Tuesday, November 22, 2011

I need advice bad guys?

ok here is the story. i was dating a girl for 2 yrs the past 6 months it was more like an on an off relationship till i stopped it because she kept changing moods and decisions she decided she wanted to go through a differetn life style, she literaly slept with alot of people guys and girls she was telling me she is tempted to sleep with anyone preety much. as u realize we cut communication completely a month later she gives me a call and tells me that she is pregnant and that the baby is mine what should i do i mean i am so confused.i mean it is true it could be mine but i dont want the baby.i want her to have an abortion this baby is not seed of love anymore she has done way too much to me in the past 6 months i am not sure i f i can marry her and raie this children the way it deserves it. we are both young and not ready for this.but she wants to keep it she says she says she is done with drugs and partying and sleeping arround but she has said that to me in the past. as wellI need advice bad guys?
trollI need advice bad guys?
Ok... breathe. First, support her the best you can and demand a paternity test when the child is born. Any judge will tell you the same because you say that she slept around. This baby could be yours... but it may not. Also, if she treated you this poorly, you do not need to be with her. You need to be civil with her and build a friendship for the benifit of the child. This does not mean that you need to stay with this girl and be unhappy the rest of your life. Now, here is the part you don't want to hear. If you are too young to have children... then you are too young to have sex. Seeing as how you felt you were old enough and strong enough to have sex, this child may be your burden to bare and you must do so if it is yours. Do not let her use pregnancy as a way to trap you into a relationship... but if this child is yours... then give that child all of your love... their blood is your blood.

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