Monday, August 23, 2010

Totally confused. advice please guys and girls. what should i do? what does he mean? 10 points for best answer?

Ok...this story is like super long, and it goes back to a year ago....there's this guy that i like, we're friends, and he knows that i like him since a year ago.





We met 4 yrs ago, he was a 2nd yearr university student, and i was a freshman. same hostel, same faculty, my direct senior....was a nice guy, and we were just friends, although i had feelings for him, until last year.





What happened then was that we went clubbing together (first and only time)....and he got touchy and stuff....ended up cuddling and all.... later on, i realised that he actually knew that i have feelings for him....and asked him about how he feels....his reply then was that we should wait for me to finish my studies first, then talk about it (i was in my final semester for university)





after i graduated, i asked him about it again, and told him that if he didn't like me he should just tell me straight, and not come up with excuses so he'll not feel bad about rejecting me....his reply then was that he still has somebody he could not forget, and it's kinda hard for him to move one....what does this mean? is he interested in me and just really having commitment issues or what?





in the past year, we seldom contact, like only occasionally on msn(in the year though, i ended up in a firm he used to work, so my colleagues there all knows him). also heard from my colleague that he mentioned about me before when he was still working there, and i have yet to enter the firm.





recently, we were talking on msn again, and he suggested we meet up again...





what should i read out of that...i mean i still have feelings for him...is he interested in me?....Totally confused. advice please guys and girls. what should i do? what does he mean? 10 points for best answer?
yeah but he is a guy and don't know to express them self yet . give him time he will come a round soon don't rush him at all but keep being u at all times.Totally confused. advice please guys and girls. what should i do? what does he mean? 10 points for best answer?
probably and probably he really has someone else like he said. you should just meet him and ask him then and there, if he doesnt give an answer again then i guess move on.
Go and meet him... I think he tries to move on and starts something with you...
It sounds like he's hitting you up for a booty call, he knows you are attracted to him. If he were really into you, there would have been a lot more contact, even if it just was casual contact. Now the question is, would you be happy to just be his booty call?

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