Decent advice from guys out there please..if any girls understand the minds of men then you can answer too :)?

i find this somewhat amusing and yet hurtful at the same time.


to cut it short; ex and i broke up not that long ago due to the distance.


he now has a gf, i presumed he liked her at the


end of our relationship and he kinda guessed i thought that but


denied it, she did flirt lots and made it obviously she wanted him


but the past is the past so im forgetting it.


he asked me a bit back if i had a bf, i would not answer and you


could tell it bothered him although he wouldnt admit it.


Guys what do you think is going on in his head or if you were him what would be going on in your head?


Im curious thats all, i dont want anything to do with him


especially after the lack of respect he has shown for me!


Dont get me wrong if he had waited a abit longer to get


another gf that would have been find but its not long since


we broke up, plus its that girl too, it could have been anyone


else!!


thanks. xDecent advice from guys out there please..if any girls understand the minds of men then you can answer too :)?
I think it depends how nice he is.


A) He wants to see how you are getting on, and hoping that you weren't really hurt. Perhaps he still wants to be friends.





or





B) He now has something that he can not get, so now he wants you again, and misses you. And he's starting to realise that your a lot better at all the sexual stuff than his new girlfriend.





If it was me in his shoes, then i would probably just be a bit curious. I mean obviously i would have a lot of emotions for you, and would still want to keep in contact. However i would just have to understand that our future would be very doubtful as we hardly see each other.





I hope it helps, just it hasn't happened to me before =/Decent advice from guys out there please..if any girls understand the minds of men then you can answer too :)?
If the past is the past, why do you care that he cares that you won't tell him?





Just because you've split up doesn't mean he's not going to still be interested in you or jealous about you getting another bloke. If your ex is nice then he'll also be happy for you and he'll know he's got no right to be jealous (but that won't stop him secretly feeling it). He may have some regrets about the breakup, even if he knows it was for the best (and breakups normally are - you don't break up otherwise).





Not telling him has probably made him more curious - but he's no right to know.





You could try telling him you've now got a lovely gf - and see how he takes it :-)





Or you could just stop worrying about him and what he thinks - there are plenty of nice single blokes out there.
He probably was either seeing her or liked her come the end of your relationship, some men are bastards like that, and if it was so soon as well, you can bet he never really spared a thought for your feelings.


And he probably does want you back, not in the good way though. He probably was enjoying the fact maybe you'd take ages getting over him, and is jealous in the way that he doesn't want you, but doesn't want anyone else to have you!


I could be wrong hun, but I had a boyfriend a few years back do it, and I've seen it with my mates too.


Hope you find someone worthy! Good luck!!

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