I need advice on guys. the questions are about to totally different guys, i rly lik one n need advice plz?

ohkay


so first ill ask the question about the guy that i don like, cuz the guy that i do, the question is kinda complicated.





ohkay, so over the summer before school started, this guy in my class confessed to me an for awhile i thought i liked him, but it was jus a rebound relationship because i wanted someone that would talk to me and make me feel special again. anyways, he keeps remembering little things that i said in passing from when we met to now, n its kind of creeping me out. so is it true that when a guy likes you he remembers little details? (I do NOT like him anymore an i realized i never really did, i jus want to know what his deal is, cuz he claims he kind of likes someone. also, the guy im with now (who is amazing an i rly like him) mentioned in passin somethin about me being the only one who can cheer this guy up, so i dunno.)


anyways, the question is: IS IT TRUE THAT GUYS PAY ATTENTION TO LITTLE DETAILS AND BRING THEM UP WHEN TALKING TO YOU EVEN IF THEY DON'T ADMIT THAT THEY LIKE YOU?








ohkay, an on a totally different hand is the other guy that i rly rly rly rly rly like. anyways, about a week into school, he told me that he likes me, an we are a couple (the ironic thing is that people always made comments about us making a cute couple before, and now we really are a couple). anyways, one of my really good friend's friend said something one day before our class took a trip to the library for research about how my bf n i should make out in one of the book aisles. well anyways, i told him what she had said because i thought it was kinda random an wanted to see his reaction (metaphorically cuz we were emailing). apparently, he told that to my really good friend who is responsible for convincing him to ask me out an us gettin together, apparently thinking that that was wha i wanted (of course im not sure wha i want, cuz i still hav scars from a cheating ex). then on the day of the trip, there were 2 instances where we were alone, an both time he asked about it. DOES THIS MEAN THAT HE WANTED TO KISS, AND THEN???


then later on the ride back, he asked me wha i wouldve done if that had happened, and i honestly told him that i really did not know. anyways, ever since then (that was friday), things have jus seemed different, like there's an awkward air between us. WHAT DOES THIS MEAN??


an of course, the million dollar question, HOW DO I KNOW IF HE WANTS TO KISS ME? i don't want to scare him off because i know that i am his first gf, an i cant relate cuz he's not my first bf. altho speaking of first bf, whenever i am around him, i completely lose my mind, get the bubbly feeling in my stomach and it seems as if ive never had a bf before. ANY IDEA WHY THIS IS?





thanks so much


an ps, i put the questions in caps so that you can distinguish them from my rambling =)





thank you for your help


%26lt;3 ya


~VI need advice on guys. the questions are about to totally different guys, i rly lik one n need advice plz?
Well, the answer [[ or my opinion ]] to your first question which was...IS IT TRUE THAT GUYS PAY ATTENTION TO LITTLE DETAILS AND BRING THEM UP WHEN TALKING TO YOU EVEN IF THEY DON'T ADMIT THAT THEY LIKE YOU? : well im not a guy, but most guys won't just bring minor details about you up, he's probley shy, and he probley thinks that you're not interested, so he's showing you that he actually listens to what you say... which is what guys think is a mentally major attraction to girls. But if your dating someone else... you should tell him that you are, because that's not right that he is still showing you interest even though you are already in a relationship...





%26amp; to your 2nd question which was...DOES THIS MEAN THAT HE WANTED TO KISS, AND THEN??? : Well, since he's talking to you about it, which probley means he does... but since you said this is his first relationship... you shouldn't rush things, and u definatly don't want him to get nervous, chicken out, and things become majorly akward. But in answer to your question, he probley did want to kiss you, but if you tried to kiss him, he might have gotten nervous. You should probley let him make the first move...





and your 3rd question which was... WHAT DOES THIS MEAN?? : well since he didn't reply to when you said you honestly don't know, he probley thought that if he tried to kiss you... it would ruin you guys relationship... you should tell him that whether you kiss or not, either way you'll still like him ( but that's only if you truely mean it... but if you don't don't say it because you don't want to risk lying on something as important is this ).





And to your 4th question which was... HOW DO I KNOW IF HE WANTS TO KISS ME? : well it's kinda obvious he wanted to kiss you, because he asked you about it, he wants your input, to see if he should make the first move on you. I'm pretty sure he wants to kiss you.





And to you 4th question which was... ANY IDEA WHY THIS IS? : Well you said he isn't your first bf, but with the other guys you have dated... i'm assuming you didn't have this same feeling, so even though he isn't ur first bf, try and go back to when you had your first boyfriend, and how you felt. You just like him alot, and you are attracted to him, which is probley why you have that feeling.





~ i hope this helped :)I need advice on guys. the questions are about to totally different guys, i rly lik one n need advice plz?
ok... long and confusing question...lol.. for the first part im not sure what to answer... but for the second question... im sure that he wanted to kiss... but i dont think he was sure that you wanted to. what i would do istry to get closer to him until one of you finally builds up the confidence to kiss... (you can approach him...) Most guys want to kiss their gf., but are unsure. and for the last question.... congrats...tru love! haha I love that feeling, like you want to be with that perrson for the rest of your life and never want to leave him.. =)


i really hope that i helped you... and remember.....build the confidence, and finally kiss him.. i bet that he wants to do the same.... =)


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You seem way too young to be getting this involved and having 'scars from a cheating ex'! I understand you fall deeply when youre young tho. You should try to spend more time together until you become comfortable enough together to take things any further. Slow down, you have yeeeeeears ahead of you to waste thinking about men - enjoy your childhood!
the first guy:





he likes you and he s trying really hard to let you know without telling you a bunch of times. guys who listen to you and then bring up what you said a while ago are trying to show that they care about what you say and they find you interesting enough that they remembered the convo.





the second guy:





oh my god, just KISS HIM. get rid of the awkwardness by kissing him, cos he obviously wants to kiss you.





good luck. :D
oh gosh that really was long lol but yeah if a guy likes you he listen and remembers every detail





I say kiss him if you want %26amp; feeling bubbly when you like someone for real is normal
if he is dating u he wants to kiss u...no question there. u do not date someone u would never kiss...duh. and i do not get ur first question...guys don't pay attention to anything but what is between there legs...got it.