Guys i need your advice!!! 2 guys & 1 me!?

Guys..Is he using me? help!?


i was dating Fred for 6 months and we broke up a month ago. A couple of weeks before breaking up with Fred, Tom took me out and kissed me. I've known Tom for 3 years and we've always been make out friends and it stopped once i was dating Fred. Recently Fred has called me and took me out last week, we had a great day and he asked to kiss me and i said no. He doesnt know that i kissed Tom while we were dating each other. The reason why i broke up with Fred was becuase he ignored me and practically forgot about me. Anyways i have been going out with Tom alot and he always picks me up and always pays for me i feel bad becuz we are not dating but i do pay for him as well. We are not of same religion and it can cause problems in the long run (his family is strict). Anyways last thursday with Tom, he began to ask me if i was going to get back together with Fred and i said no and explained why then he said ';well if you do i guess it was fun while it lasted';. Basically the fun was him and I going out for supper and making out for hours (no sex).


I was pretty insulted at that statement so i dont know if he used me or actually liked me?


I just feel that he used me and now that he thinks i want to go back with Fred hes ready to throw me out and find someone else. But then within those 6 months i was dating Fred he didnt have someone like me, he did make out but only with girls at clubs.





Guys what do you think? any advice?


im 19 hes 22


Fred is 20Guys i need your advice!!! 2 guys %26amp; 1 me!?
here is your answer and trust me when i say this: go out with a guy who you can lock eyes on and it is like WOW. Where have you been all my life. And you just melt instantly. If you can't have that type of connection with Fred or Tom then dump them and keep searching because these ';real men'; are out there ;)