i like this guy and idk if he likes me but instead of telling him i want to show him by kissing him....problem: ive never made out with someone, what if im not good and i scare him away?Guys and girls ADVICE PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!…
If you don't know whether he likes you or not, kissing him might not be the best plan of action. If he likes you, let him make the first move.Guys and girls ADVICE PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!…
It would be better if you waited until you got acquainted first. The kissing comes a little later. You may scare him off if you act too anxious. Also, if he thinks you are too anxious; he may think you are very anxious to do other things. You should wait a long time to do the other things. You need to talk to your mother about this subject.
You don't want things to go too fast.
Talk to your mother or sister or an aunt.
If you're not even sure if he likes you, I wouldn't advice you to go for the kill and try to kiss him, because on the off chance that he doesn't like you like that, it could be really embarrasing for you if he shoots you down. I think you should try to feel him out a little more. Look for signs that may suggest that he's into you too, like body language, the way he speaks to you, eye contact, etc. If you see those signs, then maybe it would be alright to try to kiss him. If not and he's not into you, he'll either do one of two things: He'll simply shoot you down on the spot or he will just go along with it because he might think of you as an easy target. Niether, are what you want if you truly like this guy right? So just slow it down until you know for sure=]
How do you like him? Do you want to just have sex with him? Then go ahead just don't make it to wet and hard, just wet your lips a little and kiss softly and it would probably help to take off your top and put your hand on his crotch! But, if you want to get to know him first maybe you should hold off on the kiss until you actually go out on a date and get to know each other better first to make sure the feeling is mutual! The kiss is a good way to give him the wrong idea and he will think sex or want to run! This is not the movies so if you are really interested in your own self respect then take it slow. Hope this helps.
Umm... to me your getting waay into his personal bubble if you know what Imean. You should instead ask him out first, then just kissing him. The best way for you to get into a relationship is to ask out the guy and say: ';I like you, and I was wonderin if we could go out sometime?!?!?!'; Just kissing a dude on the lips won't be the best thing to do because your pushing things waaaay to quickly. If your too scared to tell him then you should send him a text or an email.
Well if he likes you then you shouldn't worry if you are going to scare him when you kiss him. Just do it if not he might think that you do not like him, then he might find someone else. The first kiss might be exciting but it shouldn't scare you or him. If you think its too early to kiss him then get to know him a little better and that he knows you too. Ask him out and try to play it cool. Be yourself. Good luck :)
Well make shoure its in a private place.
Give him a pop kiss. Like a quick peck on the lips and pull away see how he reacts, if he pulls away stop if he stays in the smae place move in a little closer looking at his lips then his eyes. if he still dosent pull away then move in till youre barly touching his lips and say i love you and see what he does.
Dont be afraid of kissing. I use to be afraid too but it just came. if you start to make out just follow his mouvement and pace.
Just go for it girl.
you dont have to lower yourself sexually to show someone you like them! sure its just a kiss but if someone just came up to me and gave me a peck im sorry to say but they'd be on the ground! DON'T DO THAT! if you feel he has to know just tell him!! and if he doesnt like you move on!!!! i know that sounds harsh but its true! your tood good to waste your time. which is what it seems like your doing if you have to kiss someone to get them to notice you.
well you dont have to give him like a french kiss or nothing.. give him a kiss on his cheek.. if he dont feel the same way about you, a kiss in the cheek wont be so akward.. he wont tell his friends something like ';man that chick put her tounge in my mouth and she's nuts man!';
a simple kiss on the cheek wont leave anything for him to call you crazy about.. plus if he feels the same way about you, he'll kiss you back and not on your cheek :)
so, kiss on the cheek, then look at him and smile and wait for his reaction.. if he kisses you back, just imitate what he is doin to you and you'll be okay..
GOOD LUCK GIRL!!!! :D I HOPE HE LIKES YOU BACK!
okay...
here are the rules of the kiss...
1. dudes don't complain...just do it!
2. 5 seconds is long enough
3. no frenching if u don't really know him that well(HPV is on the rise)
4. be gentle (don't rush forward so fast that u knock the guy to the ground)
5.make sure your lips are well moisturized( nothing ruins a first kiss like dry, crusty and chapped lips)
just go for it and don't be all nervous about it
just do it!!! you don't have to make out with him, just a sweet first kiss kind of thing. life is short, you can't waste time dwelling on what could be. if you want him, go out and get him. if you scare him away he obviously doesn't like you so it doesn't matter anyways!!!
don't kiss him, because he might not want to be kissed and especially not if he has never talked to you before or he doesn't like you or hes not your bf. you might scare him away
try a different approach, like building up on the friendship before you decide to tell him that you like him
If you do that, you're setting a social dynamic for him to see you as a sexual object rather than someone to be in a relationship with him. Humans evolved language for a reason, use it and ask him out. The making-out part will come on it's own. As long as you don't literally bite his face, he won't be scared off.
okay dont worrie about it. if you know what you want go for it. making out comes natural! my first time i had no clue what i was doing but 5 seconds later i was doing what i thought couldnt be done! it only what you make it. if you arnt sure if youll be good you might not, btu if you have convidence you can do it!
best of luck (:
I think you really shouldn't go up to him and kiss him. Try to find out if he likes you in that way even in the slightest bit. After that just go for it! It doesn't matter if you're good or not. I mean if he gets turned off because you can't kiss that well then he's a jerk.
Aww poor hun. I felt the same way with my first kiss/making out.
It'll all come naturally. Don't worry about it and it will all fall in to place.
And if it is bad, it'll get better. But if he makes a scene and a big deal about it, you have an excuse. How can you be a good kisser if you've never kissed before? Hellooooo?
Good luck.
If you want to show the guy you like him by kissing him don't make out with him just give him a kiss on the cheek or a peck on the lips. Making out with him would scare him especially if he doesn't like you.
Don't give out the goods for free. Get to know the guy and have some dignity. Kissing comes later when there is chemistry between two people. Ever heard someone branded a slut?? It is usually for unlady like behavior like this. Call me old fashion, I call it dignity and self respect.
ummm I wouldn't do that if I were you.I would find out first if he sort of likes me or even just a little bit.But honestly I wouldnt start by kissing cause it just makes you look a little too pushy.If you really want to show him tell him or write a note.
I think it is impossible to be a bad kisser. It just comes naturally. Plus if you kiss him and surprise I think he is just going to be happy you kissed him, not worried about if it was really good or not. Good Luck! These situations always make me so nervous
So you should know if he likes you. There would be signs. Try asking him whether he likes you or not. If you are in high school, and you just make out with this guy, everybody will be talking about it, especially if he did not like you.
Ask him to cut his hand with a knife and capture his blood in a vial. Then take his blood to a Wicca priestess and she will place the enthrallment spell on him. If he betrays you then he will get a venereal disease and die a terrible death.
lol you have to get practice some where. I'm pretty sure this dude isn't your future husband so I'm sure he won't mind if you practice on him. Anyway if he is so much more experienced than you maybe you should even be kissing that boy anyway.
well it would scare him away if you just random just kiss him just talk to him for a while and be friends first and see what goes from there can any1 answer my question http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AnnBHcCobrXFWK.AWkrTdSjsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20090315200107AA85rAw
i knew a girl that was planning on doing the same thing and the guy found out and avoided her for like a month, it creeped him out!
i say dont do it, get to know him and hang out with him first
First of all, tell him you've never made out with anyone before, and tell him that you want his help. Therefore, you won't scare him away, and you'll have your moment. :)
If you are confident in yourself, then you should do good. The only way to know if your good or not is to go for it.
Guys like confident girls.
Go for it girl!
:))
I wouldn't do that if I where you cause that is a lil wired, and I would like totaly fraked out if someone did that to me, and then I would definantly not talk to that person.
just do it
Just start with a kiss. Don't go straight to making out. Then if they wanna make out, it really won't matter because you will know what to do. Just don't go crazy with the tongue.
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