I need advice on guys... is it how i look or my personality?

Ok so i'm 15 and never had a boyfriend... i just feel like im never going to have one! Im very shy but a nice person and my friends say im funny and caring and thats what they like best about me, but is it how i look? Be harsh because thats how ill know for sure, have you got any advice on how make me more appealing?


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http://www.picoodle.com/getcode.php?url=鈥?/a>I need advice on guys... is it how i look or my personality?
its not your looks you are very beautiful the shyness may be a different story just keep trying something will happenI need advice on guys... is it how i look or my personality?
I think you look fine, personally, I don't think your appearance would be a put-off in the slightest. Maybe the guys that like you just haven't confessed yet, or maybe your shyness gets in the way a little bit. I was shy too, before I met my gf. (she had to confront me about liking me) But just be yourself, a guy loves a funny girl, trust me. All you have to do is talk to a guy you like, you can probably get him to fall for you. Good luck. :-)
hey im 15 too!!!lets go out!...jk jk





it is not your looks you are beutiful and its probably just because you need to show guys that you actually like them and then they'll start paying more attention to you. Usually if a girl starts to show that she likes me it makes it easier for me to get to know them more and makes me more attracted so try talking more to guys and flirt with them maybe and see if that works
ok, i don't know much about looks. but i think you should focus on one guy, a guy that you really like, and kind of get to know him and what he likes in a girl, but you know what i really like in a girl, not really how they dress, more how they act and if there cute and fun to hang around with, i also kind of like girls who have calm voices. i hope those helped, but then again its coming from a guy, don't expect so much from me
theres nothing wrong with either, your 15, most people dont have a serious relationship for years after there 15, so stop worrying and looking and someone will come along, you do look appealing but dont expect the person to come along to be worthy of yourself, a 15/16 year old guy may not be mature enough to treat you as you deserve so dont base your self worth on what boys think your better than that x
i think u look fine =\ BUT im a girl so i really cant say if u look good xD


girls dont need to look like the most beautiful person on the world to get a guy, otherwise the guy isnt worth it =\


but if you wanna look good REAL badly, get some highlights in your hair, subtle ones xD


wear a little make up/blush/etc...


that just contributes to how your personality is though


personality is key in a relationship!!





and dont post ur pics on the internet -_- there are creepy perv people out there who can stalk joo O.o
Overcome your shyness. Maybe ask your mom for help on flirting or something (Never the dad, he's clueless) The mom shares a bond with her daughter, it will help you.





You will find a BF soon. Looks, umm you're perfectly fine, only thing you would have to worry about is moles, and acne.
first of all lemme tell you its not your looks, you are really cute =)





maybe you could be more appealing by being a little more outgoing i dunno whats wrong with the guys at your school but what i do know is don't worry about it you will find someone don't sweat it!
you to young 4 boys and you should not be putting your pic's on the net and why would you want the world to tell you that you nice or you ugly!!! just be yourself and if he likes you for you then great it not beauty that counts is your heart and personality too
1. Ignore Anne up there ^^


2. You really look fine. Um I'd say try some warmer colored make up. It's both personality and looks. It's hard, i know, but you need to be more open when you're talking with a guy. Everything will eventually fall into place.
You are fishing Peanut. Your face looks ok, Nothing special but ok. What does the rest of you look like? Are you a midget or are very fat or something that you can't pull the blokes? Are you a non smoker cos they normally have lousy personalities?
i think that youre pretty. :)





Umm. Idk.





iF I WERE YOU I WOULDNT BE DISCOURAGED. I MEAN JUST BECAUSE NO BOY HAS ASKED YOU OUT...OR WHATEVER YOURE LOOKING FOR A BOY TO DO, IT DOESNT MEAN THAT NO ONE LIKES YOU.








THERE MIGHT BE PLENTY OF SHY BOYS WHO LIIK YOU.

















YOU SHOULD JUST START BY MINGLEING A LITTLE BIT.








DONT RUSH ANYTHING








-LALA
NO Its Not How You Look! in all honesty your fine:)





Guys These Days Look For Sex There Like Dogs whi Just Sniff Around Girls And Try Anything For Sex





Im a Male Btw And Im Not Like That :)


sounds like your personality is lovely,





GUYS GO FOR LOOKS , MOST GUYS DO, BUT THE BEST ONES GO FOR PERSONALITY WHICH CAPTRES THE HEART:)
Are you thick!! There is nothing wrong with you girl!!! You god damn pretty and you bet that I am jealous. Maybe be the guys that are around you have no brain (or it's in their pants lol) Don't let it get you down. You will find the right guy, just be happy!! XD x
U look alright, just wear a bit of make-up foundation blush ect. Maybe straighten your hair a bit or make it look nice. Just be yourself if they don't like you for who you are then they are not worth it.
its nt ur looks ur beutiful dnt let ppl intimidate u ur in control u c wat u like go 4 it
Awwwww! Your tooo Cute!





Well its all a waiting game really


you just got to wait for that ';right one';


The guy will come eventually i went through it myself (im a guy)


and now im 17 and im as happiest guy ever
personally you do look pretty and you sound like your a cool girl so i dont see why you cant get a boyfriend


jus start talking to someone you like dont give up
JUST BE YOURSELF and smile and be friendly and lose the shyness





you said to be harsh so dont thumbs down :)
It's both. Good looks and a personality is what always wins a guy over for good.
Your quite hot?


I think you are just too shy, try talking to more people.
hello


u look cute not hot but sexy naughty cute


surprised u havent yet got a guy but ur into long distance relationships im on:))
You look fine, nothing wrong
you dont look ugly. you look good
there's nothing wrong with you. i'll be your boyfriend. LMFAO
You don't need to worry about your looks; you're really pretty.


It might sound like a cliche, but in my experience if you're fairly confident about yourself (without being stuck up) and always happy and smiling this will turn heads. Just trust yourself, and enjoy living your life with your mates, and then somebody will notice you and really fall for you.


You're only fifteen; you have plenty of time!


Times have changed now, and guys are more attracted to someone for their personality, not just how they look. So don't try and change the way you look unless you want to in order to feel better about yourself. Like I said, just keep smiling and be yourself. That way you know a guy will like you for YOU and not for your looks.


Good luck :)
Well I will just say this answer or advice is coming from an adult so I am just wondering if this question was brought to your parents. Anyway I don't know what they would say, but I would tell you for one thing at the age of 15 you shouldn't even be thinking about a deep boy girl relationship. I know your probably thinking this old dude is like square or what does he know. Well first of all like your parents I have been around the corner more than once. Your young now but your turn is coming for the old farm. Anyway. Take your time as far as relationships go. Get well educated and make something of yourself. Take one day at a time and enjoy your Young life. Don't rush into anything. And remember who you may like now will not be the one you like later. As far as your personality and what your friends say about it that's all good and well. You should be happy for that. But that doesn't mean you have to have a serious relationship. Live life to its fullest. Someday you will meet that wonderful person that will make you happy for the rest of your life. But the time is not now.
i personally think you look really pretty, i like how your eyes look in the last photo! you just gota give it time! i never really had a bf at your age but i was patient and found my bf who i have been with for over 2 n half years! who was not in school. i found all the lads in the school where d*icks and needed to grow up really badly! and also, if you think it is ya looks that are putting the lads off (which i higly doubt) then show em your personality you show your friends. once you like sum1s personality, looks always start getting better towards that person, sorry if that didnt makee sence!


good luck x


p.s. dnt eva cover yourself in too much make up to try make yaself prettier, lads like natural glow, bronzer, mascara, maybe eyeliner, that bout it! the odd touch up on spots and blemashes :)
Girl Im going to tell you as if you were my little sister, your beautiful... I know its hard to ignore bad words that people say against you, they are NOT true... You were created for a purpose YOU are worth more than what the world has to offer. You are beautiful, be a young lady of good charactor and the right young man WILL NOT pass you up even if you are shy!


I believe there is someone created for everyone, he will come, try to enjoy your life and make the best of EVERY MOMENT, your life is important, just remember no one knows you like your creator, its never to late to ask Jesus Christ the King for help... YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL, God doesn't create junk :)
It is not your looks, of course. I don't know what your personality is like, but as long as you are nice to people and funny, I don't think that is the problem.





Sometimes guys think they don't have a chance with a pretty girl and they might be scared and not bother.





I know I used to think it might be my looks,when I did not get a girlfriend, but it wasn't it after all, I was just too shy to ask, or too scared that they were too pretty and that they would not want me.





So don't do anything to change your looks, and don't try to be somebody you are not. I always liked it when I found out a certain girl liked me, and that gave me confidence to ask.





So if you have a guy in mind, you might want to see if one of your friends might can hint to him that you like him.
youre cute!...and will one day turn into a beautiful woman considering the shape of your face and cheekbones. At 15 everything seems to be 10x more important than it really is. Relax, be yourself, and just be friends at first. There is no threat in that to you or them. So if you can just understand that you like this guy but you are going to be friends first ...... (the subtle way to find out if he is a jerk or not) and then if you click then ';B-I-N-G-O!'; LOL..its easier than it looks...you just have to dive in and have fun first before you let your emotions wrap you up into knots. Remember that the pretty girls who are shy, calm, and have big smiles and little mouths (meaning watch the language) are the ones who get remembered even if you dont ';click';.