Ok so im 14 (please no crap about the age) and i really like this guy who i have know for years. But he always flirts with other girls. and me and him are kinda friends and a few weeks ago we were texting and talking on the phone for hours. he said he really liked me and that we should go out. I said no because before we dated and we only dated for like a week and he told me he loved me and wanted to have sex. Well i didnt want to have sex because we werent dating that long and im to young. He said it was ok but a few days later he broke up with me and said he wanted to be just friends. I was upset but i wasnt sure if he broke up with me because i wouldnt have sex with him. But after he asked me out and i said no he didnt talk to me for a week and i texted him a few times and he didnt answer. then i found out he had a girlfriend and she is very easy. should i have just dated him then had sex with him or did i make the right choiceHelp need advice On guys. Did i make the right choice?
Holy!!!!! I can't believe you're even wondering about this one. It's clear that he wanted to have sex with you, and once you said no, he not only dumped you, he ignored you. He knows that if he plays hardball you'll come around. Lets put it this way. He will dump you whether or not you have sex with him. If you don't have sex with him, he dumps you. If you do have sex with him, he'll get you for what he wants in you and then,,,,,,,,,,, dump you.
So I'd say you made the right decision, presuming that you're going to stick by your original decision, which sounds like you're not going to do that.Help need advice On guys. Did i make the right choice?
Wait a week and it will be obvious that you're an idiot.
Yhew made the right choice becaues ima guy and not all of us but most of us dont care about u!!! i care about all my girlfreinds but most of the others dont and all they want to do is get in your pants and if you let them youll be known for being easy. So if you want to keep your good reputation dont let them trick you into making you think they love you and then you have sex with him....P.S. Im 13 so dont feel left out!!! lOL
Monday, August 23, 2010
Relationship woes... advice from guys and girls?
My boyfriend and I are pretty close, but lately I feel like lately some aspects are drifting away.
I guess when I try to make love to him, he is nowhere near as interested as me. We used to dance all the time, but now if we dance, he'll dance for thirty seconds and stop... he just seems more and more interested in things like watching TV and less and less like doing the stuff we used to. I know these things sound insignificant, but it's really a myriad of little things. I'll start giving him a BJ and he'll be like ';baby, dont you have to get back to your work'; and it's just such a downer and makes me feel like s*t - he is so wonderful and is most likely just trying to be thoughtful, but there's no denying he's a little less into it all.
What is this? Is it just a natural progression of a relationship - does anyone out there have a relationship that has been going on for years and still have all the oomph?
Hmmm... just wondering cos right now Im feeling a little dowRelationship woes... advice from guys and girls?
wow getting a bj and he asks u should u go back to work? bite that crap off hahah. one make sure hes not gay ok? two back off a little see how he responds, maybe he doesnt wanna get so close where its gonna scare him. or just come out straight up and ask him i dont feel like were the same is everything ok? i mean u need to know cuz ur gonna get hurt if he keeps doing this. i say do one of those options and stick with it. but if u think ur only gonna get hurt then u have to make a choice. good luck
I guess when I try to make love to him, he is nowhere near as interested as me. We used to dance all the time, but now if we dance, he'll dance for thirty seconds and stop... he just seems more and more interested in things like watching TV and less and less like doing the stuff we used to. I know these things sound insignificant, but it's really a myriad of little things. I'll start giving him a BJ and he'll be like ';baby, dont you have to get back to your work'; and it's just such a downer and makes me feel like s*t - he is so wonderful and is most likely just trying to be thoughtful, but there's no denying he's a little less into it all.
What is this? Is it just a natural progression of a relationship - does anyone out there have a relationship that has been going on for years and still have all the oomph?
Hmmm... just wondering cos right now Im feeling a little dowRelationship woes... advice from guys and girls?
wow getting a bj and he asks u should u go back to work? bite that crap off hahah. one make sure hes not gay ok? two back off a little see how he responds, maybe he doesnt wanna get so close where its gonna scare him. or just come out straight up and ask him i dont feel like were the same is everything ok? i mean u need to know cuz ur gonna get hurt if he keeps doing this. i say do one of those options and stick with it. but if u think ur only gonna get hurt then u have to make a choice. good luck
Help need advice On guys. Did i make the right choice?
Ok so im 14 (please no crap about the age) and i really like this guy who i have know for years. But he always flirts with other girls. and me and him are kinda friends and a few weeks ago we were texting and talking on the phone for hours. he said he really liked me and that we should go out. I said no because before we dated and we only dated for like a week and he told me he loved me and wanted to have sex. Well i didnt want to have sex because we werent dating that long and im to young. He said it was ok but a few days later he broke up with me and said he wanted to be just friends. I was upset but i wasnt sure if he broke up with me because i wouldnt have sex with him. But after he asked me out and i said no he didnt talk to me for a week and i texted him a few times and he didnt answer. then i found out he had a girlfriend and she is very easy. should i have just dated him then had sex with him or did i make the right choiceHelp need advice On guys. Did i make the right choice?
Holy!!!!! I can't believe you're even wondering about this one. It's clear that he wanted to have sex with you, and once you said no, he not only dumped you, he ignored you. He knows that if he plays hardball you'll come around. Lets put it this way. He will dump you whether or not you have sex with him. If you don't have sex with him, he dumps you. If you do have sex with him, he'll get you for what he wants in you and then,,,,,,,,,,, dump you.
So I'd say you made the right decision, presuming that you're going to stick by your original decision, which sounds like you're not going to do that.Help need advice On guys. Did i make the right choice?
Wait a week and it will be obvious that you're an idiot.
Yhew made the right choice becaues ima guy and not all of us but most of us dont care about u!!! i care about all my girlfreinds but most of the others dont and all they want to do is get in your pants and if you let them youll be known for being easy. So if you want to keep your good reputation dont let them trick you into making you think they love you and then you have sex with him....P.S. Im 13 so dont feel left out!!! lOL
Holy!!!!! I can't believe you're even wondering about this one. It's clear that he wanted to have sex with you, and once you said no, he not only dumped you, he ignored you. He knows that if he plays hardball you'll come around. Lets put it this way. He will dump you whether or not you have sex with him. If you don't have sex with him, he dumps you. If you do have sex with him, he'll get you for what he wants in you and then,,,,,,,,,,, dump you.
So I'd say you made the right decision, presuming that you're going to stick by your original decision, which sounds like you're not going to do that.Help need advice On guys. Did i make the right choice?
Wait a week and it will be obvious that you're an idiot.
Yhew made the right choice becaues ima guy and not all of us but most of us dont care about u!!! i care about all my girlfreinds but most of the others dont and all they want to do is get in your pants and if you let them youll be known for being easy. So if you want to keep your good reputation dont let them trick you into making you think they love you and then you have sex with him....P.S. Im 13 so dont feel left out!!! lOL
Need your advice seriously guys!?
First of all i am kinda shy (only around a crush or a stranger). So this guy who likes me, i know because he calls me his girl/baby, and asked me to kiss him a few times. So usually he talks to me first or hugs me first, because he knows i'm kinda shy. By the way we are kinda friends already. So the other day he walked next to me to wait n see if i would talk, because once i did he said ';you were waiting for me to say something weren't you?'; n i said ';no';. He talked to me still but didn't say hi, he would be like oh are you trying to get by, so why'd you change classes. Then since then he looks at me like he wants to speak to me or wants me to speak or something, but he won't say hey to me until i say hey to him. What should i say to him to him, or do to make him realize i do like him.???Need your advice seriously guys!?
well its kinda hard to say cause i havnt observed this myself but you have to let him kno you like him or you might as well give up. you never know what may happen i mean wats the worst that could happen.. he says no you say ok and just try to get over it. good luck..how bout this email me his answer if you dont mind me knowing and all my email is baumwi@yahoo.com (make sure you point out that i answered a question so i dont forget the names william by the way.Need your advice seriously guys!?
This guy seems to be pretty forward, so since he likes you then you should stop being shy around the guy. Just tell him you like him, and by the sound of things, he will definitely give you some positive feedback... if he wants you to say ';hey'; then say ';hey.'; Just go for it and, trust me on this, he will welcome you with open arms. Hope I helped you in some way, Good Luck : )
well its kinda hard to say cause i havnt observed this myself but you have to let him kno you like him or you might as well give up. you never know what may happen i mean wats the worst that could happen.. he says no you say ok and just try to get over it. good luck..how bout this email me his answer if you dont mind me knowing and all my email is baumwi@yahoo.com (make sure you point out that i answered a question so i dont forget the names william by the way.Need your advice seriously guys!?
This guy seems to be pretty forward, so since he likes you then you should stop being shy around the guy. Just tell him you like him, and by the sound of things, he will definitely give you some positive feedback... if he wants you to say ';hey'; then say ';hey.'; Just go for it and, trust me on this, he will welcome you with open arms. Hope I helped you in some way, Good Luck : )
I need advice on guys...??
ok, if you would help, that would be really awesome! : )
there's this guy that i've liked for a while, a big crush and all...
well, my friend might be having a party at the end of the year, for summer and stuff, and i was thinking about making a move.
but i'm not sure how...i want to tell him that i like him, and i kind of just want to kiss him, like when he's not expecting it...
i'm not trying to sound desperate or anything, but i was just thinking about it.
what would you do?
what would you say?
where's the best place to do that?
thanks for your help!! ~鈾?: ) **I need advice on guys...??
No babygirl. Life does not work like the movies. While that's a nice gesture, that's not quite the way to go about it. That's a good way to possibly get hurt and/or embarrased. Cruise don't speed. First just get his phone number, get to know a little about him, and find out if he's even worth your time, find out if he's got a girlfriend, find out what he likes to do and where he likes to go.
Remember, everything that looks good isn't good. Make sure you like him, and don't just like him because he looks good. If he's a loser, or you feel like he's not a good person, just forget about him, remember you can't change anyone.
The party is a nice gesture, invite him and just hang around him and see how he reacts around the other girls. Then after the party, just let him know that you enjoy his company, and let him know that you like him alot. Don't kiss him, not on the first date, I really don't think you know him well enough, that would show him how desperate and vulnerable you are, and it would open up a door for him to use you. Don't let him use you. I have reason to believe the he's older than you, so be careful, boys are slick. They will do and say anything to get what they want. Get to know him before you kiss him, first impression is a lasting one, that could make you seem easy, boys don't like easy girls. They'll lead you to believe they do, but they don't. Don't be weak. I'm serious don't kiss him one the first date and don't let him kiss you. If you wait it out, you'll figure out if he really likes you, and if it's for the right reason. If a boy wants to spend time with you without getting any action, then he really likes you. But if every moment you spend together must be physical or not at all then he's using you, so keep that in mind. Movies are movies, unfortunatly real life hardly goes anything like the movies. So that whole kissing him without him expecting it, it's unreal and too dramatic. Remember cruise and don't speed. Don't rush anything. Don't let your hormones or his get the best of you. You've got a brain, use it. Good Luck!!!scars
there's this guy that i've liked for a while, a big crush and all...
well, my friend might be having a party at the end of the year, for summer and stuff, and i was thinking about making a move.
but i'm not sure how...i want to tell him that i like him, and i kind of just want to kiss him, like when he's not expecting it...
i'm not trying to sound desperate or anything, but i was just thinking about it.
what would you do?
what would you say?
where's the best place to do that?
thanks for your help!! ~鈾?: ) **I need advice on guys...??
No babygirl. Life does not work like the movies. While that's a nice gesture, that's not quite the way to go about it. That's a good way to possibly get hurt and/or embarrased. Cruise don't speed. First just get his phone number, get to know a little about him, and find out if he's even worth your time, find out if he's got a girlfriend, find out what he likes to do and where he likes to go.
Remember, everything that looks good isn't good. Make sure you like him, and don't just like him because he looks good. If he's a loser, or you feel like he's not a good person, just forget about him, remember you can't change anyone.
The party is a nice gesture, invite him and just hang around him and see how he reacts around the other girls. Then after the party, just let him know that you enjoy his company, and let him know that you like him alot. Don't kiss him, not on the first date, I really don't think you know him well enough, that would show him how desperate and vulnerable you are, and it would open up a door for him to use you. Don't let him use you. I have reason to believe the he's older than you, so be careful, boys are slick. They will do and say anything to get what they want. Get to know him before you kiss him, first impression is a lasting one, that could make you seem easy, boys don't like easy girls. They'll lead you to believe they do, but they don't. Don't be weak. I'm serious don't kiss him one the first date and don't let him kiss you. If you wait it out, you'll figure out if he really likes you, and if it's for the right reason. If a boy wants to spend time with you without getting any action, then he really likes you. But if every moment you spend together must be physical or not at all then he's using you, so keep that in mind. Movies are movies, unfortunatly real life hardly goes anything like the movies. So that whole kissing him without him expecting it, it's unreal and too dramatic. Remember cruise and don't speed. Don't rush anything. Don't let your hormones or his get the best of you. You've got a brain, use it. Good Luck!!!
Need your advice.2 guys and a baby on the way?
Ok so I'm 19 and 8 weeks pregnant by baby's father is in mexico. when he left he decided that we should just be friends because he didn't know what could happen while he was over there.(when he left we didn't know i was pregnant) lately an ex bf of mine has been asking m out he also knows i'm pregnant.Last thing I heard my ex (recent one) had a girlfriend but broke up with her when he found out i was pregnant. The thing is I don't know If i should go out with the guy that asks me out or if i should wait for my baby's dad to come back. The truth is I really love him but don't know what he feels for me. He didn't even wait 3 weeks b4 getting a new gf. Help?
By the way he's coming back in the end of marchNeed your advice.2 guys and a baby on the way?
'; He didn't even wait 3 weeks b4 getting a new gf.';
You do know how he feels about you, it's in your own statement. And in case you need it spelled out, He is over you, sorry, but that's how it is. Move on and find someone who will love you and your baby
By the way he's coming back in the end of marchNeed your advice.2 guys and a baby on the way?
'; He didn't even wait 3 weeks b4 getting a new gf.';
You do know how he feels about you, it's in your own statement. And in case you need it spelled out, He is over you, sorry, but that's how it is. Move on and find someone who will love you and your baby
How to get over a guy who used me? Advice from guys please?
The guy I had a thing with for four months just ended it last week. He was the first person I hooked up with and I am so attached to him, emotionally. He knew how special it was to me and he just told me he doesn't feel the same about me as he did before and that he wants me to move on when he promised he wouldn't leave me. I do not know how to handle this, I miss him so much and I need him/want him back so bad. He made me so happy and now I feel so alone. Why would he do this to me? I don't think I did anything wrong...actually I know I didn't. I tried calling him and I started crying and told him how much I care about him and want him back and he told me to stop because sensitive people are his pet peeve and said goodnight. Why doesn't he care about my feelings? I was nothing bu nice to him and he knows I still like him. I am 16 and he is 17 by the way. Help :(How to get over a guy who used me? Advice from guys please?
i have had staph infections that have lasted longer than 4 months. get a grip.How to get over a guy who used me? Advice from guys please?
He is a jerk.. I m 15 amd I try to get my girlfriend to express her feeling but she doesn't.. I would talk to him and figure stuff out ( that is the best way to handle it) Good luck i hope everything goes well!!!
To get over him, meet another guy, f*ck him,its his lost, and never call him again because he will start calling you again but ignore him
just talk to him about it. and just talk to a conselour or something to get over him
He thinks hes too cool for you and that hes a player im really sorry that you had this type of boy break your hart hes not a guy or a man hes just a stupid stupid boy. Don't worry he will get whats coming to him. You say he makes you feel so happy but look at the way you feel now its a lesson in life try to feel out someones personally better before you get intimate with them
not calling him would help, if you can. try to look at it this way, did u learn something from anything from the relationship?
Guys at that age seem to loose interest a lot sooner than older guys. They want to experience relationships, but something in their brain after awhile clicks and they actually do loose interest. It's not you as a person, or your looks, or how you are, it's a normal male reaction. This is why you don't give all out early in a young relationship.
This is part of the male mind. Scientifically. In the beginning they actually do feel what you do, but hormones get in the way and this changes. Just keep this in mind, you were what he wanted in the beginning and you still are that person. There is nothing in you that is worth rejecting. He is going through male hormones that cause him to do this. Guys this age are not emotionally mature enough to carry on a serious relationship after so long. This will eventually change and he will regret his decision.
But in the mean time. Care for yourself. You are not the problem here. You are all that and more. Yes he made you happy once, so can anyone for that matter. But he is not at the maturity level you are in relationships. He did this out of his own lack of maturity it's nothing you have done. Go find yourself a guy who is more mature emotionally. Yes you can love again.
I waited 40 years and finally found the one. Yeah it was a long time for me, but all those years I had many relationships, some were good, some not so good. It's all a part of learning. It will get easier.
And for you it probably wont take you as long as it did me. I purposely took time away from the dating scene for many years. For myself. Not cause I wanted to, but because I needed to.
It's expected that you'd feel attached to the first person you were with, and being that it just ended last week. But you need to get a grip. You said yourself he used you. He doesn't care about your feelings because he never really did care about you. Everyone gets over it the same, with time, so stop calling him and begging him to take you back. It doesn't matter how nice you were if he was using you.
aah ... theres someone else in his life ....!!!
you need to move on ...its was kind of one sided love....
and about using you ...thats a creepy thought ....whats if he has never looked at you in a lover kind of way..??that whats life is move on ...
date other guys
happy dating ;
oh man, this is the same story with me, and i so happen to be 17 too. But in this case i'm you, I try calling the girl. she used to be into me but i guess i tried too hard and i was too eager to both of us. He probably has been heartbroken way too many times and does not want to go through the same thing again.
no one uses you unless you give them the pleasure. 4 months usually is a time where you know if your into a person or not. i dated someone for 5 months and the guy fell in love with me but i didn't feel the same way. he was lucky that every time he lead me in a conversation tours how i felt , i was always 100% honest. dry your tears and walk with your head up high. at that moment that he told you those things, he probably meant them and in time he realize he didn't and just like that he let you go. lucky for you , some guys drag you along until you notice he doesn't care.i know it hurts but as soon as you try to make sense of it, your realize it was best for you.
this is what we do when were young. your going to have to be strong what doesn't kill you just makes you stronger.. don't take him back all he will want is sex and play you again and again.. no matter what he says don't take him back... wait till your older and find someone serious
Look first of all ur jst 16 yr old, I've been through that too and I know exactly how u feel, the problem is that when someone doesnt want to be w/ us we can't force them 2 stay and love us. Is just like that ur young and u have to realize that there are lots of guys in the world and at ur age ur gonna find some1 who cares for you, and I know but no matter how many guys you meet at this time but I'm pretty sure that no matter how many boys u've love w/ all ur heart ur gonna have 2 wait 4 the right one and when u find him or when u find each other ur gonna say its time. by the moment try to have funn do new things play games, talk to ur friends and don't think about him cuz ur gonna hurt urself more and more its not worth it belive me.
He didn't really love you, don't you see?
Force yourself to forget him, don't ask him back. He's gone.
Don't be alone at home and suffering.
Be with you friends, school colleagues...
Choose some kind of sport or some hobby.
Start with something absolutely new that would occupied you at new way, something creative.
Don't giveup! Life is good.
You have a good life ahead of you. It will take time to get over him. Don't hang on to something that don't want to be hung on to. He is nothing more then a learning experience that will make you stronger with your feelings in the future. I explain this to my own Daughter that she shouldn't worry too much about relationships at such a young age. She should concentrate on her schooling and once in college it may be better for her. At this age boys don't know what they want, they like testing the waters. Girls mature alot faster than boys.... Just keep your head high and Mr.Right will come along some day. In the mean time, Look towards your Career, Don't let this make you loose focus... BTW im a guy...
You must give me more info on the man that dumped you in order to give you advice.
You need to get some hobbies and not sweat this guy so much. Find someone else.
i have had staph infections that have lasted longer than 4 months. get a grip.How to get over a guy who used me? Advice from guys please?
He is a jerk.. I m 15 amd I try to get my girlfriend to express her feeling but she doesn't.. I would talk to him and figure stuff out ( that is the best way to handle it) Good luck i hope everything goes well!!!
To get over him, meet another guy, f*ck him,its his lost, and never call him again because he will start calling you again but ignore him
just talk to him about it. and just talk to a conselour or something to get over him
He thinks hes too cool for you and that hes a player im really sorry that you had this type of boy break your hart hes not a guy or a man hes just a stupid stupid boy. Don't worry he will get whats coming to him. You say he makes you feel so happy but look at the way you feel now its a lesson in life try to feel out someones personally better before you get intimate with them
not calling him would help, if you can. try to look at it this way, did u learn something from anything from the relationship?
Guys at that age seem to loose interest a lot sooner than older guys. They want to experience relationships, but something in their brain after awhile clicks and they actually do loose interest. It's not you as a person, or your looks, or how you are, it's a normal male reaction. This is why you don't give all out early in a young relationship.
This is part of the male mind. Scientifically. In the beginning they actually do feel what you do, but hormones get in the way and this changes. Just keep this in mind, you were what he wanted in the beginning and you still are that person. There is nothing in you that is worth rejecting. He is going through male hormones that cause him to do this. Guys this age are not emotionally mature enough to carry on a serious relationship after so long. This will eventually change and he will regret his decision.
But in the mean time. Care for yourself. You are not the problem here. You are all that and more. Yes he made you happy once, so can anyone for that matter. But he is not at the maturity level you are in relationships. He did this out of his own lack of maturity it's nothing you have done. Go find yourself a guy who is more mature emotionally. Yes you can love again.
I waited 40 years and finally found the one. Yeah it was a long time for me, but all those years I had many relationships, some were good, some not so good. It's all a part of learning. It will get easier.
And for you it probably wont take you as long as it did me. I purposely took time away from the dating scene for many years. For myself. Not cause I wanted to, but because I needed to.
It's expected that you'd feel attached to the first person you were with, and being that it just ended last week. But you need to get a grip. You said yourself he used you. He doesn't care about your feelings because he never really did care about you. Everyone gets over it the same, with time, so stop calling him and begging him to take you back. It doesn't matter how nice you were if he was using you.
aah ... theres someone else in his life ....!!!
you need to move on ...its was kind of one sided love....
and about using you ...thats a creepy thought ....whats if he has never looked at you in a lover kind of way..??that whats life is move on ...
date other guys
happy dating ;
oh man, this is the same story with me, and i so happen to be 17 too. But in this case i'm you, I try calling the girl. she used to be into me but i guess i tried too hard and i was too eager to both of us. He probably has been heartbroken way too many times and does not want to go through the same thing again.
no one uses you unless you give them the pleasure. 4 months usually is a time where you know if your into a person or not. i dated someone for 5 months and the guy fell in love with me but i didn't feel the same way. he was lucky that every time he lead me in a conversation tours how i felt , i was always 100% honest. dry your tears and walk with your head up high. at that moment that he told you those things, he probably meant them and in time he realize he didn't and just like that he let you go. lucky for you , some guys drag you along until you notice he doesn't care.i know it hurts but as soon as you try to make sense of it, your realize it was best for you.
this is what we do when were young. your going to have to be strong what doesn't kill you just makes you stronger.. don't take him back all he will want is sex and play you again and again.. no matter what he says don't take him back... wait till your older and find someone serious
Look first of all ur jst 16 yr old, I've been through that too and I know exactly how u feel, the problem is that when someone doesnt want to be w/ us we can't force them 2 stay and love us. Is just like that ur young and u have to realize that there are lots of guys in the world and at ur age ur gonna find some1 who cares for you, and I know but no matter how many guys you meet at this time but I'm pretty sure that no matter how many boys u've love w/ all ur heart ur gonna have 2 wait 4 the right one and when u find him or when u find each other ur gonna say its time. by the moment try to have funn do new things play games, talk to ur friends and don't think about him cuz ur gonna hurt urself more and more its not worth it belive me.
He didn't really love you, don't you see?
Force yourself to forget him, don't ask him back. He's gone.
Don't be alone at home and suffering.
Be with you friends, school colleagues...
Choose some kind of sport or some hobby.
Start with something absolutely new that would occupied you at new way, something creative.
Don't giveup! Life is good.
You have a good life ahead of you. It will take time to get over him. Don't hang on to something that don't want to be hung on to. He is nothing more then a learning experience that will make you stronger with your feelings in the future. I explain this to my own Daughter that she shouldn't worry too much about relationships at such a young age. She should concentrate on her schooling and once in college it may be better for her. At this age boys don't know what they want, they like testing the waters. Girls mature alot faster than boys.... Just keep your head high and Mr.Right will come along some day. In the mean time, Look towards your Career, Don't let this make you loose focus... BTW im a guy...
You must give me more info on the man that dumped you in order to give you advice.
You need to get some hobbies and not sweat this guy so much. Find someone else.
I need advice? Girls/Guys?
Okay, i think im really pretty, but one thing i hate. is that my ears stick out and it bothers me. Mr face is roundish sooo it looks odd.
Ever since school started i have not worn my hair up, which im afraid of because i have two classes where i am the only girl. and it just gets.... i guess the pressure to look perfect and pretty has gotten to me.
Is there anything i can do that'll make them not stick out?
WEll, yeah i know surgeries an option, but....
and i know i can just keep wearing my hair down.
Alright sooo what should i dooo!?I need advice? Girls/Guys?
Haha, from what I can tell from the itty-bitty picture of you, you're super pretty and I doubt your ears will change that too much.
Maybe if you'd be interested in bangs, get some long'ish ones that descend into layers. By doing this, when you keep your hair up, you'll have a bit of a frame in front. :] I keep my hair like this and, if you have enough layers, will swoosh all the way back to your ears and cover them just a *littttle*
best of luck!I need advice? Girls/Guys?
my dad has the biggest elf ears in the world, and i inherited a slightly scaled down version of them (he's 6'6';, i'm 5'8';). i know how it feels to think your ears are pulling a dumbo. but really, don't worry about it. it's just something that makes you a little unique, which is a good thing. if a guy thinks you're pretty, your ears won't change that. in fact, if you wear your hair up once in a while, it will show you have confidence and make you seem even more attractive. good luck! :)
Who's mr face?
Kidding.
Dont worry about it hun, ears that stick out arnt even the least bit noticable, I mean who even pays attention to ears, right? Don't be afraid to wear your hair up.. My sister's ears stick out, she has always worn her hair up and no one has even said anything about her ears.
When I was in elementary school the kids would pretend to flap my ears and say Dumbo is flying. But they aren't so bad now. It did give me a complex which I cured by noticing people that had ears sticking out more than I. Even with the complex I wore my hair in a pony tail most every day in college.
hm.. I dunno specifically how bad it is, do other people think so? You don't have to look perfect but flashy earrings can draw attention to the other part of your ears instead of just sticking out..?
have plastic surgery
Get over it.
people should appreciate you for who you are,
not how big your ears are. :L
you think youre really pretty?
*snortsnort*
wear hoop earrings it will distract it or a strand of hair in your face
try to wear bigger earing makes your ear look smaller?
Ever since school started i have not worn my hair up, which im afraid of because i have two classes where i am the only girl. and it just gets.... i guess the pressure to look perfect and pretty has gotten to me.
Is there anything i can do that'll make them not stick out?
WEll, yeah i know surgeries an option, but....
and i know i can just keep wearing my hair down.
Alright sooo what should i dooo!?I need advice? Girls/Guys?
Haha, from what I can tell from the itty-bitty picture of you, you're super pretty and I doubt your ears will change that too much.
Maybe if you'd be interested in bangs, get some long'ish ones that descend into layers. By doing this, when you keep your hair up, you'll have a bit of a frame in front. :] I keep my hair like this and, if you have enough layers, will swoosh all the way back to your ears and cover them just a *littttle*
best of luck!I need advice? Girls/Guys?
my dad has the biggest elf ears in the world, and i inherited a slightly scaled down version of them (he's 6'6';, i'm 5'8';). i know how it feels to think your ears are pulling a dumbo. but really, don't worry about it. it's just something that makes you a little unique, which is a good thing. if a guy thinks you're pretty, your ears won't change that. in fact, if you wear your hair up once in a while, it will show you have confidence and make you seem even more attractive. good luck! :)
Who's mr face?
Kidding.
Dont worry about it hun, ears that stick out arnt even the least bit noticable, I mean who even pays attention to ears, right? Don't be afraid to wear your hair up.. My sister's ears stick out, she has always worn her hair up and no one has even said anything about her ears.
When I was in elementary school the kids would pretend to flap my ears and say Dumbo is flying. But they aren't so bad now. It did give me a complex which I cured by noticing people that had ears sticking out more than I. Even with the complex I wore my hair in a pony tail most every day in college.
hm.. I dunno specifically how bad it is, do other people think so? You don't have to look perfect but flashy earrings can draw attention to the other part of your ears instead of just sticking out..?
have plastic surgery
Get over it.
people should appreciate you for who you are,
not how big your ears are. :L
you think youre really pretty?
*snortsnort*
wear hoop earrings it will distract it or a strand of hair in your face
try to wear bigger earing makes your ear look smaller?
I need advice from guys and girls.?
Im 16 and know this guy in my grade. last year but I didn't talk to him much. But when I did he was a so sweet to me. When we made eye contact one day in class, it was so weird like I just liked him right there or something. He lives in my neighborhoodd I'll have to be at his bustop for the first time next year which is a coincidence. I see him all of the time, he passes like right in front of me all the time and tries to act so tough and cool he'll say oh yea just went to a party and was drinking blah blah. I feel like he was interested in me at one point. I can definitely picture myself with him. He acts like he likes me but doesn't talk to me. I'm so shy. Which is thought of as bad i guess,and self consious cause' I see all these girls who act like they're hot stuff when they're not. and dress basically only in hollister. you know what i mean , which I actually shop at different stores but obviously guys are attracted to that. I feel cute but no one sees that. I've been told I look like Alexis Bledel many times. I'm not perfect but feel like I'm worth someones time. Will I ever find a guy? I've never had a boyfriend! Should I talk to him?I need advice from guys and girls.?
no u should wait until he is married. of coruse talk 2 him. cause if u just keep looking at him or just not talk 2 him mabie he'll think ul b just friends. b strong and brave and talk 2 him. think of sumthing and say it in ur head than talk 2 himI need advice from guys and girls.?
JUST TALK TO HIM!! lol he totally seems into you! try moving out of your shell alittle bit at a time. And of course there are so many people out there so YES you will find a guy even if this guy isnt the one. good luck!
I never had a girlfriend and I'm 15. I always wondered the same thing. I miss SO many chances because of shyness to expand a friendship. DON'T MAKE MY MISTAKE. TALK TO HIM, FLIRT!
you should talk to him, and get to know him. take things slow, and then see if you really want to be with him. a lot of people are shy when it comes to dating, but theres really nothing to be scared of. if he passes by you and makes eye contact, then obviously he likes what he sees so far. start a little conversation at the bus stop, because it will be really awkward in dead silence then he'll think your boring. but juss take it easy and dont be scared. good luck!
no u should wait until he is married. of coruse talk 2 him. cause if u just keep looking at him or just not talk 2 him mabie he'll think ul b just friends. b strong and brave and talk 2 him. think of sumthing and say it in ur head than talk 2 himI need advice from guys and girls.?
JUST TALK TO HIM!! lol he totally seems into you! try moving out of your shell alittle bit at a time. And of course there are so many people out there so YES you will find a guy even if this guy isnt the one. good luck!
I never had a girlfriend and I'm 15. I always wondered the same thing. I miss SO many chances because of shyness to expand a friendship. DON'T MAKE MY MISTAKE. TALK TO HIM, FLIRT!
you should talk to him, and get to know him. take things slow, and then see if you really want to be with him. a lot of people are shy when it comes to dating, but theres really nothing to be scared of. if he passes by you and makes eye contact, then obviously he likes what he sees so far. start a little conversation at the bus stop, because it will be really awkward in dead silence then he'll think your boring. but juss take it easy and dont be scared. good luck!
Some relationship Advice from Guys or Girls?
Okay so theres this boy that I really like and we've been texting lately. Im not sure whether he likes me, or if he knows I like him.. But I really don't want to tell him without knowing if he likes me first. We've talked before like six months ago. He is one of my good friends. Whenever our friends hang out he is always there, and we are all really close. He's really nice, and he has a GREAT body :) But I don't really know how to let him know that I might be interested in something more than just friends without risking that it might make it weird when all our friends hang out. Any help?
I would love to hear some guys opinions along with the girls. I think it would help to get some advice from their perspective :)Some relationship Advice from Guys or Girls?
Sometimes what it takes is someone coming right out and saying there are feelings there. It's often hard to tell if someone likes you when you like them. Even if it's obvious to the rest of the world. SO my advice would be to tell this guy how you feel.
I would love to hear some guys opinions along with the girls. I think it would help to get some advice from their perspective :)Some relationship Advice from Guys or Girls?
Sometimes what it takes is someone coming right out and saying there are feelings there. It's often hard to tell if someone likes you when you like them. Even if it's obvious to the rest of the world. SO my advice would be to tell this guy how you feel.
1st tattoo advice plz guys?
Hiya,
Im planning on getting my first tattoo sometime next month, it will be on my inside right wrist.
The words will be:
';Without you i dont have a place thats safe from all the monsters that hide in my head %26amp; sing me to sleep'; (Lyrics from a Jacks Mannequin Song)
It will be in pretty small neat handwriting.
My question is, how much space on my wrist will it take up? I want it to look cute %26amp; feminine %26amp; be facing me
I know this is cheeky, but does anyone design tatoos? If so would you be able to draw up a rough outline of what itd look like? %26amp; how much would it cost (in the uk)
Thankss.1st tattoo advice plz guys?
theres a type of poem I don't know what they're called but the words make up a picture like
....ooo.....ooo
...ooooo.ooooo
.....oooooooo
.......oooooo
.........oooo
...........o
the o's would be your words
from a distance it looks like a heart but really its made up of your lyrics the words would have to be very small
ps the dots wouldn't be there1st tattoo advice plz guys?
It'll cost around $30-50 depending on where you get the tattoo. And it'll pretty much take up your whole wrist, but you can make the words smaller to make them fit. Sorry I don't design tattoos, but if I did I would. =( Hope I helped.
I'm no expert but I kinda think your wrist may be too small to hold that many words. . .they won't look right if they're too small and colud end up looking like little blobs. Tattoo artists are usually experts at lettering so I'm sure they could help you out
That is not possible.
Too many words in such a small place.
It wouldn't even look good.
It would look like a blob of ink.scars
Im planning on getting my first tattoo sometime next month, it will be on my inside right wrist.
The words will be:
';Without you i dont have a place thats safe from all the monsters that hide in my head %26amp; sing me to sleep'; (Lyrics from a Jacks Mannequin Song)
It will be in pretty small neat handwriting.
My question is, how much space on my wrist will it take up? I want it to look cute %26amp; feminine %26amp; be facing me
I know this is cheeky, but does anyone design tatoos? If so would you be able to draw up a rough outline of what itd look like? %26amp; how much would it cost (in the uk)
Thankss.1st tattoo advice plz guys?
theres a type of poem I don't know what they're called but the words make up a picture like
....ooo.....ooo
...ooooo.ooooo
.....oooooooo
.......oooooo
.........oooo
...........o
the o's would be your words
from a distance it looks like a heart but really its made up of your lyrics the words would have to be very small
ps the dots wouldn't be there1st tattoo advice plz guys?
It'll cost around $30-50 depending on where you get the tattoo. And it'll pretty much take up your whole wrist, but you can make the words smaller to make them fit. Sorry I don't design tattoos, but if I did I would. =( Hope I helped.
I'm no expert but I kinda think your wrist may be too small to hold that many words. . .they won't look right if they're too small and colud end up looking like little blobs. Tattoo artists are usually experts at lettering so I'm sure they could help you out
That is not possible.
Too many words in such a small place.
It wouldn't even look good.
It would look like a blob of ink.
Guys and girls ADVICE PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!…
i like this guy and idk if he likes me but instead of telling him i want to show him by kissing him....problem: ive never made out with someone, what if im not good and i scare him away?Guys and girls ADVICE PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!…
If you don't know whether he likes you or not, kissing him might not be the best plan of action. If he likes you, let him make the first move.Guys and girls ADVICE PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!…
It would be better if you waited until you got acquainted first. The kissing comes a little later. You may scare him off if you act too anxious. Also, if he thinks you are too anxious; he may think you are very anxious to do other things. You should wait a long time to do the other things. You need to talk to your mother about this subject.
You don't want things to go too fast.
Talk to your mother or sister or an aunt.
If you're not even sure if he likes you, I wouldn't advice you to go for the kill and try to kiss him, because on the off chance that he doesn't like you like that, it could be really embarrasing for you if he shoots you down. I think you should try to feel him out a little more. Look for signs that may suggest that he's into you too, like body language, the way he speaks to you, eye contact, etc. If you see those signs, then maybe it would be alright to try to kiss him. If not and he's not into you, he'll either do one of two things: He'll simply shoot you down on the spot or he will just go along with it because he might think of you as an easy target. Niether, are what you want if you truly like this guy right? So just slow it down until you know for sure=]
How do you like him? Do you want to just have sex with him? Then go ahead just don't make it to wet and hard, just wet your lips a little and kiss softly and it would probably help to take off your top and put your hand on his crotch! But, if you want to get to know him first maybe you should hold off on the kiss until you actually go out on a date and get to know each other better first to make sure the feeling is mutual! The kiss is a good way to give him the wrong idea and he will think sex or want to run! This is not the movies so if you are really interested in your own self respect then take it slow. Hope this helps.
Umm... to me your getting waay into his personal bubble if you know what Imean. You should instead ask him out first, then just kissing him. The best way for you to get into a relationship is to ask out the guy and say: ';I like you, and I was wonderin if we could go out sometime?!?!?!'; Just kissing a dude on the lips won't be the best thing to do because your pushing things waaaay to quickly. If your too scared to tell him then you should send him a text or an email.
Well if he likes you then you shouldn't worry if you are going to scare him when you kiss him. Just do it if not he might think that you do not like him, then he might find someone else. The first kiss might be exciting but it shouldn't scare you or him. If you think its too early to kiss him then get to know him a little better and that he knows you too. Ask him out and try to play it cool. Be yourself. Good luck :)
Well make shoure its in a private place.
Give him a pop kiss. Like a quick peck on the lips and pull away see how he reacts, if he pulls away stop if he stays in the smae place move in a little closer looking at his lips then his eyes. if he still dosent pull away then move in till youre barly touching his lips and say i love you and see what he does.
Dont be afraid of kissing. I use to be afraid too but it just came. if you start to make out just follow his mouvement and pace.
Just go for it girl.
you dont have to lower yourself sexually to show someone you like them! sure its just a kiss but if someone just came up to me and gave me a peck im sorry to say but they'd be on the ground! DON'T DO THAT! if you feel he has to know just tell him!! and if he doesnt like you move on!!!! i know that sounds harsh but its true! your tood good to waste your time. which is what it seems like your doing if you have to kiss someone to get them to notice you.
well you dont have to give him like a french kiss or nothing.. give him a kiss on his cheek.. if he dont feel the same way about you, a kiss in the cheek wont be so akward.. he wont tell his friends something like ';man that chick put her tounge in my mouth and she's nuts man!';
a simple kiss on the cheek wont leave anything for him to call you crazy about.. plus if he feels the same way about you, he'll kiss you back and not on your cheek :)
so, kiss on the cheek, then look at him and smile and wait for his reaction.. if he kisses you back, just imitate what he is doin to you and you'll be okay..
GOOD LUCK GIRL!!!! :D I HOPE HE LIKES YOU BACK!
okay...
here are the rules of the kiss...
1. dudes don't complain...just do it!
2. 5 seconds is long enough
3. no frenching if u don't really know him that well(HPV is on the rise)
4. be gentle (don't rush forward so fast that u knock the guy to the ground)
5.make sure your lips are well moisturized( nothing ruins a first kiss like dry, crusty and chapped lips)
just go for it and don't be all nervous about it
just do it!!! you don't have to make out with him, just a sweet first kiss kind of thing. life is short, you can't waste time dwelling on what could be. if you want him, go out and get him. if you scare him away he obviously doesn't like you so it doesn't matter anyways!!!
don't kiss him, because he might not want to be kissed and especially not if he has never talked to you before or he doesn't like you or hes not your bf. you might scare him away
try a different approach, like building up on the friendship before you decide to tell him that you like him
If you do that, you're setting a social dynamic for him to see you as a sexual object rather than someone to be in a relationship with him. Humans evolved language for a reason, use it and ask him out. The making-out part will come on it's own. As long as you don't literally bite his face, he won't be scared off.
okay dont worrie about it. if you know what you want go for it. making out comes natural! my first time i had no clue what i was doing but 5 seconds later i was doing what i thought couldnt be done! it only what you make it. if you arnt sure if youll be good you might not, btu if you have convidence you can do it!
best of luck (:
I think you really shouldn't go up to him and kiss him. Try to find out if he likes you in that way even in the slightest bit. After that just go for it! It doesn't matter if you're good or not. I mean if he gets turned off because you can't kiss that well then he's a jerk.
Aww poor hun. I felt the same way with my first kiss/making out.
It'll all come naturally. Don't worry about it and it will all fall in to place.
And if it is bad, it'll get better. But if he makes a scene and a big deal about it, you have an excuse. How can you be a good kisser if you've never kissed before? Hellooooo?
Good luck.
If you want to show the guy you like him by kissing him don't make out with him just give him a kiss on the cheek or a peck on the lips. Making out with him would scare him especially if he doesn't like you.
Don't give out the goods for free. Get to know the guy and have some dignity. Kissing comes later when there is chemistry between two people. Ever heard someone branded a slut?? It is usually for unlady like behavior like this. Call me old fashion, I call it dignity and self respect.
ummm I wouldn't do that if I were you.I would find out first if he sort of likes me or even just a little bit.But honestly I wouldnt start by kissing cause it just makes you look a little too pushy.If you really want to show him tell him or write a note.
I think it is impossible to be a bad kisser. It just comes naturally. Plus if you kiss him and surprise I think he is just going to be happy you kissed him, not worried about if it was really good or not. Good Luck! These situations always make me so nervous
So you should know if he likes you. There would be signs. Try asking him whether he likes you or not. If you are in high school, and you just make out with this guy, everybody will be talking about it, especially if he did not like you.
Ask him to cut his hand with a knife and capture his blood in a vial. Then take his blood to a Wicca priestess and she will place the enthrallment spell on him. If he betrays you then he will get a venereal disease and die a terrible death.
lol you have to get practice some where. I'm pretty sure this dude isn't your future husband so I'm sure he won't mind if you practice on him. Anyway if he is so much more experienced than you maybe you should even be kissing that boy anyway.
well it would scare him away if you just random just kiss him just talk to him for a while and be friends first and see what goes from there can any1 answer my question http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AnnBHcCobrXFWK.AWkrTdSjsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20090315200107AA85rAw
i knew a girl that was planning on doing the same thing and the guy found out and avoided her for like a month, it creeped him out!
i say dont do it, get to know him and hang out with him first
First of all, tell him you've never made out with anyone before, and tell him that you want his help. Therefore, you won't scare him away, and you'll have your moment. :)
If you are confident in yourself, then you should do good. The only way to know if your good or not is to go for it.
Guys like confident girls.
Go for it girl!
:))
I wouldn't do that if I where you cause that is a lil wired, and I would like totaly fraked out if someone did that to me, and then I would definantly not talk to that person.
just do it
Just start with a kiss. Don't go straight to making out. Then if they wanna make out, it really won't matter because you will know what to do. Just don't go crazy with the tongue.
don't worry about just go for it...please please please answer mine
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If you don't know whether he likes you or not, kissing him might not be the best plan of action. If he likes you, let him make the first move.Guys and girls ADVICE PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!…
It would be better if you waited until you got acquainted first. The kissing comes a little later. You may scare him off if you act too anxious. Also, if he thinks you are too anxious; he may think you are very anxious to do other things. You should wait a long time to do the other things. You need to talk to your mother about this subject.
You don't want things to go too fast.
Talk to your mother or sister or an aunt.
If you're not even sure if he likes you, I wouldn't advice you to go for the kill and try to kiss him, because on the off chance that he doesn't like you like that, it could be really embarrasing for you if he shoots you down. I think you should try to feel him out a little more. Look for signs that may suggest that he's into you too, like body language, the way he speaks to you, eye contact, etc. If you see those signs, then maybe it would be alright to try to kiss him. If not and he's not into you, he'll either do one of two things: He'll simply shoot you down on the spot or he will just go along with it because he might think of you as an easy target. Niether, are what you want if you truly like this guy right? So just slow it down until you know for sure=]
How do you like him? Do you want to just have sex with him? Then go ahead just don't make it to wet and hard, just wet your lips a little and kiss softly and it would probably help to take off your top and put your hand on his crotch! But, if you want to get to know him first maybe you should hold off on the kiss until you actually go out on a date and get to know each other better first to make sure the feeling is mutual! The kiss is a good way to give him the wrong idea and he will think sex or want to run! This is not the movies so if you are really interested in your own self respect then take it slow. Hope this helps.
Umm... to me your getting waay into his personal bubble if you know what Imean. You should instead ask him out first, then just kissing him. The best way for you to get into a relationship is to ask out the guy and say: ';I like you, and I was wonderin if we could go out sometime?!?!?!'; Just kissing a dude on the lips won't be the best thing to do because your pushing things waaaay to quickly. If your too scared to tell him then you should send him a text or an email.
Well if he likes you then you shouldn't worry if you are going to scare him when you kiss him. Just do it if not he might think that you do not like him, then he might find someone else. The first kiss might be exciting but it shouldn't scare you or him. If you think its too early to kiss him then get to know him a little better and that he knows you too. Ask him out and try to play it cool. Be yourself. Good luck :)
Well make shoure its in a private place.
Give him a pop kiss. Like a quick peck on the lips and pull away see how he reacts, if he pulls away stop if he stays in the smae place move in a little closer looking at his lips then his eyes. if he still dosent pull away then move in till youre barly touching his lips and say i love you and see what he does.
Dont be afraid of kissing. I use to be afraid too but it just came. if you start to make out just follow his mouvement and pace.
Just go for it girl.
you dont have to lower yourself sexually to show someone you like them! sure its just a kiss but if someone just came up to me and gave me a peck im sorry to say but they'd be on the ground! DON'T DO THAT! if you feel he has to know just tell him!! and if he doesnt like you move on!!!! i know that sounds harsh but its true! your tood good to waste your time. which is what it seems like your doing if you have to kiss someone to get them to notice you.
well you dont have to give him like a french kiss or nothing.. give him a kiss on his cheek.. if he dont feel the same way about you, a kiss in the cheek wont be so akward.. he wont tell his friends something like ';man that chick put her tounge in my mouth and she's nuts man!';
a simple kiss on the cheek wont leave anything for him to call you crazy about.. plus if he feels the same way about you, he'll kiss you back and not on your cheek :)
so, kiss on the cheek, then look at him and smile and wait for his reaction.. if he kisses you back, just imitate what he is doin to you and you'll be okay..
GOOD LUCK GIRL!!!! :D I HOPE HE LIKES YOU BACK!
okay...
here are the rules of the kiss...
1. dudes don't complain...just do it!
2. 5 seconds is long enough
3. no frenching if u don't really know him that well(HPV is on the rise)
4. be gentle (don't rush forward so fast that u knock the guy to the ground)
5.make sure your lips are well moisturized( nothing ruins a first kiss like dry, crusty and chapped lips)
just go for it and don't be all nervous about it
just do it!!! you don't have to make out with him, just a sweet first kiss kind of thing. life is short, you can't waste time dwelling on what could be. if you want him, go out and get him. if you scare him away he obviously doesn't like you so it doesn't matter anyways!!!
don't kiss him, because he might not want to be kissed and especially not if he has never talked to you before or he doesn't like you or hes not your bf. you might scare him away
try a different approach, like building up on the friendship before you decide to tell him that you like him
If you do that, you're setting a social dynamic for him to see you as a sexual object rather than someone to be in a relationship with him. Humans evolved language for a reason, use it and ask him out. The making-out part will come on it's own. As long as you don't literally bite his face, he won't be scared off.
okay dont worrie about it. if you know what you want go for it. making out comes natural! my first time i had no clue what i was doing but 5 seconds later i was doing what i thought couldnt be done! it only what you make it. if you arnt sure if youll be good you might not, btu if you have convidence you can do it!
best of luck (:
I think you really shouldn't go up to him and kiss him. Try to find out if he likes you in that way even in the slightest bit. After that just go for it! It doesn't matter if you're good or not. I mean if he gets turned off because you can't kiss that well then he's a jerk.
Aww poor hun. I felt the same way with my first kiss/making out.
It'll all come naturally. Don't worry about it and it will all fall in to place.
And if it is bad, it'll get better. But if he makes a scene and a big deal about it, you have an excuse. How can you be a good kisser if you've never kissed before? Hellooooo?
Good luck.
If you want to show the guy you like him by kissing him don't make out with him just give him a kiss on the cheek or a peck on the lips. Making out with him would scare him especially if he doesn't like you.
Don't give out the goods for free. Get to know the guy and have some dignity. Kissing comes later when there is chemistry between two people. Ever heard someone branded a slut?? It is usually for unlady like behavior like this. Call me old fashion, I call it dignity and self respect.
ummm I wouldn't do that if I were you.I would find out first if he sort of likes me or even just a little bit.But honestly I wouldnt start by kissing cause it just makes you look a little too pushy.If you really want to show him tell him or write a note.
I think it is impossible to be a bad kisser. It just comes naturally. Plus if you kiss him and surprise I think he is just going to be happy you kissed him, not worried about if it was really good or not. Good Luck! These situations always make me so nervous
So you should know if he likes you. There would be signs. Try asking him whether he likes you or not. If you are in high school, and you just make out with this guy, everybody will be talking about it, especially if he did not like you.
Ask him to cut his hand with a knife and capture his blood in a vial. Then take his blood to a Wicca priestess and she will place the enthrallment spell on him. If he betrays you then he will get a venereal disease and die a terrible death.
lol you have to get practice some where. I'm pretty sure this dude isn't your future husband so I'm sure he won't mind if you practice on him. Anyway if he is so much more experienced than you maybe you should even be kissing that boy anyway.
well it would scare him away if you just random just kiss him just talk to him for a while and be friends first and see what goes from there can any1 answer my question http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AnnBHcCobrXFWK.AWkrTdSjsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20090315200107AA85rAw
i knew a girl that was planning on doing the same thing and the guy found out and avoided her for like a month, it creeped him out!
i say dont do it, get to know him and hang out with him first
First of all, tell him you've never made out with anyone before, and tell him that you want his help. Therefore, you won't scare him away, and you'll have your moment. :)
If you are confident in yourself, then you should do good. The only way to know if your good or not is to go for it.
Guys like confident girls.
Go for it girl!
:))
I wouldn't do that if I where you cause that is a lil wired, and I would like totaly fraked out if someone did that to me, and then I would definantly not talk to that person.
just do it
Just start with a kiss. Don't go straight to making out. Then if they wanna make out, it really won't matter because you will know what to do. Just don't go crazy with the tongue.
don't worry about just go for it...please please please answer mine
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Guys ii need advice ;) xx?
wht do u find attractive in a girl?
like what would a girl have to do to make u interested and want to get to know you more?
please answer xxxGuys ii need advice ;) xx?
Be nice, be loving, be caring, be loveable. ^_^Guys ii need advice ;) xx?
a smile ear to ear when i see u!!!
cute or hot, funny, nice and comfortable to be around
I am not a guy but I read in a stat dealy recently that it is not the prettiest and sexiest girls that find a true relationship the quickest - it is the ones that show the guys that they really care about them and their interests.
You can check out one of my fav sites below... Good luck=)
like what would a girl have to do to make u interested and want to get to know you more?
please answer xxxGuys ii need advice ;) xx?
Be nice, be loving, be caring, be loveable. ^_^Guys ii need advice ;) xx?
a smile ear to ear when i see u!!!
cute or hot, funny, nice and comfortable to be around
I am not a guy but I read in a stat dealy recently that it is not the prettiest and sexiest girls that find a true relationship the quickest - it is the ones that show the guys that they really care about them and their interests.
You can check out one of my fav sites below... Good luck=)
Guys mostly plz ( Advice needed)?
I asked this question the other day but didnt get very many answers can any one help me with this?
Im going to be starting a new job as a bartender and i was wondering is there any advice you can give me to make good tips?
Guys mostly plz ( Advice needed)?
be friendly, sexy, inviting, make them think like they could possibly get with you, but you definitely don't have to let them do so. wear sexy clothes also, basically look a little slutty without actually being slutty.Guys mostly plz ( Advice needed)?
Sure! sweety just Be the best that u cant at your job, know your customers, some like nice ones, some like flirty one and some like to conversate alittle. if u have to flirt a little, but keep it proffesional at the same time dont say Oh we can meetup some night! justsmile at them alot be more friendly then the others. and be real dont be too nice then that will make you look weak! be a indapendent woman! ask for refills. ask if they need anything! make your name be known! then you'll get regular customers. but dont slack all because you think you have them! always be the first to greet them. be friendly. So three steps im giving you because i use to be a bartender. #1. Be friendly #2. Be Flirty but not to much! and #3. Be independant! show them that your strong. and never slack! thats all my advice. thnx for the question, hope I helped alittle! PEACEOUT!
Low cut shirt!!!
I know, all the feminists will jump on that answer, but do you want to make tips or fight for a cause? Tips- then cleavage, cleavage, cleavage.
Another good tip is to always is seem interested but never available.
Br flirtatious, seem like you are a little interested. Like guys think that they might have a chance with you. But when they ask you out always be busy. Have a list of reasons why you can't go out with them at the ready. I don't date guys from work seems to be a commonly used one.
And try to remember names and drinks. If a customer comes back in and you call them by name then they will fill up your tip jar.
It would be great to know if your a man/woman. You don't have a gender defining pic/avatar. We'll do it like this....
MALE: It all about the show and relating with the drinkers. But you need to know the signs. You can't relate with everyone because this will cause problems especially if your drunk.
FEMALE: Flirt. Seriously. Keep it light and cute and they'll give you extra tips plus their number. Toss their numbers and there you have it.
Hard to Answer. I know that if you are a good with conversation that may help them stay longer and that may help. I used to go to a bar and the bar tender would talk about movies that helps since it is a popular subject.
well if ur looking for sex appeal wear tight t shirts and short skirts and shorts and tight jeans. if you want tips for being good try practicing looking fancy with those bottles and get the people what they want =)
Be really nice, and smile a lot.
Talk to the people a little, A little small talk will go a long way.
Good luck
Smile, Flirt, you know... But just make sure you dont go to far or they will ask you out ect ect..
be a flirt
youll be surprised how much $ youll make
be friendly and make drinks fast and easy and hey show a little
give the customers cute names
just say ';what'll you have cutey'; and he'll be shelling out the cash like an atm machine
yeah smile be nice laugh at dumb jokes..and make the drink Stronger some times only a few u don't want to get fire
Im going to be starting a new job as a bartender and i was wondering is there any advice you can give me to make good tips?
Guys mostly plz ( Advice needed)?
be friendly, sexy, inviting, make them think like they could possibly get with you, but you definitely don't have to let them do so. wear sexy clothes also, basically look a little slutty without actually being slutty.Guys mostly plz ( Advice needed)?
Sure! sweety just Be the best that u cant at your job, know your customers, some like nice ones, some like flirty one and some like to conversate alittle. if u have to flirt a little, but keep it proffesional at the same time dont say Oh we can meetup some night! justsmile at them alot be more friendly then the others. and be real dont be too nice then that will make you look weak! be a indapendent woman! ask for refills. ask if they need anything! make your name be known! then you'll get regular customers. but dont slack all because you think you have them! always be the first to greet them. be friendly. So three steps im giving you because i use to be a bartender. #1. Be friendly #2. Be Flirty but not to much! and #3. Be independant! show them that your strong. and never slack! thats all my advice. thnx for the question, hope I helped alittle! PEACEOUT!
Low cut shirt!!!
I know, all the feminists will jump on that answer, but do you want to make tips or fight for a cause? Tips- then cleavage, cleavage, cleavage.
Another good tip is to always is seem interested but never available.
Br flirtatious, seem like you are a little interested. Like guys think that they might have a chance with you. But when they ask you out always be busy. Have a list of reasons why you can't go out with them at the ready. I don't date guys from work seems to be a commonly used one.
And try to remember names and drinks. If a customer comes back in and you call them by name then they will fill up your tip jar.
It would be great to know if your a man/woman. You don't have a gender defining pic/avatar. We'll do it like this....
MALE: It all about the show and relating with the drinkers. But you need to know the signs. You can't relate with everyone because this will cause problems especially if your drunk.
FEMALE: Flirt. Seriously. Keep it light and cute and they'll give you extra tips plus their number. Toss their numbers and there you have it.
Hard to Answer. I know that if you are a good with conversation that may help them stay longer and that may help. I used to go to a bar and the bar tender would talk about movies that helps since it is a popular subject.
well if ur looking for sex appeal wear tight t shirts and short skirts and shorts and tight jeans. if you want tips for being good try practicing looking fancy with those bottles and get the people what they want =)
Be really nice, and smile a lot.
Talk to the people a little, A little small talk will go a long way.
Good luck
Smile, Flirt, you know... But just make sure you dont go to far or they will ask you out ect ect..
be a flirt
youll be surprised how much $ youll make
be friendly and make drinks fast and easy and hey show a little
give the customers cute names
just say ';what'll you have cutey'; and he'll be shelling out the cash like an atm machine
yeah smile be nice laugh at dumb jokes..and make the drink Stronger some times only a few u don't want to get fire
GUYS NEED UR ADVICE!! HELP!!?
Iv been with my boyfriend nearly 2 years and he has'nt told me he loves me. He said once its said it ruins things. Im nearly 100% sure he does love me but how do i get him to say it without me saying it first or having big deep conversation. Any tips appreciatedGUYS NEED UR ADVICE!! HELP!!?
if you love him, then maybe you should tell him that you love him. guys are just as nervous as girls, so by u making a move first, it might take some of the anxiety off, he might be scared that u dont love him back, and is to scared to tell u, cause if u dont love him back, he might think it would ruin the relationship.GUYS NEED UR ADVICE!! HELP!!?
i tell my gf all the time first even though ive seen this before i still don't understand why its a big deal to say it the best thing i can think of is just stop saying it yourself until maybe he can feel the way you feel then this might trigger it if this don't work then you will just have to accept the fact some people aren't as giving as other people good luck
Just ask him how he feels about you, that will give him a good opportunity.
I freaked out my first girlfriend when I told her that I loved her, so know that it does cause problems sometimes. Another thing to keep in mind is that if after getting to know you for 2 years he still doesn't love you, is he just keeping the relationship for convenience? Hopefully he will rise up and put your worries to rest though.
Explain to him there are different kinds of love we have for different situations. (For example): We love Mom one way and Dad another. Same thing with Brothers and Sisters, Friends, Co-workers, dogs and cats etc. - etc.
We even have ';long-distance'; love and ';tough'; love.
I've told total strangers (women), ';I love you'; because I was feeling good and wanted to pass on a smile. (Some of them came back with, ';I love you too';). I knew the odds were we would never see each other again, so what's the harm ? My wife was not near to hear so no one is hurt.
Tell your boyfriend he might feel o.k. about saying to different people in different situations, ';God Loves You';.
Then when he says it to you he may get brave enough someday to start with ';I';.
Don't worry about the words so much. Talk is cheap. True love is in the actions. It's easy to tell someone you love them, even if you don't. But if you do, you shouldn't even have to say it for them to know they're loved.
You don't want him to say it. You want him to want to say it, and when he does it will mean all that much more and only strengthen your relationship.
Rushing him will only end in despair. It did for me.
so you want him to say it, but you don't want to say it yourself?
isn't that hypocritical and cowardly?
anyways, im sure if you nagged him enough, you could make him tell you.
lots of girls do it, stick to what works!
2 years??!
Maybe he hasnt said it because he knows that you know he loves you enough already, and the words ';I love you'; dont even describe how he feels about you.
oh dang. i dont think i love you ruins anything but it could i guess. kinda hint at it. thats what i did. lol
give him little hits that him saying it means something
not much more to say sorry and the guy before me is dumb lol XD
Try getting him a present that he would really love.
ignore him
ask him.
throw eggs at him, it always does the trick.
give hints
if you love him, then maybe you should tell him that you love him. guys are just as nervous as girls, so by u making a move first, it might take some of the anxiety off, he might be scared that u dont love him back, and is to scared to tell u, cause if u dont love him back, he might think it would ruin the relationship.GUYS NEED UR ADVICE!! HELP!!?
i tell my gf all the time first even though ive seen this before i still don't understand why its a big deal to say it the best thing i can think of is just stop saying it yourself until maybe he can feel the way you feel then this might trigger it if this don't work then you will just have to accept the fact some people aren't as giving as other people good luck
Just ask him how he feels about you, that will give him a good opportunity.
I freaked out my first girlfriend when I told her that I loved her, so know that it does cause problems sometimes. Another thing to keep in mind is that if after getting to know you for 2 years he still doesn't love you, is he just keeping the relationship for convenience? Hopefully he will rise up and put your worries to rest though.
Explain to him there are different kinds of love we have for different situations. (For example): We love Mom one way and Dad another. Same thing with Brothers and Sisters, Friends, Co-workers, dogs and cats etc. - etc.
We even have ';long-distance'; love and ';tough'; love.
I've told total strangers (women), ';I love you'; because I was feeling good and wanted to pass on a smile. (Some of them came back with, ';I love you too';). I knew the odds were we would never see each other again, so what's the harm ? My wife was not near to hear so no one is hurt.
Tell your boyfriend he might feel o.k. about saying to different people in different situations, ';God Loves You';.
Then when he says it to you he may get brave enough someday to start with ';I';.
Don't worry about the words so much. Talk is cheap. True love is in the actions. It's easy to tell someone you love them, even if you don't. But if you do, you shouldn't even have to say it for them to know they're loved.
You don't want him to say it. You want him to want to say it, and when he does it will mean all that much more and only strengthen your relationship.
Rushing him will only end in despair. It did for me.
so you want him to say it, but you don't want to say it yourself?
isn't that hypocritical and cowardly?
anyways, im sure if you nagged him enough, you could make him tell you.
lots of girls do it, stick to what works!
2 years??!
Maybe he hasnt said it because he knows that you know he loves you enough already, and the words ';I love you'; dont even describe how he feels about you.
oh dang. i dont think i love you ruins anything but it could i guess. kinda hint at it. thats what i did. lol
give him little hits that him saying it means something
not much more to say sorry and the guy before me is dumb lol XD
Try getting him a present that he would really love.
ignore him
ask him.
throw eggs at him, it always does the trick.
give hints
Okay ladies! I need some advice. (Warning: Guys you really aren't needed in this unless you are a doctor.)?
Okay I am 20 years old. I have had my period since I was 9 years old. And just recently my periods have been the worse they've been since I was 12! I really haven't had this bad of a period since I was young. Cramps are getting unbearable, very very heavy blood flow, backaches(never had before), and caffeine makes me sick.
What types of foods can I eat that will not make me feel bloated?
What types of exercises can I do to relieve the body aches?
What can I drink to also avoid the bloated feeling?
I usually drink sprite and eat whenever my body craves, pizza, ice cream, chocolate, basically junk food that I need to stay away from. I do take midol but it honestly doesn't help anymore.Okay ladies! I need some advice. (Warning: Guys you really aren't needed in this unless you are a doctor.)?
I'm 22 yrs old I usually do not have regularly painful periods either, just occasionally. But when I do I fill up a plastic ziploc or glad back that I know is NOT going to open with luke warm-hot water and just hold in on my lower abdomen in a chair or in bed, REALLY HELPS. Also I do some simple Pilaties and yoga moves just to stretch out my back. Pilaties, very basic, just lay on the floor and rather than how I normally arch my back I pull my belly button into the floor, pressing my lower back to the floor as close as I can, sometimes pulling my legs up and tucking like a ball still on my back helps too. I'll also do a child's pose, yoga, which you can find online and that helps relax my back as well. Hope this helps!!Okay ladies! I need some advice. (Warning: Guys you really aren't needed in this unless you are a doctor.)?
Well it's not good to be eatting all that junk food. I don't think there is anything that won't make you feel bloated on your period, it has something to do with water weight and all that jazz. Drink a lot of water though and only do MILD exercise. The pill makes your period a lot nicer if you aren't already on it, consider this. Also, you shouldn't be taking midol, take ibuprofen instead.
Well definatly try to change your diet to healthier foods. That will really help. Especially less fried and greasy foods. Any excersice will really help. and helps boost your immune system at that. Plus the more you excersice it can also help reduce your period. You should really try to get away any kind of caffeine. Drink lots of water, milk, or healthy low sugar juices. Also I really recommend organic milk. It taste the same but it doesn't have all the chemicals or hormones and stuff in it. Hope this helps.
Drink fennel seeds tea !!!!!! trust me because i have a heavy period and very painful and that fennel seeds help me with the bloating and cramps also eat bananas they are good for period
hope i helped ;)
Why haven't you gone to a doctor? You may need a D %26amp; C since you are having so much flow and trouble. Please go to the doctor!!
i bet ur low on Iron ... i had that happen to me .. i started taking Iron pills and i was fine!
Skip the milk. For the rest of you're life. You're not a baby cow and you're increasingly lactose intolerant as the years pass. That's why you're bloated.
No exercise is going to relieve body aches except maybe stretching and/or yoga. Otherwise sit in a hot tub or shower w/ epsom slats.
Water. OMG do not drink soda for God's sake! If you're diluting your body w/ that much crap food, I can imagine why Midol isn't working for you. Consider getting on the Pill if you haven't already.
What types of foods can I eat that will not make me feel bloated?
What types of exercises can I do to relieve the body aches?
What can I drink to also avoid the bloated feeling?
I usually drink sprite and eat whenever my body craves, pizza, ice cream, chocolate, basically junk food that I need to stay away from. I do take midol but it honestly doesn't help anymore.Okay ladies! I need some advice. (Warning: Guys you really aren't needed in this unless you are a doctor.)?
I'm 22 yrs old I usually do not have regularly painful periods either, just occasionally. But when I do I fill up a plastic ziploc or glad back that I know is NOT going to open with luke warm-hot water and just hold in on my lower abdomen in a chair or in bed, REALLY HELPS. Also I do some simple Pilaties and yoga moves just to stretch out my back. Pilaties, very basic, just lay on the floor and rather than how I normally arch my back I pull my belly button into the floor, pressing my lower back to the floor as close as I can, sometimes pulling my legs up and tucking like a ball still on my back helps too. I'll also do a child's pose, yoga, which you can find online and that helps relax my back as well. Hope this helps!!Okay ladies! I need some advice. (Warning: Guys you really aren't needed in this unless you are a doctor.)?
Well it's not good to be eatting all that junk food. I don't think there is anything that won't make you feel bloated on your period, it has something to do with water weight and all that jazz. Drink a lot of water though and only do MILD exercise. The pill makes your period a lot nicer if you aren't already on it, consider this. Also, you shouldn't be taking midol, take ibuprofen instead.
Well definatly try to change your diet to healthier foods. That will really help. Especially less fried and greasy foods. Any excersice will really help. and helps boost your immune system at that. Plus the more you excersice it can also help reduce your period. You should really try to get away any kind of caffeine. Drink lots of water, milk, or healthy low sugar juices. Also I really recommend organic milk. It taste the same but it doesn't have all the chemicals or hormones and stuff in it. Hope this helps.
Drink fennel seeds tea !!!!!! trust me because i have a heavy period and very painful and that fennel seeds help me with the bloating and cramps also eat bananas they are good for period
hope i helped ;)
Why haven't you gone to a doctor? You may need a D %26amp; C since you are having so much flow and trouble. Please go to the doctor!!
i bet ur low on Iron ... i had that happen to me .. i started taking Iron pills and i was fine!
Skip the milk. For the rest of you're life. You're not a baby cow and you're increasingly lactose intolerant as the years pass. That's why you're bloated.
No exercise is going to relieve body aches except maybe stretching and/or yoga. Otherwise sit in a hot tub or shower w/ epsom slats.
Water. OMG do not drink soda for God's sake! If you're diluting your body w/ that much crap food, I can imagine why Midol isn't working for you. Consider getting on the Pill if you haven't already.
Guys and girls...advice?? plz?
Okay, so if you're in a long term relationship, what are the rules that you think are acceptable if you and your partner go to a club with/or/without each other??...Like what are some dos and don't s??Guys and girls...advice?? plz?
long distance relationships dont last for long anyway!
but with those...trust and being faithful is even more important those are BIG Dos
just no getting sexual pleasures from other people while ur at the club... or anywhere else for that matter
feelin on some girls titties - guys
getting felt on and liking it - girls
dont go home with anyone....to do the dirty....lol
those are definitely dontsGuys and girls...advice?? plz?
With: Dance with them, but don't be all clingy unless they want you to be. If they want to go hang out with their friends for a bit, let them, and go hang out with yours. Or, just all hang out together.
Without: Don't flirt with other guys or scope out the club for hot ones, do call them on the way home and tell them you had a good time with your friends, and don't let any guys get close to you. Just be yourself and have fun without being unfaithful.
it depends on the people, and the amount of trust between the two of you.. because I know for me I wouldnt set rules because I trust my boyfriend, and I dont think that he would want to dance or do anything with anyone else, and the same goes for me.. But I mean discuss it with your partner and I'm sure you two can come up with what you both would not like the other to do and what you wouldn't mind if the other did, and so on..
: ) hope I helpedd
dont go 2 clubs without ur bf (not acceptable) u might think u can control urself, but when u get drunk or ';aroused'; u wont be able to, NO CHEATING, DONT DRINK, DONT GO HOME WITH ANYONE U DONT KNOW, DONT DANCE WITH OTHER BOYS, DONT DO ANYTHING U WOULDN'T DO IF UR PARTNER WAS THERE. act like they're there. or my simple advice, dont go 2 a club period. u might get into trouble.
i say i the man that don't cheat and 1 i would not dance slow it she not there 2 i would not sit close with woman there 3 i mite not go if she not going 4 i would tell her the true about what happen when she not there now if she is there with me no one have any thing to tell me that she can not hear
well...you guys should promise each other that you won't try to hock up with someone...and you should probably be loyal...Good luck! oh...and if you drink then try not to drink so much because you can to Crazy things!!! and i mean it!! i have a cousin like that...so yea be careful
Ok
if yal are dating there shouldnt be rules
yal should trust each other enough
you shouldnt be worryed
i break up wid all my bfs bc
they are wayy to jelouse
that drives me crazy
just dont be to jelouse
or
you might lose the one you love
There shouldn't even be rules. Your partner should already know the boundaries and shouldn't need to ';know what not to do';, or ';what to do.';
Dont go without each other*! Dont look at another girl dont talk to them if they try and talk to you say I have a gf I'm not interested..!* If your not there you really dont know what happens so I say it's a big no no !*
*Good Luck*
I say there shouldn't be any rules if the two of you can trust each other to not go over the boundaries.
I dont think there should be any rules.
I mean if you can trust you your boy/girl friend enough then you shouldnt have to worry about setting rules!
JUST DON'T HOOK UP WITH GUYS AND THAT'S PRETTY MUCH IT!!
u can go to clubs without each other, u can accept drinks from other men, u can dance with other men. u can NOT accept other men's numbers and if u do, u can NOT keep them just because';,u can NOT grind on other men, u can NOT take offers to their home or for them to drive you home
NO SEX WITH SOMEONE WHO IS NOT YOUR PARTNER...unless they are there hehe. fun times.
only go without ur bf if u r going with ur gurl friends and call hime evry hr ur gonescars
long distance relationships dont last for long anyway!
but with those...trust and being faithful is even more important those are BIG Dos
just no getting sexual pleasures from other people while ur at the club... or anywhere else for that matter
feelin on some girls titties - guys
getting felt on and liking it - girls
dont go home with anyone....to do the dirty....lol
those are definitely dontsGuys and girls...advice?? plz?
With: Dance with them, but don't be all clingy unless they want you to be. If they want to go hang out with their friends for a bit, let them, and go hang out with yours. Or, just all hang out together.
Without: Don't flirt with other guys or scope out the club for hot ones, do call them on the way home and tell them you had a good time with your friends, and don't let any guys get close to you. Just be yourself and have fun without being unfaithful.
it depends on the people, and the amount of trust between the two of you.. because I know for me I wouldnt set rules because I trust my boyfriend, and I dont think that he would want to dance or do anything with anyone else, and the same goes for me.. But I mean discuss it with your partner and I'm sure you two can come up with what you both would not like the other to do and what you wouldn't mind if the other did, and so on..
: ) hope I helpedd
dont go 2 clubs without ur bf (not acceptable) u might think u can control urself, but when u get drunk or ';aroused'; u wont be able to, NO CHEATING, DONT DRINK, DONT GO HOME WITH ANYONE U DONT KNOW, DONT DANCE WITH OTHER BOYS, DONT DO ANYTHING U WOULDN'T DO IF UR PARTNER WAS THERE. act like they're there. or my simple advice, dont go 2 a club period. u might get into trouble.
i say i the man that don't cheat and 1 i would not dance slow it she not there 2 i would not sit close with woman there 3 i mite not go if she not going 4 i would tell her the true about what happen when she not there now if she is there with me no one have any thing to tell me that she can not hear
well...you guys should promise each other that you won't try to hock up with someone...and you should probably be loyal...Good luck! oh...and if you drink then try not to drink so much because you can to Crazy things!!! and i mean it!! i have a cousin like that...so yea be careful
Ok
if yal are dating there shouldnt be rules
yal should trust each other enough
you shouldnt be worryed
i break up wid all my bfs bc
they are wayy to jelouse
that drives me crazy
just dont be to jelouse
or
you might lose the one you love
There shouldn't even be rules. Your partner should already know the boundaries and shouldn't need to ';know what not to do';, or ';what to do.';
Dont go without each other*! Dont look at another girl dont talk to them if they try and talk to you say I have a gf I'm not interested..!* If your not there you really dont know what happens so I say it's a big no no !*
*Good Luck*
I say there shouldn't be any rules if the two of you can trust each other to not go over the boundaries.
I dont think there should be any rules.
I mean if you can trust you your boy/girl friend enough then you shouldnt have to worry about setting rules!
JUST DON'T HOOK UP WITH GUYS AND THAT'S PRETTY MUCH IT!!
u can go to clubs without each other, u can accept drinks from other men, u can dance with other men. u can NOT accept other men's numbers and if u do, u can NOT keep them just because';,u can NOT grind on other men, u can NOT take offers to their home or for them to drive you home
NO SEX WITH SOMEONE WHO IS NOT YOUR PARTNER...unless they are there hehe. fun times.
only go without ur bf if u r going with ur gurl friends and call hime evry hr ur gone
Guys ...Need your advice please?
Guys...If he likes me as just a friend then why he always tells me to be quiet when i talk about other guys????????Guys ...Need your advice please?
Not really enough information. It depends on what you say about other guys. He might really like you and not know it. Sounds weird, but it happens. Or he may be a control freak and just doesnt want you seeing any other guys (don't let him do this). If he's not your boyfriend, he shouldn't stand in your way of getting one if you want.Guys ...Need your advice please?
Man, he is confused...
I think he likes you, but is just afraid to admit because he thinks that you might not like him the way he likes you...
Ohtar, out! :)
P.S. Just continue what you're doing, even if he tells you to be quiet... If he gets pissed off, joke around about how he (your guy friend) must like you sooooooo much because he gets jealous everytime you talk about another guy... Eventually, the truth will come out... Good Luck!
he's gay? wait nevermind
He either like you more than a friend (what most guys do with ';just friends'; girls) or he just doesn't want to hear that noise. That's like being demoted to a girlfriend. He doesn't want to hear about other dudes. It's not a good look to talk about that around him. Don't do it.
If you didn't notice it you 2 are dating. Its one of those friendships that turn into love and when the love is gone you can't be friends again....doesn't that suck..i can just see what's gonna happen to you and him. :) I don't know, it's so gay
because he wants to rail you
Maybe he does like you or he's just sick of you talking about them. If he says it in a mean way, then he's just probably sick. if he says it in a nicer way then he probably likes you.
I think he likes you,but is too shy too admit it.
Not really enough information. It depends on what you say about other guys. He might really like you and not know it. Sounds weird, but it happens. Or he may be a control freak and just doesnt want you seeing any other guys (don't let him do this). If he's not your boyfriend, he shouldn't stand in your way of getting one if you want.Guys ...Need your advice please?
Man, he is confused...
I think he likes you, but is just afraid to admit because he thinks that you might not like him the way he likes you...
Ohtar, out! :)
P.S. Just continue what you're doing, even if he tells you to be quiet... If he gets pissed off, joke around about how he (your guy friend) must like you sooooooo much because he gets jealous everytime you talk about another guy... Eventually, the truth will come out... Good Luck!
he's gay? wait nevermind
He either like you more than a friend (what most guys do with ';just friends'; girls) or he just doesn't want to hear that noise. That's like being demoted to a girlfriend. He doesn't want to hear about other dudes. It's not a good look to talk about that around him. Don't do it.
If you didn't notice it you 2 are dating. Its one of those friendships that turn into love and when the love is gone you can't be friends again....doesn't that suck..i can just see what's gonna happen to you and him. :) I don't know, it's so gay
because he wants to rail you
Maybe he does like you or he's just sick of you talking about them. If he says it in a mean way, then he's just probably sick. if he says it in a nicer way then he probably likes you.
I think he likes you,but is too shy too admit it.
Ok i need advice quick guys help me 2!?
ok i was playing spin the bottle and it landed on a guy i would die 4 (he likes me 2) and when i got to kissing him i was like a cm away and then freaked and pulled back idk what the heck happend but i freaked walked away and stopped playing and started to cry what the crap happend and the when i went back i could kiss every1 else but him cuz i flipped and started 2 cry! HELP?!?!?!?!Ok i need advice quick guys help me 2!?
I don't know, but make sure you apologize and explain to him that you didn't mean to or anything and that you're sorry and stuff so that he understands you're still interested!Ok i need advice quick guys help me 2!?
You pulled away because you don't want your first kiss with him as playing spin the bottle. You cry because you probably think you did something stupid. I don't know. But in my case I wouldn't want to kiss someone for the first time in a game. I'd like it to be romantic.
scared ya did it! Sounds to me like your in love.
well i would tell him why you freaked out.
he probably thinks you hate him right now.
Wow I had the same thing happen to me. I pulled away too but didn't cry, just frustrated myself. Looking back now it was lack of self confidence not wanting to spoil the feelings for that person cos they may not like me after. Anyone else didn't matter cos there was no emotional attachment. Stop thinking negative about what might happen and think of the positives that may come out off it.And being a guy we hate mixed signals, be open and honest with him how u feel even if u don't understand yourself and if he is half decent he will fill in the blanks. All the best.
Maybe you thought you would screw it up?
aaw you love him.
Well he probably thinks you don't like him now.
Listen, no joke, I've found the best place to ask those questions, go to http://www.GuysTeachGirls.com
wow that is hot! I agree you love the dude.
I don't know, but make sure you apologize and explain to him that you didn't mean to or anything and that you're sorry and stuff so that he understands you're still interested!Ok i need advice quick guys help me 2!?
You pulled away because you don't want your first kiss with him as playing spin the bottle. You cry because you probably think you did something stupid. I don't know. But in my case I wouldn't want to kiss someone for the first time in a game. I'd like it to be romantic.
scared ya did it! Sounds to me like your in love.
well i would tell him why you freaked out.
he probably thinks you hate him right now.
Wow I had the same thing happen to me. I pulled away too but didn't cry, just frustrated myself. Looking back now it was lack of self confidence not wanting to spoil the feelings for that person cos they may not like me after. Anyone else didn't matter cos there was no emotional attachment. Stop thinking negative about what might happen and think of the positives that may come out off it.And being a guy we hate mixed signals, be open and honest with him how u feel even if u don't understand yourself and if he is half decent he will fill in the blanks. All the best.
Maybe you thought you would screw it up?
aaw you love him.
Well he probably thinks you don't like him now.
Listen, no joke, I've found the best place to ask those questions, go to http://www.GuysTeachGirls.com
wow that is hot! I agree you love the dude.
What should i do? girls advice and guys adcive please!?
i know this doesnt belong in beauty...but it seems like this area gets the most views
ok so this guy and are like eachother, but he said that he wanted to ask this girl out that hes known longer, but she doesnt like him, but me and this guy havent talked for like 4 days...any advice as what to do? like just let him text me or something or see if he talks to me monday, but if he doesnt talk to me on monday or text me, what does this mean? does it mean that like he wants a little bit of time to get over the other girl not likeing him?
please help! i am just really confused about this whole thing right now cause theres so much going on...What should i do? girls advice and guys adcive please!?
I didn't understand a single word of that; though there is a possibility some of the general meaning might've reached me.
I think that what you're saying is that you're anxious about ';this guy'; not liking you, is that so? I think he does, I tell you. And if you can talk to each other I think you should make him understand that it's no point asking out a girl who doesn't like him.
All the best wishes.What should i do? girls advice and guys adcive please!?
you haven't seen him in a while, right?? Maybe go on a double/triple date wit your friends and his friends then slowly take it down to just you 2.............. lol i tried that and it ended up radd
ok so this guy and are like eachother, but he said that he wanted to ask this girl out that hes known longer, but she doesnt like him, but me and this guy havent talked for like 4 days...any advice as what to do? like just let him text me or something or see if he talks to me monday, but if he doesnt talk to me on monday or text me, what does this mean? does it mean that like he wants a little bit of time to get over the other girl not likeing him?
please help! i am just really confused about this whole thing right now cause theres so much going on...What should i do? girls advice and guys adcive please!?
I didn't understand a single word of that; though there is a possibility some of the general meaning might've reached me.
I think that what you're saying is that you're anxious about ';this guy'; not liking you, is that so? I think he does, I tell you. And if you can talk to each other I think you should make him understand that it's no point asking out a girl who doesn't like him.
All the best wishes.What should i do? girls advice and guys adcive please!?
you haven't seen him in a while, right?? Maybe go on a double/triple date wit your friends and his friends then slowly take it down to just you 2.............. lol i tried that and it ended up radd
Guys need some advice...bf gets sore...?
we see each other only on weekends and when we do we tend to have alot of sex but he gets really sore, any suggestions to help with this? We already use ky. Is there anything he can do for the pain? Anything to prevent the sorness in the first place?Guys need some advice...bf gets sore...?
it is natural to be sore if you are having that much sex. so instead of 8-10 times a weekend drop it down to 6-8 times. Then he shouldn't be as sore. Also take some mortin 800 mgGuys need some advice...bf gets sore...?
The best thing he could do would be to go see his doc and discuss this issue with him...that is where he will get the best advice.
be cool...
get him started some some good oral
maybe he needs to stop sleeping with all the tramps...and get his jock checked out.
He should see a doc before he infects you with something
us girls are usually the ones that get sore sweety..
there has to be something wrong with him....or you are doin it the wrong way.. that it stresses him out down there...
have him seen by the doc...
sorry if this does not help
maybe he's taking care of himself when he doesn't see you. if he is, maybe he can cut back on that and give himself a time out for a while during the week.
maybe its just thrush what they call the honeymoon disease if your at it all weekend this may be the cause check it out
it is natural to be sore if you are having that much sex. so instead of 8-10 times a weekend drop it down to 6-8 times. Then he shouldn't be as sore. Also take some mortin 800 mgGuys need some advice...bf gets sore...?
The best thing he could do would be to go see his doc and discuss this issue with him...that is where he will get the best advice.
be cool...
get him started some some good oral
maybe he needs to stop sleeping with all the tramps...and get his jock checked out.
He should see a doc before he infects you with something
us girls are usually the ones that get sore sweety..
there has to be something wrong with him....or you are doin it the wrong way.. that it stresses him out down there...
have him seen by the doc...
sorry if this does not help
maybe he's taking care of himself when he doesn't see you. if he is, maybe he can cut back on that and give himself a time out for a while during the week.
maybe its just thrush what they call the honeymoon disease if your at it all weekend this may be the cause check it out
Need some advice from guys between 20-25, about an Older Woman Younger Man situation..??
I have been dating a younger man for about a year now, and things have been going great with us, we are actually in love with one another, we spent every moment together....but
he had never met my teenage children, because they were out of town... but here's the problem,
my kids have been back for 3 weeks now and he has not come over to meet them, he hasn't come over period !! he still calls me everyday and he told me that he was really nervous about meeting my kids, because their ages are really close to his...
but I'm wondering if he ever plans to come over, or would he actually throw away the whole relationship due to being scared ?Need some advice from guys between 20-25, about an Older Woman Younger Man situation..??
To be honest with you it is weird coming over and introducing yourself to them and they realize that their mother is basicaly dating someone there age it is weird so i think he is skeptical about the age more than anything and yeah i think he might call the relationship off..Need some advice from guys between 20-25, about an Older Woman Younger Man situation..??
I was going out with 40 year old women and I'm 16 don't worry she had kids younger than me. I'm not going out with her anymore the relatationship was a mistake thou and if I was in your guys shoes like I was then yes I would be nervers about meeting your teenage kids but I would just continue to meet up with the guy without your kids and then it will be ok just ease him into it.
Don't push him..Let him come around when he is ready..Yes older younger can work. It takes patience and understanding on both sides. You really have to consider your teens. That is more sticky..If you and he are really in love than time is on your side. If he does throw it away it is his choice and in the long run you would not want someone that is that scared..Relax, let it play out...
I am older than my husband and we have married for many years he did cheat once [but even she was older than him],
I had 3 young teens also but he got along fine with them and together we had a child. Just tell him don't be nervous they'll think you're cool. I think he feels inadequate?
Fistly you must speek with your children about your boy frined.
here is my story.
I am involved with a woman who is 32 years older than I am. I am 23 and she is 55. She is divorced. She has 3 grown up chindren %26amp; grand children.
When she was admitted for a treatment in a hospital, I stayed with her for her support after her come back to home. She couldn't move to toilet or what ever for the three month period, I help to her to move toilet and bed and support her always.
After i married her and living with her %26amp; her one
This kind of relationship now changed to a good relationship. Now We are love each other. She is thinking about me as a big support in her life.
After I married her and living with same home. Now Her children are very support to our marriage.
Her childen are very friendly with me.
he had never met my teenage children, because they were out of town... but here's the problem,
my kids have been back for 3 weeks now and he has not come over to meet them, he hasn't come over period !! he still calls me everyday and he told me that he was really nervous about meeting my kids, because their ages are really close to his...
but I'm wondering if he ever plans to come over, or would he actually throw away the whole relationship due to being scared ?Need some advice from guys between 20-25, about an Older Woman Younger Man situation..??
To be honest with you it is weird coming over and introducing yourself to them and they realize that their mother is basicaly dating someone there age it is weird so i think he is skeptical about the age more than anything and yeah i think he might call the relationship off..Need some advice from guys between 20-25, about an Older Woman Younger Man situation..??
I was going out with 40 year old women and I'm 16 don't worry she had kids younger than me. I'm not going out with her anymore the relatationship was a mistake thou and if I was in your guys shoes like I was then yes I would be nervers about meeting your teenage kids but I would just continue to meet up with the guy without your kids and then it will be ok just ease him into it.
Don't push him..Let him come around when he is ready..Yes older younger can work. It takes patience and understanding on both sides. You really have to consider your teens. That is more sticky..If you and he are really in love than time is on your side. If he does throw it away it is his choice and in the long run you would not want someone that is that scared..Relax, let it play out...
I am older than my husband and we have married for many years he did cheat once [but even she was older than him],
I had 3 young teens also but he got along fine with them and together we had a child. Just tell him don't be nervous they'll think you're cool. I think he feels inadequate?
Fistly you must speek with your children about your boy frined.
here is my story.
I am involved with a woman who is 32 years older than I am. I am 23 and she is 55. She is divorced. She has 3 grown up chindren %26amp; grand children.
When she was admitted for a treatment in a hospital, I stayed with her for her support after her come back to home. She couldn't move to toilet or what ever for the three month period, I help to her to move toilet and bed and support her always.
After i married her and living with her %26amp; her one
This kind of relationship now changed to a good relationship. Now We are love each other. She is thinking about me as a big support in her life.
After I married her and living with same home. Now Her children are very support to our marriage.
Her childen are very friendly with me.
Some dating advice...from guys preferably?
So, I'm a sophomore in high school.
I like this guy and I honestly don't know why, but we won't get into that. But hes big, muscular and chubby.
He's not exactly hott... actually he really isn't.
And I can't figure out why I like him...
But anyways, he's a bully kind of and likes to fight.
I really don't know how to approach him, cause he's not really the dating kind...
I know this sounds so off the wall, but any advice would be great.
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Just say hi to him one day. Although, I wonder why you're attracted to him to. I'll never understand why women always love going with the ***hole.Some dating advice...from guys preferably?
uhm?
i have no clue maybe you should just to what you do with a regular guy.
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I like this guy and I honestly don't know why, but we won't get into that. But hes big, muscular and chubby.
He's not exactly hott... actually he really isn't.
And I can't figure out why I like him...
But anyways, he's a bully kind of and likes to fight.
I really don't know how to approach him, cause he's not really the dating kind...
I know this sounds so off the wall, but any advice would be great.
http://i718.photobucket.com/albums/ww181鈥?/a>Some dating advice...from guys preferably?
Just say hi to him one day. Although, I wonder why you're attracted to him to. I'll never understand why women always love going with the ***hole.Some dating advice...from guys preferably?
uhm?
i have no clue maybe you should just to what you do with a regular guy.
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Just need advice really? guys and girls answer but only serious please?
ive been with my fiance for nearly 4 years on and off, hes left me quite a few times in the past but for no reason, hes never slept with anyone else while weve split up or been together for that matter, but now he says hes realised what hes got with me he says im the one he cant be without me he would never cheat on me he loves me more than anything and would do anything for me etc etc, im nearly 19 hes nearly 20 and he said he wants to start a life with me and get a house together etc...what i wanna know is...if hes already left me loadsa times why would he say im ';the one'; now and say he wont ever leave me again...plus he proposed to me this year...so, basically hes never cheated on me or been with anyone whilst weve split up so why would he now finalise it with im the one and he wants to spend the rest of his life with me...ps sorry its long just need adviceJust need advice really? guys and girls answer but only serious please?
Well how do you feel about him? Do you love him? Would you ever leave him?
If you feel the same way he's speaking then yes, be with him, however if he does ever leave you again then he was clearly lying and you should find someone else.
Maybe he really has thought about it and realized after all this time you have been together on and off again it is you he wants, I mean he hasn't cheated or anything so I think he does care about you deeply.
Good luck. :)Just need advice really? guys and girls answer but only serious please?
No, I think that you need to experience life and different partners before you both settle down. He may feel he loves you but it doesn't sound as if you are sure about him. Live together in rented accomodation, then in a few years time if you feel ready get married and a mortgage but don't tie yourself down to serious commitment at such a young age.
Explore the world and have fun!
I think one question you need to ask yourself is if YOU trust him? There is a reason he left you those times. There is always a reason. When was the last time he left you? I don't think it's a good idea to get married at this time. You two should work on your relationship. Both of you are very young too. Do you see yourself with this guy for the rest of your life? It's a big decision. Are you ready to live with him 24/7? What would you do if you get married and then he ends up leaving you again?
I do not know him so I can't say for sure whether you should marry him or not but I definitely would not get married to him anytime soon.
He`s left you in the past for no reason, and you believe this insensitive person has`nt been cheating. Just because he say`s he has`nt does`nt mean he`s telling the truth. You have obviously been taking the wanderer back, time after time. He moved back home because of family issues. I would`nt trust him as far as I could throw him. You sure are smitten over him, yet your not sure he means what he says. Of course you have good reason not too. Seems to me he protests too much about not having cheated on you. Could he be a bit nervous someone is going to educate you about his disappearing episodes. Well I hope that the trust you have valiantly kept in him, does`nt come back and bite you.
He might have just felt that you were smothering him. OR he might have thought he was just fooling around with you until someone better shows up but realizes that you are the best? Either way, you can't trust him saying that he never slept with anyone else because you don't know what he's been doing when he was gone and he can easily lie to you. My advice and I'm sorry if you don't agree with is, Don't Get Married. Not until he's 22. The reason why is because he should show you that he's committed and willing to wait till your ready and the sad truth is that people change when they turn 21 and can legally drink. You'll see a lot of people change when they turn 21 and want to start doing the ';club scene'; so I would wait till your at least 21 and he's 22. If he truly believes you are the one, than he can wait 2 more years.
It's difficult to say... About the cheating, I'm not sure I'd believe him. But I don't know either of you. I could be wrong.
But about the sudden proposal, I think it's entirely possible he just didn't feel old enough before to settle down. You're quite young still, so not having proposed earlier is understandable.
One thing I will say is if you get a house together make sure it is in both your names. If he does leave you again that way you won't be left homeless with nothing.
Well how do you feel about him? Do you love him? Would you ever leave him?
If you feel the same way he's speaking then yes, be with him, however if he does ever leave you again then he was clearly lying and you should find someone else.
Maybe he really has thought about it and realized after all this time you have been together on and off again it is you he wants, I mean he hasn't cheated or anything so I think he does care about you deeply.
Good luck. :)Just need advice really? guys and girls answer but only serious please?
No, I think that you need to experience life and different partners before you both settle down. He may feel he loves you but it doesn't sound as if you are sure about him. Live together in rented accomodation, then in a few years time if you feel ready get married and a mortgage but don't tie yourself down to serious commitment at such a young age.
Explore the world and have fun!
I think one question you need to ask yourself is if YOU trust him? There is a reason he left you those times. There is always a reason. When was the last time he left you? I don't think it's a good idea to get married at this time. You two should work on your relationship. Both of you are very young too. Do you see yourself with this guy for the rest of your life? It's a big decision. Are you ready to live with him 24/7? What would you do if you get married and then he ends up leaving you again?
I do not know him so I can't say for sure whether you should marry him or not but I definitely would not get married to him anytime soon.
He`s left you in the past for no reason, and you believe this insensitive person has`nt been cheating. Just because he say`s he has`nt does`nt mean he`s telling the truth. You have obviously been taking the wanderer back, time after time. He moved back home because of family issues. I would`nt trust him as far as I could throw him. You sure are smitten over him, yet your not sure he means what he says. Of course you have good reason not too. Seems to me he protests too much about not having cheated on you. Could he be a bit nervous someone is going to educate you about his disappearing episodes. Well I hope that the trust you have valiantly kept in him, does`nt come back and bite you.
He might have just felt that you were smothering him. OR he might have thought he was just fooling around with you until someone better shows up but realizes that you are the best? Either way, you can't trust him saying that he never slept with anyone else because you don't know what he's been doing when he was gone and he can easily lie to you. My advice and I'm sorry if you don't agree with is, Don't Get Married. Not until he's 22. The reason why is because he should show you that he's committed and willing to wait till your ready and the sad truth is that people change when they turn 21 and can legally drink. You'll see a lot of people change when they turn 21 and want to start doing the ';club scene'; so I would wait till your at least 21 and he's 22. If he truly believes you are the one, than he can wait 2 more years.
It's difficult to say... About the cheating, I'm not sure I'd believe him. But I don't know either of you. I could be wrong.
But about the sudden proposal, I think it's entirely possible he just didn't feel old enough before to settle down. You're quite young still, so not having proposed earlier is understandable.
One thing I will say is if you get a house together make sure it is in both your names. If he does leave you again that way you won't be left homeless with nothing.
I need advice from guys! Help...?
Okay so i just stood up to my boyfriend and told him how i felt about why we were on a break if we've been together for almost three years..it just didn't make sense to me. And he replied that he can't give his all to me and he doesn't know if that will change. I told him i couldnt do it anymore and i shouldnt have to be the girl thats just sticking by him not knowing whats gonna happen with us. Did i do the right thing? I just dont know what to do now cause i really do love him but i dont wanna hurt anymore.I need advice from guys! Help...?
Sounds like you did the right thing. Seems to me that what he is communicating and trying to do in a nice way is say he does not see himself marrying you or loving you with all his heart. So he feels it's best to part ways, he may not know what he wants.I need advice from guys! Help...?
If you love each other then you CAN work things out. Anything can be worked out by talking it over with each other. It's called communication and it's the key in every good relationship however, he seems to have the two year doldrums which a lull in your relationship. It happens a lot. It's when one or both feel that there is nothing left in the relationship. 9 out of 10 times that's just not true. Communicating will bring you into the light and a little give and take here and there can save your relationship. Every relationship is a 50/50 deal. Neither of the couple need have to do anything by themselves. You both must share the good and bad. If he can't give his all then there is something else he's not telling you. That's an easy line to give when you don't want the truth out.
Yes, I think you did the right thing.
Hope this helps.
i think so...it hurts now, but it just takes time. if he really cares about you as much as you do about him, he'll come crawling back to you.
just wait it out for a bit and if nothing happens, you know what to do.
good luck.
You did the right thing. That long of relationship should be leading to an engagement, not someone saying they can't give it their all. That's too bad.
Sounds like you did the right thing. Seems to me that what he is communicating and trying to do in a nice way is say he does not see himself marrying you or loving you with all his heart. So he feels it's best to part ways, he may not know what he wants.I need advice from guys! Help...?
If you love each other then you CAN work things out. Anything can be worked out by talking it over with each other. It's called communication and it's the key in every good relationship however, he seems to have the two year doldrums which a lull in your relationship. It happens a lot. It's when one or both feel that there is nothing left in the relationship. 9 out of 10 times that's just not true. Communicating will bring you into the light and a little give and take here and there can save your relationship. Every relationship is a 50/50 deal. Neither of the couple need have to do anything by themselves. You both must share the good and bad. If he can't give his all then there is something else he's not telling you. That's an easy line to give when you don't want the truth out.
Yes, I think you did the right thing.
Hope this helps.
i think so...it hurts now, but it just takes time. if he really cares about you as much as you do about him, he'll come crawling back to you.
just wait it out for a bit and if nothing happens, you know what to do.
good luck.
You did the right thing. That long of relationship should be leading to an engagement, not someone saying they can't give it their all. That's too bad.
I need advice on guys. please help i've never done this before!?
I really like this guy that i kinda know and i wanna ask him to the dance...i dont see him that often, only at a certain club's meetings. and we talk a little and stuff, but i dont see him outside of there so we dont really talk but there... and the problem is, we dont have any more club meetings. i wanna ask him to the dance (its at the beginning of march) and i dont want it to be really awkward or like when i do see him that it wont be awkward...what do i do?? how do i make it not awkward?I need advice on guys. please help i've never done this before!?
you could ask him if he is going - if he says yes ask who his date is - if he hasnt got one - your in. All guys love to be asked out :)
you could ask him if he is going - if he says yes ask who his date is - if he hasnt got one - your in. All guys love to be asked out :)
Need some advice from guys between 20-25, about an Older Woman Younger Man situation..??
I have been dating a younger man for about a year now, and things have been going great with us, we are actually in love with one another, we spent every moment together....but
he had never met my teenage children, because they were out of town... but here's the problem,
my kids have been back for 3 weeks now and he has not come over to meet them, he hasn't come over period !! he still calls me everyday and he told me that he was really nervous about meeting my kids, because their ages are really close to his...
but I'm wondering if he ever plans to come over, or would he actually throw away the whole relationship due to being scared ?Need some advice from guys between 20-25, about an Older Woman Younger Man situation..??
Wow. This has got to be hard on him. I would be patient. Imagine yourself in his place. He's probably thinking they're going to be pretty weirded out meeting him.
I think the best you can do is relay it back to him how much they're looking forward to it. Hopefully, that is the case. And just make sure the meeting is super positive.Need some advice from guys between 20-25, about an Older Woman Younger Man situation..??
As a single mom whose dated a man from this generation I feel I'm qualified to answer. He's scared... and he's likely to throw away the whole relationship because of it. Young men of today just aren't built the same. They lack substance. Something to do with too much time on the internet.
he had never met my teenage children, because they were out of town... but here's the problem,
my kids have been back for 3 weeks now and he has not come over to meet them, he hasn't come over period !! he still calls me everyday and he told me that he was really nervous about meeting my kids, because their ages are really close to his...
but I'm wondering if he ever plans to come over, or would he actually throw away the whole relationship due to being scared ?Need some advice from guys between 20-25, about an Older Woman Younger Man situation..??
Wow. This has got to be hard on him. I would be patient. Imagine yourself in his place. He's probably thinking they're going to be pretty weirded out meeting him.
I think the best you can do is relay it back to him how much they're looking forward to it. Hopefully, that is the case. And just make sure the meeting is super positive.Need some advice from guys between 20-25, about an Older Woman Younger Man situation..??
As a single mom whose dated a man from this generation I feel I'm qualified to answer. He's scared... and he's likely to throw away the whole relationship because of it. Young men of today just aren't built the same. They lack substance. Something to do with too much time on the internet.
Seeking female advice from guys or girlz?
Why does it seem like most pretty teenage girls who around 15-18ish seem very immature with making decisions about being with a guy, I mean I understand about having fun with your girl friends and flirting and acting sexy with guys, but I'll make an example: If a girl is 16 yrs old, getting out a relationship, immature, demands attention from guys which gives her a cocky ego booster...How long will things like this really pan out to be, until she leaves highschool? Because I know this girl who likes me and I like her but I don't know if shes worth it becuz she posses the things I stated aboveSeeking female advice from guys or girlz?
you know, i used to be like that. bouncing from boy to boy because i was able to get away with it. it took awhile for me to realize how slutty that was, and how it wasnt something i wanted. She needs time to mature and realize that on her own. i couldn't give you an exact age, but i was twenty when all the consequences of my bad deeds since i was 14 started unfolding and nearly ruining my life.Seeking female advice from guys or girlz?
There are high school girls who aren't like that. I was one of them. I never dated in high school. At that age and for most of college, girls and guys don't know what they want. They treat each other like dirt half the time and are trying to act like adults and children at the same time. Don't look to this one girl for a relationship. Just take your time and see where you end up. There are more mature people out there, you just need to try to find them.
well if she is like that, then i wouldnt be with her
try for a more mature girl or wait until college
you know, i used to be like that. bouncing from boy to boy because i was able to get away with it. it took awhile for me to realize how slutty that was, and how it wasnt something i wanted. She needs time to mature and realize that on her own. i couldn't give you an exact age, but i was twenty when all the consequences of my bad deeds since i was 14 started unfolding and nearly ruining my life.Seeking female advice from guys or girlz?
There are high school girls who aren't like that. I was one of them. I never dated in high school. At that age and for most of college, girls and guys don't know what they want. They treat each other like dirt half the time and are trying to act like adults and children at the same time. Don't look to this one girl for a relationship. Just take your time and see where you end up. There are more mature people out there, you just need to try to find them.
well if she is like that, then i wouldnt be with her
try for a more mature girl or wait until college
I need advice from guys only please!!!?
Okay, this is pretty embarrassing for me to bring up, but I'm hoping a guy out there and can explain how my boyfriend feels, better then my boyfriend has explained it to me.
Well, two days ago my Mom and I had jury duty so my boyfriend babysat my little sister and somehow they got into a conversation about how he doesn't find me as attractive anymore. He told my sister 'It's weird because I love her but I don't want to be that close to her anymore'.
Of course when my sister told me this I confronted him. I was hoping he would have told me she misunderstood and instead I received this line: 'I didn't want to tell you.' I honestly don't know how to take it. He says he still thinks I am beautiful and he still loves all the things about me he did before.. but he feels because I am out of shape, he doesnt find me as attractive. I am only 10 pounds over what I should be... But is that possible?.. That a guy can love a girl, still find her beautiful, but less attractive for not being as in shape as she used to be?...
He says he wants to work it out too, which I guess is good. He wants to work through it, hes suggesting we both join a gym or see each other less to make it so we want to see each other more. It is just bothers me because now every time he kisses me or seems to want more, I dont even know if I am good looking enough to have him really want that.. or if he is just doing that to make me feel better.
anyways any advice would be helpful. And please no mean responses, they are uncalled for here.
Thanks.I need advice from guys only please!!!?
yes it is possible that he can love u but thinks ur less attractive he said ur less attractive he didnt say that he didnt think ur were attractiveI need advice from guys only please!!!?
spend a little more time with him and see how it goes. If he seems to still feel the same way, find someone else.
Kay, first of all your bf is a straight up douchebag. Not to say that I wouldn't be concerned if my gf was gaining excess weight, I'd probably tell her in a sweet way, but 10 pounds? -_- big whoop, its not like your cheeks are bulging out and you have a cauldron belly. But if he's with you for superficial reasons, it won't last long.
Hi there. To me, it sounds like your boyfriend isn't telling the whole story. An extra 10 pounds of weight isn't enough to justify a change of feelings. In all honesty, if he truly loves you, weight wouldn't even be a factor at all.
No guy has the right to ask someone to change. Love is excepting that person for who they are, not what you want them to be. If he can't except you and love you for who you are, then he just isn't the right one for you.
I could be wrong, but in my opinion it sounds likes your boyfriend wants to explore what else is out there. The fact that he said ';see each other less to make it so we want to see each other more'; sounds like he wants time away from you to see what else is out there.
In his mind, doing this allows him some freedom to explore without breaking up with you in case he doesn't find what he is looking for. He would still have you to go too.
Personally, I would end it, before he hurts you even more. You sound like a sweet person. You don't deserve someone putting you down.
hi there .... this is a weird one to try and answer ... but since i work next to a guy who complains about the same thing regarding his girlfriend, i just want to say .... first of all this guy working with me .... he's an a#@
if he really cares for you and wants to be with you he won't complain about this.... he should rather find something nice the two of you can do together or put himself in that position of saying `i think im going to start working out ` which might get you to also start doing this.... i personally think its a bit off telling you that you're over .... maybe its just me .... but id say that 10 is not much over .... really not ! so ........
things shouldnt be about the physical .... but for who you are.... just a thoughtscars
Well, two days ago my Mom and I had jury duty so my boyfriend babysat my little sister and somehow they got into a conversation about how he doesn't find me as attractive anymore. He told my sister 'It's weird because I love her but I don't want to be that close to her anymore'.
Of course when my sister told me this I confronted him. I was hoping he would have told me she misunderstood and instead I received this line: 'I didn't want to tell you.' I honestly don't know how to take it. He says he still thinks I am beautiful and he still loves all the things about me he did before.. but he feels because I am out of shape, he doesnt find me as attractive. I am only 10 pounds over what I should be... But is that possible?.. That a guy can love a girl, still find her beautiful, but less attractive for not being as in shape as she used to be?...
He says he wants to work it out too, which I guess is good. He wants to work through it, hes suggesting we both join a gym or see each other less to make it so we want to see each other more. It is just bothers me because now every time he kisses me or seems to want more, I dont even know if I am good looking enough to have him really want that.. or if he is just doing that to make me feel better.
anyways any advice would be helpful. And please no mean responses, they are uncalled for here.
Thanks.I need advice from guys only please!!!?
yes it is possible that he can love u but thinks ur less attractive he said ur less attractive he didnt say that he didnt think ur were attractiveI need advice from guys only please!!!?
spend a little more time with him and see how it goes. If he seems to still feel the same way, find someone else.
Kay, first of all your bf is a straight up douchebag. Not to say that I wouldn't be concerned if my gf was gaining excess weight, I'd probably tell her in a sweet way, but 10 pounds? -_- big whoop, its not like your cheeks are bulging out and you have a cauldron belly. But if he's with you for superficial reasons, it won't last long.
Hi there. To me, it sounds like your boyfriend isn't telling the whole story. An extra 10 pounds of weight isn't enough to justify a change of feelings. In all honesty, if he truly loves you, weight wouldn't even be a factor at all.
No guy has the right to ask someone to change. Love is excepting that person for who they are, not what you want them to be. If he can't except you and love you for who you are, then he just isn't the right one for you.
I could be wrong, but in my opinion it sounds likes your boyfriend wants to explore what else is out there. The fact that he said ';see each other less to make it so we want to see each other more'; sounds like he wants time away from you to see what else is out there.
In his mind, doing this allows him some freedom to explore without breaking up with you in case he doesn't find what he is looking for. He would still have you to go too.
Personally, I would end it, before he hurts you even more. You sound like a sweet person. You don't deserve someone putting you down.
hi there .... this is a weird one to try and answer ... but since i work next to a guy who complains about the same thing regarding his girlfriend, i just want to say .... first of all this guy working with me .... he's an a#@
if he really cares for you and wants to be with you he won't complain about this.... he should rather find something nice the two of you can do together or put himself in that position of saying `i think im going to start working out ` which might get you to also start doing this.... i personally think its a bit off telling you that you're over .... maybe its just me .... but id say that 10 is not much over .... really not ! so ........
things shouldnt be about the physical .... but for who you are.... just a thought
ADVICE!!!(FROM GUYS AND GIRLS)10POINTSSS!!!?
am starting to like some guy that hangs around with me in school everyday during lunch.we are big friends and not only that but i just finished a relationship (which he knows the guy) and i don't wanna start one yet so fast. i wanna start talking to him without him noticing that i like him or that am trying to flirt with him(he's jehovah witness and he's really respectfull so i dont know how to play this well..... i want him to like me and then maybe i can go out with him..( i dont know if he likes me but theres sometimes that he makes me think he does but i dont trust my self because thats what i want and am probably day dreaming. am the type of person that i don't like being rejected and i don't want to be the first to let him know i like him i want him to tell me first if he feels anything for me..lol am texting him right now. right now we are cool friends.. and we are just being stupid texting stupid things but i want him to like me lol tips please what do i do!! lolADVICE!!!(FROM GUYS AND GIRLS)10POINTSSS!!!?
My advice is to just keep doing what you're doing. Get to know him a little more... Then, when you feel like you are good enough friends, you could tell him how you feel or just ask him out.
And beeeeee confident!
Good luck and God bless
~Violet~ADVICE!!!(FROM GUYS AND GIRLS)10POINTSSS!!!?
You may be shy and want him to tell YOU first, but you can't just wait for him. Tell him how you feel. You're texting with him right now, take your chance. :)
My advice is to just keep doing what you're doing. Get to know him a little more... Then, when you feel like you are good enough friends, you could tell him how you feel or just ask him out.
And beeeeee confident!
Good luck and God bless
~Violet~ADVICE!!!(FROM GUYS AND GIRLS)10POINTSSS!!!?
You may be shy and want him to tell YOU first, but you can't just wait for him. Tell him how you feel. You're texting with him right now, take your chance. :)
Need some advice on guys...please answer guys and girls...?
OK my BFF has been trying to set me and her cousin up for about two weeks now. He's 21 and I'm 17. I'm 18 in two months and my parents have already said it's okay if I hook up with him and have even encouraged it by buying me condoms. He hasn't had sex in a year and a half...so does that mean he will be more willing to make out with me and all that stuff first before we actually have sex if we do end up having sex at all he might want to wait until I'm 18. Anyways how jealousy comes into play here is like two weekends ago my BFF and I were sitting on her uncle's lap (my crush's dad) {They all live in the same house, my BFF, her parents, her cousin (my crush) and her uncle} and her cousin (my crush) came upstairs and he gave his dad the worst look ever and then lifted my BFF off him and spun her around and then he grabbed me and like bear hugged me and spun me around...and I was like OMG WTF...does he have feelings for me if he's getting jealous that easily.Need some advice on guys...please answer guys and girls...?
if you two really like each other then i would go for it.bout sitting on his dads lap.i dont think that is a good idea.but if i were you since you know he likes you to, i would go for it and see what happens.=]Need some advice on guys...please answer guys and girls...?
Age....It's a Problem?
mayb the reason he doesnt want to make love to you is because your aren't 18. he could get in trouble for sagitory rape. he want to wait till your old enough. nd he mayb doesnt want to rush you. he wants you to be ready. and is he really loves you he will wait as longs as it takes. but ya your friend idk. mayb she is jealous because you havent made a move and she want to becase u havent.
i think personally the man will want some u know wat i mean so u should make him chase if he really loves u he will continue to chase you and then you if love him and he loves u
then you guys can have sex but make him have to win you over and don't go striaght from crush to sex make out then progress and then sex possibly if you feel its ther right thing
if you two really like each other then i would go for it.bout sitting on his dads lap.i dont think that is a good idea.but if i were you since you know he likes you to, i would go for it and see what happens.=]Need some advice on guys...please answer guys and girls...?
Age....It's a Problem?
mayb the reason he doesnt want to make love to you is because your aren't 18. he could get in trouble for sagitory rape. he want to wait till your old enough. nd he mayb doesnt want to rush you. he wants you to be ready. and is he really loves you he will wait as longs as it takes. but ya your friend idk. mayb she is jealous because you havent made a move and she want to becase u havent.
i think personally the man will want some u know wat i mean so u should make him chase if he really loves u he will continue to chase you and then you if love him and he loves u
then you guys can have sex but make him have to win you over and don't go striaght from crush to sex make out then progress and then sex possibly if you feel its ther right thing
Boyfriend, sex. advice from guys?
my boyfriend and i have sex a minimum of two times a day. it's usually more like 3 or 4. occasionally my body just can't handle any more, i start to get sore, so occasionally i turn him down. he pouts and sulks and gets a little cranky. he won't hold me when we sleep and ignores me for a couple of hours in the morning. he says he feels hurt when he's rejected, which is how i imagine i would feel if i initiated sex and he turned it down. i try to be accomodating and keep him satisfied, why can't he understand that my body needs a break occasionally? will a man with this high of a sex drive stay happy with one woman for long? we've been together a year and the relationship is strong. we are in our twenties and our friends say we act like teenagers and we're too puke inducing in our cuteness level. i love sex too, it's not a matter of different sex drives. long story sorry. my question is should i just give it to him when he wants it, or should i just know that he'll be over it in a couple of hours and things will be fine? will a man stray from his girlfriend who OCCASIONALLY turns him down?Boyfriend, sex. advice from guys?
You need to explain to him why you are declining sex at a particular time and it's not rejection, it's postponement. If he's going to pout and sulk like a child, then perhaps you should consider a relationship with a mature man that understand that a couple will not always desire to have sex at the same time, for whatever reason.
Your fellow is terribly selfish if he'd rather you screw him even when you are sore and wouldn't likely enjoy it much, to satisfy his desire rather than wait until you aren't sore so you can both have fun...
...of course you've also got hands, mouth, breasts, and other areas of 'friction' to satisfy him if your vagina isn't up to the task at any given time but bottom line is the mood isn't always there and he needs to grow up and accept that, and not act like a spoiled toddler because he doesn't get what he wants, when he wants it.Boyfriend, sex. advice from guys?
If you are getting tired of it then tell him to be a pornstar for crying out loud. Then he can get a feel of what you have when he gets HIV or AIDS.
I think hes being selfish, if you haven't tried explaining to him how you feel then you should
and if he still feels the same way I would say leave him and let him grow up some and try again later
omg hes sex addict.. he needs help. nd you need to dump that @ssh ole.. tell im ur not a sex machine and ur not even suppose tobe living with a guy unless ur married..dont make it all easy for him.. he will take you for granted.. good luck...x
Yes, I think he is quite selfish too...He has nothing else to do? If he were out alone, you would have rest.
Good luck!
he's a sex addict and needs some help.
And it's your right to say NO!
Very interesting question.In all relationships have good communication and good understanding and comprehension each other is the key.
About sex in this case,you need to talk to him and explain and have an agreement about where, when, and how many times together can have a really good sex time.It is not about to satisfy him,it is about to get satisfaction together (both).Sex in a relationships never is about to satisfy him or her,is about to both feel happy indeed.Many couples around the world end their relationships because one in the couple is being selfish.Good luck.Talk with him,if he does not change his behaviour,then you need to think seriously about what future you will have in this relationship.
He's being unreasonable. I went through the same thing when I first got with my wife then gf. We're still young but at first we would sometimes we'd sex 4-6 times a day in our early 20s, but of course her body just couldn't handle all of that all the time. This isn't something that you need to compromise on. If your body can't handle that then it just can't. Perhaps he'll stray but that's because he's a selfish jerk. If he's acting like this over something so minor, it would make me think how he'd react when you face real adversity.
You need to explain to him why you are declining sex at a particular time and it's not rejection, it's postponement. If he's going to pout and sulk like a child, then perhaps you should consider a relationship with a mature man that understand that a couple will not always desire to have sex at the same time, for whatever reason.
Your fellow is terribly selfish if he'd rather you screw him even when you are sore and wouldn't likely enjoy it much, to satisfy his desire rather than wait until you aren't sore so you can both have fun...
...of course you've also got hands, mouth, breasts, and other areas of 'friction' to satisfy him if your vagina isn't up to the task at any given time but bottom line is the mood isn't always there and he needs to grow up and accept that, and not act like a spoiled toddler because he doesn't get what he wants, when he wants it.Boyfriend, sex. advice from guys?
If you are getting tired of it then tell him to be a pornstar for crying out loud. Then he can get a feel of what you have when he gets HIV or AIDS.
I think hes being selfish, if you haven't tried explaining to him how you feel then you should
and if he still feels the same way I would say leave him and let him grow up some and try again later
omg hes sex addict.. he needs help. nd you need to dump that @ssh ole.. tell im ur not a sex machine and ur not even suppose tobe living with a guy unless ur married..dont make it all easy for him.. he will take you for granted.. good luck...x
Yes, I think he is quite selfish too...He has nothing else to do? If he were out alone, you would have rest.
Good luck!
he's a sex addict and needs some help.
And it's your right to say NO!
Very interesting question.In all relationships have good communication and good understanding and comprehension each other is the key.
About sex in this case,you need to talk to him and explain and have an agreement about where, when, and how many times together can have a really good sex time.It is not about to satisfy him,it is about to get satisfaction together (both).Sex in a relationships never is about to satisfy him or her,is about to both feel happy indeed.Many couples around the world end their relationships because one in the couple is being selfish.Good luck.Talk with him,if he does not change his behaviour,then you need to think seriously about what future you will have in this relationship.
He's being unreasonable. I went through the same thing when I first got with my wife then gf. We're still young but at first we would sometimes we'd sex 4-6 times a day in our early 20s, but of course her body just couldn't handle all of that all the time. This isn't something that you need to compromise on. If your body can't handle that then it just can't. Perhaps he'll stray but that's because he's a selfish jerk. If he's acting like this over something so minor, it would make me think how he'd react when you face real adversity.
I need advice, a guys perspective would be great. help please?
okay so im not a girly girl. my whole life iv always been one of the guys. I guess you could say i just have more in common with guys. We just happen to have the same interest like cars, sports, and just being more relaxed. idk but I've always found most girls i know to be really high maintenance. Im not like that at all. but the problem im having is, im with guys so much, that if i ever meet one that i possibly might like, they just think of me as one of the guys. My close guy friends always make the joke that if i wasn't like a brother to them they'd want to go out with me. Its not that i don't dress or do my hair or makeup like a girl. its just i feel guys aren't allowing themselves to feel attracted to me because they do see me as more of a bro or whatever.
im just wondering if there's a way i can get a guy to see that i am a girl, without having to change who i am??
any advice at all would be really appreciated.I need advice, a guys perspective would be great. help please?
I'd imagine hanging out with a guy not around ';the guys'; would help.
It's also possible (read: probable) that guys feel threatened because you are always around other guys. It's really hard for a lot of dudes to get a handle on the whole ';just friends'; thing.
You might also give off the vibe a bit that you're not into dating or relationships. Maybe start giving some hints that you are.
Most importantly, don't change who you are -- just the delivery. It's very important to be yourself.I need advice, a guys perspective would be great. help please?
All you can do is be yourself. True most males will see you as one of the guys, but one will come along and see you as a really cool girlfriend. Worse comes to worse, if you find someone that you really like and they just view you as one of the guys, you will have to make the first move.
Nothing wrong with being a ';Tomboy'; My friends wife is a tomboy and she can hang with the best of guys when we're working on our trucks. You just have to keep being yourself, The right one will come along. Trust me!
tried showing them your intersted? happened to me friend with a girl like that for 10 years she hinted she was interested in me recently and i asked her out when i woulda use to never consider it
u hafta girl it up every now and then - would u wanna date a guy thats one of the girls or a manly guy that has a sensitive side - big difference
Well for one, it's ok to be ';like a guy'; as long as it's not full blown. If you actually think like a guy, it is going to interfere. If you are just in to things guys are in to, then it's not so bad. You being in to sports or things that guys tend to be in to, it can actually be a good thing for relationships. However if you act like a guy in relationships, of course it's going to conflict. Opposites attract. It's the way of nature. You have to show a feminine side for guys to be truely in to you. You can use your guyish tendencies to find things in common, but make them understand that you're still a woman.
I would say dont change who you are no matter what. I think there's more to life than guys and what not.
I am a guy, and trust me we, ironically, usually key-in for personality rather than looks if u give us time. We might get really attracted to a cute girl, but sooner or later its who she is that either promotes her, in our thoughts, to the position of 'just a cute girl' Vs the position of 'this is the gurl i want.'
Btw its hard to find people like you who are honest!
im just wondering if there's a way i can get a guy to see that i am a girl, without having to change who i am??
any advice at all would be really appreciated.I need advice, a guys perspective would be great. help please?
I'd imagine hanging out with a guy not around ';the guys'; would help.
It's also possible (read: probable) that guys feel threatened because you are always around other guys. It's really hard for a lot of dudes to get a handle on the whole ';just friends'; thing.
You might also give off the vibe a bit that you're not into dating or relationships. Maybe start giving some hints that you are.
Most importantly, don't change who you are -- just the delivery. It's very important to be yourself.I need advice, a guys perspective would be great. help please?
All you can do is be yourself. True most males will see you as one of the guys, but one will come along and see you as a really cool girlfriend. Worse comes to worse, if you find someone that you really like and they just view you as one of the guys, you will have to make the first move.
Nothing wrong with being a ';Tomboy'; My friends wife is a tomboy and she can hang with the best of guys when we're working on our trucks. You just have to keep being yourself, The right one will come along. Trust me!
tried showing them your intersted? happened to me friend with a girl like that for 10 years she hinted she was interested in me recently and i asked her out when i woulda use to never consider it
u hafta girl it up every now and then - would u wanna date a guy thats one of the girls or a manly guy that has a sensitive side - big difference
Well for one, it's ok to be ';like a guy'; as long as it's not full blown. If you actually think like a guy, it is going to interfere. If you are just in to things guys are in to, then it's not so bad. You being in to sports or things that guys tend to be in to, it can actually be a good thing for relationships. However if you act like a guy in relationships, of course it's going to conflict. Opposites attract. It's the way of nature. You have to show a feminine side for guys to be truely in to you. You can use your guyish tendencies to find things in common, but make them understand that you're still a woman.
I would say dont change who you are no matter what. I think there's more to life than guys and what not.
I am a guy, and trust me we, ironically, usually key-in for personality rather than looks if u give us time. We might get really attracted to a cute girl, but sooner or later its who she is that either promotes her, in our thoughts, to the position of 'just a cute girl' Vs the position of 'this is the gurl i want.'
Btw its hard to find people like you who are honest!
I need advice....about guys?
ok so i went out with this one guy....and he was really clingy and stuff....then i went out with this other guy...but he kept acting weird...like one sec he was like hey babe...and the next he wouldn't talk at all...then i went 2 watch my friends bf who is on a hockey team and there r a lot of hot guys on that team.....one of them was like....hey u wanna go 2 a movie sometime??and i was like ur really sweet but i just got over 2 guys...and i told him what jerks they were and we talked and stuff.....then he gave me a hug...and gave me his number and told me 2 call him whenever....i was like awwwww ur so sweet....what should i do about all this??please e-mail me 2 if u have adviceI need advice....about guys?
Naww he sounds nice!!!!!
Msg him!! Msg Him!!! LOL =D
Think he likes you =D GoodluckI need advice....about guys?
Wow you seem like you are confused.... so you say the first guy was clingy? How does that make him a jerk? I can understand the second guy being a jerk becouse of his demeaner, but how is the first guy a jerk. I mean i can understand if you think he is annoying because he is being clingly. Secondly.... I dont recomend anyone(women/men) under the age of 24 to be committed to a long term relationship. I think you should date as many people as you can. Experience different personalities, passions, sex, conversations, and much more. So if you are under the age 24 i dont recomend you engage in a long term relationship..... Just date.
you are weird girll you get boys queeck
Double with your friend so the first date is less awkward.
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awww thats sweet go for it! :]
call him like soon though cause if hes that sweet then theres probably a ton of girls after him :]
You should just call him, dont think that he will turn out the same as those other guys, he does sound sweet
choose the 1 that u really like...
well.... that hockey dude do sounds sweet....
go for him i guess
He sounds like a nice guy, but I would be weary that he listened to you complain about other guys you dated. He probably does like you, since he asked you to go to a movie before you talked to him, but he may have just been listening to your story because he's only interested in one thing. Guys know how to gain a heartbroken girl's trust - listen to them cry and complain and act sweet and honorable at the same time. You're in a vulnerable state, and he senses that, and he knows that you'll be more willing to see him again if he showed you he's not a ';jerk.'; Someone else commented that you should go a double date - I agree because then you will get a better idea about him while being in a safer environment. If at any time he creeps you out, don't see him or call him anymore.
he seems nice, especially since he sounds caring and listens to u...
duhhhhh
txt or call him he sound like a really sweet guy.
and thats what you need right now. :]
hope i helped
how old r u?
the other 2 guys sound like dorks. this one sounds like a really sweet girl-respectful boy.
if he was a jerk, he would have tried to make a move, instead he hugged you! how sweet!!!
call him and go to that movie, find out more about him!!
good luck!~
Ask him out but don't be too nice ;)
Naww he sounds nice!!!!!
Msg him!! Msg Him!!! LOL =D
Think he likes you =D GoodluckI need advice....about guys?
Wow you seem like you are confused.... so you say the first guy was clingy? How does that make him a jerk? I can understand the second guy being a jerk becouse of his demeaner, but how is the first guy a jerk. I mean i can understand if you think he is annoying because he is being clingly. Secondly.... I dont recomend anyone(women/men) under the age of 24 to be committed to a long term relationship. I think you should date as many people as you can. Experience different personalities, passions, sex, conversations, and much more. So if you are under the age 24 i dont recomend you engage in a long term relationship..... Just date.
you are weird girll you get boys queeck
Double with your friend so the first date is less awkward.
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awww thats sweet go for it! :]
call him like soon though cause if hes that sweet then theres probably a ton of girls after him :]
You should just call him, dont think that he will turn out the same as those other guys, he does sound sweet
choose the 1 that u really like...
well.... that hockey dude do sounds sweet....
go for him i guess
He sounds like a nice guy, but I would be weary that he listened to you complain about other guys you dated. He probably does like you, since he asked you to go to a movie before you talked to him, but he may have just been listening to your story because he's only interested in one thing. Guys know how to gain a heartbroken girl's trust - listen to them cry and complain and act sweet and honorable at the same time. You're in a vulnerable state, and he senses that, and he knows that you'll be more willing to see him again if he showed you he's not a ';jerk.'; Someone else commented that you should go a double date - I agree because then you will get a better idea about him while being in a safer environment. If at any time he creeps you out, don't see him or call him anymore.
he seems nice, especially since he sounds caring and listens to u...
duhhhhh
txt or call him he sound like a really sweet guy.
and thats what you need right now. :]
hope i helped
how old r u?
the other 2 guys sound like dorks. this one sounds like a really sweet girl-respectful boy.
if he was a jerk, he would have tried to make a move, instead he hugged you! how sweet!!!
call him and go to that movie, find out more about him!!
good luck!~
Ask him out but don't be too nice ;)
I need advice from guys only, as a girl ?
Hi Guys,
I'm a 17 year old girl who is curious about something. before i comment I not trying to racesim, but I'm from India, but I been raised here in America since I was 3 . Started preschool here and everything as I was alittle. I always hate the fact of being indian wearing clothes, cooking the food, relgion and stuff, I not a sikh or a hidu ever since I was little , I 'm just me being more american than indian, Sometimes or well I have the feeling that I don't want to marry a indian guy cause I don't like them because
of teh fact of being indian, it's the fact thta I am not going to wear those clothes, or cook the indian food, my parents and their parents friend always judge me from being so different , like I listen to hip hop, cook innational food, you name it Italin, america, chineses mostly american then indian, My parents who think I'm crazy and say no, but I wouldn't give a dam since I have flirted with white guys, mexcan guys basicly, evry other races then indian, where I not prejudgeence against them, where my parents are, How would a indian guy look at me being more american then indian ? And what happens if I don't want to marry indian , Will any guy besides indian, like white mexcian , want to marry a indian girl like me one day , ? Will, do guys hate indian girls if they are white? Like I 'm lost , and I am worried
that I really don't to marry indian, rather marry someone who is white or is from mexico, or even a black guy ? Will there be guys in the future for me who are white, mexican, that will marry me and don't care ? Or will they hate me cause I'm indian girl. Please be honest as a guy and tell me the truth and answer all my questions, thanksI need advice from guys only, as a girl ?
NO white guys don't have anything against Indian girls. I once knew this girl who was Indian (she grew up in India). I was so in love with her because she had a face of a goddess and the heart of an angel. I've gone out with many types of girls from many different races and I've never met a girl like her. Then I found out she had a guy her parents had picked out for her. As a white guy, I really don't care for white girls. You simply want something different and there's nothing wrong with that..I need advice from guys only, as a girl ?
say to hell with what your parents think, not to be mean or anything, but its your life tell them that. and if they don't like it then they'll just have to deal with it because you're old enough to choose what you think would be better for you
Guys won't care what your race and ethnicity are. They will be interested (or not interested) based on who you are: your personality and your looks.
I promise that there will be a guy out there for you.
And there's nothing wrong with feeling the way that you do.
It's called individuality.
It doesn't matter what color your skin is as long as a guy is willing to go out with you you will be fine.
i'm sorry but no guy would take the time to read all this, if you want to get real answers you should try to make it shorter.
be proud of being different... guys dont care what race you are, I promise.
they will hate because we hate Indians who have taken our jobs
im a girl but honestly, ur trying way to hard to be something you're not. its kinda sad actually. you are an INDIAN-AMERICAN. you're just making yourself look bad by how you hate your own race. like wtf. just be proud for who you are because that can never change. yeah sure, you're a modern indian, that doesn't mean you have to go to school with like shalwa-kamis, but it doesn't mean that you have to disown your parents or your cousins because you're indian. and for you love life, there's someone in the world that is right for you and your one and only, whether he's black, indian, mexican, arab, white, whatever, he's your soul mate and you'll learn to love him if its mean to be.scars
I'm a 17 year old girl who is curious about something. before i comment I not trying to racesim, but I'm from India, but I been raised here in America since I was 3 . Started preschool here and everything as I was alittle. I always hate the fact of being indian wearing clothes, cooking the food, relgion and stuff, I not a sikh or a hidu ever since I was little , I 'm just me being more american than indian, Sometimes or well I have the feeling that I don't want to marry a indian guy cause I don't like them because
of teh fact of being indian, it's the fact thta I am not going to wear those clothes, or cook the indian food, my parents and their parents friend always judge me from being so different , like I listen to hip hop, cook innational food, you name it Italin, america, chineses mostly american then indian, My parents who think I'm crazy and say no, but I wouldn't give a dam since I have flirted with white guys, mexcan guys basicly, evry other races then indian, where I not prejudgeence against them, where my parents are, How would a indian guy look at me being more american then indian ? And what happens if I don't want to marry indian , Will any guy besides indian, like white mexcian , want to marry a indian girl like me one day , ? Will, do guys hate indian girls if they are white? Like I 'm lost , and I am worried
that I really don't to marry indian, rather marry someone who is white or is from mexico, or even a black guy ? Will there be guys in the future for me who are white, mexican, that will marry me and don't care ? Or will they hate me cause I'm indian girl. Please be honest as a guy and tell me the truth and answer all my questions, thanksI need advice from guys only, as a girl ?
NO white guys don't have anything against Indian girls. I once knew this girl who was Indian (she grew up in India). I was so in love with her because she had a face of a goddess and the heart of an angel. I've gone out with many types of girls from many different races and I've never met a girl like her. Then I found out she had a guy her parents had picked out for her. As a white guy, I really don't care for white girls. You simply want something different and there's nothing wrong with that..I need advice from guys only, as a girl ?
say to hell with what your parents think, not to be mean or anything, but its your life tell them that. and if they don't like it then they'll just have to deal with it because you're old enough to choose what you think would be better for you
Guys won't care what your race and ethnicity are. They will be interested (or not interested) based on who you are: your personality and your looks.
I promise that there will be a guy out there for you.
And there's nothing wrong with feeling the way that you do.
It's called individuality.
It doesn't matter what color your skin is as long as a guy is willing to go out with you you will be fine.
i'm sorry but no guy would take the time to read all this, if you want to get real answers you should try to make it shorter.
be proud of being different... guys dont care what race you are, I promise.
they will hate because we hate Indians who have taken our jobs
im a girl but honestly, ur trying way to hard to be something you're not. its kinda sad actually. you are an INDIAN-AMERICAN. you're just making yourself look bad by how you hate your own race. like wtf. just be proud for who you are because that can never change. yeah sure, you're a modern indian, that doesn't mean you have to go to school with like shalwa-kamis, but it doesn't mean that you have to disown your parents or your cousins because you're indian. and for you love life, there's someone in the world that is right for you and your one and only, whether he's black, indian, mexican, arab, white, whatever, he's your soul mate and you'll learn to love him if its mean to be.
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