Guys and girls advice major advice? part 2 please help me?

Hello everyone i am very depressed i need lots of advise so please answer....


well i have this cush on this girl a mjor crush since the 7 grade she knows i like her.. im now in the 10 grade and i still like her during the summer she got a bf and now she going out she knows the i like her but she always quite when her friends knows the i like her i always said hi whats up good luck on your game in the hallways she just give a friendly smile what should i do.. my friend knows the i like her but they telling me to move on i know she is the special someone i know she is but for some reason she picks te other guy i need help someone help me...









































She is nice i am also nice she change my life completely in some way... i when to 3 of her soccers game when i realize the she wasn't kidding around the she had a bf my friend toll me i was wow.i seriously like her but is so hard now that she goes out with a senior.. im buff attrative and a really nice person i probably dress preppy but it doesn't mean nothing she dress like a girl not like preppy or nothing but like sport person sometimes...Guys and girls advice major advice? part 2 please help me?
Well im a girl and my advice is u need to find some1 else to like..........................Cause she prolly thinks of u as a nice person,freindly,ect..................But nothing more.................................. :)Guys and girls advice major advice? part 2 please help me?
heres what you can do, if your nice then become un-nice , when you walk around her ignore her, pretend your in a hurry to get somewhere or busy to do something, just say hi on rare occasions. its sort of like reverse phsycology. then what will happend is, if she is somewhat close to you, she will start wondering why is this guy not talking to me as much like he used to. then she will try and spot you in different locations. and what to know whats up. its kind of like a game so play it, and it might not take a week or 2 but keep doing that you'll see the results.


i've learned in life when i was in high school ,that girls dont like nice guys, they go for the guys who are assholes or dont treat girls nicely. i was shy and very nice also and that didnt get me anywhere. but when i saw the cocky guys who pretended to have everything or knew everything they had the girls.





and this girl, in your perspective she looks like a nice sweet girl who will make you feel whole if your around her. but in reality she isnt i had alot of crushes on girls when i was in highschool. and saw them as nice sweet, etc.. but in reality they arent they can screw your life in under 3 seconds if needed. their evil.





but take my advice , play the game with her or other girls, pretend u dont need them and u'll see, and when a guy is too nice to a girl, they will be concidered as friends only and it wont go anywhere. niceness should come after a while of dating and not in the beginning. im not saying become a complete jerk but dont be too nice and pretend ur occupied and ignore her every now and then and you'll see.





hope i helped.


(i've been there so im talking from experience)
your life ****** up dude good luck
Why don't you actually TRY and make a move. It's that simple, although she DOES have a boyfriend, make your move NOW or after she breaks up with him. Its your chance buddy.





Leave it alone or make a move.
Are you 2 close friends?


If you are, maybe she really jsut wants to stick as friends and hasnt specifically said no becuase she doesnt want to hurt you.





Otherwise, maybe you should jsut start hanging out as friends and see how she feels towards you. Im sure those bfs she got now wont last...so i woudlnt be too worried.





Or you could jsut move on? How bout strutting around with a new girl....which could also make her jealous?
i think shes just trying to be your friend which is good because atleast you guys can be friends if nothing else. but hey maybe if you start to get to know her a little better as a friend then she'll see how nice you are and maybe it will move into a relationship, but first just try to be friends with her and see where it goes. good luck
The hard thing about crushes is that they are just that, crushes. Sometimes you may not get the one you are secretly loving, but it's no reason why you cannot move on. She may like you, but obviously not in the same way that you liked her and she found someone she clicked with. Don't take it as rejection, just as a matter of bad timing for you. Take your friend's advice and move on, continue to speak and be friendly towards her, but make the effort to find someone else who can take an interest in. In time you will get over her and who knows in the future, you all could meet back up at your 10 year reunion and the timing could be right for sparks to fly...until then enjoy your life now and don't get hung up on a dream.
sorry to say this but she is just being a ';friend'; move on your young there are million hot other fish in the sea