Monday, August 23, 2010

I need advice from guys! Help...?

Okay so i just stood up to my boyfriend and told him how i felt about why we were on a break if we've been together for almost three years..it just didn't make sense to me. And he replied that he can't give his all to me and he doesn't know if that will change. I told him i couldnt do it anymore and i shouldnt have to be the girl thats just sticking by him not knowing whats gonna happen with us. Did i do the right thing? I just dont know what to do now cause i really do love him but i dont wanna hurt anymore.I need advice from guys! Help...?
Sounds like you did the right thing. Seems to me that what he is communicating and trying to do in a nice way is say he does not see himself marrying you or loving you with all his heart. So he feels it's best to part ways, he may not know what he wants.I need advice from guys! Help...?
If you love each other then you CAN work things out. Anything can be worked out by talking it over with each other. It's called communication and it's the key in every good relationship however, he seems to have the two year doldrums which a lull in your relationship. It happens a lot. It's when one or both feel that there is nothing left in the relationship. 9 out of 10 times that's just not true. Communicating will bring you into the light and a little give and take here and there can save your relationship. Every relationship is a 50/50 deal. Neither of the couple need have to do anything by themselves. You both must share the good and bad. If he can't give his all then there is something else he's not telling you. That's an easy line to give when you don't want the truth out.





Yes, I think you did the right thing.





Hope this helps.
i think so...it hurts now, but it just takes time. if he really cares about you as much as you do about him, he'll come crawling back to you.


just wait it out for a bit and if nothing happens, you know what to do.





good luck.
You did the right thing. That long of relationship should be leading to an engagement, not someone saying they can't give it their all. That's too bad.
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