I need some advice please!! Guys your opinions would be appreciated!!?

So my ex boyfriend really messed up while we were together but since we started talking again he is flirting with me, asking me if i want to work with his painting company and is saying that he messed up and he wants to try to not mess up us trying to have a friendship. He wants to hang out even when his friends tell him not to hang out with an ex. We both do actually. I still very much love him but he broke my heart and ditch me for his job. I can't tell if he wants to get back together or if i'm trying to find little things that makes it seem like he does. He says that though he is upset with himself for doing those things he is more upset with the fact that he hurt me. He told me that what needs to be there for us to get back together just isn't there for him anymore but his actions say something else. Should i confront him about how i want to get back together with him or wait to see if he says something? His training for his job end in two weeks so i'm thinking things might changeI need some advice please!! Guys your opinions would be appreciated!!?
from the way you describe it, he sounds sincere and you still care about him, so talk to him, be honest. if you want to wait for his job situation do get a little less stressful wait until then if you think it would make it easier for you two but either way i would say you have to tell him how you feel and be completel open and honest.I need some advice please!! Guys your opinions would be appreciated!!?
how long were you with him?


did he do something un-forgivable?





I'm not going to say that people dont change, because they do. but it takes time for that to happen. it wont be in like a week. atleast 2-6 months..... ATLEAST.





the real question is. how attatched to him are you?
once a cheat...always a cheat, he really may want you back, until the next girl who will give him some comes along, save whats left of your self respect and find some one who will love you and only you, be leave it or not there are guys who don't cheat out there, good luck
It will be a new relationship with the same old problems. Sorry the relationship will fail. Because I know from personal experience that when I get back with an ex it's for two reason's. Easy sex and becasue I'm bored
Don't wait! Just tell him up-front that after the news of his job that you need to talk to him. Then he'll be prepared and so will you.
Don't worry about him and let's you and me hook up.
wow he sounds like me.





He misses you dearly and wants yu back, but wont openly admit it.
it wouldnt hurt to try
i must tell u that ........





';LEAVE BEFORE BEING LEFT'; REMEMBER THIS all ur life and u r always happy with ur dear ones
um...





i am in a very similar situation.





my gf and i broke up recently... but then we were on again off again because we missed eachother too much. but no matter WHAT we tried. we ended up at the sameeeee point as before... that we had problems which couldn't go away.





for us. it was communication.





she wasn't comfortable talking about things.





so it made a wall between us.





im guessing the reason that u broke up is gonna come back and bite u in the butt if u go back with him... or if u hang around with him. ur gonna fall for him more. and then end up being hurt and living a life where he will either take u out again and break up for the same reason OR u will just end up spending ur life wanting him back as u see him flirting with other people......





lt sounds a little harsh... but thats what i think will happen.





sorry. i just think u shuld pick up ur life and move on from him and anything really to do with him.
firs this is ALL about him.


what about you honey? i'm sorry but he is the one who cheated on you and broke your heart!!! %26amp; he is telling YOU what needs to be for yall to be get together! shouldn't YOU be laying the ground rules for getting back together??? i mean after all HE is the one that cheated. and honey once they are a cheater they are always a cheater. he may be trying to get back in your life but that's probably not what's best. my last boy friend not only cheated on me but got another girl PREGNANT! he tried to get back in my life all the time...but you have ot stand up for YOU. who else is going to respect YOU? and you say he is under a lot of stress %26amp; such you shoul'd nt considering his feelings so much. think about YOU!!!


i doubt that really helped. but if he broke your heart once then he will do it again.


how do your friends feel about all of this?

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