I need advice on guys...??

ok, if you would help, that would be really awesome! : )


there's this guy that i've liked for a while, a big crush and all...


well, my friend might be having a party at the end of the year, for summer and stuff, and i was thinking about making a move.


but i'm not sure how...i want to tell him that i like him, and i kind of just want to kiss him, like when he's not expecting it...


i'm not trying to sound desperate or anything, but i was just thinking about it.


what would you do?


what would you say?


where's the best place to do that?


thanks for your help!! ~鈾?: ) **I need advice on guys...??
No babygirl. Life does not work like the movies. While that's a nice gesture, that's not quite the way to go about it. That's a good way to possibly get hurt and/or embarrased. Cruise don't speed. First just get his phone number, get to know a little about him, and find out if he's even worth your time, find out if he's got a girlfriend, find out what he likes to do and where he likes to go.





Remember, everything that looks good isn't good. Make sure you like him, and don't just like him because he looks good. If he's a loser, or you feel like he's not a good person, just forget about him, remember you can't change anyone.





The party is a nice gesture, invite him and just hang around him and see how he reacts around the other girls. Then after the party, just let him know that you enjoy his company, and let him know that you like him alot. Don't kiss him, not on the first date, I really don't think you know him well enough, that would show him how desperate and vulnerable you are, and it would open up a door for him to use you. Don't let him use you. I have reason to believe the he's older than you, so be careful, boys are slick. They will do and say anything to get what they want. Get to know him before you kiss him, first impression is a lasting one, that could make you seem easy, boys don't like easy girls. They'll lead you to believe they do, but they don't. Don't be weak. I'm serious don't kiss him one the first date and don't let him kiss you. If you wait it out, you'll figure out if he really likes you, and if it's for the right reason. If a boy wants to spend time with you without getting any action, then he really likes you. But if every moment you spend together must be physical or not at all then he's using you, so keep that in mind. Movies are movies, unfortunatly real life hardly goes anything like the movies. So that whole kissing him without him expecting it, it's unreal and too dramatic. Remember cruise and don't speed. Don't rush anything. Don't let your hormones or his get the best of you. You've got a brain, use it. Good Luck!!!

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