I'm 33 but look much younger and I'm not trying to flatter myself! I have fairly long blond hair, blue eyes, and a thin frame. I'm 5'8 and like I said, fairly thin but have large breasts for my size. Would a miniskirt with black hose and a slighty low cut top look too sleazy? Do guys like girls that wear jeans with heels? Also, should I wear my hair straight or curly? One more thing, I'm breaking out like crazy but don't guys hate it if you just try to cover blemishes up with gobs of make-up? I mean I'm preety and the guy doesn't have great skin himself, so he shouldn't care, right? What color lipstick and nailpolish do you like? RED, PINK, or NATURAL? For your first time, do you like thongs or like cute boy short panties and BLACK, PINK, RED, or WHITE bra and panties?Guys, I need advice on what to wear on a first date? (No perverted remarks please!)?
Too many girls dress like 'hookers' now and it's getting a little old. Dress classy...it wows them everytime.Guys, I need advice on what to wear on a first date? (No perverted remarks please!)?
jeans and heals are good curly hair nice shirt not a ton of cleavage black panties and bra and make-up a little cover up and fingers pink or french tip when you do go out if the place hasn't been picked yet go some where casual and their are other things you both can make commits about in case the talking gets slow maybe a family sports restaurant/ bar it wont be to loud but loud enough so you can still burp/ fart without anyone saying wow what a pig movies aren't a good idea because you cant talk to each other and a pricey place doesn't put any on the spot
Depends where you are going.
A long black split skirt, hair straight. Just my ideas, and good luck
I think its good to find a balance between looking sexy and looking graceful; a woman can look stunning without revealing too much and looking cheap or sleazy - you could choose to show off either your breasts or legs: wear a short skirt but without a low cut top, or a low cut top with a longer skirt. I think a little bit of makeup can be nice but if a girl doesnt wear makeup it shows that she is comfortable with her appearance.
Thongs or short panties?.... mmmmmmmm i dont mind ;)
where are you going??? that will to a degree determine what you should wear --- whatever else you do its really up to you --- and what you feel like while wearing it
I like jeans with heels for sure. As for a low cut top, if your breasts are that large, they will get plenty of notice even if you don't have a low cut top. Thongs are very hott, but so are boy shorts. The mini-skirt may be a little much for a first date (can't believe I am saying that). Love the straight long blonde hair idea and don't overdo it on the blemishes, he's dating you, not someone he sees in a magazine that has hundreds of dollars of makeup covering their slight blemishes. Love black or red lingerie. Good Luck!
I think you should wear a Saran-Wrap gown.
Seriously though. Don't over dress. Just figure out what you're doing, and where you're going. Then dress like you would if you were going there with friends.
The second thing I'll warn you of is the makeup. Less is more. We tend to notice this with women. Many don't give themselves credit for natural beauty, and instead apply lots of makeup. Too much makeup makes some of them look like circus clowns or (pardon the expression) ';a $5 hooker';.
Be yourself and just go out and have fun!
I say dress comfortable and where something you feel good in...Yes heels and jeans is okay....even the mini skirt and low cut shirt would be fine...Nothing sleazy about knowing who you are and having confidence in wearing what you like...Good Luck!
Wear whatever you want. Stop over thinking it. The guy will probably be wearing jeans and a t-shirt.
i think you should weare a tight mininskirt designer bra for first date
lol that's alot of ?s. I would say no to miniskirt. Well I'm not going to pick apart your paragraph. I'd suggest some type of black dress pants with a white BARELY low cut shirt. IF you can pull off curly hair definately go fot it but not big curly, little tight wavy ones like crimp and curl barbie. Some type of strapped medium heel shoe. And if you dont want to go dress pants accompany that with a knee-high skirt if you have it, along with black stalkings. Boy shorts are definately the best... but only if you plan on letting him see them, if not go with a thong. And probablly black for them and the bra as well. Red panites are sexier but I assume you'd want to have a matching set and a black bra would be better. Hope that helps a little lol.
Send me your number and I will take you out. You can wear whatever you like. I'm sure it won't bother me just as long as you are comfortable.
Hmmmm, miniskirt with black hose and a slighty low cut top. Straight hair, red nailpolish/lipstick, and most definately the thong.........black.
Dont wear make up..
Go with something normal, dont over do it...
whatever looks nice...
Jenni, be yourself. He would not have asked you out if he was not already impressed.. Stop worrying and aim at first toward being conservative and try not to be fakey
Honestly, wear whatever makes you feel comfortable.
5' 8';, slim, etc. sounds almost like bragging.
You know what just be yourself, relax, mostly it not wht you where but how you wear it,
Relax. Wear that mini skirt and blouse with heels. Curl your hair into a sexy style. Wear red nail polish and lipstick. Dab on perfume, greet him at the door and when he sees you looking all beautiful, it will blow his damn mind!
Well I can give your my opinion...
if you want to be long term, I would go for something that doesnt make you look so available. Lower cut shirt is fine cause it will keep their mind into it...I would wear jeans (or slacks) depending on where you are going. If you wear heals make sure he is still taller than you, since you are already 5'8''. I wear thongs every day so I don't think much of them anymore...So wear what you feel most comfortable in...if you plan on showing him wear something more sexy underneath!
well what is he like if classey wear somthing classey ru following me
Why are you asking us guys what you should wear and then telling us what not to say? We are pervs and don't care what you wear as long as it's not a clown suit and has easy access. Don't you get that?
Why are women so F/n complicated...???...Gawd!!! Just put on some clothes and go!!!
1. yes miniskirt if you are going somewhere casual but a red dress if you are going somewhere formal.
2. no jeans and heels.
3. straight hair.
4. only eyeliner for makeup.
5. he shouldnt care.
6. red or natural lipstick and natural nails.
7. I love cute boy short panties on a girl always!
8. red or black bra and panties
How about jeans and a tee shirt
With the way you phrased this, do you honestly believe that you aren't going to get any perverted remarks ??
C'mon !
I am not a guy but I can give you my input. Miniskirt is a nono, try to be more natural, jeans and a nice blouse with V neck will do great, a big nice pair of earrings, HIGH HILLS or styletos will do!! Any underwear that you fel confortable, straight long hair, light and soft pink nails and lipstick. You don't want to give the bad impression and believe me, be more confident is a lot more important.. little make up please! and a good perfume!!!
It depends on what YOU want out of the Date? If you're wanting this to go further? Show him your best features. If it's just to kill some time? Hide everyhting that you don't want him, thinking about. Be good to yourself.
it depends what you guys are doing if you are going bowling then jeans and a t shirt, if you are going to the movies and then to a nice restaurant then dress accordingly but i like the natural look as far as the nails but on the lips put some shiny lip gloss you know what i;m talking about and as far the undies boy shorts b/cuz the give off the impression that you want him to see but not all of it ( you get what I'm saying hopefully)
I am 34 and 5'9';and just went out on a first date wth a new guy myself... I wore jeans, boots with heels and layered t's... He liked it- :-)
It really depends on where you are going. I would say that a miniskirt and a low cut top might looks sleazy if you are 33, you could probably get away with that if you were 16 - 21 years old. I dont think that guys like it when a woman dresses much younger than she really is.
I would say jeans or black dress pants, a nice top and heels woudl be fine.
Which way does your hair look best? Do NOT wear tons of make up to cover your blemishes, a light foundation, watch the powder it can look cake like and show off the dry areas around the blemishes. I prefer red nail polish or natural.
I don't think it matters at all what kind of panties you wear. It is a first date if you expect a second date with him you won't show him what kind or color panties you are wearing.
Well if you plan on putting out on the first date, I say wear the mini skirt, low top and thong. If not, be a little more conservative. Me personally, On a casual first date with someone I might really like, I would be more impressed with jeans, a button up top (with the top couple of buttons undone maybe), and moderate make up. Heels would be a perfect touch with a conservative outfit. As far as underwear, wear what makes you feel sexy. And by the way, if you have blonde hair, blue eyes, 5'8, and thin with large breasts, you'll look hot no matter what you wear.
And by the way, always go with straight hair unless it's formal. Straight hair is so sexy. Curls look like you're trying too hard.....that is unless your hair is naturally curly of course.
33 is still young, you shouldn't be worried about looking younger. I'd would have said a miniskirt and black hose with a low cut top might come off sleazy but, if you're worried about what underwear to wear on a FIRST DATE then I don't think the miniskirt or low cut top are going to matter. Sounds like you've already decided you'll be getting naked anyway.
Saturday, July 31, 2010
GUYS I NEED ADVICE. Ima girl.?
how do you act when you like a girl? and how do we know when you like someone else?GUYS I NEED ADVICE. Ima girl.?
give them more attention.GUYS I NEED ADVICE. Ima girl.?
i try to make it obvious that i like someone by looking at them a lot and trying to talk with them as much as possible
By asking them out.
give them more attention.GUYS I NEED ADVICE. Ima girl.?
i try to make it obvious that i like someone by looking at them a lot and trying to talk with them as much as possible
By asking them out.
Guys, any dating advice?
What makes you want to DATE a girl as opposed to just hook up with her?Guys, any dating advice?
It depends on the age of the guy but for the most part, guys will go out with a girl with the hopes that he can get laid.
If he wants a companion he'll get a dog, if he wants to go out with a girl, he wants some booty.
It depends on the age of the guy but for the most part, guys will go out with a girl with the hopes that he can get laid.
If he wants a companion he'll get a dog, if he wants to go out with a girl, he wants some booty.
Any advice for a shy guys looking to find someone to date?
you would be surprised how many girl like the shy guys.... just be you and don't worry you will find the right girls to date. Don't change who you are just for a female trust me. After you start dating you will open up and wont be so shy. But do keep in mind you have one life live it how you want to no one else is going to live your life for you sweetie... buck up have some fun and when you feel like you are in an extra shy moment relax you have nothing to be afraid of or worry about... have fun just be you girls will come along..... good luck and keep your head high don't slouch if you hold yourself with pride you will be proud of yourself.... ;-)Any advice for a shy guys looking to find someone to date?
some girls like shy guys just try bein yourself!!!!
Good Luck!!!Any advice for a shy guys looking to find someone to date?
You'll have to get over your shyness eventually. Otherwise you'll have some serious communication problems. Don't try to cover it up either. How do you get over shyness? It's kind of impossible to get over it 100% however you can work around it. Just relax, lay back, don't fear criticism and remember that you are just like everyone else.
some girls like shy guys just try bein yourself!!!!
Good Luck!!!Any advice for a shy guys looking to find someone to date?
You'll have to get over your shyness eventually. Otherwise you'll have some serious communication problems. Don't try to cover it up either. How do you get over shyness? It's kind of impossible to get over it 100% however you can work around it. Just relax, lay back, don't fear criticism and remember that you are just like everyone else.
GUYS: Need romantic advice...what does this mean??
So I recently worked with an actor (I'm a costume designer) on a short film. We had corresponded a bit via phone prior to shooting about costume pieces, etc, and we got along well. At first he was just another actor that I was working with, but a few days into shooting something seemed to click and we started checking each other out on set. I'd find myself locking eyes with him from across the room, and I would notice him staring at me while I wasn't looking (or when he thought I wasn't looking), and when we would stand in close proximity I could sense a huge amount of sexual tension. And yet, after we started ';noticing'; each other, we stopped talking! It was like he was scared to speak to me, which made me uneasy around him as well. When we finished shooting, he wished me well and gave me a long hug (a ';squeeze'; as he called it).
What does this all mean? Is it possible that there is something there that neither of us is brave enough to do anything about? I find myself unable to stop thinking about him, but I'm still afraid of misreading what I thought were signals from him. Any advice??GUYS: Need romantic advice...what does this mean??
just go for it. someone has got to make the first move
GUYS: Need romantic advice...what does this mean??
go talk to him?how to apply
What does this all mean? Is it possible that there is something there that neither of us is brave enough to do anything about? I find myself unable to stop thinking about him, but I'm still afraid of misreading what I thought were signals from him. Any advice??GUYS: Need romantic advice...what does this mean??
just go for it. someone has got to make the first move
GUYS: Need romantic advice...what does this mean??
go talk to him?
Teen girls needs advice on guys...?
I go to a HUGE school and there are roughly 2000 people in it, but I keep happening to see this one boy who's caught my eye ever since I was about 9 in lower school but I've never actually spoken to him.
He's in the year below me, I'm in year 10 (15), he's in year 9 (14), how could I begin a conversation with him when he doesn't even know who I am and I'm not in any clubs/classes with him? All I know is that his name is Daniel (I remember from when I was 9).
Please help,
Thanks :)Teen girls needs advice on guys...?
Ask around about him. Ask friends and try and find out as much about him, like what clubs he goes to. Be a stalker Lol. Or just accidently bump into him, and be like oh hey! go on myspace or whatever and try and find him.
He's in the year below me, I'm in year 10 (15), he's in year 9 (14), how could I begin a conversation with him when he doesn't even know who I am and I'm not in any clubs/classes with him? All I know is that his name is Daniel (I remember from when I was 9).
Please help,
Thanks :)Teen girls needs advice on guys...?
Ask around about him. Ask friends and try and find out as much about him, like what clubs he goes to. Be a stalker Lol. Or just accidently bump into him, and be like oh hey! go on myspace or whatever and try and find him.
LGBT Need some advice about GUYS!!!?
I am Bi but I don't tell anyone unless they ask me. There is this kid in my high school that I like and he is openly gay. I want to hook up with him and chat and stuff but i dont know how to go about it. I will be seeing him tonight at a music rehearsal so I have a chance to talk to him but what do I talk to him about. He seems shy and i have his number and everything so I can text him but he doesnt text back when i say high. Should I talk to him in person? What do I say? I don't wanna mess this up!LGBT Need some advice about GUYS!!!?
You're both going to a musical rehearsal, so go up to him and talk to him about his instrument/singing and just keep the conversation going wuth stuff like ';so how long have you been into music?'; ';Does anyone in your family do music, too?'; He wiil talk about his brothers and/or sisters and you can ask about them and just keep it flowing.
Maybe try sit next to him when you rehearse, so you can talk in between breaks or something. Be friendly, try smile (but don't overdo it), and stay positive in his presence. Show interest in what he was to say, and when he speaks to you, turn your body towards him - body language tells a person a lot, and posiyioning your body openly to him shows him you're interested in what he was to say.
I wouldn't force any flirting for the first time you meet him properly, and you shouldn't SMS him afterwards either (it might creep him out a bit). If he responds well the first time, then you can try get more involved slowly but surely. If he's not very receptive, you probably shouldn't try too hard again, unless you can see that something is definitely upsetting him.
Good luck! Let us know how it goes! =)LGBT Need some advice about GUYS!!!?
Ask him why he's not texting you back first. Maybe you have the wrong number. Maybe not. Maybe he's just not that into you. Anyways, if you feel comfortable with it talk to him in person. First off if he doesn't know you're bi you need to tell him. Or just tell him you think he's really hot and would like to hang out sometime.
I don't really find it very cute or sexy when you call or incessantly t-t-text me. DON';T BE DIRTY ICE CREAM, baby we could fall in love but it's too early to keep textin me like that.
My advice is to be yourself, and treat him like you would a new friend. Ask him about what he does for fun, what his interests are. Start off with stuff like that before you start talking to him about being gay, 'less he brings it up. Just be you, and be nice.
Best of luck! :D
tell him the truth, tell him that your bisexual and that you like him. just tell him that you don't have to be bf's if he doesn't want to be, but you would like to get to know him better and become better friends
let him know through sutullty, compliment him, try physical contact like touching his arm, or shoulder...gently push the boundary and if he is receptive then make your move and ask him out,
well maybe you shouldn't tell him that you're high
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lolololololololololololololololololol
jk!
but go up to him and be like hey!
and be yourself :)
What I'm getting from it is u both play instruments. So after reversal complement him on his playing then just start a conversation
start with saying Hi! and try to strike up a conversation
You're both going to a musical rehearsal, so go up to him and talk to him about his instrument/singing and just keep the conversation going wuth stuff like ';so how long have you been into music?'; ';Does anyone in your family do music, too?'; He wiil talk about his brothers and/or sisters and you can ask about them and just keep it flowing.
Maybe try sit next to him when you rehearse, so you can talk in between breaks or something. Be friendly, try smile (but don't overdo it), and stay positive in his presence. Show interest in what he was to say, and when he speaks to you, turn your body towards him - body language tells a person a lot, and posiyioning your body openly to him shows him you're interested in what he was to say.
I wouldn't force any flirting for the first time you meet him properly, and you shouldn't SMS him afterwards either (it might creep him out a bit). If he responds well the first time, then you can try get more involved slowly but surely. If he's not very receptive, you probably shouldn't try too hard again, unless you can see that something is definitely upsetting him.
Good luck! Let us know how it goes! =)LGBT Need some advice about GUYS!!!?
Ask him why he's not texting you back first. Maybe you have the wrong number. Maybe not. Maybe he's just not that into you. Anyways, if you feel comfortable with it talk to him in person. First off if he doesn't know you're bi you need to tell him. Or just tell him you think he's really hot and would like to hang out sometime.
I don't really find it very cute or sexy when you call or incessantly t-t-text me. DON';T BE DIRTY ICE CREAM, baby we could fall in love but it's too early to keep textin me like that.
My advice is to be yourself, and treat him like you would a new friend. Ask him about what he does for fun, what his interests are. Start off with stuff like that before you start talking to him about being gay, 'less he brings it up. Just be you, and be nice.
Best of luck! :D
tell him the truth, tell him that your bisexual and that you like him. just tell him that you don't have to be bf's if he doesn't want to be, but you would like to get to know him better and become better friends
let him know through sutullty, compliment him, try physical contact like touching his arm, or shoulder...gently push the boundary and if he is receptive then make your move and ask him out,
well maybe you shouldn't tell him that you're high
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hahahahahahahahahahahahaha
lolololololololololololololololololol
jk!
but go up to him and be like hey!
and be yourself :)
What I'm getting from it is u both play instruments. So after reversal complement him on his playing then just start a conversation
start with saying Hi! and try to strike up a conversation
I need some advice on guys please?
ok so theres this guy at my school that says he likes me. He said he liked me last year but he was always to shy to ask me out. Then we got in this fight and i didnt talk to him for like a month, and finally he begged me for a second chance. I said i didnt know, but im considering giving it to him. We texted during vacation and he was really sweet and he actually talked to me, but now that were back at school he is like a mute. I always have to go over to him if i wanna talk to him, he never comes over to me. I mean i know hes shy and all but its getting annoying. Should i drop him or give him a second chance?I need some advice on guys please?
ugh, been there done that. i totally dropped my shy boyfriend. im sick of relationships that end up being like a joke. drop him girl you dont wanna get involved with somone like that.. youll get depressed after a while.
find somone better and more confident :)
hope this helps %26lt;3I need some advice on guys please?
In my opinion, you need to make sure it's because he's shy that he's not talking to you. For example, if he talks to you when no one else is around but acts like you're practically invisible when people are around, that's bad news. Believe me. I know from experience. But you have to do what your heart tells you to. Weigh the pros and cons, ask yourself if it's worth it, really pay attention to this guy and look at his personality and all of his qualities and ask yourself if this is really what you want. And if you are really into this guy and you don't wanna make a decision that will cause you to wonder for the rest of your life what could have happened, maybe its worth the risk of giving him a second chance. Relationships are so hard, and guys are so confusing. They are so different from us and it's hard to understand them and the things they do. Anyway, good luck. E-mail me if you have any other questions. And sorry for the long answer, but I know a lot about this stuff. Lots of experience and wisdom beyond my years.
forget about him. any guy worth your time will make time for you. don't go over to him any more - see how he reacts. when he starts coming over to you and showing interest - and he probably will when he sees you don't ever go over and talk to him any more - then you can ponder whether to give him another chance or not. For now, I'd say no.
just drop him you cant do anything with somebody who's shy just tell him if ';if you have to be shy then i cant give you a second chance';
well my ex did the same . i guess he's playin' hard to get coz only for one second he knew u can be unavailable to him so i'll say ignore him for a while , he'll talk to u , believe me
and what u just said doesn't mean that he doesn't like u , it may mean that he likes u lot and that's why he's playin' these childish games but remember nothin' lasts forever hopfully he'll grow up
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Tell him all these issues first. Then if he still doing the same thing, let him go. He can be pathetic to some other girl who has time for it.
Just leave him alone and then he'll come back to you
Drop him , cause he,ll keep on being a shy guy for a long time ? I,ll say it a waste of your waiting for him to make a move ? you,re gonna miss your chances as a memory as you,re getting older in a few more years ?
tell him if he doens't grow a pair and talk to you then no second chance. (you might want to say it nicer though;])
ugh, been there done that. i totally dropped my shy boyfriend. im sick of relationships that end up being like a joke. drop him girl you dont wanna get involved with somone like that.. youll get depressed after a while.
find somone better and more confident :)
hope this helps %26lt;3I need some advice on guys please?
In my opinion, you need to make sure it's because he's shy that he's not talking to you. For example, if he talks to you when no one else is around but acts like you're practically invisible when people are around, that's bad news. Believe me. I know from experience. But you have to do what your heart tells you to. Weigh the pros and cons, ask yourself if it's worth it, really pay attention to this guy and look at his personality and all of his qualities and ask yourself if this is really what you want. And if you are really into this guy and you don't wanna make a decision that will cause you to wonder for the rest of your life what could have happened, maybe its worth the risk of giving him a second chance. Relationships are so hard, and guys are so confusing. They are so different from us and it's hard to understand them and the things they do. Anyway, good luck. E-mail me if you have any other questions. And sorry for the long answer, but I know a lot about this stuff. Lots of experience and wisdom beyond my years.
forget about him. any guy worth your time will make time for you. don't go over to him any more - see how he reacts. when he starts coming over to you and showing interest - and he probably will when he sees you don't ever go over and talk to him any more - then you can ponder whether to give him another chance or not. For now, I'd say no.
just drop him you cant do anything with somebody who's shy just tell him if ';if you have to be shy then i cant give you a second chance';
well my ex did the same . i guess he's playin' hard to get coz only for one second he knew u can be unavailable to him so i'll say ignore him for a while , he'll talk to u , believe me
and what u just said doesn't mean that he doesn't like u , it may mean that he likes u lot and that's why he's playin' these childish games but remember nothin' lasts forever hopfully he'll grow up
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Tell him all these issues first. Then if he still doing the same thing, let him go. He can be pathetic to some other girl who has time for it.
Just leave him alone and then he'll come back to you
Drop him , cause he,ll keep on being a shy guy for a long time ? I,ll say it a waste of your waiting for him to make a move ? you,re gonna miss your chances as a memory as you,re getting older in a few more years ?
tell him if he doens't grow a pair and talk to you then no second chance. (you might want to say it nicer though;])
I need honest advice from guys!!!!!?
If a girl that you've been talking to for close to 2 months now, she tells you that she called one of her childhood (guy) friends to have dinner because he was in town and she got bummed because her friend's gf hung up the phone on her and didn't let her talk to him, would you get jealous or mad by her sharing this w/u??????? Even if she tells you that she has been friends w/ this guy since they were 2 and that she seems him like a brother.
Part 2 of the question:
If you are always telling this girl you are seeing that girls are weirdos and you jokingly tell her '; You are such a weirdo'; and then she texts you by saying
HA-HA, So I just came across a book title; Girls are weirdos, but they smell nice. Seems like you were the author ; ) j/k
would you get the joke or take it personally?I need honest advice from guys!!!!!?
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girl, where on planet earth can you find an honest man who can give you honest answer??? only girls give better and honest answers....hahaha
If you have to ask these guys on this site.... then maybe you shouldn't be with someone who overly jealous and takes offense easily. Those guys are TROUBLE!
I'd call back. You have been friends with him for far too long and the gf is being a fool putting herself in the middle like that. As for part two, Id take it as a joke and have a good laugh..
i would get the joke, and respect the fact that you are so good to your friends.
Childlish, this is what it is to me. How old are you both? Tell him he need to grow up and move on. There's no point to argue there. Good luck.
Yes, and I would get the joke.
I wouldn't get jealous, but I know that can be difficult with most people, I have learned that jealousy will destroy any relationship. You have to trust and if he can't trust you than maybe you don't need him. If he can't take a joke than he doesn't sound like he would be much fun either.
Part 1: why would you get mad or jealous? A girl is allowed to have friends and do her own thing, especially if she's in no kind of ';official'; relationship with the guy she's been talking to for 2 months (like that's a lot...).
If the other guy's (the childhood friend) girlfriend was a ***** then what does that have to do with anything?
Part 2: it's a joke. Take it as a joke.
joke
get it.
Punch her in the face!
I'd get the joke..
I wouldn't be angry or jealous at all. I'd feel better because she was honest and open with me. If she says that he seems like a brother to her I wouldn't worry about a thing at all.
As for the second part, I'd find it rather comical and get a good chuckle out of it.
god dont be jealous
There's nothing for you to be mad or jealous about in the first case. She wants to talk to an old friend, nothing wrong with that. Her friend's gf is jealous and unreasonable, but its not really your place to be mad about that.
I don't see how you can take the second part as anything but a joke.
I would try not to be jealous and for the texts you sent that is cute and if anybody should be offended it should be you, you were called a weirdo that's not right shame on him he sounds like a chump.
Part One: I'm Jealous
Part Two: Joke
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mad or jelous? not really, whats there to trip about, you guys are just good friends like brothers and sisters.
and thats just a joke,
Part 2 of the question:
If you are always telling this girl you are seeing that girls are weirdos and you jokingly tell her '; You are such a weirdo'; and then she texts you by saying
HA-HA, So I just came across a book title; Girls are weirdos, but they smell nice. Seems like you were the author ; ) j/k
would you get the joke or take it personally?I need honest advice from guys!!!!!?
ZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZI need honest advice from guys!!!!!?
girl, where on planet earth can you find an honest man who can give you honest answer??? only girls give better and honest answers....hahaha
If you have to ask these guys on this site.... then maybe you shouldn't be with someone who overly jealous and takes offense easily. Those guys are TROUBLE!
I'd call back. You have been friends with him for far too long and the gf is being a fool putting herself in the middle like that. As for part two, Id take it as a joke and have a good laugh..
i would get the joke, and respect the fact that you are so good to your friends.
Childlish, this is what it is to me. How old are you both? Tell him he need to grow up and move on. There's no point to argue there. Good luck.
Yes, and I would get the joke.
I wouldn't get jealous, but I know that can be difficult with most people, I have learned that jealousy will destroy any relationship. You have to trust and if he can't trust you than maybe you don't need him. If he can't take a joke than he doesn't sound like he would be much fun either.
Part 1: why would you get mad or jealous? A girl is allowed to have friends and do her own thing, especially if she's in no kind of ';official'; relationship with the guy she's been talking to for 2 months (like that's a lot...).
If the other guy's (the childhood friend) girlfriend was a ***** then what does that have to do with anything?
Part 2: it's a joke. Take it as a joke.
joke
get it.
Punch her in the face!
I'd get the joke..
I wouldn't be angry or jealous at all. I'd feel better because she was honest and open with me. If she says that he seems like a brother to her I wouldn't worry about a thing at all.
As for the second part, I'd find it rather comical and get a good chuckle out of it.
god dont be jealous
There's nothing for you to be mad or jealous about in the first case. She wants to talk to an old friend, nothing wrong with that. Her friend's gf is jealous and unreasonable, but its not really your place to be mad about that.
I don't see how you can take the second part as anything but a joke.
I would try not to be jealous and for the texts you sent that is cute and if anybody should be offended it should be you, you were called a weirdo that's not right shame on him he sounds like a chump.
Part One: I'm Jealous
Part Two: Joke
personally
mad or jelous? not really, whats there to trip about, you guys are just good friends like brothers and sisters.
and thats just a joke,
College advice please guys? (About a friend at college?)?
Yesterday, we got set a task that requires us to work in pairs or small groups, I am working with my friend. We both have to contribute to the work obviously, but I know that my friend won't. Twice before now we have been set a task, we started it on the day it was set and she will help out, but after that it is like it is my responsibility... I do all the work, all the research and the final thing and she does nothing!!
What do I do? I am not exactly the most confident person so I can't tell her to get off her backside and do something, and if I say ';do you want to do that task now?'; it is guaranteed she will say ';What task?'; or ';I don't get it, can you do it?';
Help!College advice please guys? (About a friend at college?)?
Remind your friend that your tasks are meant to be worked on together, and that she needs to contribute something. Speak nicely, but firmly remind her that you don't feel comfortable doing most (if not all) of the work by yourself, and you need her help finishing it.
Or you can give her an incentive to work on it with you. You can offer to take her out for ice cream after you both finish your task. People are more willing to do things if they will get something good in return.
If your friend still won't work with you, you are going to need to find a new partner or group of people to work with, because your ';friend'; is too lazy to do any of the work. Find a new friend who is more than willing to work on the task with you and leave your old ';friend'; behind.College advice please guys? (About a friend at college?)?
Don't pair up with her anymore. If she confronts you about it, tell her you're sick of doing all the work all the time. I know it's hard to stand up to friends, but you'll feel so much better after doing it, and pairing up with someone who will actually participate.
Right ok tell her whats the problem if shes a real help she will change and help or chicken it and just see whose not got a partener and join with them.
Hmm, I know the type. You have a few choices oddly enough.
1. You can do as you did before and do all the work yourself (and get more annoyed in the process)
2. When she starts to shy away from the work you can tell her you are fed up with her attitude and lack of support and fall out with her (I know you don't fancy that idea)
3. You could do the same thing and say ';I don't get it either'; and ';Oh well, we'll just fail this task then'; (not sure how she will react but at least she won't get an easy ride and when the teacher confronts you about it, you can have a private word and tell him/her that you have a problem working with your, so called, friend)
4. You could approach another group and ask if you can work with them (this fits in nicely with 3 above and will avoid you getting in trouble with your Teacher)
In any event, you will have to distance yourself from this friend else she will always drag you down and you will never realise your true potential. Have you thought about Uni? When college is over, I doubt your friend will want to go on but you might and so you will drift apart then but you need to take some action now. You can always have a word with your personal tutor about the whole situation.
What do I do? I am not exactly the most confident person so I can't tell her to get off her backside and do something, and if I say ';do you want to do that task now?'; it is guaranteed she will say ';What task?'; or ';I don't get it, can you do it?';
Help!College advice please guys? (About a friend at college?)?
Remind your friend that your tasks are meant to be worked on together, and that she needs to contribute something. Speak nicely, but firmly remind her that you don't feel comfortable doing most (if not all) of the work by yourself, and you need her help finishing it.
Or you can give her an incentive to work on it with you. You can offer to take her out for ice cream after you both finish your task. People are more willing to do things if they will get something good in return.
If your friend still won't work with you, you are going to need to find a new partner or group of people to work with, because your ';friend'; is too lazy to do any of the work. Find a new friend who is more than willing to work on the task with you and leave your old ';friend'; behind.College advice please guys? (About a friend at college?)?
Don't pair up with her anymore. If she confronts you about it, tell her you're sick of doing all the work all the time. I know it's hard to stand up to friends, but you'll feel so much better after doing it, and pairing up with someone who will actually participate.
Right ok tell her whats the problem if shes a real help she will change and help or chicken it and just see whose not got a partener and join with them.
Hmm, I know the type. You have a few choices oddly enough.
1. You can do as you did before and do all the work yourself (and get more annoyed in the process)
2. When she starts to shy away from the work you can tell her you are fed up with her attitude and lack of support and fall out with her (I know you don't fancy that idea)
3. You could do the same thing and say ';I don't get it either'; and ';Oh well, we'll just fail this task then'; (not sure how she will react but at least she won't get an easy ride and when the teacher confronts you about it, you can have a private word and tell him/her that you have a problem working with your, so called, friend)
4. You could approach another group and ask if you can work with them (this fits in nicely with 3 above and will avoid you getting in trouble with your Teacher)
In any event, you will have to distance yourself from this friend else she will always drag you down and you will never realise your true potential. Have you thought about Uni? When college is over, I doubt your friend will want to go on but you might and so you will drift apart then but you need to take some action now. You can always have a word with your personal tutor about the whole situation.
I need some advice please!! Guys your opinions would be appreciated!!?
So my ex boyfriend really messed up while we were together but since we started talking again he is flirting with me, asking me if i want to work with his painting company and is saying that he messed up and he wants to try to not mess up us trying to have a friendship. He wants to hang out even when his friends tell him not to hang out with an ex. We both do actually. I still very much love him but he broke my heart and ditch me for his job. I can't tell if he wants to get back together or if i'm trying to find little things that makes it seem like he does. He says that though he is upset with himself for doing those things he is more upset with the fact that he hurt me. He told me that what needs to be there for us to get back together just isn't there for him anymore but his actions say something else. Should i confront him about how i want to get back together with him or wait to see if he says something? His training for his job end in two weeks so i'm thinking things might changeI need some advice please!! Guys your opinions would be appreciated!!?
from the way you describe it, he sounds sincere and you still care about him, so talk to him, be honest. if you want to wait for his job situation do get a little less stressful wait until then if you think it would make it easier for you two but either way i would say you have to tell him how you feel and be completel open and honest.I need some advice please!! Guys your opinions would be appreciated!!?
how long were you with him?
did he do something un-forgivable?
I'm not going to say that people dont change, because they do. but it takes time for that to happen. it wont be in like a week. atleast 2-6 months..... ATLEAST.
the real question is. how attatched to him are you?
once a cheat...always a cheat, he really may want you back, until the next girl who will give him some comes along, save whats left of your self respect and find some one who will love you and only you, be leave it or not there are guys who don't cheat out there, good luck
It will be a new relationship with the same old problems. Sorry the relationship will fail. Because I know from personal experience that when I get back with an ex it's for two reason's. Easy sex and becasue I'm bored
Don't wait! Just tell him up-front that after the news of his job that you need to talk to him. Then he'll be prepared and so will you.
Don't worry about him and let's you and me hook up.
wow he sounds like me.
He misses you dearly and wants yu back, but wont openly admit it.
it wouldnt hurt to try
i must tell u that ........
';LEAVE BEFORE BEING LEFT'; REMEMBER THIS all ur life and u r always happy with ur dear ones
um...
i am in a very similar situation.
my gf and i broke up recently... but then we were on again off again because we missed eachother too much. but no matter WHAT we tried. we ended up at the sameeeee point as before... that we had problems which couldn't go away.
for us. it was communication.
she wasn't comfortable talking about things.
so it made a wall between us.
im guessing the reason that u broke up is gonna come back and bite u in the butt if u go back with him... or if u hang around with him. ur gonna fall for him more. and then end up being hurt and living a life where he will either take u out again and break up for the same reason OR u will just end up spending ur life wanting him back as u see him flirting with other people......
lt sounds a little harsh... but thats what i think will happen.
sorry. i just think u shuld pick up ur life and move on from him and anything really to do with him.
firs this is ALL about him.
what about you honey? i'm sorry but he is the one who cheated on you and broke your heart!!! %26amp; he is telling YOU what needs to be for yall to be get together! shouldn't YOU be laying the ground rules for getting back together??? i mean after all HE is the one that cheated. and honey once they are a cheater they are always a cheater. he may be trying to get back in your life but that's probably not what's best. my last boy friend not only cheated on me but got another girl PREGNANT! he tried to get back in my life all the time...but you have ot stand up for YOU. who else is going to respect YOU? and you say he is under a lot of stress %26amp; such you shoul'd nt considering his feelings so much. think about YOU!!!
i doubt that really helped. but if he broke your heart once then he will do it again.
how do your friends feel about all of this?how to apply
from the way you describe it, he sounds sincere and you still care about him, so talk to him, be honest. if you want to wait for his job situation do get a little less stressful wait until then if you think it would make it easier for you two but either way i would say you have to tell him how you feel and be completel open and honest.I need some advice please!! Guys your opinions would be appreciated!!?
how long were you with him?
did he do something un-forgivable?
I'm not going to say that people dont change, because they do. but it takes time for that to happen. it wont be in like a week. atleast 2-6 months..... ATLEAST.
the real question is. how attatched to him are you?
once a cheat...always a cheat, he really may want you back, until the next girl who will give him some comes along, save whats left of your self respect and find some one who will love you and only you, be leave it or not there are guys who don't cheat out there, good luck
It will be a new relationship with the same old problems. Sorry the relationship will fail. Because I know from personal experience that when I get back with an ex it's for two reason's. Easy sex and becasue I'm bored
Don't wait! Just tell him up-front that after the news of his job that you need to talk to him. Then he'll be prepared and so will you.
Don't worry about him and let's you and me hook up.
wow he sounds like me.
He misses you dearly and wants yu back, but wont openly admit it.
it wouldnt hurt to try
i must tell u that ........
';LEAVE BEFORE BEING LEFT'; REMEMBER THIS all ur life and u r always happy with ur dear ones
um...
i am in a very similar situation.
my gf and i broke up recently... but then we were on again off again because we missed eachother too much. but no matter WHAT we tried. we ended up at the sameeeee point as before... that we had problems which couldn't go away.
for us. it was communication.
she wasn't comfortable talking about things.
so it made a wall between us.
im guessing the reason that u broke up is gonna come back and bite u in the butt if u go back with him... or if u hang around with him. ur gonna fall for him more. and then end up being hurt and living a life where he will either take u out again and break up for the same reason OR u will just end up spending ur life wanting him back as u see him flirting with other people......
lt sounds a little harsh... but thats what i think will happen.
sorry. i just think u shuld pick up ur life and move on from him and anything really to do with him.
firs this is ALL about him.
what about you honey? i'm sorry but he is the one who cheated on you and broke your heart!!! %26amp; he is telling YOU what needs to be for yall to be get together! shouldn't YOU be laying the ground rules for getting back together??? i mean after all HE is the one that cheated. and honey once they are a cheater they are always a cheater. he may be trying to get back in your life but that's probably not what's best. my last boy friend not only cheated on me but got another girl PREGNANT! he tried to get back in my life all the time...but you have ot stand up for YOU. who else is going to respect YOU? and you say he is under a lot of stress %26amp; such you shoul'd nt considering his feelings so much. think about YOU!!!
i doubt that really helped. but if he broke your heart once then he will do it again.
how do your friends feel about all of this?
I need some advice on guys and relationships?
there is this guy(taquito) i really like and hes been dating this girl for like 1 yr and im kinda friends with her. he doesnt like this one guy(chimichanga) i used to like before him(chimichanga) and now he(taquito) is helping me get rid of chimichanga by saying that we r dating when were not. and then the other day taquito asked me if he were single if i would go out with him and i said sure and he wanted to know why and i said personality... so do u think he likes me oh and now taquito leaves at the end of lunch from sitting by his girlfriend to come sit by me! help do u think i should back off or go for it or do u think he likes me or not?I need some advice on guys and relationships?
If he is still with his girlfriend and she is kind of your friend then you don't want to be responsible for breaking up with them. If you really like him then you should tell him that nothing can happen as long as he is with his girlfriend and that he'd have to wait at least 2 months after before you'd get together because then it looks like he actually cared about his ex and wasn't just a jerk who got bored.
If he is still with his girlfriend and she is kind of your friend then you don't want to be responsible for breaking up with them. If you really like him then you should tell him that nothing can happen as long as he is with his girlfriend and that he'd have to wait at least 2 months after before you'd get together because then it looks like he actually cared about his ex and wasn't just a jerk who got bored.
Girl Problems. Want advice from guys and girls! please?
Alright, I have to admit, I am pretty hopeless when it comes to girls.
There are guys who wish girls would like them, There are guys that are wayyy smooth with girls. But then there is me, which, girls seem to like, but I am hopeless with them.
Ok, so this is how it usually is. I see some girl looking at me, right? and she smiles, and i smile, then i feel like i should do something, but i dont.
Once I was at a dance and a girl actually dragged me to the dance floor. I guess she was tired of waiting on me to make a move. But even on that day I knew other girls would have been possible to uhh interact with. because one actually told my friends that she likes me 0_0
Ok SO NOW! There are a couple of girls .. err.. interested in me? asking about me to my friends and all and i see them looking my way sometimes.
I dont even know what they like about me, they must like the personality they see when im talking comfortably with guys. Maybe I am not bad looking? I dont really pay attention to this stuff, and i just really want to get over itttttt. I miss so many oppurtunities.
Funny thing is, I have no problem talking with girls once I get to know them better or if I know that we wont be going out or anything. I guess im just really shy at first or care too much about what she might think or somethinggggggggggggg
Any advice?!?? How would I approach them, or one of them, I am only interested in one :/ ALSO I only have tomorrow :(Girl Problems. Want advice from guys and girls! please?
just tell the girl you are shy but you gotta tell her something important. then tell her how you feel
There are guys who wish girls would like them, There are guys that are wayyy smooth with girls. But then there is me, which, girls seem to like, but I am hopeless with them.
Ok, so this is how it usually is. I see some girl looking at me, right? and she smiles, and i smile, then i feel like i should do something, but i dont.
Once I was at a dance and a girl actually dragged me to the dance floor. I guess she was tired of waiting on me to make a move. But even on that day I knew other girls would have been possible to uhh interact with. because one actually told my friends that she likes me 0_0
Ok SO NOW! There are a couple of girls .. err.. interested in me? asking about me to my friends and all and i see them looking my way sometimes.
I dont even know what they like about me, they must like the personality they see when im talking comfortably with guys. Maybe I am not bad looking? I dont really pay attention to this stuff, and i just really want to get over itttttt. I miss so many oppurtunities.
Funny thing is, I have no problem talking with girls once I get to know them better or if I know that we wont be going out or anything. I guess im just really shy at first or care too much about what she might think or somethinggggggggggggg
Any advice?!?? How would I approach them, or one of them, I am only interested in one :/ ALSO I only have tomorrow :(Girl Problems. Want advice from guys and girls! please?
just tell the girl you are shy but you gotta tell her something important. then tell her how you feel
I need some advice from GUYS.... plz help?
we have been going around for 2 years n he is shy kinds..n never communicates how he feels about me.
he is also more good looking than me(or i feel so....because he never denies whenever i say so..).
it was me who had approached him so whenever he praises other girls i always feel he could have got a better (rather beautiful....)girl than me had he got choice
i told about this to him too...n he was very sad that i thought so.....
i also felt bad....but i need some appreciation too... dont i?
we both love each other a lot.. but his silence often creates problems..........because there r many other guys who find me beautiful...so i feel hurt when my own love does not say anything, sometimes i also get attracted to those who find me good...
so guys please help me to either understand him...or to make him open up more....I need some advice from GUYS.... plz help?
I am engaged to a very traditional shy south Indian girl. She is too shy even to tell ';I Love you'; to me when we are together in privacy. However, over the phone, she says it many times. We both love each other very deeply. Well, like you, even she thinks that I may have got a good looking girl than her. She has expressed this more then 5 times. Each and every time, when she says this to me, I feel very bad and sad that she has got such a feeling. That time, I always have told her how beautiful that she is looking for my eyes and she is the perfect girl for me than anybody else in this world for me. I guess, your guy need some more time to express his true feelings towards you. Even, I took time, cause, I was afraid how my girl will take it. Cause, she is very traditional and shy. May be he too is feeling the same thing and finally will come out and express his feelings to you. I am sure that he would be loving you truly, madly, deeply from the bottom of his heart. Please enjoy each and every moment that you spent with him. Cause, you will never ever get back these moments again in your life.I need some advice from GUYS.... plz help?
Maybe your neediness is a turn off for him. Give him room to breathe and maybe youll get what you want.
if he didn't love you, he wouldn't be with you for two years. besides you haven't mention any other problem of his which are of serious nature. so i don't think, there's anything to worry about. just love him for the way he is. do not attempt to change him, coz he may not like it. be happy.
words are very important in a relationship but they are not more important than feelings....see his feeling for u...see his care %26amp; affection for u
Hey pretty girl...U said u r together since last 2 yrs. It's very good thing that u r still together and not fighting. Both of u seem to b caring and loving. Do not expect him to say so. U r beutiful belive it and stay in that mood only. secondly u can not compare one person with other...u r doing this mistake. Try to find out what he likes..try to be cheerful ...try to keep ur mood up always...make new friends...do not make him bore by always calling himm on phone and checking him try to believe that he loves u ...the both of u might live happily for rest of life...
Hey Nishu....remember one thing, its not always true that those who praise u of ur beauty are the one who love u....trust me, if u've been goin around with this guy for the past 2 yrs %26amp; still he doesn't communicate with u, there may be lot of other reasons than just ur looks. First of all make him feel comfortable in ur presence, he should be in a relaxed state of mind when he is with, create that kind of an atmosphere when u meet him. Just be urself %26amp; don't try to pressurize him for anything. There is an old saying...';Don't marry the man whom YOU love, marry the one who loves YOU.'; So if u r sure that he truly loves u, then sooner or later this communication gap will recede %26amp; all ur problems will be sorted out. Just stand firm %26amp; relax for a while %26amp; don't lose someone who truly loves u.
love is unconditional. and until we get there, there are a lot of conditions.
i counted at least 11 conditions you have about him, about yourself, about you and him.
if you can love him exactly as he is, than there are no conditions, and that is where love can truly find deep roots to grow.
love loves no conditions.
it's free to run around and do all kinds cool and loving things.
strive for this - love him as he is, and you might see who he really is and what he is really saying.
three little words.
Nishu by the way u think for ur guy is really intresting but remember that no guy likes a girl just because of her beauty .......by ur question itself i can say u r a decent and real loving girl .........i say that one day surely ur going to get the guy
he is also more good looking than me(or i feel so....because he never denies whenever i say so..).
it was me who had approached him so whenever he praises other girls i always feel he could have got a better (rather beautiful....)girl than me had he got choice
i told about this to him too...n he was very sad that i thought so.....
i also felt bad....but i need some appreciation too... dont i?
we both love each other a lot.. but his silence often creates problems..........because there r many other guys who find me beautiful...so i feel hurt when my own love does not say anything, sometimes i also get attracted to those who find me good...
so guys please help me to either understand him...or to make him open up more....I need some advice from GUYS.... plz help?
I am engaged to a very traditional shy south Indian girl. She is too shy even to tell ';I Love you'; to me when we are together in privacy. However, over the phone, she says it many times. We both love each other very deeply. Well, like you, even she thinks that I may have got a good looking girl than her. She has expressed this more then 5 times. Each and every time, when she says this to me, I feel very bad and sad that she has got such a feeling. That time, I always have told her how beautiful that she is looking for my eyes and she is the perfect girl for me than anybody else in this world for me. I guess, your guy need some more time to express his true feelings towards you. Even, I took time, cause, I was afraid how my girl will take it. Cause, she is very traditional and shy. May be he too is feeling the same thing and finally will come out and express his feelings to you. I am sure that he would be loving you truly, madly, deeply from the bottom of his heart. Please enjoy each and every moment that you spent with him. Cause, you will never ever get back these moments again in your life.I need some advice from GUYS.... plz help?
Maybe your neediness is a turn off for him. Give him room to breathe and maybe youll get what you want.
if he didn't love you, he wouldn't be with you for two years. besides you haven't mention any other problem of his which are of serious nature. so i don't think, there's anything to worry about. just love him for the way he is. do not attempt to change him, coz he may not like it. be happy.
words are very important in a relationship but they are not more important than feelings....see his feeling for u...see his care %26amp; affection for u
Hey pretty girl...U said u r together since last 2 yrs. It's very good thing that u r still together and not fighting. Both of u seem to b caring and loving. Do not expect him to say so. U r beutiful belive it and stay in that mood only. secondly u can not compare one person with other...u r doing this mistake. Try to find out what he likes..try to be cheerful ...try to keep ur mood up always...make new friends...do not make him bore by always calling himm on phone and checking him try to believe that he loves u ...the both of u might live happily for rest of life...
Hey Nishu....remember one thing, its not always true that those who praise u of ur beauty are the one who love u....trust me, if u've been goin around with this guy for the past 2 yrs %26amp; still he doesn't communicate with u, there may be lot of other reasons than just ur looks. First of all make him feel comfortable in ur presence, he should be in a relaxed state of mind when he is with, create that kind of an atmosphere when u meet him. Just be urself %26amp; don't try to pressurize him for anything. There is an old saying...';Don't marry the man whom YOU love, marry the one who loves YOU.'; So if u r sure that he truly loves u, then sooner or later this communication gap will recede %26amp; all ur problems will be sorted out. Just stand firm %26amp; relax for a while %26amp; don't lose someone who truly loves u.
love is unconditional. and until we get there, there are a lot of conditions.
i counted at least 11 conditions you have about him, about yourself, about you and him.
if you can love him exactly as he is, than there are no conditions, and that is where love can truly find deep roots to grow.
love loves no conditions.
it's free to run around and do all kinds cool and loving things.
strive for this - love him as he is, and you might see who he really is and what he is really saying.
three little words.
Nishu by the way u think for ur guy is really intresting but remember that no guy likes a girl just because of her beauty .......by ur question itself i can say u r a decent and real loving girl .........i say that one day surely ur going to get the guy
NEW BOYFRIEND. Any advice going??? Guys AND girls please (:?
Hi, please dont be insulting or offensive or sarcastic or anything, I just want to know if everything is normal.
Im 17 and Ive been going out with my first ever boyfriend for 2 and a half months now. Hes my age. Firstly, Ive always wanted one of those relationships where you like know everything about each other down to the last little details and where you are comfortable around one another, each others family, can freely go round each others houses without ringing up in advance, and all that type of thing. We get on really well and stuff, but I wouldnt say we are exactly like that. And also its his birthday soon, but I havent got a clue what to get him as in something that he would genuinely like thats whats to do with what he likes. Would you say its because we havent been together all that long? My friend has been with her boyfriend for 6 months and they know each other inside out. Will it just take time, or will it never happen for me and my boyfriend?
Also, I really like him, like really really like him, ( I would say love but I would probably get a oad of grief as in 'im too young, it has only been a few months, but just so you get the idea that im not merely with him for the sake of having a boyfriend) but i still look at other guys and wonder what it would be like if I was with them. Is this wrong of me? I dont have feelings for them, i just think what it would be like.
His best friend always tells me he doubts we will last and gives me loads of grief, but then he hasnt ever had a girlfriend before.
Am I a bad girlfriend? Please help me. Im not sure what Im asking, im just looking for a little reassurance on the dating game. Any advice, previous experience, or anything nice would be appreciated :)
Thankyou (:NEW BOYFRIEND. Any advice going??? Guys AND girls please (:?
Nah of course you're not a bad girlfriend! (By the way I'm 15 and have never had a boyfriend so you're taking advice from someone who is a bit clueless to be honest). It sounds like you just haven't known each other a long time so you won't know EVERYTHING just yet but thats not a bad thing. Don't worry, as time goes on your knowledge of each other will grow.
His bestfriend sounds like an asshole, ignore him.
XNEW BOYFRIEND. Any advice going??? Guys AND girls please (:?
Ok I am not 17, add 30 odd years.
Firstly, don't listen to his mate or anyone elses, if it only lasts a couple of months, years etc so be it, take your time now and savour it, don't be worrying about the future, let that sort itself out.
Secondly, no you are not a bad girlfriend for checking out other guys. My fiancee does it all the time and I do it with other women, but we never do anything about it. Anyone who says they only have eyes for one person and means it in a literal sense is lying.
As for birthday presents, I have been with my Fiancee for 3 years and still never know what to get her for any occasion, hell, I dont even actually know how old she is!!! bout 35 I think LOL.
Just chill out and enjoy what you have now. Sure you will make mistakes but then show me someone who has never made a mistake and I will show you someone who has made nothing.
Hope it all works out, but most of all, enjoy yourself and have fun together. Make sure you both laugh alot.
Don't worry so much, its your first relationship and if you worry it might go wrong. just relax and enjoy being with him. if you've only been dating 2 and a half months you have lots of time to get to know each other, go for walks and talk about things. and most important make sure that he can feel comfortable around you too.
Im 17 and Ive been going out with my first ever boyfriend for 2 and a half months now. Hes my age. Firstly, Ive always wanted one of those relationships where you like know everything about each other down to the last little details and where you are comfortable around one another, each others family, can freely go round each others houses without ringing up in advance, and all that type of thing. We get on really well and stuff, but I wouldnt say we are exactly like that. And also its his birthday soon, but I havent got a clue what to get him as in something that he would genuinely like thats whats to do with what he likes. Would you say its because we havent been together all that long? My friend has been with her boyfriend for 6 months and they know each other inside out. Will it just take time, or will it never happen for me and my boyfriend?
Also, I really like him, like really really like him, ( I would say love but I would probably get a oad of grief as in 'im too young, it has only been a few months, but just so you get the idea that im not merely with him for the sake of having a boyfriend) but i still look at other guys and wonder what it would be like if I was with them. Is this wrong of me? I dont have feelings for them, i just think what it would be like.
His best friend always tells me he doubts we will last and gives me loads of grief, but then he hasnt ever had a girlfriend before.
Am I a bad girlfriend? Please help me. Im not sure what Im asking, im just looking for a little reassurance on the dating game. Any advice, previous experience, or anything nice would be appreciated :)
Thankyou (:NEW BOYFRIEND. Any advice going??? Guys AND girls please (:?
Nah of course you're not a bad girlfriend! (By the way I'm 15 and have never had a boyfriend so you're taking advice from someone who is a bit clueless to be honest). It sounds like you just haven't known each other a long time so you won't know EVERYTHING just yet but thats not a bad thing. Don't worry, as time goes on your knowledge of each other will grow.
His bestfriend sounds like an asshole, ignore him.
XNEW BOYFRIEND. Any advice going??? Guys AND girls please (:?
Ok I am not 17, add 30 odd years.
Firstly, don't listen to his mate or anyone elses, if it only lasts a couple of months, years etc so be it, take your time now and savour it, don't be worrying about the future, let that sort itself out.
Secondly, no you are not a bad girlfriend for checking out other guys. My fiancee does it all the time and I do it with other women, but we never do anything about it. Anyone who says they only have eyes for one person and means it in a literal sense is lying.
As for birthday presents, I have been with my Fiancee for 3 years and still never know what to get her for any occasion, hell, I dont even actually know how old she is!!! bout 35 I think LOL.
Just chill out and enjoy what you have now. Sure you will make mistakes but then show me someone who has never made a mistake and I will show you someone who has made nothing.
Hope it all works out, but most of all, enjoy yourself and have fun together. Make sure you both laugh alot.
Don't worry so much, its your first relationship and if you worry it might go wrong. just relax and enjoy being with him. if you've only been dating 2 and a half months you have lots of time to get to know each other, go for walks and talk about things. and most important make sure that he can feel comfortable around you too.
I need some advice you guys I'm at my whits end?
ok my daughter is twelve and she has had problems with her ears since she was 4 she has had five sets of tubes and reconstructive surgery on her right ear where her ear drum collapsed.about two weeks ago we went to the ENT and they told us she had bad ear infection in both ears they did a culture and found out she had mrsa in her ears they changed her antibiotic to bactrum this was on a thursday and by saturday night it wasnt any better so we took her to the er and they put an iv and started a stronger antibiotic called vandimicine well sunday they said to call her regular ent and they seen her and said to leave her on the bactrum and they thought it would clear it up so a week later the back of her ears still hurt not as bad and now she has a spot in her cheek it feels like a marble you can move it around and they are saying it is a lymp node and they put her on another antibiotic cause they said it was an infection somewhere in her body but couldnt tell me where she is suppose to go in for surgery the 30th of this month for another set of tubes but they dont even know if the mrsa is clear or what is causing the infection or for that matter where it is what should i doI need some advice you guys I'm at my whits end?
This is not a dental question, but I will try to help. MRSA is a very serious infection, maybe the most serious of the staph-type infections. Fortunately, children seem to do better in terms of recovery than adults. Your daughter is fortunate in that regard.
My advice to you is to forget about tubes for now. Focus on the MRSA and get that cleared up. I hope you have more than one doctor on her case. If it were my daughter, I would want to make sure that an infectious disease specialist is working alongside the ENT. MRSA is primarily a skin (or tissue) infection, and while it is the ENT's part of the body, it is the infection that matters as much or more than where it happens to be located.
If you want some scientific information about the disease, look at the Sources. The first may be a little easier to understand than the second.
This is not a dental question, but I will try to help. MRSA is a very serious infection, maybe the most serious of the staph-type infections. Fortunately, children seem to do better in terms of recovery than adults. Your daughter is fortunate in that regard.
My advice to you is to forget about tubes for now. Focus on the MRSA and get that cleared up. I hope you have more than one doctor on her case. If it were my daughter, I would want to make sure that an infectious disease specialist is working alongside the ENT. MRSA is primarily a skin (or tissue) infection, and while it is the ENT's part of the body, it is the infection that matters as much or more than where it happens to be located.
If you want some scientific information about the disease, look at the Sources. The first may be a little easier to understand than the second.
I need some advice on guys thinking I am a toy x?
Guys say that I am THEIR 'sexy little doll' and I am sick of guys thinking that they can pick me up and play with me whenever they like I'm not a frigin toy! Sorry no pics but heres a description
5'1''
Blonde/Brown Hair
Tiny Frame
Aqua Eyes
Tanned Skin
Pageant Girl
B or BB cup size
Its not fair I would love to be taller but guys say they love small girls? I always thought they prefer taller girls.
Could You Like Unconfuse Me? Thanks Gurjuz xI need some advice on guys thinking I am a toy x?
I think most guys like shorter girls. I know I do. But then again, I'm only 5'6';, so I have to have shorter girls unless I want to carry a step ladder on my back at all times, which would not be fun. Tell them you are not their toy.I need some advice on guys thinking I am a toy x?
You just described yourself like a twee girlie toy!
Stop behaving like way and you'll stop being treated like one.
Learn a martial art, take an engineering course. Toughen up a bit and for gods sake stop describing yourself as
aqua eyes and pageant girl - euwww i'm going to puke or pat you on the head a treat you like a 5 year old little miss america
My SO is also 5-1 and very small. Personally I like small girls. If I was with someone my size (6-2) I'd feel like I was making out with a guy.
My SO got her blackbelt in Karate. Nobody picks her up or refers to her as anything resembling a toy anymore.
First off this post tells me that you act like a toy and that is why you are treated like one. You sat here and explained that you feel like a toy but you felt it necessary to describe what you look like? but for what? i gather that you like the attention.
Not Me. I will treat you like the Angel that you Are
don't act like a ';toy'; and you won't be treated like one...
I am not a guy
O
there's such a thing as BB?how to apply
5'1''
Blonde/Brown Hair
Tiny Frame
Aqua Eyes
Tanned Skin
Pageant Girl
B or BB cup size
Its not fair I would love to be taller but guys say they love small girls? I always thought they prefer taller girls.
Could You Like Unconfuse Me? Thanks Gurjuz xI need some advice on guys thinking I am a toy x?
I think most guys like shorter girls. I know I do. But then again, I'm only 5'6';, so I have to have shorter girls unless I want to carry a step ladder on my back at all times, which would not be fun. Tell them you are not their toy.I need some advice on guys thinking I am a toy x?
You just described yourself like a twee girlie toy!
Stop behaving like way and you'll stop being treated like one.
Learn a martial art, take an engineering course. Toughen up a bit and for gods sake stop describing yourself as
aqua eyes and pageant girl - euwww i'm going to puke or pat you on the head a treat you like a 5 year old little miss america
My SO is also 5-1 and very small. Personally I like small girls. If I was with someone my size (6-2) I'd feel like I was making out with a guy.
My SO got her blackbelt in Karate. Nobody picks her up or refers to her as anything resembling a toy anymore.
First off this post tells me that you act like a toy and that is why you are treated like one. You sat here and explained that you feel like a toy but you felt it necessary to describe what you look like? but for what? i gather that you like the attention.
Not Me. I will treat you like the Angel that you Are
don't act like a ';toy'; and you won't be treated like one...
I am not a guy
O
there's such a thing as BB?
Crush trouble any advice girls/guys?
We'll, there's this guy I've had a crush on for a long time %26amp;%26amp; we have finally gotten to talk, but when were around eachother it's hard because were both a littls shy. Usually im always the one starting a convo. Because he's shyer than I am... when were together at lunch in the same table I start a short convo with him than go back to my bff nd when I turn my head to talk to her he just stares at me nd when I turn back he looks somewhere else..but I really don't know what else to do.. Im too shy to even hug him goodbye or something. Is it a possibility he also has a crush on me as well?Crush trouble any advice girls/guys?
ya i do think its a possibility that he likes you too but im almost in the same situation but my crush is to shy to even talk to me so your already lucky that he talks to you but anyways i dont think you should even try to hug him goodye because with him being a shy guy,i think it might freak him out a bit that your just hugging him pretty much out of nowhere anyways i wish i could ask you to answer my question but im not that good at computers so i dont know how to show you where it is but anyways i hope i helped!good luck!
ya i do think its a possibility that he likes you too but im almost in the same situation but my crush is to shy to even talk to me so your already lucky that he talks to you but anyways i dont think you should even try to hug him goodye because with him being a shy guy,i think it might freak him out a bit that your just hugging him pretty much out of nowhere anyways i wish i could ask you to answer my question but im not that good at computers so i dont know how to show you where it is but anyways i hope i helped!good luck!
My crush has a girlfriend, guys and girls advice.?
this guy and i went to formal together and i had my ex still in my life, and this kid who liked in one of my classes. i had a huge crush on my formal date(and he really liked me too :]]) my friends told him i didnt like him. but i really did. now im done with both of the other guys. and i wanted to start hanging out with him again. its only been a month and a half and he has gf....what should i do?My crush has a girlfriend, guys and girls advice.?
i was in some kind of predicament ( lol big word) like that before and i still have feelings for this kid who we used to like each other but now hes going out with one of my friends and the right thing to do is wait because if its meant to be things will happen without you messing up somthing good luckMy crush has a girlfriend, guys and girls advice.?
Do the right thing and WAIT... don't come between him and his girlfriend.
i was in some kind of predicament ( lol big word) like that before and i still have feelings for this kid who we used to like each other but now hes going out with one of my friends and the right thing to do is wait because if its meant to be things will happen without you messing up somthing good luckMy crush has a girlfriend, guys and girls advice.?
Do the right thing and WAIT... don't come between him and his girlfriend.
Boyfriend problem? Need advice from guys and girl?
My boyfriend and i have been together for 2 weeks and 4 days hah. i know that's not long, but we only talked in person twice. i really want us to talk more, cuz he's super nice and stuff, and he always says really nice stuff, but im not sure what to do. Is it bad that we dont talk? Like i said its only been about 2 or 3 weeks so it's not like its a really close relationship? He can be shy, and so can i. he talks to other girl more than me tho. is this bad? and how can i fix it i need ideas on what to say or do cuz im shy and we're supposed to hang out tomrrow but i have no idea what to say???Boyfriend problem? Need advice from guys and girl?
I think he feels shy around you too. You guys should definitely talk more or else this relationship wouldn't work, I am predicting both of you are still in high school. When you hang out tomorrow, just try to keep things cool and be yourself. You don't want someone to love you for who you aren't. Make him laugh and keep the conversation going, and ask about him and what he likes to do. In the end, just give him a peck on the cheek and wish him goodbye.Boyfriend problem? Need advice from guys and girl?
I don't know why this person is your boyfriend if you've only talked in person twice. Maybe you should just try dating for a while before moving into a commited relationship. The only think I can tell you is to be yourself, trust your instincts, and watch his actions because they will speak louder than his words. If a relationship doesn't work, then it just doesn't work and there will be others. Good luck!
Just let him hit it. That will break the ice dear.
yeahh u can hang out and u both dont be posseseive about each other.no its not bad that he talks with other girls and all.
umm, calling someone your boyfriend is just a title. talking to him face to face doesnt really make him your boyfriend
juss make out the whole time...
Uhm, why would you get together if you rarely talk. Couples who do that rarely stay together. Since he talks to more girls other than you, he might not be that faithful, since you have limited time together. Its kinda risky not to talk to him.
One thing i can suggest to you, coz i was in the same situation, is to say hi first. if he just smiles, make a joke or something.(like if he'll ever talk to you or do you have to keep blabbing) then once he starts to loosen up, engage in friendly conversations about each other's day and stuff. If you still can't talk. Something's wrong.
Dont worry just talk like you talk to any of your other friends.
';What did you do today?';
';What do you like about school?';
';Have you always lived in this area?';
';When you were little, what did you want to be when you grew up?';
';Who is your hero?';
';What's the best thing that happened to you today?';
';What kind of books do you like to read?';
';What are your favorite classes in school?';
';Tell me about your family.';
';Can you cook?';
';Do you like drama?';
';Have you ever done improvisational theater?';
If you could live anywhere in the world, where would you live?
If you could have any job in the world, what would you do?
Of what are you most proud in your life?
Do you play any musical instruments?
What do you hope to be doing 5 years from now?
If you could live your life over again, what would you do differently?
What do you do when you want to celebrate something?
Where's the most interesting place you've ever traveled?
Do you like risks, or do you avoid them?
What major risks have you taken in your life?
What are your weaknesses? How do you deal with them?
What are your favorite books, TV shows, movies and music?
What are the most important aspects of your life?
What's the most embarassing thing you've ever done?
i mean really you can talk about just anything!!!
I think he feels shy around you too. You guys should definitely talk more or else this relationship wouldn't work, I am predicting both of you are still in high school. When you hang out tomorrow, just try to keep things cool and be yourself. You don't want someone to love you for who you aren't. Make him laugh and keep the conversation going, and ask about him and what he likes to do. In the end, just give him a peck on the cheek and wish him goodbye.Boyfriend problem? Need advice from guys and girl?
I don't know why this person is your boyfriend if you've only talked in person twice. Maybe you should just try dating for a while before moving into a commited relationship. The only think I can tell you is to be yourself, trust your instincts, and watch his actions because they will speak louder than his words. If a relationship doesn't work, then it just doesn't work and there will be others. Good luck!
Just let him hit it. That will break the ice dear.
yeahh u can hang out and u both dont be posseseive about each other.no its not bad that he talks with other girls and all.
umm, calling someone your boyfriend is just a title. talking to him face to face doesnt really make him your boyfriend
juss make out the whole time...
Uhm, why would you get together if you rarely talk. Couples who do that rarely stay together. Since he talks to more girls other than you, he might not be that faithful, since you have limited time together. Its kinda risky not to talk to him.
One thing i can suggest to you, coz i was in the same situation, is to say hi first. if he just smiles, make a joke or something.(like if he'll ever talk to you or do you have to keep blabbing) then once he starts to loosen up, engage in friendly conversations about each other's day and stuff. If you still can't talk. Something's wrong.
Dont worry just talk like you talk to any of your other friends.
';What did you do today?';
';What do you like about school?';
';Have you always lived in this area?';
';When you were little, what did you want to be when you grew up?';
';Who is your hero?';
';What's the best thing that happened to you today?';
';What kind of books do you like to read?';
';What are your favorite classes in school?';
';Tell me about your family.';
';Can you cook?';
';Do you like drama?';
';Have you ever done improvisational theater?';
If you could live anywhere in the world, where would you live?
If you could have any job in the world, what would you do?
Of what are you most proud in your life?
Do you play any musical instruments?
What do you hope to be doing 5 years from now?
If you could live your life over again, what would you do differently?
What do you do when you want to celebrate something?
Where's the most interesting place you've ever traveled?
Do you like risks, or do you avoid them?
What major risks have you taken in your life?
What are your weaknesses? How do you deal with them?
What are your favorite books, TV shows, movies and music?
What are the most important aspects of your life?
What's the most embarassing thing you've ever done?
i mean really you can talk about just anything!!!
I need some advice you guys I'm at my whits end?
ok my daughter is twelve and she has had problems with her ears since she was 4 she has had five sets of tubes and reconstructive surgery on her right ear where her ear drum collapsed.about two weeks ago we went to the ENT and they told us she had bad ear infection in both ears they did a culture and found out she had mrsa in her ears they changed her antibiotic to bactrum this was on a thursday and by saturday night it wasnt any better so we took her to the er and they put an iv and started a stronger antibiotic called vandimicine well sunday they said to call her regular ent and they seen her and said to leave her on the bactrum and they thought it would clear it up so a week later the back of her ears still hurt not as bad and now she has a spot in her cheek it feels like a marble you can move it around and they are saying it is a lymp node and they put her on another antibiotic cause they said it was an infection somewhere in her body but couldnt tell me where she is suppose to go in for surgery the 30th of this month for another set of tubes but they dont even know if the mrsa is clear or what is causing the infection or for that matter where it is what should i doI need some advice you guys I'm at my whits end?
This is not a dental question, but I will try to help. MRSA is a very serious infection, maybe the most serious of the staph-type infections. Fortunately, children seem to do better in terms of recovery than adults. Your daughter is fortunate in that regard.
My advice to you is to forget about tubes for now. Focus on the MRSA and get that cleared up. I hope you have more than one doctor on her case. If it were my daughter, I would want to make sure that an infectious disease specialist is working alongside the ENT. MRSA is primarily a skin (or tissue) infection, and while it is the ENT's part of the body, it is the infection that matters as much or more than where it happens to be located.
If you want some scientific information about the disease, look at the Sources. The first may be a little easier to understand than the second.
This is not a dental question, but I will try to help. MRSA is a very serious infection, maybe the most serious of the staph-type infections. Fortunately, children seem to do better in terms of recovery than adults. Your daughter is fortunate in that regard.
My advice to you is to forget about tubes for now. Focus on the MRSA and get that cleared up. I hope you have more than one doctor on her case. If it were my daughter, I would want to make sure that an infectious disease specialist is working alongside the ENT. MRSA is primarily a skin (or tissue) infection, and while it is the ENT's part of the body, it is the infection that matters as much or more than where it happens to be located.
If you want some scientific information about the disease, look at the Sources. The first may be a little easier to understand than the second.
NEW BOYFRIEND. Any advice going??? Guys AND girls please (:?
Hi, please dont be insulting or offensive or sarcastic or anything, I just want to know if everything is normal.
Im 17 and Ive been going out with my first ever boyfriend for 2 and a half months now. Hes my age. Firstly, Ive always wanted one of those relationships where you like know everything about each other down to the last little details and where you are comfortable around one another, each others family, can freely go round each others houses without ringing up in advance, and all that type of thing. We get on really well and stuff, but I wouldnt say we are exactly like that. And also its his birthday soon, but I havent got a clue what to get him as in something that he would genuinely like thats whats to do with what he likes. Would you say its because we havent been together all that long? My friend has been with her boyfriend for 6 months and they know each other inside out. Will it just take time, or will it never happen for me and my boyfriend?
Also, I really like him, like really really like him, ( I would say love but I would probably get a oad of grief as in 'im too young, it has only been a few months, but just so you get the idea that im not merely with him for the sake of having a boyfriend) but i still look at other guys and wonder what it would be like if I was with them. Is this wrong of me? I dont have feelings for them, i just think what it would be like.
His best friend always tells me he doubts we will last and gives me loads of grief, but then he hasnt ever had a girlfriend before.
Am I a bad girlfriend? Please help me. Im not sure what Im asking, im just looking for a little reassurance on the dating game. Any advice, previous experience, or anything nice would be appreciated :)
Thankyou (:NEW BOYFRIEND. Any advice going??? Guys AND girls please (:?
Nah of course you're not a bad girlfriend! (By the way I'm 15 and have never had a boyfriend so you're taking advice from someone who is a bit clueless to be honest). It sounds like you just haven't known each other a long time so you won't know EVERYTHING just yet but thats not a bad thing. Don't worry, as time goes on your knowledge of each other will grow.
His bestfriend sounds like an asshole, ignore him.
XNEW BOYFRIEND. Any advice going??? Guys AND girls please (:?
Ok I am not 17, add 30 odd years.
Firstly, don't listen to his mate or anyone elses, if it only lasts a couple of months, years etc so be it, take your time now and savour it, don't be worrying about the future, let that sort itself out.
Secondly, no you are not a bad girlfriend for checking out other guys. My fiancee does it all the time and I do it with other women, but we never do anything about it. Anyone who says they only have eyes for one person and means it in a literal sense is lying.
As for birthday presents, I have been with my Fiancee for 3 years and still never know what to get her for any occasion, hell, I dont even actually know how old she is!!! bout 35 I think LOL.
Just chill out and enjoy what you have now. Sure you will make mistakes but then show me someone who has never made a mistake and I will show you someone who has made nothing.
Hope it all works out, but most of all, enjoy yourself and have fun together. Make sure you both laugh alot.
Don't worry so much, its your first relationship and if you worry it might go wrong. just relax and enjoy being with him. if you've only been dating 2 and a half months you have lots of time to get to know each other, go for walks and talk about things. and most important make sure that he can feel comfortable around you too.
Im 17 and Ive been going out with my first ever boyfriend for 2 and a half months now. Hes my age. Firstly, Ive always wanted one of those relationships where you like know everything about each other down to the last little details and where you are comfortable around one another, each others family, can freely go round each others houses without ringing up in advance, and all that type of thing. We get on really well and stuff, but I wouldnt say we are exactly like that. And also its his birthday soon, but I havent got a clue what to get him as in something that he would genuinely like thats whats to do with what he likes. Would you say its because we havent been together all that long? My friend has been with her boyfriend for 6 months and they know each other inside out. Will it just take time, or will it never happen for me and my boyfriend?
Also, I really like him, like really really like him, ( I would say love but I would probably get a oad of grief as in 'im too young, it has only been a few months, but just so you get the idea that im not merely with him for the sake of having a boyfriend) but i still look at other guys and wonder what it would be like if I was with them. Is this wrong of me? I dont have feelings for them, i just think what it would be like.
His best friend always tells me he doubts we will last and gives me loads of grief, but then he hasnt ever had a girlfriend before.
Am I a bad girlfriend? Please help me. Im not sure what Im asking, im just looking for a little reassurance on the dating game. Any advice, previous experience, or anything nice would be appreciated :)
Thankyou (:NEW BOYFRIEND. Any advice going??? Guys AND girls please (:?
Nah of course you're not a bad girlfriend! (By the way I'm 15 and have never had a boyfriend so you're taking advice from someone who is a bit clueless to be honest). It sounds like you just haven't known each other a long time so you won't know EVERYTHING just yet but thats not a bad thing. Don't worry, as time goes on your knowledge of each other will grow.
His bestfriend sounds like an asshole, ignore him.
XNEW BOYFRIEND. Any advice going??? Guys AND girls please (:?
Ok I am not 17, add 30 odd years.
Firstly, don't listen to his mate or anyone elses, if it only lasts a couple of months, years etc so be it, take your time now and savour it, don't be worrying about the future, let that sort itself out.
Secondly, no you are not a bad girlfriend for checking out other guys. My fiancee does it all the time and I do it with other women, but we never do anything about it. Anyone who says they only have eyes for one person and means it in a literal sense is lying.
As for birthday presents, I have been with my Fiancee for 3 years and still never know what to get her for any occasion, hell, I dont even actually know how old she is!!! bout 35 I think LOL.
Just chill out and enjoy what you have now. Sure you will make mistakes but then show me someone who has never made a mistake and I will show you someone who has made nothing.
Hope it all works out, but most of all, enjoy yourself and have fun together. Make sure you both laugh alot.
Don't worry so much, its your first relationship and if you worry it might go wrong. just relax and enjoy being with him. if you've only been dating 2 and a half months you have lots of time to get to know each other, go for walks and talk about things. and most important make sure that he can feel comfortable around you too.
Friend help?? Any advice from guys or girls?
Sorry this is kinda long. Ok me and this girl have been best friends for YEARS.... we've know each other since k4 (we're in the 9th grade). Well this year this other girl and my best friend started getting very close. I didn't mind that at first because I'm friends with the other girl to. But lately they've been going off and doing things and when ever we're all together they tallk about things I don't know about. I feel like ';the odd man out'; so to say. Any advice out there? Please. I do have other friends don't get me wrong but this girl knows absolutely EVERYTHING about me and I feel like I'm losing her, not to mention my other best friend from a different school is moving to another state. Please help
ThanksFriend help?? Any advice from guys or girls?
sorry hun, but this happens all the time
and its happened to me
u can tell ur friend how u feel, and try to hang out with her every time ur not buisy
maybe do the things u use too, and do some new stuff to that uve never done before to get new experiences and new things to talk about
like going to amusement parks instead of just the mall, and making movies instead of just watching them
get me?
unfortunately if nothing helps then u two are just meant to drift apart as much as that sucks
and u hav to let fate take its toll
if this happens just work on getting a new best friend and being urself and letting someone else come to u and stuff
i hope everything turns out for the best =]
my mottos are to let whatever happens happen, and that everything happens for a reason
i hope u see the point im trying to make and good luck with everything! =]how to apply
ThanksFriend help?? Any advice from guys or girls?
sorry hun, but this happens all the time
and its happened to me
u can tell ur friend how u feel, and try to hang out with her every time ur not buisy
maybe do the things u use too, and do some new stuff to that uve never done before to get new experiences and new things to talk about
like going to amusement parks instead of just the mall, and making movies instead of just watching them
get me?
unfortunately if nothing helps then u two are just meant to drift apart as much as that sucks
and u hav to let fate take its toll
if this happens just work on getting a new best friend and being urself and letting someone else come to u and stuff
i hope everything turns out for the best =]
my mottos are to let whatever happens happen, and that everything happens for a reason
i hope u see the point im trying to make and good luck with everything! =]
Are there any other..?
websites like yahoo answers besides chatrooms? anytime I ask a question that doesnt have to do with an ex boyfriend, friend troubles, or any other drama... I never get an answer.Are there any other..?
I know what you mean.. I don't really know any other sites sorry. But BOO... You need to grow up. I cant believe that you are so into your high school drama that you are putting down someone with an important question. Jessica M, these are the kind of people that will always try to bring you down. All you have to do is laugh about how pathetic their lives are.. Just keep being you and motivate yourself to live above that. You are the kind of person that will most likely be the one to hire or fire that kind of person so just dont let them get you down, you are better than that! Im rooting for you! Good luck girl!!!!!Are there any other..?
i hear you sweetie the only place i could think about is ask.com or scotti. com. you can find things about jobs there. a lot of people would be able to answer your questions if you gave more details into what type of career info you are looking for.
what's the ?
we can ask and answer whatever the hell we want!!!
sorry to hear but i have not been on for some time. to answer what you are asking.look inside your self. what kind of things do you like to do. as in careing for the old, sick, makeing things.its up to you what you want to do. you may have to do more school. but ever job you want to do you have to be happy with and like to do. the sky is the limit
girls ask guys .com
another really good site:)
Maybe because you are in the wrong place or maybe because your questions are not being so clear. Try different approach. I always get two or three answers back to my questions, but that's OK I don't mind.
I would answer your question..I too never get answers on half my questions! Everyone jumps at answering those easy relationship questions.
I know what you mean.. I don't really know any other sites sorry. But BOO... You need to grow up. I cant believe that you are so into your high school drama that you are putting down someone with an important question. Jessica M, these are the kind of people that will always try to bring you down. All you have to do is laugh about how pathetic their lives are.. Just keep being you and motivate yourself to live above that. You are the kind of person that will most likely be the one to hire or fire that kind of person so just dont let them get you down, you are better than that! Im rooting for you! Good luck girl!!!!!Are there any other..?
i hear you sweetie the only place i could think about is ask.com or scotti. com. you can find things about jobs there. a lot of people would be able to answer your questions if you gave more details into what type of career info you are looking for.
what's the ?
we can ask and answer whatever the hell we want!!!
sorry to hear but i have not been on for some time. to answer what you are asking.look inside your self. what kind of things do you like to do. as in careing for the old, sick, makeing things.its up to you what you want to do. you may have to do more school. but ever job you want to do you have to be happy with and like to do. the sky is the limit
girls ask guys .com
another really good site:)
Maybe because you are in the wrong place or maybe because your questions are not being so clear. Try different approach. I always get two or three answers back to my questions, but that's OK I don't mind.
I would answer your question..I too never get answers on half my questions! Everyone jumps at answering those easy relationship questions.
....*read this story* advice please!!! guys only.?
my ex is so confusing, i love him so much even 6 months since the breakup, i hurt him sorta nd since we were eachothers 1st gf/bf thing i guess it was real hard, were still in highschool %26amp; see each other everyday we have a class together are lockers are parael to one another however until recent we never talked my friend told him i still loved him and he even said i could have another chance if we talked %26amp;became friends so he can trust me. But he makes no effort and i can't find the courage. Last week there was a rumor/joke i liked someone new and my ex got so mad he would talk by and say she likes ---- effing sick %26amp; told 3 guys even tho 1 this boy is gross %26amp; iwould never %26amp; 2 he never even asked me. so i confronted him and nicely told him i dont like that other boy %26amp; to stop spreading lies and we smiled/laughed about it i stayed at his locker for a bit than left, now he looks at me more and signs on IM when i do but still dosent talk. Guys tell me he dosent care, but does he still?....*read this story* advice please!!! guys only.?
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>....*read this story* advice please!!! guys only.?
HE DOES! Hun it's called jealousy,they don't WANT u back together just trust ur gut and get back with him.
Please do yourself a favor... use spell check...%26amp; focus on your education...that's in dire need of help
He's confused, you were his gf which makes you special but then out of no where you hurt him which instantly creates distance, then he wanted to get back with you when he found out you like another lad only for it to be a lie.
odds are he still cares but is a bit worried about growing closer to you incase something happens again.
all is not lost, keep on talking to him it MIGHT work out.
I think you should sit him down and ask him if he still cares for you. Tell him to answer honestly and tell him if he doesn't give you an answer you will have to move on without him. He will be forced to make a decision then, and if tells you that he doesn't like you...well...I am sorry. If you don't have the courage for this ask a friend or one of his friends if they can help or tell you anything. GOOD LUCK :)
When a man falls in love He falls HARD, just flow with it and get back together with him because he cares greatly about you.
I'm not a guy but i have been in your place before. The thing is that he does care but doesnt tell anybody because possibly he is affraid to admitt it but maybe u should call him and tlk to him about it. I get a lil nervous when i call a guy i like but then we work things out and its all good. if you like him and everything you should tell him how you feel and hopefully he has the same ones. i hope i helped you!! good luck.
ye.....i tihnk he cares...hes just deep down hurt....and think u like him...and when he heard the rumors...he got mad...so u should make a contious effort to see him...and u know take the plunge...go up to him tmo or whenever....and tell him u love him.....BE HONEST......and u know if u wanna take a step further ask him out
bugger. ive been in ur ex's position and its really hard to get back to where you used to be. If its you that have done somthing it can be really hard, esp with guys coz alot of it comes to down to pride. Hes been made to look a fool (or at least thats what he will think) if he still wants to be with you i think you would need to be the one to do all the work, he will be hesitant coz he wont want to be hurt again. it took a long time for me and my Gf to work through the problems we had but in the end it was worth it. Im sure he would of only been spreading the rumour to make it look like he didnt give a **** anymore and was overyou.
If hes worth it then put in the effort :)
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>....*read this story* advice please!!! guys only.?
HE DOES! Hun it's called jealousy,they don't WANT u back together just trust ur gut and get back with him.
Please do yourself a favor... use spell check...%26amp; focus on your education...that's in dire need of help
He's confused, you were his gf which makes you special but then out of no where you hurt him which instantly creates distance, then he wanted to get back with you when he found out you like another lad only for it to be a lie.
odds are he still cares but is a bit worried about growing closer to you incase something happens again.
all is not lost, keep on talking to him it MIGHT work out.
I think you should sit him down and ask him if he still cares for you. Tell him to answer honestly and tell him if he doesn't give you an answer you will have to move on without him. He will be forced to make a decision then, and if tells you that he doesn't like you...well...I am sorry. If you don't have the courage for this ask a friend or one of his friends if they can help or tell you anything. GOOD LUCK :)
When a man falls in love He falls HARD, just flow with it and get back together with him because he cares greatly about you.
I'm not a guy but i have been in your place before. The thing is that he does care but doesnt tell anybody because possibly he is affraid to admitt it but maybe u should call him and tlk to him about it. I get a lil nervous when i call a guy i like but then we work things out and its all good. if you like him and everything you should tell him how you feel and hopefully he has the same ones. i hope i helped you!! good luck.
ye.....i tihnk he cares...hes just deep down hurt....and think u like him...and when he heard the rumors...he got mad...so u should make a contious effort to see him...and u know take the plunge...go up to him tmo or whenever....and tell him u love him.....BE HONEST......and u know if u wanna take a step further ask him out
bugger. ive been in ur ex's position and its really hard to get back to where you used to be. If its you that have done somthing it can be really hard, esp with guys coz alot of it comes to down to pride. Hes been made to look a fool (or at least thats what he will think) if he still wants to be with you i think you would need to be the one to do all the work, he will be hesitant coz he wont want to be hurt again. it took a long time for me and my Gf to work through the problems we had but in the end it was worth it. Im sure he would of only been spreading the rumour to make it look like he didnt give a **** anymore and was overyou.
If hes worth it then put in the effort :)
I need some advice from guys!?
this guy i know he is 22 i am 20
we have always kind of known eachother but never really talked. we ran into eachother at a mutual gathering and he gave me his number and said we should hangout sometime. so i let him make the move and ask me to hangout which he did.
we went to the park to walk his dog..nothing big.
then later that night he texted and asked me if i wanted to hangout again later in the week. which would be tomorrow.
we texted yesterday for like 6 hours it was crazy.
since i texted him yesterday i figured id let him text me which its 840 at night and i havent heard from him all day.
does him not texting me mean hes not really all that into me? like wouldnt he want to text me if he was into me?
ps. he is sort of shy not a lot but a tiny bitI need some advice from guys!?
you guys are 20 %26amp; 22 and your main method of talking is text messages? im sorry, but thats kinda lame. him not texting you is him just trying to appear ';not desperate'; and just playing it cool. you should follow suit, dont worry about it, and just look forward to tommorow. or CALL him later on tonight and actually have a conversation with the guy rather than this texting, because texting never accomplishes anything. good luck, sorry if i sounded really judgemental i just think you should be old enough to realize texting is good for quick msgs and not as a method of conversationI need some advice from guys!?
he may not know wat to write....just start a new phase by kissing or hugging.
he may be a little love shy LOL [=
we have always kind of known eachother but never really talked. we ran into eachother at a mutual gathering and he gave me his number and said we should hangout sometime. so i let him make the move and ask me to hangout which he did.
we went to the park to walk his dog..nothing big.
then later that night he texted and asked me if i wanted to hangout again later in the week. which would be tomorrow.
we texted yesterday for like 6 hours it was crazy.
since i texted him yesterday i figured id let him text me which its 840 at night and i havent heard from him all day.
does him not texting me mean hes not really all that into me? like wouldnt he want to text me if he was into me?
ps. he is sort of shy not a lot but a tiny bitI need some advice from guys!?
you guys are 20 %26amp; 22 and your main method of talking is text messages? im sorry, but thats kinda lame. him not texting you is him just trying to appear ';not desperate'; and just playing it cool. you should follow suit, dont worry about it, and just look forward to tommorow. or CALL him later on tonight and actually have a conversation with the guy rather than this texting, because texting never accomplishes anything. good luck, sorry if i sounded really judgemental i just think you should be old enough to realize texting is good for quick msgs and not as a method of conversationI need some advice from guys!?
he may not know wat to write....just start a new phase by kissing or hugging.
he may be a little love shy LOL [=
I realllllllllllly need advice. 10pts guys. (:?
i just got broken up with about a month ago, and i'm fine.
I was with this person for about a year, and i just wanted to know how he was doing i guess.
I'm not even sure i want to be friends
and i'm pretty sure i don't want him back.
I just feel uncomfortable with
the fact that after being in this relationship with me for such a while and expressing how much he ';loved'; me, he threw me out of his life so easily.
i see him everyday, and we havent talked in about a month
so why am i feeling like this?
and should i text him?
theres also this new guy that i was intresed in for about
2 years before i met that guy that broke up with me whose trying
to talk to me out of no where.
i'm not really interested anymore and
i'm really missing my EX.
i need advice.
):
thanks for your help in advance.
(:I realllllllllllly need advice. 10pts guys. (:?
I think that u should tell him something and then try getting that out of your way then try doing wat u need 2 do
I was with this person for about a year, and i just wanted to know how he was doing i guess.
I'm not even sure i want to be friends
and i'm pretty sure i don't want him back.
I just feel uncomfortable with
the fact that after being in this relationship with me for such a while and expressing how much he ';loved'; me, he threw me out of his life so easily.
i see him everyday, and we havent talked in about a month
so why am i feeling like this?
and should i text him?
theres also this new guy that i was intresed in for about
2 years before i met that guy that broke up with me whose trying
to talk to me out of no where.
i'm not really interested anymore and
i'm really missing my EX.
i need advice.
):
thanks for your help in advance.
(:I realllllllllllly need advice. 10pts guys. (:?
I think that u should tell him something and then try getting that out of your way then try doing wat u need 2 do
I dont wanna be the guy you go to for advice on guys i wanna be the guy you go to for it all?
I have a friend (a girl) who i expressed my feelings to she saw me as just a really good friend. now, this question isn't to try to win her over or anything but to help me out in the future. I'm sick of being this guy that is just a friend. i'm sick of hearing stories about how guys treat ';you'; badly, when i'm the clear guy who will treat ';you'; right. i need some advice.I dont wanna be the guy you go to for advice on guys i wanna be the guy you go to for it all?
f@ck dude... wanna trade?? watch what u wish for man
don't rush things bro... she will fall into your lap when you least expect it. also you being so nice to her (and not being all up in her grill to get in her pants) could act as a facade that you are not interested... you gotta tell her how u feel... she doesnt has ESP either and may feel the same way.
u need to be lovers before u can be friends/I dont wanna be the guy you go to for advice on guys i wanna be the guy you go to for it all?
Don't be as willing to listen to sob stories from girls. It puts you into the ';brother'; category and also encourages them to feel like victims. When a girl comes to you with a story about being treated badly, tell her you hope things work out and change the subject or end the convo. Don't be her shoulder to cry on. Let her talk to her girlfriends about it. Girls who do this are using you. The kind of girl you want would not come complaining to you about another guy.
okay ask her friends if she is dating anyone, then you have to convence the boy to break-up with her. So she can be all yours but winning her over hard part start hanging with her more and talking with her more and then she will start to get feelings for you then she will want to be more than just friends plus be yourself don't be the cool guy don't spend time with your guys more than her it will let her know you care!
be really nice to her. not like you arent... just... really do something. get her a dozen roses... it might sound like we dont really like that kind of stuff, but its the simple, heart felt things that mean a alot... but only to the right girls... some girls out there are very shallow... girls dont just like guys spending money on them,.... we like homade brownies or a handmade card from the heart.. yea, hallmark cards are easy and funny or romantic, but we still prefer heartfelt things better.
p.s. hope i helped!
This was written by a friend of mine, Christina Oettel-Flaherty. It is one hundred percent true and amazine and it definately answers your question.
Your average gal isn't an ultra-hormonal black hole of self-esteem with a bundle of varied neuroses. She's just not. Your average gal may at times wish she was a little prettier, a little more articulate, a little more funny, a little more fun. But she's just a person, not a walking, ruminating, pit of emotional disaster. She loves her friends, likes having a good time, wants things to be simple, wants to be happy. The average female doesn't suffer from some deep lack of self-respect. She wants to be treated right by the people in her life. She might not be looking for anything intense at the moment, though she most likely harbors somewhere within her the desire to eventually experience something 'special' (I mean, being in love literally sets off a firework display of endorphins in your brain-- who wouldn't want that?) SO WHY IN THE WORLD DO SO MANY SANE, HIGHLY-FUNCTIONING WOMEN GO FOR MEN WHO TREAT THEM LIKE ****? just gonna throw some ideas out there...
firstly: let's make this clear: It's the confidence and charisma we find sexy, not the treatment. GOT IT? Confidence often translates in our minds to ';successful, baggage-free, hot in bed'; (which, needless to say, are three very good things). Plus, someone who has people hanging on his every word is exciting to be around. He's admirable in an explicit way. He may not be a good friend, or a giving, respectful person, but people look up to him. It's unfortunate that people are willing to take more crap from someone they look up to. It's also unfortunate that confidence and charisma often are much easier to access with the people whose opinions matter less to you (the very people you'd be far more likely to mistreat). Personality can make someone infinately more attractive. Shame that if you're out at a bar (all other things being equal), you're not going to notice the fantastic guy who's too shy to approach you, but the asshat who is holding a highly amusing conversation with your chest but keeps trailing off to make eyes at every XX that passes. to make matters worse for our more intimacy-focused male friends, the rules of the chase apply to women too. A lot of the time, you want something until you got it. You've GOT a guy who listens to you, who respects you. A guy who disappears more frequently than Houdini is playing a game. (And I guess everyone likes games?) The good news for Mr. Nice-Guy is that once HE has got a ';someone special'; he's also got all of the skills to make it work.
Of course, then there's biology. A strong, capable ';Alpha'; male is probably going to be considered attractive. He would have increased our chances of survival. That's not really controversial. The other part of the biology thing is that women like sex too. Who can say why sex with the jerk might be better than sex with the boy next door? Ceteris parabis (ie same looks), maybe it's because there's something a little exciting about doing something you TOTALLY know you shouldn't do. (I hear that the parental advisory stickers put CD sales through the roof.) Maybe it's because it is generally believed/misconceived (keeping in mind that asshole-ish behavior far-too-often comes as a packaged deal with presented self-love) that a guy who is confident can make a woman feel more confident and pleasured in bed than a ';nice guy';. and the homo erectus will unfailingly go out and seek pleasure. (guess what? i hear that the pleasures of deeply intimate sex where both parties love and respect and are comfortable with each other are nothing to sniff at...)
The asshole is a good time. We're drawn to his charisma, confidence and charm. But I can practically assure you that a charming, confident nice guy would get the same, if not more, attention from us women. (It's not ';niceness'; that's a turn-off, it's awkwardness.) SO why do so many women STAY with men who treat them as if they were the scum of the earth? Well, I could go on for days about the cycle of abuse and the psychology of it all, but you wanna know the ugly truth? you idealize your partner when you first meet them--that's the endorphins speaking-- and by the time you find out the truth you're already attached. and when you care about a person deeply, it's hard to see the big picture. for some reason or many reasons the other options just don't look as bright. playful banter is fun. being played with is not. sometimes it's hard to know when the line's been crossed. maybe your relationship is the envy of your friends, maybe your kids really need him, or maybe your parents like him and you don't want to let them down. maybe you want to heal him, to protect him. maybe you feel like he can be reformed with understanding, or that he cherishes you as much as you cherish him, though he doesn't show it. it could simply be economics. maybe you feel like the problems you've had in the past have been your fault. likely, it's not even those things... it just doesn't seem like the reasons to leave him outweigh the benefits of the periods where he treats you right, where he makes you feel SO SO SO SO good. you feel lucky for the good times you do have. if he's controlling, you may even feel lucky that he loves you enough to care so much about what you do. his attention might make you feel special and wonderful and high. BUT LET'S BE PERFECTLY CLEAR HERE: this is ABSOLUTELY NOT a matter of a woman's self-respect. don't misinterpret the evidence. Endless numbers of strong, fiery, self-respecting women are involved in semi-relationships that are not as good as they are. life is complicated. everything's clearer in hindsight.
In the note I am responding to, the 'scientific evidence' that women liked jerks more than nice guys was that when he was a nice guy, he never got laid and when he was a jerk he made it four times in the first week. so, consider this quote-- ';When you're young, your whole life is about the pursuit of fun, then you grow up and learn to be cautious; you could break a bone, or a heart. You look before you leap and sometimes you don't leap at all because there's not always someone there to catch you. And in life, there is no safety net. When did it stop being fun and start being scary?';
i'll admit. i am a mild to moderate sufferer of this condition. i feel like it sort of crept up on me. and what do you do once you're terrified? you can't just wait for someone to come and sweep you away, for someone to make you vulnerable, because if you're reserved and guarded even the greatest, most understanding, most patient guy in the entire world won't be able to reach you. it's counterintuitive, but the greater the possibility for loss, the easier it is for someone who's terrified to make herself not care, to forge a comfortable seperation between her intellect and the thrill she feels. you can tell yourself to have fun, to let go, to have faith, to live in the moment. but it's not a matter of confidence, or even of general optimism. it's just, the fact is, there's a very real possibility that when you form an attachment with someone you will eventually be hurt by them (in small or even very very big, irreversable ways). But a fling with a jerk is practically risk-free. He can be fun, can be entertaining, and it doesn't involve any kind of attachment. with a jerk, you know what you're in for.
Nice guys: DON'T DESPAIR over a few lost one-night stands (yeah, we all know they're fun and all, but... here's some advice: get confident, get bold, feel as hot as you are, and make your damn move. You don't need to be scummy to get your share of hook-ups.) And in the long-run, please know that you won't finish last. When women become ready to take the risk of REALLY falling, of closing their eyes before they leap into something TRULY TRULY special, they have their eyes on you. Not because you're safe, because falling is always dangerous, but because you're absolutely wonderful. Some people have the misperception that what a woman says she wants and what she wants are actually different things. FALSE. I guess I can only speak for myself, but I think you'd be hardpressed to find many women who completely disagree-- for anything beyond playtime, we want something wonderful. We want to be treated right. we want you.
i think you meant, ';will';.
yeah man, i know how you feel. i'm the girl version of that. like, all the guys assume we're friends right away, and that i'm their gateway into a woman's mind. kinda frustrating.
i have no advice, i just have sympathy.
im into the nice guys. open doors, be a sweet guy...show them you are intrrsted like dont wait a week to try and kiss a girl....do suttle things that al least keep her mind going...open the doors, tell her you had a great time...
i have this niice guy friend who i had a crush on...he is nice but he doesnt call me he tells me to call him, he does things like put his head on my shoulder when we are hugging in the car...he does things that make me think ';maybe hes into me'; but i dont know for sure...so im not gonna make a move, i wont make a move he has to make the move...
shiv-el-re...VERY important, keep it alive
you looking for a girl friend? not asking if you want one.
f@ck dude... wanna trade?? watch what u wish for man
don't rush things bro... she will fall into your lap when you least expect it. also you being so nice to her (and not being all up in her grill to get in her pants) could act as a facade that you are not interested... you gotta tell her how u feel... she doesnt has ESP either and may feel the same way.
u need to be lovers before u can be friends/I dont wanna be the guy you go to for advice on guys i wanna be the guy you go to for it all?
Don't be as willing to listen to sob stories from girls. It puts you into the ';brother'; category and also encourages them to feel like victims. When a girl comes to you with a story about being treated badly, tell her you hope things work out and change the subject or end the convo. Don't be her shoulder to cry on. Let her talk to her girlfriends about it. Girls who do this are using you. The kind of girl you want would not come complaining to you about another guy.
okay ask her friends if she is dating anyone, then you have to convence the boy to break-up with her. So she can be all yours but winning her over hard part start hanging with her more and talking with her more and then she will start to get feelings for you then she will want to be more than just friends plus be yourself don't be the cool guy don't spend time with your guys more than her it will let her know you care!
be really nice to her. not like you arent... just... really do something. get her a dozen roses... it might sound like we dont really like that kind of stuff, but its the simple, heart felt things that mean a alot... but only to the right girls... some girls out there are very shallow... girls dont just like guys spending money on them,.... we like homade brownies or a handmade card from the heart.. yea, hallmark cards are easy and funny or romantic, but we still prefer heartfelt things better.
p.s. hope i helped!
This was written by a friend of mine, Christina Oettel-Flaherty. It is one hundred percent true and amazine and it definately answers your question.
Your average gal isn't an ultra-hormonal black hole of self-esteem with a bundle of varied neuroses. She's just not. Your average gal may at times wish she was a little prettier, a little more articulate, a little more funny, a little more fun. But she's just a person, not a walking, ruminating, pit of emotional disaster. She loves her friends, likes having a good time, wants things to be simple, wants to be happy. The average female doesn't suffer from some deep lack of self-respect. She wants to be treated right by the people in her life. She might not be looking for anything intense at the moment, though she most likely harbors somewhere within her the desire to eventually experience something 'special' (I mean, being in love literally sets off a firework display of endorphins in your brain-- who wouldn't want that?) SO WHY IN THE WORLD DO SO MANY SANE, HIGHLY-FUNCTIONING WOMEN GO FOR MEN WHO TREAT THEM LIKE ****? just gonna throw some ideas out there...
firstly: let's make this clear: It's the confidence and charisma we find sexy, not the treatment. GOT IT? Confidence often translates in our minds to ';successful, baggage-free, hot in bed'; (which, needless to say, are three very good things). Plus, someone who has people hanging on his every word is exciting to be around. He's admirable in an explicit way. He may not be a good friend, or a giving, respectful person, but people look up to him. It's unfortunate that people are willing to take more crap from someone they look up to. It's also unfortunate that confidence and charisma often are much easier to access with the people whose opinions matter less to you (the very people you'd be far more likely to mistreat). Personality can make someone infinately more attractive. Shame that if you're out at a bar (all other things being equal), you're not going to notice the fantastic guy who's too shy to approach you, but the asshat who is holding a highly amusing conversation with your chest but keeps trailing off to make eyes at every XX that passes. to make matters worse for our more intimacy-focused male friends, the rules of the chase apply to women too. A lot of the time, you want something until you got it. You've GOT a guy who listens to you, who respects you. A guy who disappears more frequently than Houdini is playing a game. (And I guess everyone likes games?) The good news for Mr. Nice-Guy is that once HE has got a ';someone special'; he's also got all of the skills to make it work.
Of course, then there's biology. A strong, capable ';Alpha'; male is probably going to be considered attractive. He would have increased our chances of survival. That's not really controversial. The other part of the biology thing is that women like sex too. Who can say why sex with the jerk might be better than sex with the boy next door? Ceteris parabis (ie same looks), maybe it's because there's something a little exciting about doing something you TOTALLY know you shouldn't do. (I hear that the parental advisory stickers put CD sales through the roof.) Maybe it's because it is generally believed/misconceived (keeping in mind that asshole-ish behavior far-too-often comes as a packaged deal with presented self-love) that a guy who is confident can make a woman feel more confident and pleasured in bed than a ';nice guy';. and the homo erectus will unfailingly go out and seek pleasure. (guess what? i hear that the pleasures of deeply intimate sex where both parties love and respect and are comfortable with each other are nothing to sniff at...)
The asshole is a good time. We're drawn to his charisma, confidence and charm. But I can practically assure you that a charming, confident nice guy would get the same, if not more, attention from us women. (It's not ';niceness'; that's a turn-off, it's awkwardness.) SO why do so many women STAY with men who treat them as if they were the scum of the earth? Well, I could go on for days about the cycle of abuse and the psychology of it all, but you wanna know the ugly truth? you idealize your partner when you first meet them--that's the endorphins speaking-- and by the time you find out the truth you're already attached. and when you care about a person deeply, it's hard to see the big picture. for some reason or many reasons the other options just don't look as bright. playful banter is fun. being played with is not. sometimes it's hard to know when the line's been crossed. maybe your relationship is the envy of your friends, maybe your kids really need him, or maybe your parents like him and you don't want to let them down. maybe you want to heal him, to protect him. maybe you feel like he can be reformed with understanding, or that he cherishes you as much as you cherish him, though he doesn't show it. it could simply be economics. maybe you feel like the problems you've had in the past have been your fault. likely, it's not even those things... it just doesn't seem like the reasons to leave him outweigh the benefits of the periods where he treats you right, where he makes you feel SO SO SO SO good. you feel lucky for the good times you do have. if he's controlling, you may even feel lucky that he loves you enough to care so much about what you do. his attention might make you feel special and wonderful and high. BUT LET'S BE PERFECTLY CLEAR HERE: this is ABSOLUTELY NOT a matter of a woman's self-respect. don't misinterpret the evidence. Endless numbers of strong, fiery, self-respecting women are involved in semi-relationships that are not as good as they are. life is complicated. everything's clearer in hindsight.
In the note I am responding to, the 'scientific evidence' that women liked jerks more than nice guys was that when he was a nice guy, he never got laid and when he was a jerk he made it four times in the first week. so, consider this quote-- ';When you're young, your whole life is about the pursuit of fun, then you grow up and learn to be cautious; you could break a bone, or a heart. You look before you leap and sometimes you don't leap at all because there's not always someone there to catch you. And in life, there is no safety net. When did it stop being fun and start being scary?';
i'll admit. i am a mild to moderate sufferer of this condition. i feel like it sort of crept up on me. and what do you do once you're terrified? you can't just wait for someone to come and sweep you away, for someone to make you vulnerable, because if you're reserved and guarded even the greatest, most understanding, most patient guy in the entire world won't be able to reach you. it's counterintuitive, but the greater the possibility for loss, the easier it is for someone who's terrified to make herself not care, to forge a comfortable seperation between her intellect and the thrill she feels. you can tell yourself to have fun, to let go, to have faith, to live in the moment. but it's not a matter of confidence, or even of general optimism. it's just, the fact is, there's a very real possibility that when you form an attachment with someone you will eventually be hurt by them (in small or even very very big, irreversable ways). But a fling with a jerk is practically risk-free. He can be fun, can be entertaining, and it doesn't involve any kind of attachment. with a jerk, you know what you're in for.
Nice guys: DON'T DESPAIR over a few lost one-night stands (yeah, we all know they're fun and all, but... here's some advice: get confident, get bold, feel as hot as you are, and make your damn move. You don't need to be scummy to get your share of hook-ups.) And in the long-run, please know that you won't finish last. When women become ready to take the risk of REALLY falling, of closing their eyes before they leap into something TRULY TRULY special, they have their eyes on you. Not because you're safe, because falling is always dangerous, but because you're absolutely wonderful. Some people have the misperception that what a woman says she wants and what she wants are actually different things. FALSE. I guess I can only speak for myself, but I think you'd be hardpressed to find many women who completely disagree-- for anything beyond playtime, we want something wonderful. We want to be treated right. we want you.
i think you meant, ';will';.
yeah man, i know how you feel. i'm the girl version of that. like, all the guys assume we're friends right away, and that i'm their gateway into a woman's mind. kinda frustrating.
i have no advice, i just have sympathy.
im into the nice guys. open doors, be a sweet guy...show them you are intrrsted like dont wait a week to try and kiss a girl....do suttle things that al least keep her mind going...open the doors, tell her you had a great time...
i have this niice guy friend who i had a crush on...he is nice but he doesnt call me he tells me to call him, he does things like put his head on my shoulder when we are hugging in the car...he does things that make me think ';maybe hes into me'; but i dont know for sure...so im not gonna make a move, i wont make a move he has to make the move...
shiv-el-re...VERY important, keep it alive
you looking for a girl friend? not asking if you want one.
Boyfriend problem? Need advice from guys and girl?
My boyfriend and i have been together for 2 weeks and 4 days hah. i know that's not long, but we only talked in person twice. i really want us to talk more, cuz he's super nice and stuff, and he always says really nice stuff, but im not sure what to do. Is it bad that we dont talk? Like i said its only been about 2 or 3 weeks so it's not like its a really close relationship? He can be shy, and so can i. he talks to other girl more than me tho. is this bad? and how can i fix it i need ideas on what to say or do cuz im shy and we're supposed to hang out tomrrow but i have no idea what to say???Boyfriend problem? Need advice from guys and girl?
I think he feels shy around you too. You guys should definitely talk more or else this relationship wouldn't work, I am predicting both of you are still in high school. When you hang out tomorrow, just try to keep things cool and be yourself. You don't want someone to love you for who you aren't. Make him laugh and keep the conversation going, and ask about him and what he likes to do. In the end, just give him a peck on the cheek and wish him goodbye.Boyfriend problem? Need advice from guys and girl?
I don't know why this person is your boyfriend if you've only talked in person twice. Maybe you should just try dating for a while before moving into a commited relationship. The only think I can tell you is to be yourself, trust your instincts, and watch his actions because they will speak louder than his words. If a relationship doesn't work, then it just doesn't work and there will be others. Good luck!
Just let him hit it. That will break the ice dear.
yeahh u can hang out and u both dont be posseseive about each other.no its not bad that he talks with other girls and all.
umm, calling someone your boyfriend is just a title. talking to him face to face doesnt really make him your boyfriend
juss make out the whole time...
Uhm, why would you get together if you rarely talk. Couples who do that rarely stay together. Since he talks to more girls other than you, he might not be that faithful, since you have limited time together. Its kinda risky not to talk to him.
One thing i can suggest to you, coz i was in the same situation, is to say hi first. if he just smiles, make a joke or something.(like if he'll ever talk to you or do you have to keep blabbing) then once he starts to loosen up, engage in friendly conversations about each other's day and stuff. If you still can't talk. Something's wrong.
Dont worry just talk like you talk to any of your other friends.
';What did you do today?';
';What do you like about school?';
';Have you always lived in this area?';
';When you were little, what did you want to be when you grew up?';
';Who is your hero?';
';What's the best thing that happened to you today?';
';What kind of books do you like to read?';
';What are your favorite classes in school?';
';Tell me about your family.';
';Can you cook?';
';Do you like drama?';
';Have you ever done improvisational theater?';
If you could live anywhere in the world, where would you live?
If you could have any job in the world, what would you do?
Of what are you most proud in your life?
Do you play any musical instruments?
What do you hope to be doing 5 years from now?
If you could live your life over again, what would you do differently?
What do you do when you want to celebrate something?
Where's the most interesting place you've ever traveled?
Do you like risks, or do you avoid them?
What major risks have you taken in your life?
What are your weaknesses? How do you deal with them?
What are your favorite books, TV shows, movies and music?
What are the most important aspects of your life?
What's the most embarassing thing you've ever done?
i mean really you can talk about just anything!!!how to apply
I think he feels shy around you too. You guys should definitely talk more or else this relationship wouldn't work, I am predicting both of you are still in high school. When you hang out tomorrow, just try to keep things cool and be yourself. You don't want someone to love you for who you aren't. Make him laugh and keep the conversation going, and ask about him and what he likes to do. In the end, just give him a peck on the cheek and wish him goodbye.Boyfriend problem? Need advice from guys and girl?
I don't know why this person is your boyfriend if you've only talked in person twice. Maybe you should just try dating for a while before moving into a commited relationship. The only think I can tell you is to be yourself, trust your instincts, and watch his actions because they will speak louder than his words. If a relationship doesn't work, then it just doesn't work and there will be others. Good luck!
Just let him hit it. That will break the ice dear.
yeahh u can hang out and u both dont be posseseive about each other.no its not bad that he talks with other girls and all.
umm, calling someone your boyfriend is just a title. talking to him face to face doesnt really make him your boyfriend
juss make out the whole time...
Uhm, why would you get together if you rarely talk. Couples who do that rarely stay together. Since he talks to more girls other than you, he might not be that faithful, since you have limited time together. Its kinda risky not to talk to him.
One thing i can suggest to you, coz i was in the same situation, is to say hi first. if he just smiles, make a joke or something.(like if he'll ever talk to you or do you have to keep blabbing) then once he starts to loosen up, engage in friendly conversations about each other's day and stuff. If you still can't talk. Something's wrong.
Dont worry just talk like you talk to any of your other friends.
';What did you do today?';
';What do you like about school?';
';Have you always lived in this area?';
';When you were little, what did you want to be when you grew up?';
';Who is your hero?';
';What's the best thing that happened to you today?';
';What kind of books do you like to read?';
';What are your favorite classes in school?';
';Tell me about your family.';
';Can you cook?';
';Do you like drama?';
';Have you ever done improvisational theater?';
If you could live anywhere in the world, where would you live?
If you could have any job in the world, what would you do?
Of what are you most proud in your life?
Do you play any musical instruments?
What do you hope to be doing 5 years from now?
If you could live your life over again, what would you do differently?
What do you do when you want to celebrate something?
Where's the most interesting place you've ever traveled?
Do you like risks, or do you avoid them?
What major risks have you taken in your life?
What are your weaknesses? How do you deal with them?
What are your favorite books, TV shows, movies and music?
What are the most important aspects of your life?
What's the most embarassing thing you've ever done?
i mean really you can talk about just anything!!!
I need some advice from guys, who will understand what all this means?
i like this guy who lives in my neighborhood. He's always sending me messages on myspace asking me to sneek over so we can do the dirty deed as he puts it.
all his friends tell me we should go out, and now my friends are starting to say the same.
i asked him if he likes me and he said ';yeah a little.'; but i dont know if he's saying just a little not to hurt my feelings [i dont think he knows i like him yet] or if he only does just like me a little, or if he lying about that and he really likes me alot.
please help me!I need some advice from guys, who will understand what all this means?
He said ';yeah, a little'; because he wants to know if you like him too. If you say no, then it won't make him feel like as much of a jackass. If his friends say that you should go out, that's a clear indication that he's already told his friends that he wants you. Just go for it.I need some advice from guys, who will understand what all this means?
Depends on what you mean by ';go out';. If its just hanging out on fun dates, then fine. But you should seriously consider whether you really want to get all tangled up emotionally or physically with a guy who only likes you 'a little'. After he gets what he wants from you he will be gone like a fart in the wind.
all his friends tell me we should go out, and now my friends are starting to say the same.
i asked him if he likes me and he said ';yeah a little.'; but i dont know if he's saying just a little not to hurt my feelings [i dont think he knows i like him yet] or if he only does just like me a little, or if he lying about that and he really likes me alot.
please help me!I need some advice from guys, who will understand what all this means?
He said ';yeah, a little'; because he wants to know if you like him too. If you say no, then it won't make him feel like as much of a jackass. If his friends say that you should go out, that's a clear indication that he's already told his friends that he wants you. Just go for it.I need some advice from guys, who will understand what all this means?
Depends on what you mean by ';go out';. If its just hanging out on fun dates, then fine. But you should seriously consider whether you really want to get all tangled up emotionally or physically with a guy who only likes you 'a little'. After he gets what he wants from you he will be gone like a fart in the wind.
I need your advice on guys (:?
This guy and I have been liking each other, on and off. Its really annoying, he always has mixed feelings about. and i say i dont like him. but to be honest, i have mixed feelings about him too, cuz i actually get jealous when other girls talk to him..
We are really good friends actually.. we talk on the phone most nights.. he told me his dreams with me in it.. kind of awkward since there were like love-y dove-y things.. but yeah..
and tips?
ohhh and just to add:
the dreams. after that he asked me if I believed that dreams woudl come true.. if we would actually kiss etc etc.. i was like.. ';uhh..umm'; and then he asked if I ever thought about kissing him LOL. WEIRD!!
but i think he was in a good mood then..I need your advice on guys (:?
K so its obvious this guy likes you. and you like him.
in my experience i have been great friends with all the girls i have gone on to date. however ive come to learn nothing lasts - at all.
the great friendships gone, spoiled by a relationship that went sour... and every time coming out of the relationship we try to stay best friends but it cant work... and so i wish i never went out with any of them and just stayed best friends, - it seems you get along well with this guy, and its always cool to have a best friend of the opposite sex.
so to sum it up.
you need to decide if you wanna be just friends or take it further, but by doing so potentially ruin the chance of having him in your life for ever - as a best friend...
relationships at a young age are always a gamble, your goin to gain some really great things... but you going to potentially feel some very real pain, in the end its all experience and the more you have the better chance you will find your mr right.
(maybe abit off subject) lol XDI need your advice on guys (:?
The worst thing that you can do is show your jealousy to him. Guys have a way of using that to their advantage. Try to figure out how you really feel towards him,first, then talk with him to figure out if he wants to have a relationship with you or would just rather be friends for now. You need to remember that guys are going to have girls as friends at some point, if that issue bothers you then you need to work on that before you get into a relationship.
from that stuff
sounds like he likes you
sounds like something i've experienced and the guy liked me
usually if a guy's putting in the effort to talk to you on the phone all the time he likes you, and the dream thing might be his equivalent of a pick-up line of something!
but you guys are friends so make sure your intentions are clear early on!
Well im a guy ssooo ill give you wat i hav in mind..... this has happened to me before as well and one night i just asked her out and she said yes and we have been together ever since and you and him are best friends and if it stays that way if u ever ask him out he WILL say yes. so wait if u must but give it a shot and ask him out if I wer him I would say yes definately.
Just go along with the ride, if he really likes then then he will ask you out there's nothing to worry about.
Its cute how i guy plays these games, so just let it be
i think he likes you and i think u guys are realy sweet! you shud probably consider getting together with him after tryin to go out together for lovey dovey stuff to see whether it feels weird? heh
Dont think of anything that happened around u..Just do ur work with sienciraty
u got it
well to be honest w谋th you 谋t looks l谋ke hes waiting for you to make a move and ur wa谋t谋ng for h谋m
so eaither u take the 1st move or u may not get verry far
if u leave it he will prob end up w谋th a nother girl then u have to wa谋t for h谋m to be s谋ngle
then ull end up w谋th a guy and he has to wa谋t 4 u to be s谋ngle
just tell him how u feel 眉
tex message or letter email or face to face ,
u dont wanna be flurting for the next 3 to 5 years
good luck
We are really good friends actually.. we talk on the phone most nights.. he told me his dreams with me in it.. kind of awkward since there were like love-y dove-y things.. but yeah..
and tips?
ohhh and just to add:
the dreams. after that he asked me if I believed that dreams woudl come true.. if we would actually kiss etc etc.. i was like.. ';uhh..umm'; and then he asked if I ever thought about kissing him LOL. WEIRD!!
but i think he was in a good mood then..I need your advice on guys (:?
K so its obvious this guy likes you. and you like him.
in my experience i have been great friends with all the girls i have gone on to date. however ive come to learn nothing lasts - at all.
the great friendships gone, spoiled by a relationship that went sour... and every time coming out of the relationship we try to stay best friends but it cant work... and so i wish i never went out with any of them and just stayed best friends, - it seems you get along well with this guy, and its always cool to have a best friend of the opposite sex.
so to sum it up.
you need to decide if you wanna be just friends or take it further, but by doing so potentially ruin the chance of having him in your life for ever - as a best friend...
relationships at a young age are always a gamble, your goin to gain some really great things... but you going to potentially feel some very real pain, in the end its all experience and the more you have the better chance you will find your mr right.
(maybe abit off subject) lol XDI need your advice on guys (:?
The worst thing that you can do is show your jealousy to him. Guys have a way of using that to their advantage. Try to figure out how you really feel towards him,first, then talk with him to figure out if he wants to have a relationship with you or would just rather be friends for now. You need to remember that guys are going to have girls as friends at some point, if that issue bothers you then you need to work on that before you get into a relationship.
from that stuff
sounds like he likes you
sounds like something i've experienced and the guy liked me
usually if a guy's putting in the effort to talk to you on the phone all the time he likes you, and the dream thing might be his equivalent of a pick-up line of something!
but you guys are friends so make sure your intentions are clear early on!
Well im a guy ssooo ill give you wat i hav in mind..... this has happened to me before as well and one night i just asked her out and she said yes and we have been together ever since and you and him are best friends and if it stays that way if u ever ask him out he WILL say yes. so wait if u must but give it a shot and ask him out if I wer him I would say yes definately.
Just go along with the ride, if he really likes then then he will ask you out there's nothing to worry about.
Its cute how i guy plays these games, so just let it be
i think he likes you and i think u guys are realy sweet! you shud probably consider getting together with him after tryin to go out together for lovey dovey stuff to see whether it feels weird? heh
Dont think of anything that happened around u..Just do ur work with sienciraty
u got it
well to be honest w谋th you 谋t looks l谋ke hes waiting for you to make a move and ur wa谋t谋ng for h谋m
so eaither u take the 1st move or u may not get verry far
if u leave it he will prob end up w谋th a nother girl then u have to wa谋t for h谋m to be s谋ngle
then ull end up w谋th a guy and he has to wa谋t 4 u to be s谋ngle
just tell him how u feel 眉
tex message or letter email or face to face ,
u dont wanna be flurting for the next 3 to 5 years
good luck
ADVICE FROM GUYS AND GIRLS 10 POINTS FOR THE BEST ONE?
am starting to like some guy that hangs around with me in school everyday during lunch. i just finished a relationship and i dont wanna start one yet so fast. i wanna start talking to him without him noticing... so i can get him to like me and then maybe i can go out with him.. lol am texting him right now. right now we are cool friends.. and we are just being stupid texting stupid things but i want him to like me lol tips please what do i do!! lolADVICE FROM GUYS AND GIRLS 10 POINTS FOR THE BEST ONE?
id say ur doing everything right. just keep acting friendly with him, but make sure he doesn't get the idea that u just wanna be friends. u shud act a little flirty so he'll get an idea that hes into u. once u think ur ready just make the next move.
id say ur doing everything right. just keep acting friendly with him, but make sure he doesn't get the idea that u just wanna be friends. u shud act a little flirty so he'll get an idea that hes into u. once u think ur ready just make the next move.
Advice needed.. guys preferred but girls welcome to answer.Please Help!?
Okay so lately I've started noticing on of my closest guy friends in a new way and I just don't know if should make a move or not. I mean sometimes he gives me signals that he likes and then I'll have friends tell me they think he likes me and I just don't know what to do cause I really would hate to loose his friendship because he's such a great guy.We hang out a lot just the two us and just today we went out to eat by ourselves and had a really great conversation and it seems like we click but I'm just scared to move cause it could end up with us not being friends anymore.. I have 2 questions.. okay so should I make a move and my 2nd question is just for guys.. if you had a friend who was girl how much time would be considered normal for them to want to hang out with you just by yourselves.
Advice needed.. guys preferred but girls welcome to answer.Please Help!?
Umm, I'm a guy myself and I really like it when I know a girl likes me. We guys usually prefer to let the girls execute the first move because we tend to lack confidence in ourselves. Hence, you should make a move and ask him out; nothing wrong with the ladies asking out men first for a change! Well, I'd consider a normal hang out time to be around an hour or two. Any longer and I'd assume you're in another distinct relationship. =P. You got him in your hands. Now all you have to do is execute your power. Best of luck!Advice needed.. guys preferred but girls welcome to answer.Please Help!?
It is better if he makes the first move, meanwhile u can hang out with him maybe for an hour or so, too much could be too bad, there is no more magic left, he sees u just as a dumb and ordinary girl, not the princess of his dreams.
Yes! He likes you! Now help him and give him some balls by making a move. Hehe.
Wizard: We don't live in the stone age anymore
Well it sounds to me like he does like you. make a move. you dont have to wait for him to do it. chances are he is a little afraid to make the first move in fear of rejection
Advice needed.. guys preferred but girls welcome to answer.Please Help!?
Umm, I'm a guy myself and I really like it when I know a girl likes me. We guys usually prefer to let the girls execute the first move because we tend to lack confidence in ourselves. Hence, you should make a move and ask him out; nothing wrong with the ladies asking out men first for a change! Well, I'd consider a normal hang out time to be around an hour or two. Any longer and I'd assume you're in another distinct relationship. =P. You got him in your hands. Now all you have to do is execute your power. Best of luck!Advice needed.. guys preferred but girls welcome to answer.Please Help!?
It is better if he makes the first move, meanwhile u can hang out with him maybe for an hour or so, too much could be too bad, there is no more magic left, he sees u just as a dumb and ordinary girl, not the princess of his dreams.
Yes! He likes you! Now help him and give him some balls by making a move. Hehe.
Wizard: We don't live in the stone age anymore
Well it sounds to me like he does like you. make a move. you dont have to wait for him to do it. chances are he is a little afraid to make the first move in fear of rejection
Advice On Guys & Relationship Tips Needed ASAP!!?
This guy and I started to like eachother towards the middle of the school year of 07-08...but at the same time I knew he liked this sophomore (oh and he was a senior and I was a junior) but 2 my understanding he never talked 2 her, but I noticed that even though he liked me I had 2 be the one to start everything from the conversations 2 going %26amp; seeing a movie (but we usually saw movies with a group of friends) but he would tell my friends that he just liked me as a friend but observing him when we were with a group of ppl he would always come up 2 me %26amp; he would give me %26amp; only me a hug, my friends took him aside a told him to stop leading me on but he said he was just being friendly...now he is away 4 a few months training 4 the army and will be back in October %26amp; no matter how hard I try I can't get over him %26amp; he says he's going to ask that one girl out, but ppl who know her told me she would turn him down...Now I'm not even sure if he still has feelings for me...so now what do I do?!Advice On Guys %26amp; Relationship Tips Needed ASAP!!?
you will find a guy out there that loves you. It takes two to make a relationship work. If he doesn't see you that way...that's his loss, don't worry about it. There are plenty of guys out there ( TRUST ME)....you will find a guy that you really like and he will like you back even more. %26lt;-- take my word for it. If not, email me in 5 years and i'll meet up with you and you can kick my *** :)Advice On Guys %26amp; Relationship Tips Needed ASAP!!?
ask him out. he will forget about the other girl.
you will find a guy out there that loves you. It takes two to make a relationship work. If he doesn't see you that way...that's his loss, don't worry about it. There are plenty of guys out there ( TRUST ME)....you will find a guy that you really like and he will like you back even more. %26lt;-- take my word for it. If not, email me in 5 years and i'll meet up with you and you can kick my *** :)Advice On Guys %26amp; Relationship Tips Needed ASAP!!?
ask him out. he will forget about the other girl.
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