Need Advice from Guys!?

Alright.. So, I'm having a problem. Guys just don't seem to notice me, that, or they're afraid of me. Its not that I'm threatening or anything, Its just common knowledge I tell it like it is, and I don't sugar coat things...


I do sports (field hockey) And I have guy friends. But they don't seem to notice I'm a girl..


Does it have something to do with how I dress? I've always been overly concious about my weight, and my chest size, so I've taken to hiding in baggy sweatshirts. I feel to unbalanced. I have a rather.. Prominent chest to say the least. (40DD) But I get embarrassed about my body easily, hence why I'm in rather large sweatshirts.. And I would say I'm more towards the 'punk' Look. No, no visible piercings besides ears, not gaged, or tattoos.





Any advice, or things I could do, would be much appreciated.Need Advice from Guys!?
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I'm 6';1' 215 pounds, and I feel that I'm out of place. I'm also very conscience about the way people look at me. It's hard to look passed your self precieved downfalls, but you must.


I've never dated, so this is as far as I can go. Good luck!
Well personally I have dated girly girls and also dated tom boys. I must say that every guy is different but I would much rather be with a girly girl. Personally I'm looking for a partner that is a woman, that I can treat like a woman. I am a guy and I'm looking for someone to compliment me as a woman, not be another one of the guys.





So my advice, if you want to get with a guy try to act more like a woman once in a while. You don't have to be a Barbie doll all the time or change who you are, but just show a little more of your feminine side. Also, guys like big boobs so I don't know why you are uncomfortable about your chest!
look don't try to hide yourself in anything. Most guys especially those that know a girl as a friend don't want to take the next step in a relationship because 'if it doesn't work out your friendship will most likely never be the same.
dress like a girl once in awhile. if youre gonna dress like a guy, prepare to be treated like a guy.
well it seems like you have a great body, i'm sure if you showed it off a little (not slutty) a lot of guys would notice you. just be yourself though, don't change who you are. if you wanna talk more you can email me back
well baggy sweats dont exactly scream sex appeal.





You need to gain confidence. Thats all it is.
honey try to look and act more feminine and dress sexy change your hair style put make up
Try wearing more girly clothes... And i'm not sure if you already do, but you should try wearing makeup! It will make you look more girly!
Yeah, it seems pretty obvious that the sweatshirts aren't doing much for you. If you seem like you don't want to be noticed, you won't be.
Open up, and be flirty I guess.
I believe, there are too comfort to be around u that they take u as a friend, not more than that.. All u need to do is, loosen up and try not to be THAT close to them..
Act more girly, they'll notice more
Try to slim down some and wear a bit tighter clothes. If your chest is your best feature, then show a little bit of cleavage.

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