Monday, August 23, 2010

Boyfriend, sex. advice from guys?

my boyfriend and i have sex a minimum of two times a day. it's usually more like 3 or 4. occasionally my body just can't handle any more, i start to get sore, so occasionally i turn him down. he pouts and sulks and gets a little cranky. he won't hold me when we sleep and ignores me for a couple of hours in the morning. he says he feels hurt when he's rejected, which is how i imagine i would feel if i initiated sex and he turned it down. i try to be accomodating and keep him satisfied, why can't he understand that my body needs a break occasionally? will a man with this high of a sex drive stay happy with one woman for long? we've been together a year and the relationship is strong. we are in our twenties and our friends say we act like teenagers and we're too puke inducing in our cuteness level. i love sex too, it's not a matter of different sex drives. long story sorry. my question is should i just give it to him when he wants it, or should i just know that he'll be over it in a couple of hours and things will be fine? will a man stray from his girlfriend who OCCASIONALLY turns him down?Boyfriend, sex. advice from guys?
You need to explain to him why you are declining sex at a particular time and it's not rejection, it's postponement. If he's going to pout and sulk like a child, then perhaps you should consider a relationship with a mature man that understand that a couple will not always desire to have sex at the same time, for whatever reason.





Your fellow is terribly selfish if he'd rather you screw him even when you are sore and wouldn't likely enjoy it much, to satisfy his desire rather than wait until you aren't sore so you can both have fun...





...of course you've also got hands, mouth, breasts, and other areas of 'friction' to satisfy him if your vagina isn't up to the task at any given time but bottom line is the mood isn't always there and he needs to grow up and accept that, and not act like a spoiled toddler because he doesn't get what he wants, when he wants it.Boyfriend, sex. advice from guys?
If you are getting tired of it then tell him to be a pornstar for crying out loud. Then he can get a feel of what you have when he gets HIV or AIDS.
I think hes being selfish, if you haven't tried explaining to him how you feel then you should


and if he still feels the same way I would say leave him and let him grow up some and try again later
omg hes sex addict.. he needs help. nd you need to dump that @ssh ole.. tell im ur not a sex machine and ur not even suppose tobe living with a guy unless ur married..dont make it all easy for him.. he will take you for granted.. good luck...x
Yes, I think he is quite selfish too...He has nothing else to do? If he were out alone, you would have rest.





Good luck!
he's a sex addict and needs some help.


And it's your right to say NO!
Very interesting question.In all relationships have good communication and good understanding and comprehension each other is the key.


About sex in this case,you need to talk to him and explain and have an agreement about where, when, and how many times together can have a really good sex time.It is not about to satisfy him,it is about to get satisfaction together (both).Sex in a relationships never is about to satisfy him or her,is about to both feel happy indeed.Many couples around the world end their relationships because one in the couple is being selfish.Good luck.Talk with him,if he does not change his behaviour,then you need to think seriously about what future you will have in this relationship.
He's being unreasonable. I went through the same thing when I first got with my wife then gf. We're still young but at first we would sometimes we'd sex 4-6 times a day in our early 20s, but of course her body just couldn't handle all of that all the time. This isn't something that you need to compromise on. If your body can't handle that then it just can't. Perhaps he'll stray but that's because he's a selfish jerk. If he's acting like this over something so minor, it would make me think how he'd react when you face real adversity.

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