so i have a new bf and everything is going really really amazing. i've met his family, spent the night at his house, met his friends and all that good stuff. he also talks about future events like his bros wedding in aug of 2010 and how he wants me to go with him or his vacation next year that he wants me to be a part of. he also talks about kids and how he'd treat his wife and take good care of her (implying it might be me kind of, he pulled me close and hugged me tight while talking about his future wife, or in his words 'my baby') and things like that, also he even has mentioned living together. i feel like i am quickly falling in love with him.
also last night when we were hanging out talking he said something like 'i love you.. (silence) for that' it was like he accidentally said i love you and tried to downplay it by following it up with 'for that'. this is the second time that 'i love you' has slipped out of his mouth now and both times after he said it he stopped and followed up with something like that. also we have never gotten sexual because i told him i do not get intimate unless im in a committed relationship and he told me there was no rush, and that that's not what he's after. he told me he trusts me too..
he always wants to see me, before work, on my lunch break if possible and after work. he always wants to see me no matter how tired he is. he spends his days off with me, treats me to things all the time and is just so sweet to me.
He stares into my eyes for long periods of time and it gives me the most intense feeling. the look in his eyes makes me just melt. he tells me he thinks about me all day at work or no matter where he is. he said when he's not with me he always misses me for some reason. he calls and texts me throughout the day and he's always on time and does what he says he's going to do.
we've only been an official couple for about a week and were dating for about a month prior to that. but we've known eachother for maybe 7 or 8 months because he was a friend of my ex (that's how we met) and he said he's had his eye on me for a long time but didn't want to say anything cause he thought i still wanted my ex (not the case) and he also said he used to ask my ex all the time for months if he still wanted to be with me because he was interested in me and when my ex told him no we were over he felt that is was ok to pursue me .. so my question is.. is it possible that my new bf is falling in love with me already? i feel like i am falling for him so fast but i'm keeping it under control and he doesn't know that. but i find it hard for me to not say 'i love you' to him when we say goodbye or something. it feels so natural.. everything feels so natural and comfortable with him.
i've never met a guy like him, everything feels so right. i know there is no such thing as perfect or a perfect relationship, but he's perfect for me. at least thats how i feel :) i even adore his flaws so far..
so what do ya'll think?
could he be in love?
guys answers especially appreciated :)
thank yoooouuuuReally need advice from guys (or anyone).. what do u think of this? (sry for the long question)?
sounds like a creeper. Beware the stage 5 clinger. One month of dating doesn't mean anything.Really need advice from guys (or anyone).. what do u think of this? (sry for the long question)?
Wow thats really long try shortening it at least a little ...help me please? http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Aps5K4H0TUz5MG0k77nvMkfsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20090913152828AAklO7a
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