a lot of good men just don't have it in them to be so forward with women and so let opportunities pass.
It has ALWAYS happened that as soon as I gave up really trying to find someone I just met someone right away...maybe it's a case of desperation being easily read by others that scared women away. I've found that it's easiest to find compatible people in a group of like-minded people, such as those sharing a hobby. It's a lot easier to get to know someone intimately with common ground to fill in the inital small talk.
In any case you won't find someone unless you open up and just 'put yourself out there' so to speak emotionally. You can't gain without risk, and the worst thing that'll probably happen is a broken heart.
Look No Further And Do Yourself A Favor...Take A Little Vaca Alone Or Some Single Friends To Vegas, Phx, Miami, Hawaii, Jamaica, Or Even Denver Colorado And Try To Meet Some Nice Strangers.
From Where You're From And At Now Sounds Alittle Lame Place To Be Looking Some Love. And Sounds Like The Place There Are Very Shallow, You Need To Be In Much Places Where Its Banging With Different People And Culture!
Trust Me All You Need Is To Get Out And Have Fun On You Little Vaca, You'll Meet Someone!
Or Better Yet Meet Some Guys On Myspace, Most Of The Guys There Are Cool, Just Gotta Look And Communicate!
Crush HELP/advice? ? please. guys/girls opinions?
theres this guy who ive known for just over a year now whos also a year older then me. when we first met he had a gf and we talked all the time %26amp; i wouldnt let myself fall for him while he had a gf. once they broke up though i couldnt help myself we nearly got together last summer but timing wasnt right and i think he though i didnt want to. he got mad and told me i was to young for him anyways we stopped talking for a while(pathetic i know) once we started talking again we became closer then ever best friends and still are i really like him but he has another gf now after telling me he liked me i didnt tell him how i felt back only because i didnt want to deal with the rejection again and wanted to see if he was being genuine. i like him so much and am not sure what to do? i want to get over him because i mean he has a gf and its just sad that im hanging on. i tried to tell myself we arent going to happen. how do i CONVINCE myself of that? i dont want to want it..and songs/advice.HELPCrush HELP/advice? ? please. guys/girls opinions?
tell him how you feel just be like i like you but if you dont like me thats ok cuz id rather be part of ur life as a freind than not be part of it at allCrush HELP/advice? ? please. guys/girls opinions?
YOU CAN'T CONTROL LOVE!! That's one. Second, u can't do anything, it'll just go by itself someday. If he really aske u out seriously, i guess u'll have to accept it coz u like him to rite. Who knows, he mite realize it and CRAZY about u. x) just wait. x)
You just have to get over it. It's painful, but it won't ever happen. Then think that even if you did get together, of all of the things that could go horribly wrong.
what you could do is just stop talking to him. i know its ahrd, but just try it. try to get more guy friends. in my opinion you should just tell him how you feel because both of you are obviously into each other.
tell him u like him
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You can't just get over him that quick. It's going to take time and you probaly shouldnt see him for awhile
talk to him and make him fall for you more make him hang out with u more dan his gf and when he tells u he lkes u tell him u like him to.
tell him how you feel...everyword you said here =]
lamb of god
tell him how you feel just be like i like you but if you dont like me thats ok cuz id rather be part of ur life as a freind than not be part of it at allCrush HELP/advice? ? please. guys/girls opinions?
YOU CAN'T CONTROL LOVE!! That's one. Second, u can't do anything, it'll just go by itself someday. If he really aske u out seriously, i guess u'll have to accept it coz u like him to rite. Who knows, he mite realize it and CRAZY about u. x) just wait. x)
You just have to get over it. It's painful, but it won't ever happen. Then think that even if you did get together, of all of the things that could go horribly wrong.
what you could do is just stop talking to him. i know its ahrd, but just try it. try to get more guy friends. in my opinion you should just tell him how you feel because both of you are obviously into each other.
tell him u like him
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You can't just get over him that quick. It's going to take time and you probaly shouldnt see him for awhile
talk to him and make him fall for you more make him hang out with u more dan his gf and when he tells u he lkes u tell him u like him to.
tell him how you feel...everyword you said here =]
lamb of god
I need advice from guys who will be HONEST. does he like me or not?
ok so theres this really cute guy that i met a little over a week ago and now were like constantly talking to each other and like all flirty flirty. i know hes a player cuz my best friend has known him for a long time, and now the guy, johnny, keeps telling my friend that he wants to hook up with me and things are gonna get freaky at this party were going to. he said that hes gonna get with me and he told me i should get ready for the best night of my life. he also has been asking her who i like and stuff. so do u think he actually likes me like relationship status, or just wants to hook up?I need advice from guys who will be HONEST. does he like me or not?
lol he just wants to **** thats what it sounds likke but just give it up you know you want it que noI need advice from guys who will be HONEST. does he like me or not?
HE just wants a quickie that one night and thats it
Wow he seems like he really likes you :)
he just wants to hook up
honestly he just wants to hook up
he doesnt want a llong relationship. he basically wants some sex. it depends on what you want. if you want some dick have a one night stand with him if not and if u want a meaningful relationship dont go out with him
good luck
He is a player who is an asshole and will break up with you after a week. Dont give him the one night stand your better than that you deserve better Stay away from him you will only get hurt.
He wants in and out. thats it. nothing more.
Well duh!!!
:-P
I honestly think he just wants to hook up with you. He even admitted that he wants to hook up with you and since you know he's a player he probably doesn't care about the whole relationship thing and only wants you for sex.
he only wnats to get in your pants. hook up and getting freaky mean one thing, he is not into relationships he is a player just playing the game.asking what you like is to try to impress you into thinking he is a nice guy trust me he aint....
he just want to hook up.
My advice....date no one named johnny.
They are always players.
This kinda sounds like my ex Johnny Sapp.
He was hella annoying
there is a guy i know that is just like this at my school. he just wants a hook up. but what makes mine worse is that this guy that i like is a football player, with blue eyes and brown hair with tan skin and muscles. Hes also tall. idk what to do about him either. but not unless you're looking for a hook up too, drop this guy.scars
lol he just wants to **** thats what it sounds likke but just give it up you know you want it que noI need advice from guys who will be HONEST. does he like me or not?
HE just wants a quickie that one night and thats it
Wow he seems like he really likes you :)
he just wants to hook up
honestly he just wants to hook up
he doesnt want a llong relationship. he basically wants some sex. it depends on what you want. if you want some dick have a one night stand with him if not and if u want a meaningful relationship dont go out with him
good luck
He is a player who is an asshole and will break up with you after a week. Dont give him the one night stand your better than that you deserve better Stay away from him you will only get hurt.
He wants in and out. thats it. nothing more.
Well duh!!!
:-P
I honestly think he just wants to hook up with you. He even admitted that he wants to hook up with you and since you know he's a player he probably doesn't care about the whole relationship thing and only wants you for sex.
he only wnats to get in your pants. hook up and getting freaky mean one thing, he is not into relationships he is a player just playing the game.asking what you like is to try to impress you into thinking he is a nice guy trust me he aint....
he just want to hook up.
My advice....date no one named johnny.
They are always players.
This kinda sounds like my ex Johnny Sapp.
He was hella annoying
there is a guy i know that is just like this at my school. he just wants a hook up. but what makes mine worse is that this guy that i like is a football player, with blue eyes and brown hair with tan skin and muscles. Hes also tall. idk what to do about him either. but not unless you're looking for a hook up too, drop this guy.
I NEED ADVICE ON GUYS! please help?
hey, im 14 im a freshman at a new school, and i have a bit of guy trouble. people say im pretty and stuff and guys seem to like me, even as just friends, but the ones i always like don't seem to like me back. are they playing hard to get?
i always like older guys like mostly juniors. the first kid i liked, our moms are friends and stuff and he's cool, ironically in my chemistry class, and we used to text, but i don't know if he likes me. we joke around sometimes, but when he's with his friends he just doesn't seem to like me. we will call him guy #1.
now guy #2, is also 2 years older then me. we text a lot and he always makes jokes about hooking up and he is so funny, he's always nice to me. we just started talking though. he seems into it like always texting me, but we only talk sometimes in person. but we're friends i don't know if maybe we just don't see each other a lot in school...im not sure if he likes me.
who should i go for. guy #1, or guy #2? do either one of them like me? or is this all in my head?I NEED ADVICE ON GUYS! please help?
You should go for Guy 2. I guess he's shy so he only jokes about hooking up because he's nervous you'll say no. He texts you regularly which is a really good sign of interest. Let him know you're free sometime and you want to do something (like let him know you've got nothing to do and are bored). Hopefully he'll ask you out.
i always like older guys like mostly juniors. the first kid i liked, our moms are friends and stuff and he's cool, ironically in my chemistry class, and we used to text, but i don't know if he likes me. we joke around sometimes, but when he's with his friends he just doesn't seem to like me. we will call him guy #1.
now guy #2, is also 2 years older then me. we text a lot and he always makes jokes about hooking up and he is so funny, he's always nice to me. we just started talking though. he seems into it like always texting me, but we only talk sometimes in person. but we're friends i don't know if maybe we just don't see each other a lot in school...im not sure if he likes me.
who should i go for. guy #1, or guy #2? do either one of them like me? or is this all in my head?I NEED ADVICE ON GUYS! please help?
You should go for Guy 2. I guess he's shy so he only jokes about hooking up because he's nervous you'll say no. He texts you regularly which is a really good sign of interest. Let him know you're free sometime and you want to do something (like let him know you've got nothing to do and are bored). Hopefully he'll ask you out.
I need advice from guys or if you girls have been thru this,asap?
i've asked several questions on my relationship and i am very confused but my main question is,,,,,is it possible or does it happen that guys even though they still love their girl they act as if they lost interest....do you just stop being nice and is it true that even though you love her and there is noone else you feel sometimes as if you need your space?? we were always together and until lately we were in our honeymoon stage, he stopped calling as much and didnt see me like before,,, our sex life was still good but emotionally he doesnt show interest, he says that he feels choked up and to just give him time, that he wants to chill wit his friends without having to ask for permission, is this normal. he used to always want to be wit me and do eveything with me but now its nothing like that, he still assures me he loves me but doesnt show it, doesnt really hold my hand, call me during the day or stress about seeing me, whats up is it a phase or should i worry?I need advice from guys or if you girls have been thru this,asap?
It simply comes down to this ,,,, If the guy felt about you the way he should then he wouldn't be treating you this way ,,,, If he felt any love for you then he'd be bending over backwards as far as he can to prove it to you ,,,,There is no need nor is there any good purpose to being abusive demeaning or cruel to any one ,,,, He's being cruel to you by playing these head games ,,,, You need this guy like you need another hole in the head and a broken leg ,,,, The guy is an immature jerk that lets his glands do his thinking for him and control his actions ,,,, He's a loser and will continue to be until he grows up ,,,, Drop this guy like you would a hot rock ,,,, There's no future in this relationship for you at all ,,,, He's a total jerk a low life a user and a loser ,,,,You don't need this crap in your life what so ever ,,,, Get rid if him immediately ,,,, Yoda said so //I need advice from guys or if you girls have been thru this,asap?
It's possible you made everything too easy for him. Sex too early in the relationship usually means the end of a relationship. A guy confuses sex and love. We women think sex and love are the same thing. They don't. And they get bored with us because they can't see past the sex, and unfortuantley their are plenty of girls out there willing to give the sex.
Respect yourself and he will respect you. If not this guy, then the next one.
It simply comes down to this ,,,, If the guy felt about you the way he should then he wouldn't be treating you this way ,,,, If he felt any love for you then he'd be bending over backwards as far as he can to prove it to you ,,,,There is no need nor is there any good purpose to being abusive demeaning or cruel to any one ,,,, He's being cruel to you by playing these head games ,,,, You need this guy like you need another hole in the head and a broken leg ,,,, The guy is an immature jerk that lets his glands do his thinking for him and control his actions ,,,, He's a loser and will continue to be until he grows up ,,,, Drop this guy like you would a hot rock ,,,, There's no future in this relationship for you at all ,,,, He's a total jerk a low life a user and a loser ,,,,You don't need this crap in your life what so ever ,,,, Get rid if him immediately ,,,, Yoda said so //I need advice from guys or if you girls have been thru this,asap?
It's possible you made everything too easy for him. Sex too early in the relationship usually means the end of a relationship. A guy confuses sex and love. We women think sex and love are the same thing. They don't. And they get bored with us because they can't see past the sex, and unfortuantley their are plenty of girls out there willing to give the sex.
Respect yourself and he will respect you. If not this guy, then the next one.
I Need Advice About Guys?
ok im 13 in 8th grade and ive only had one boyfriend and that only lasted 3 days (and he only went out with me cuz he liked my best friend and she told him to ask me out but i didnt really like him) ive never kissed a guy or even held hands with a guy and your probably thinking i have plenty of time but literaly all my friends have had tons of boyfriends and no guys even like me, think im pretty, flirt with me, or anything and i think im kinda nice looking and my friends say im pretty and im not even like really fat or flat chested or anything (i know girls way uglier than me who have boyfriends) i think i have a nice personality im nice to mostly everyone and im always happy and love to have fun and im kinda popular too........ its just not fair everyone has a boyfriend except me i dont think ill ever have a boyfriend until im like 25......... what do u think i should do ???I Need Advice About Guys?
can i be one of them to hold ur hand and be ur bf....try me....I Need Advice About Guys?
i have seen ur pictures on here before not tht i stalk u or anything but ur pretty i dont know wats wrong with those guyz in ur skool
but just wiat u sound like me im 13 too and i have never had a boyfriend and only 2 guys have asked me out and i said no but i kinda regret it but back to u
ur pretty just wait and ur time will reach
can i be one of them to hold ur hand and be ur bf....try me....I Need Advice About Guys?
i have seen ur pictures on here before not tht i stalk u or anything but ur pretty i dont know wats wrong with those guyz in ur skool
but just wiat u sound like me im 13 too and i have never had a boyfriend and only 2 guys have asked me out and i said no but i kinda regret it but back to u
ur pretty just wait and ur time will reach
Need relationship advice please guys?
I'm looking for a bit of advice please guys
There's this guy that I have really fallen hard for and I think he likes me too. He's bisexual and I've known him for a couple of years.
Since I've known him, at least one of us has been in a relationship except for now, but when we couldn't be together, he said it's a shame that we were never both single at the same time and seemed to imply that he wanted to go out with me. But now that we are both single, he is saying that he doesn't want a relationship with anyone.
On a website on which we are both members, we are linked as Secondary Relationship Partners of each other and I've asked him why only Secondary and not Primary and he said because I didn't list him as Primary when I listed him. Anyhow, I said to him that to do that, we would have to be going out together.
Also before you say it guys, he didn't seem to be asking me out or anything. We have had fun together before but not actually penetrative sex and it was great what we did do.
I honestly don't know what to do...Need relationship advice please guys?
you two cant fight your feelings forever.
you need to bite the bullet and kiss him by supriseNeed relationship advice please guys?
Be honest with him...even though he has said he doesnt want a relationship right now , you need to put it out there. Remind him of what he said about how you guys are never single at the same time, and that now you both are you should at least give things a try. Even if you suggest taking things slowly. Take the plunge!!
There's this guy that I have really fallen hard for and I think he likes me too. He's bisexual and I've known him for a couple of years.
Since I've known him, at least one of us has been in a relationship except for now, but when we couldn't be together, he said it's a shame that we were never both single at the same time and seemed to imply that he wanted to go out with me. But now that we are both single, he is saying that he doesn't want a relationship with anyone.
On a website on which we are both members, we are linked as Secondary Relationship Partners of each other and I've asked him why only Secondary and not Primary and he said because I didn't list him as Primary when I listed him. Anyhow, I said to him that to do that, we would have to be going out together.
Also before you say it guys, he didn't seem to be asking me out or anything. We have had fun together before but not actually penetrative sex and it was great what we did do.
I honestly don't know what to do...Need relationship advice please guys?
you two cant fight your feelings forever.
you need to bite the bullet and kiss him by supriseNeed relationship advice please guys?
Be honest with him...even though he has said he doesnt want a relationship right now , you need to put it out there. Remind him of what he said about how you guys are never single at the same time, and that now you both are you should at least give things a try. Even if you suggest taking things slowly. Take the plunge!!
I need advice from guys or girls please this is urgent for me?
I'm very young and obviously am not sure of things I do in life. But I have a bf. he's a secret bf. my parents dont know because they dont like him. The guy is older than me a lot older, he's a man. and I'm scared that he's playing with my head and he might think its easy cause i'm young. but he sometimes will text me and tell me to meet him somewhere in secret and he just makes out with me. and then later when i'm at home and I feel like talking to him he isn't very nice. he will tell me that he's busy, or that his phone is dying and he uses that excuse a lot. I am worried for falling for someone who is gonna take advantage of me and doesn't even love me. what should I do. Should i tell him how i feel. what should I do and how. I need help please. I can't ask my parentsI need advice from guys or girls please this is urgent for me?
it sounds like he might be taking advantage of you. you seem to realize it but you refuse to admit it. take a step back and look at your situation. are there any friends that have opinions about this? honestly, if the guy is so horrible that you can't introduce him to your parents, even as a friend, then it sounds like there might be something wrong. i worry for your safety, these things never end well (trust me, i know :/ ). get out while you can.I need advice from guys or girls please this is urgent for me?
you should dump him.
he's obviously just stringing you along %26amp; he will just take advantage of you.
if he uses excuses a lot, then he doesnt really care about you.
if he did love you, he would be trustworthy, honest, NICE, and you would be happy.
i know you will get into A LOT of trouble with your parents, but you need to tell them.
they will be proud of you later when you tell them the truth.
You know in your heart that this man isn't right for you. That's why you don't want to tell your parents. You are right, he is taking advantage of you...and if you are under 18, it's also illegal. I urge you to break off all communication with him. Honestly, you should tell your parents too. You may need their protection from him..and they can't protect you if they don't know what's going on.
It sounds like this guy dose not really care for you. Relationships with age differences can be tricky and you have to be careful. I think you should end the relationship, you deserve someone who cares about you more. But if you really want to try and make it work, you will have to talk to him and be honest with him about how you feel. Good luck!
Just stop contact all together. It's gonna be hard, but you have to try. I was in a similar situation. I did tell him how I felt, and at first it was mutual but in the end it just pushed him away. After he got what he wanted from me, he just left me in the dust. So please don't let that happen to you too hon, it hurts too much.
if hes tht much older than u then u shouldnt b daten in the first place thts prolly y ur parents dnt lyk him cuz my parents are rlly strict and my dad is lyk rlly protective over me and he said that as long as my bf treats me good that he wont cause problems soo i would tell ur mom i know u dont want to but its the best thing to do
Sounds like you have yourself a married man here or someone already in a relationship. You're right - he doesn't care about you one little bit and is just using you for his own enjoyment. Tell an adult you can trust and don't make yourself available to him.
girl, he is older n thinks u r young n naive! he is using u! c, all he wants is to make out with u n after he gets what he wants, he doesn't care about u anymore. girl, u deserve sooo much better! just find another guy :)
hope i helped at least a little bit
BREAK UP WITH HIM NOW!!!!!!!!!!1 HE IS GONNA RAPE YOU THIS HAPEENED TO MY FRIEND!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! IM SERIOUS THIS IS DANGEROUS TEL UR MOM NOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!! SHE WILL BE PROUD OF U FOR TELLING HER SO DONT BE SHY TELL PEOPLE AND FORGET ABOUT HIM'!!!
well if you are ';very young'; and he's a ';man'; you probably shouldn't eben be ';together';
tell him straight to the face. I am 20 now and I used to have sex for money to pay for college, some idiots want nothing but sex.
girl you are being used by this much older man, stop this relationship now please. dont ruin your life because of some jerk.
He is definitely using you.
I THINK THAT HE MIGHT BE PLAYING YOU...
YOU SHOULD FOR SOMEONE THAT IS AROUND YOU AGE
I THINK THAT WOULD BE BETTER
Dont be with somebody way older than you,
They only use you.
Its not a good idea.
He might not want to be discovered by your parents.
What are your respective ages?
break up withhim hes taking advantage of you
ok yes sorry but if he says that then he is takeing advanteg of you get rid of him quick hope you find someone special :)
run just run hard and fast,this is some dateline stuff.
First, how old are you and how old is this man?
RUUUNN
He's just playing you. Keeping you at his finger tips. tell him what you feel and if resorts with more making out then he's not taking you seriously.... that's my opinion.
GET AWAY FROM HIM! trust me on this....... i would know
omg i had a similar situation and the guy was married so get out of that
he is so taking advantage of u!!!! he just wants u for one thing
He sounds like a douchebag. You shouldn't be with him at all because clearly, he isn't interested in you. Not emotionally anyway. You say he might just be messing with you because he thinks it's easy and frankly you're right. No insult to you or anything. You should just break up with him and if he says he's going to change, break up with him anyway. Trust me, if you tell him what you're feeling, he's going to make up a reason why he's acting like that and say he's going to change and he isn't going to. And from the way this is sounding, it will be MUCH better for you if you bail out now.
He is taking advantage of you!! Think about it. Why do you think he doesn't want to talk to you? Why does he take you some place ';secret'; to make out with you?? Has he ever told you, that he loves you?? Have you two ever sat down and just talked, like two regular human beings? Either sit down and talk to him or try to avoid him and hope he goes away. If he does start ';following'; you or he won't leave you alone, you might have to tell your parents!!
Be Careful!!
Leave him. You're young, too young to be worrying about some guy who's only in it for the physical stuff. This can be dangerous, if that's all he really wants from you he can force himself on you. This is a really bad situation, just end it. You have plenty of time to find someone who will love you and care for you. My best advice is to stay away from people too much older than you (like 2 years is pushing it) until you are 18. The older some boys get, the more they feel like they're untouchable. Please be careful, and just leave him. He's not your world, don't let anyone be. Not till you're independent enough with a good job and your own place. Don't put your life on hold because of some guy.
He can hurt you. I've seen too many situations like yours that went horribly wrong. Don't let him fool you. Get out quickly, please.
This is really hard. I'm sorry you got into this mess.
if you tell him how you feel then you risk him getting mad, and taking what he wants...(if you catch what im saying)
i know this isn't what you want to here...but you really should tell your parents and let them handle this.
there's no way of getting around the fact that you will be hurt either mentally, physically or both.
so please just tell your parents and then tell him how you feel and after that if he text you to meet him some where don't go.
(this is a bad thing waiting to happen...that or im paranoid for you)
No one should be treated that way! DUMP HIM!!! How? you may ask? well you don't want to be mean or say it in a wrong way because then it could get dangerous and if it does call the police. but say something or text him saying idon'tt think we can keep going on like this im always there when you want or need me but when i want someone to talk to i ask you but you always make up excuses! it seems like you just use me for your own benifits. caz when i want something your always busy. Something like that should help. I hope it does BEST OF LUCK!
it sounds like he might be taking advantage of you. you seem to realize it but you refuse to admit it. take a step back and look at your situation. are there any friends that have opinions about this? honestly, if the guy is so horrible that you can't introduce him to your parents, even as a friend, then it sounds like there might be something wrong. i worry for your safety, these things never end well (trust me, i know :/ ). get out while you can.I need advice from guys or girls please this is urgent for me?
you should dump him.
he's obviously just stringing you along %26amp; he will just take advantage of you.
if he uses excuses a lot, then he doesnt really care about you.
if he did love you, he would be trustworthy, honest, NICE, and you would be happy.
i know you will get into A LOT of trouble with your parents, but you need to tell them.
they will be proud of you later when you tell them the truth.
You know in your heart that this man isn't right for you. That's why you don't want to tell your parents. You are right, he is taking advantage of you...and if you are under 18, it's also illegal. I urge you to break off all communication with him. Honestly, you should tell your parents too. You may need their protection from him..and they can't protect you if they don't know what's going on.
It sounds like this guy dose not really care for you. Relationships with age differences can be tricky and you have to be careful. I think you should end the relationship, you deserve someone who cares about you more. But if you really want to try and make it work, you will have to talk to him and be honest with him about how you feel. Good luck!
Just stop contact all together. It's gonna be hard, but you have to try. I was in a similar situation. I did tell him how I felt, and at first it was mutual but in the end it just pushed him away. After he got what he wanted from me, he just left me in the dust. So please don't let that happen to you too hon, it hurts too much.
if hes tht much older than u then u shouldnt b daten in the first place thts prolly y ur parents dnt lyk him cuz my parents are rlly strict and my dad is lyk rlly protective over me and he said that as long as my bf treats me good that he wont cause problems soo i would tell ur mom i know u dont want to but its the best thing to do
Sounds like you have yourself a married man here or someone already in a relationship. You're right - he doesn't care about you one little bit and is just using you for his own enjoyment. Tell an adult you can trust and don't make yourself available to him.
girl, he is older n thinks u r young n naive! he is using u! c, all he wants is to make out with u n after he gets what he wants, he doesn't care about u anymore. girl, u deserve sooo much better! just find another guy :)
hope i helped at least a little bit
BREAK UP WITH HIM NOW!!!!!!!!!!1 HE IS GONNA RAPE YOU THIS HAPEENED TO MY FRIEND!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! IM SERIOUS THIS IS DANGEROUS TEL UR MOM NOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!! SHE WILL BE PROUD OF U FOR TELLING HER SO DONT BE SHY TELL PEOPLE AND FORGET ABOUT HIM'!!!
well if you are ';very young'; and he's a ';man'; you probably shouldn't eben be ';together';
tell him straight to the face. I am 20 now and I used to have sex for money to pay for college, some idiots want nothing but sex.
girl you are being used by this much older man, stop this relationship now please. dont ruin your life because of some jerk.
He is definitely using you.
I THINK THAT HE MIGHT BE PLAYING YOU...
YOU SHOULD FOR SOMEONE THAT IS AROUND YOU AGE
I THINK THAT WOULD BE BETTER
Dont be with somebody way older than you,
They only use you.
Its not a good idea.
He might not want to be discovered by your parents.
What are your respective ages?
break up withhim hes taking advantage of you
ok yes sorry but if he says that then he is takeing advanteg of you get rid of him quick hope you find someone special :)
run just run hard and fast,this is some dateline stuff.
First, how old are you and how old is this man?
RUUUNN
He's just playing you. Keeping you at his finger tips. tell him what you feel and if resorts with more making out then he's not taking you seriously.... that's my opinion.
GET AWAY FROM HIM! trust me on this....... i would know
omg i had a similar situation and the guy was married so get out of that
he is so taking advantage of u!!!! he just wants u for one thing
He sounds like a douchebag. You shouldn't be with him at all because clearly, he isn't interested in you. Not emotionally anyway. You say he might just be messing with you because he thinks it's easy and frankly you're right. No insult to you or anything. You should just break up with him and if he says he's going to change, break up with him anyway. Trust me, if you tell him what you're feeling, he's going to make up a reason why he's acting like that and say he's going to change and he isn't going to. And from the way this is sounding, it will be MUCH better for you if you bail out now.
He is taking advantage of you!! Think about it. Why do you think he doesn't want to talk to you? Why does he take you some place ';secret'; to make out with you?? Has he ever told you, that he loves you?? Have you two ever sat down and just talked, like two regular human beings? Either sit down and talk to him or try to avoid him and hope he goes away. If he does start ';following'; you or he won't leave you alone, you might have to tell your parents!!
Be Careful!!
Leave him. You're young, too young to be worrying about some guy who's only in it for the physical stuff. This can be dangerous, if that's all he really wants from you he can force himself on you. This is a really bad situation, just end it. You have plenty of time to find someone who will love you and care for you. My best advice is to stay away from people too much older than you (like 2 years is pushing it) until you are 18. The older some boys get, the more they feel like they're untouchable. Please be careful, and just leave him. He's not your world, don't let anyone be. Not till you're independent enough with a good job and your own place. Don't put your life on hold because of some guy.
He can hurt you. I've seen too many situations like yours that went horribly wrong. Don't let him fool you. Get out quickly, please.
This is really hard. I'm sorry you got into this mess.
if you tell him how you feel then you risk him getting mad, and taking what he wants...(if you catch what im saying)
i know this isn't what you want to here...but you really should tell your parents and let them handle this.
there's no way of getting around the fact that you will be hurt either mentally, physically or both.
so please just tell your parents and then tell him how you feel and after that if he text you to meet him some where don't go.
(this is a bad thing waiting to happen...that or im paranoid for you)
No one should be treated that way! DUMP HIM!!! How? you may ask? well you don't want to be mean or say it in a wrong way because then it could get dangerous and if it does call the police. but say something or text him saying idon'tt think we can keep going on like this im always there when you want or need me but when i want someone to talk to i ask you but you always make up excuses! it seems like you just use me for your own benifits. caz when i want something your always busy. Something like that should help. I hope it does BEST OF LUCK!
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