Tuesday, November 22, 2011

I need advice from guys.?

I am dating a guy for almost 2 years. We had sex several times.But he said in one of our conversations on the phone that he just love me as a friend and nothing more than that. Got hurt coz I love him so much and he knew about how I feel. What shoul I do?help. thanks..I need advice from guys.?
Get out from him right now. Don't ever ever talk to him, Period!!!No more second thought please.Without your knowing he uses you as a sex toy. 2 years...2 years...imagine that you've been fooled. Knowing your deeply inlove to him he took advantage of your weakness. ah! can't blame you my dear.Love is blind. This time open your eyes. Console your self and don't think you were a loser. Walk high head. Be optimistic.


Perhaps you're thinking that it is easy to give advice than do. well...you got to get up. This kind of guy is easy to forget. There are still men not looking for virginity wise but they are after sencerity, honesty and true love.I need advice from guys.?
Mighta not really meant it and felt as it woulda questioned his manliness cuz he might be scared youd like him less if he dont seem tough enough for you. [only if he real immature]. or yea just dump him cuz he usin you
The good news is, he was honest with you. The bad news is, he waited two years--two years!?!--to be honest with you.





I know you love him so much, but it's time to love yourself. If this isn't the kind of relationship you want, then move on. It'll be painful, yes, but it won't be as long-lasting as the pain of living in a relationship that doesn't satisfy your emotional needs.
He does not love you. And he is using you for sex.





If you don't want to just be a buddy to him, then drop him and move on.
leave him don't give him the time of day :( sorry but he is using you.
You have been politely dumped. He obviously doesn't think you two are dating any more. Have you ever heard the phrase ';making love but there's no love';?





You need to move on and start looking again. It sounds like he has done just that.
Sit down and talk with him.





It's perfectly able that he only saw you as what they call it... 'friends with benefits' whereas you wanted much more. It's not his fault, and not yours as well, just a case of misunderstanding.
You probably shouldn't have had sex with him in the first place, because what he's doing right now is avoiding commitment and responsibility. His thoughts were probably along the lines of why buy the cow when I can get the milk for free? Well, now he doesn't want anymore ';milk'; and he's trying to jilt you. That's wrong. You can't just sleep with someone, date for two years, and say I just want to be friends. That's wrong. You deserve better. Get over this loser. I've have friends do this kind of thing to girls and the girls get all torn up inside, but the guy doesn't care. He got what he wanted and now he just gives her the boot. It's mean and unfair. Find a man who is more interested in what's in your mind and in your heart than what's in your pants. It may sound a little cheesy, but it's true.

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