I hung out with this guy labor day,and he's been texting me every night since (HE ALWAYS TEXTS FIRST). He lives 2hrs away.We admitted we like each other. He officially asked me out last week.
He gets off work at 11 pm and we text till like 1:30. He tells me how his mom’s in his business too much, so he kinda does what he wants...But Tuesday night…He texted me once,then an hour later, wrote: “Sounds fun, Aw. My moms telling me its time to go to bed.” Which was like a slap in the face blow off--THIS IS THE GUY IS A NIGHT PERSON...AND IN A MONTH OF TEXTING...HAS NEVER SAID “MOM TOLD HIM”. AND WEDNESDAYS AT HIS SCHOOL ARE LATE START.WTF? So...last night…when he texted me at 11…I never replied. It was the also the shortest text he’s ever sent me: “Hi.”
This is driving me crazy! My mom’s like “that’s it…keep ignoring him! You’ve made it too easy for him.” But idk if I really trust her advice or if she tries to give me bad advice on purpose or what. I just feel like I want my control back. I just don’t get how it went from him really seeming to like me last week, and having tons to talk about, to this week him thinking he’s got me wrapped. I want to be hard to get, but not too much. I want to be back in the driver’s seat. But I’m afraid if I keep ignoring his texts he will just stop. How do I keep him from losing interest? I’VE NEVER HAD A BF. HELP! We’re 18 year old seniors in hs.
Saturday...I asked him to call me on sunday. He didnt (and he had nothing to do all day). So sunday night when he texted me...I ignored it...Monday afternoon...guess who called me?GIRLS! I REALLY need ADVICE! Please! GUYS TOO?!?
i would suggest not ignoring his text completely, text him back, but don't be on his every beckon call. like right when you get a text from him don't immediately text back, keep him waiting a little bit, not too long though. i would answer calls though, because calls are more personal i think, you can hear their tone of voice more and you'll be able to see how he reacts to things you say and whatnot better on the phone than texting.
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God Bless.GIRLS! I REALLY need ADVICE! Please! GUYS TOO?!?
Girl!!!...... I think you should GO 4 IT! I mean what if you choose to keep brushing him off? He just might up %26amp; find another girl to hang %26amp; talk 2 you know? I can't say that he will do that but you never know............. Best advice: Do What You Think Is Best... Go With Your Heart Baby
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