Really need advice from guys please answer?

guys: when you tell a girl you want a ';break'; from her what do you really mean? my boyfriend of a year just broke up with me for the 2ND time. he promised the first time he would never do it again but he did. he said he wants a break but were not together anymore. how can he throw a year of relationship down the drain? he 1st time he broke up with me i cried12 times that day. well i havent cried once this time because i should of learned my lesson the first time. the 1st time he broke up with me was in the summer so i had time to heal but the next day he cried for me to come back. well this time i have to see him at school tommorrow and i cant just walk by him like nothing ever happened. we are sooo close. we took eachother ';EVERYTHING'. so guys whats your definition of a ';break'?Really need advice from guys please answer?
Why we take breaks ...





Guys have two lives. One they spend with their girlfriend, and the other is whatever they like to do without their girlfriend. This could be working on a car, any project they have in mind, hanging out with their guy friends. Whatever it is thats apart of their life they need to spend time with too. For example, I work 8 hours a day. That gives me like 6 hours after work to spend time on whatever I have in mind. My personal hobbies is reading and researching. I like to self-teach myself instead of go to college so its like going to school part time. I like to research certain events happening in the world so I need time for that. Some guys like to spend an hour or more playing video games. Some guys work on projects like a car, or carpentry. The project Im working on is kinda strange so I wont mention it. I also like to work on a card game I created. I also like to go out to drink and play pool with the guys. Depending who Im hanging out with, we consider it ';guys night out'; and dont bring our girlfriends. That way we spend time with each other instead of with our girl.





And our relationship time needs to fit into our schedule. If you have been spending too much time with him, that would be the problem. And in fact I read (and I agree) that its good to have breaks like this. Guys need their space to catch up on their guy things. If you're wanting to spend time with us as soon as we get home til we go to bed, we miss out on other things we want to do. But we also like you being close to us of course, and dont want you to think negatively when we call ';time out';, we just want some time to ourselves, to feel free. Then we'll come back to you once we get our dose of whatever it is we wanted or feel that life isnt as fun without you.





And other times to take a break is when the relationship is kind of downhill. So taking a break gives both of us time to realize how much we miss each other. And when we come back, we forget the past and have a brand new start. This kind of break usually happens after a disagreement and you feel like you cant love each other the same as you used to. So a few days off will be a fix.Really need advice from guys please answer?
Well the guy probably just wants to relax and not have to worry about taking care of a woman thats why i would take ';a break';
He needs just a little time. I broke up with my girlfriend and after 2 days we were together again. I think guys mean ';I need just a little time'; He loves you. Don't worry!
for me, a break means to take time and find yourself.. I think he just needs some time to think things over and breathe.. stay up girl