ok so i really like this guy. but hes a year older then me and goes to a different school... so idk what to do. i think he knows i like him but idk. HELP!Advice on guys?
If you only THINK he knows he has no idea.
You need to ask yourself a few questions:
1. Do you/ Can you trust him ? (yes is the only acceptable answer, if no then let it go)
2. How much time do both of you have to sustain a relationship ? (must be enough to talk through problems and each others separate issues)
3. Is that time equal ? This time must be close to equal other wise one or the other will soon feel like they are always waiting on the other, and may feel like they are being avoided.
4. Are you looking for the same type of relationship he is ? If you are not looking for the same type of relationship, it will not work. You must be on the same page otherwise, one of you will being expecting too much of the other, and be disappointed by the outcome of the relationship.
5. Do you want to limit yourself, to after school/ work? Do you want to wait all day / night to see your BF, if at all. If he has a job, sports, W/E after school he may not be able to see you at all, any given day.
Then, and only then you can ask him how he feels. NO HINTS ! ! Guys do NOT get hints. Girls flirt too much, when it does not mean anything, to assume when it does. Not saying that you do, but girls in general.
Good Luck ! ! Have Fun ! !Advice on guys?
I would say give him attention. Be his friend, I doubt you'll stay in the friend zone but you gotta let him know who you are. From there you can hint.
Smile is key. Laughter is another. Just have natural reactions, don't force anything on him. If he doesn't like you, don't force him to because what would be the point of dating someone who doesn't like you?
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