Any advice from guys/girls?

My boyfriend knows I want to wait with sex till Im married, but yesterday he told me his concerns! He said that ';what if it doesnt fit'; and what if i never want sex etc..... are these normal concerns for men? For me sex is very special and i want to share that with the man I marry, but he sees it otherwise...... any advice?? is it normal for a man to worry about if ';things will fit during sex'; ?? is that a reason to try it out before marriage? to me that doesnt sound like real love.. But then Im a woman and he is a guy, so I understand men maybe see that differently, if you guys loved a girl would you also worry about things like that? or is he not serious? Any honest advice from guys/girls would be great... thanks xAny advice from guys/girls?
I'm a girl and I would have the same concerns. If you are not sexually compatible with your husband, then your marriage is destined to go downhill or be miserable. Sex, without a doubt, plays a HUGE role in any relationship once it's present.Any advice from guys/girls?
Sounds likehe's trying to get his end away despite your wishes. Its unusual for couples to wait until after marriage now, the introduction of the pill in the early sixties saw to that. I think you'll find he either gets frustrated and wanders, or sticks with you. Either way, you'll find out his true feelings if you stick to your guns.
I've never heard a man worry about that to be honest, it sounds like he doesn't want to wait,





of course things will fit, it will hurt, but it'll be fine, and most men know that.





I'd talk to him about it, maybe he doesn't realise just how important this is to you ?





GW x x
He just wants sex from you. He's making it all up. we are all made to accomodate a man's penis. no matter how big or small. So dont fall for that. ask him if he's worried his penis is too small to satisfy you. Cause if not - then you are built like every other woman out there - and your body will be fine. (believe me, big is good, but but every man thinks he's big. and as i said - you're built to accomodate)





There is another question here - maybe you wont want to have sex all the time - thats a risk, but when you love someone, that shouldnt be what your relationship is focused on. so throw that concern out the window. We all have our own libidos.





If he doesnt back off, you're going to do something you regret - like have sex with him before marriage. So tell him once and for all - these are your standards. If he leaves, its for the best. Don't settle for sloppy seconds, go out there and get a first class man. xoxox.
Honestly speaking, Guys don't see things the same ways as gals. As for sex concern. Some guys feel insecure when they are rejected by their gal when it comes to sex. It does make them feel inferior. Guys want to make love to their love ones and not just have sex. If your guy starts not wanting to make love with you then that means he no longer has that kind of strong feel for you anymore. So you should be glad that he's worried about it. But the final decision lies with you as to have sex with him or not.
were born to fit, pherhaps because of the wait it's building a sense of susspenmse and opressure

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